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Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?

  • Yes - with close friends only

    Votes: 45 7.5%

  • Yes - but with strangers only

    Votes: 68 11.3%

  • Yes both with friends and with strangers

    Votes: 140 23.2%

  • No - but I/we might consider it if the situation was perfect

    Votes: 299 49.6%

  • No - sharing my significant other with someone else is outside my comfort zone

    Votes: 51 8.5%
  • Total voters
    603
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"YOU don't look like you're having any fun. I'm sorry. I told you this was going to be wives-only party.
What kind of party were you expecting? If you're not going to go for a ride then you're welcome to leave."
 
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"I think this dress you bought me is working honey. Those three guys
over there are checking out my ass. Go ask them if they want to fuck me."

(it's so nice when you have an obedient and understanding husband :giggle:)
 
i just found this thread but wanted to answer your question . Is it a size thing?
First of I am a good bit older than most out here and my wife and i never really considered it.
So the answer is initially no. I knew I could not tolerate my S.O. with another man well before The
size thing was ever talked about. But I could see it being a problem had i run into it.
 
yaturtle said:
i just found this thread but wanted to answer your question . Is it a size thing?
First of I am a good bit older than most out here and my wife and i never really considered it.
So the answer is initially no. I knew I could not tolerate my S.O. with another man well before The
size thing was ever talked about. But I could see it being a problem had i run into it.
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The "lifestyle" (swinging) doesn't seem to really have anything to do with size as far as I can tell. Admittedly though, I am not as experienced in the scene as several others on here are so I hope they will weigh in with their own opinions or experiences.

It is definitely about variety though, so maybe size does have something to do with it in some ways.

I know my husband enjoys the opportunity to be with shorter, more petite women than me. As well as women with larger breasts than me. He has also enjoyed being with women who "have a little more meat on their bones" than me. However, part of my appeal for certain men is that I'm taller and more slender than some of their wives.

For me, I love the variety. I'm not seeking men who are necessarily "bigger" than my husband (he's almost 6'4" and already packing a VERY nice unit! :giggle:) but I have enjoyed being with men who are shorter than me and who may not be as big down there as my husband because their smaller size actually makes some positions more enjoyable.

So I guess you might say part of the appeal of being open to the "swinging lifestyle" is simply getting a taste of what you don't already have. And so yes, that means all shapes and sizes, for both men and women, are not only welcomed, but also sought out.

As I've mentioned several times on various different posts, to me the most important thing is open and direct communication. A swinging lifestyle is definitely playing with fire. My husband's wandering, appreciate eye for certain blondes might have caused as much trouble in my marriage as your wife's desire to experience being with a man with a larger cock than yours would have caused in yours.

BUT, by talking about it and being honest about it, that eventually helped me to be okay with it. (Granted it also helped that I'm bi and I've had a love/hate relationship with blondes my whole life lol)

Eventually being okay with it led to wild, fun, amazing, new experiences for me that I am 1,000% grateful for now. So it might be "a size thing" for some women who get into the lifestyle, but it is definitely NOT the only reason some of us are attracted to it.

Just my two cents anyway.....
 
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