The LIT Swingers Club

Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?


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My very limited understanding and never had the pleasure of the lifestyle, is swingers generally gather in groups. Is it forbidden to ask the largest number of people you've been with during a swingers event? Not how many partners, just the group size

In a private party setting it was 5 couples in attendance including us.

But if you’re meaning to ask about attendance at formal clubs or formal large events, it can vary from a dozen to over a hundred people or several hundreds at large popular erotica events nights.
 
LOL - Yes, Liz - It is "It" but only if by "it" you mean having your husband watch you fuck.........and as for "Who" I guess that depends on how your hunting is going and what your taste in "Strange" is............plus of course if "It" means "1" or "2" or "3" or "More".

So far my hunting is not going all that well. But that's because I haven't really been on the prowl. Right now I'm just looking forward to the next party, whenever that might be, and hoping my options, both strange and with people I already know, will present themselves there.
 
Hmmm, this is a tough question. IN Australia, we played with quite a few at various events. If you are asking about a specific night out with myself and Steve and how many did we let join us, then 7 is the answer. If you are referring to that incredible trip to Japan where a client offered me the chance to watch and then join in a Bukkake party, then I have no idea but it was plenty!

In a private party setting it was 5 couples in attendance including us.

But if you’re meaning to ask about attendance at formal clubs or formal large events, it can vary from a dozen to over a hundred people or several hundreds at large popular erotica events nights.

I clearly need to talk my husband into taking an adults only vaca in Australia (we can leave the kids here parked kids at their grandparents!)
 
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If my husband is out of town the next time we get invited to a swingers
party, I don't want to be rude and not show up. Or worse, mess up the
math by showing up without him. I plan on bringing a friend. And I
already have one picked out. She just doesn't know it yet. :heart:
 
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If my husband is out of town the next time we get invited to a swingers
party, I don't want to be rude and not show up. Or worse, mess up the
math by showing up without him. I plan on bringing a friend. And I
already have one picked out. She just doesn't know it yet. :heart:
I don't think anyone at the party will want to leave ...
 
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If my husband is out of town the next time we get invited to a swingers
party, I don't want to be rude and not show up. Or worse, mess up the
math by showing up without him. I plan on bringing a friend. And I
already have one picked out. She just doesn't know it yet. :heart:
Maybe she knows and arranged for him to be out of town, Liz??😉
 
Maybe she knows and arranged for him to be out of town, Liz??😉

Hmmm, I hadn't thought of that. That's entirely possible, Dee.

She's definitely the kind of woman who might go to my husband's boss with an offer he couldn't refuse.

That sneaky bitch. No wonder I love her so much! :)
 
Hmmm, I hadn't thought of that. That's entirely possible, Dee.

She's definitely the kind of woman who might go to my husband's boss with an offer he couldn't refuse.

That sneaky bitch. No wonder I love her so much! :)
See!!!! I knew you'd be good at this....
 
See!!!! I knew you'd be good at this....

Mmmm, I feel like I am definitely getting good at this. :) I'm definitely getting better at letting rumors and secrets swirl and gently spread until they come back to me with unexpected surprises (and suggestive suggestions!)
 
Mmmm, I feel like I am definitely getting good at this. :) I'm definitely getting better at letting rumors and secrets swirl and gently spread until they come back to me with unexpected surprises (and suggestive suggestions!)
Good to have you back from your extended Intervention cruise for your most needy patients. You must be exhausted doing all that good work.
 
You can win a Nobel Prize for having group sex?

AWESOME!!!!! Where do I apply? 🙂
 
So, my question to everyone is...that first encounter....where sexual tension fills the air and that moment where teasing and flirting gives way to the first physical contact with others....who made the first move to break that tension and did that cause a natural ripple effect for all to participate or was it a much slower process for everyone to become fully engaged? Was your first experience a one-on-one while being watched by your spouse, a threesome, foursome or something other?

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So, my question to everyone is...that first encounter....where sexual tension fills the air and that moment where teasing and flirting gives way to the first physical contact with others....who made the first move to break that tension and did that cause a natural ripple effect for all to participate or was it a much slower process for everyone to become fully engaged? Was your first experience a one-on-one while being watched by your spouse, a threesome, foursome or something other?

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Excellent question!!!

For us, (my husband and I) we knew what kind of party we were being invited to. As I described in an earlier post, our Host and Hostess went over "the rules" with everyone (there were 3 married couples present) and then we broke into groups. There was no "first move" in the living in front of everyone. We just all quietly smiled, paired off and went to separate rooms.

The second round was very different since it was considered the Reclaiming Round where we had to pair up with our spouse. There was light touching and gentle "so how was it for you" getting to know each other again energy but again, very restrained.

Now the third round was when all the inhibitions were out the window. Everyone was basically only wearing towels. The guys had their wrapped around their waists and the women had theirs wrapped around their bods. There was A LOT of touching and mutually familiarity going on then!

I imagine it's different every time and in every situation though. I know whenever my husband and I have gotten together with another woman, sometimes he makes the first "move" on her and sometimes I have. The best though is when she makes the first move on either one of us.

Personally I love those first few awkward, exploring mutual boundaries moments. They're so sexy because they're so completely unpredictable! :heart:
 
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The first time my friend Kim played with my Hitachi (she had never tried one before) was a couple of months after our first swingers party together. We spent at least an hour talking about everything that happened before, during and after the party until we were both so worked up we couldn't stand it. We raced upstairs to my bedroom, stripped and jumped in bed. I had "forgotten" lol to put away away my Hitachi and there it was sitting on my nightstand. "What's that?" she asked with a cute little twinkle in her eye and I couldn't resist daring her to try it.

She was so cute when she tried to muffle her screams at first, until the rapture just took over her whole body and she just finally surrendered to it. She was so weak and exhausted afterwards it was intoxicating (and I couldn't resist taking advantage of the gosh-who-saw-that-coming fact) :heart:
 
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The first time my friend Kim played with my Hitachi (she had never tried one before) was a couple of months after our first swingers party together. We spent at least an hour talking about everything that happened before, during and after the party until we were both so worked up we couldn't stand it. We raced upstairs to my bedroom, stripped and jumped in bed. I had "forgotten" lol to put away away my Hitachi and there it was sitting on my nightstand. "What's that?" she asked with a cute little twinkle in her eye and I couldn't resist daring her to try it.

She was so cute when she tried to muffle her screams at first, until the rapture just took over her whole body and she just finally surrendered to it. She was so weak and exhausted afterwards it was intoxicating (and I couldn't resist taking advantage of the gosh-who-saw-that-coming fact) :heart:

Hitachi torture image thread
 
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