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Ukin said:never heard it...but I guess it will do..anything is better than Julie Andrews
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The Merits of Phone Sex??
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Ukin said:never heard it...but I guess it will do..anything is better than Julie Andrews
NEVER HEARD OF YOU SHOOK ME ALL NIGHT LONG?
I can't believe it.
Tomorrow I'm gonna find the words to it and post them for you.
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Ukin said:
My sister and I sang Happy Birthday to Roy Orbison on his last birthday
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Ukin said:
I loved him too... In Dreams is my favorite... but I wasn't alone in singing... it was 15.000 + at a Springsteen concert... he pointed Roy out in the audience and had all of us sing happy birthday... He looked happy... which is nice since it was his last....
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Ukin said:
Found the lyrics for ya....but you really need to hear it.
She was a fast machine
She kept her motor clean
She was the best damn woman I had ever seen
She had the sightless eyes
Telling me no lies
Knockin' me out with those American thighs
Taking more than her share
Had me fighting for air
She told me to come but I was already there
'Cause the walls start shaking
The earth was quaking
My mind was aching
And we were making it and you -
CHORUS:
Shook me all night long
Yeah you shook me all night long
Working double time
On the seduction line
She was one of a kind, she's just mine all mine
She wanted no applause
Just another course
Made a meal out of me and came back for more
Had to cool me down
To take another round
Now I'm back in the ring to take another swing
'Cause the walls were shaking
The earth was quaking
My mind was aching
And we were making it and you -
CHORUS
And knocked me out and then you
Shook me all night long
You had me shakin' and you
Shook me all night long
Yeah you shook me
Well you took me
You reall took me and you
Shook me all night long
Ooooh you
Shook me all night long
Yeah, yeah, you
Shook me all night long
Your really took me and you
Yeah you shook me, yeah you shook me
All night long
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The Merits of Phone Sex?
1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?
I honestly can't say because the only person I have had phone sex with I had seen a picture of. I think it helps to some extent, but not necessarily that much. I mean if you have sexy and alluring pictures that you are looking act during the act, it would help. If you had lousy pictures that were grainy, and showed the person in a totally non-sexual light, it might make it more difficult.
2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?
I agree with the connection comments made previously. If I don't know the person and all I have is looks, then looks would be critical. If I have a relationship and know what the person likes, etc then looks don't matter.
3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?
Certainly it wouldn't hurt. I mean imagine finding someone who met your physical description of perfection, and they liked everything sexually that you do. That would be good. Now imagine if they were physically perfect but only liked sex in ways you did not. Can we say problem?
E - I agree You Shook Me All Night Long is excellent. You might also want to try Paradise by the Dashboard Light for your hold music.
As far as orgasm definately real. Why fake it. If I care about the person and we are doing it, then we are doingit for real. As the experience grows the reaction grows so there is no need to fake it. Worst part is interuption breaking the mood. I guess I could just fake the entire thing, but then I figure I would be just a tool and not a participant in phone sex.
My 2.5 cents.
1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?
I honestly can't say because the only person I have had phone sex with I had seen a picture of. I think it helps to some extent, but not necessarily that much. I mean if you have sexy and alluring pictures that you are looking act during the act, it would help. If you had lousy pictures that were grainy, and showed the person in a totally non-sexual light, it might make it more difficult.
2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?
I agree with the connection comments made previously. If I don't know the person and all I have is looks, then looks would be critical. If I have a relationship and know what the person likes, etc then looks don't matter.
3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?
Certainly it wouldn't hurt. I mean imagine finding someone who met your physical description of perfection, and they liked everything sexually that you do. That would be good. Now imagine if they were physically perfect but only liked sex in ways you did not. Can we say problem?
E - I agree You Shook Me All Night Long is excellent. You might also want to try Paradise by the Dashboard Light for your hold music.
As far as orgasm definately real. Why fake it. If I care about the person and we are doing it, then we are doingit for real. As the experience grows the reaction grows so there is no need to fake it. Worst part is interuption breaking the mood. I guess I could just fake the entire thing, but then I figure I would be just a tool and not a participant in phone sex.
My 2.5 cents.
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interesting answers here for sure....in regards to faking an orgasm....I've not had vast amounts of p/s & being that the times I have it was with someone who I was already emotionally & physically attracted to I've not had to broach that but I'd doubt I'd fake it if ever in that situation...
as far as the physical attraction part goes,if after connecting emotionally I then saw what the person looked like & I was just not physically attracted to them,then for me the p/s part just would be too forced....why words are great in reality p/s for me is the giving fully of one's self & sharing some very intimate moments & thoughts with one another & I just couldn't do that with someone who was physically unappealing to me....if I can't give fully of myself then it just won't work...I most definitely would remain friends but that's where it would remain...I guess what I'm saying is that p/s is much like r/l sex for me & I need the total connection....
as far as the physical attraction part goes,if after connecting emotionally I then saw what the person looked like & I was just not physically attracted to them,then for me the p/s part just would be too forced....why words are great in reality p/s for me is the giving fully of one's self & sharing some very intimate moments & thoughts with one another & I just couldn't do that with someone who was physically unappealing to me....if I can't give fully of myself then it just won't work...I most definitely would remain friends but that's where it would remain...I guess what I'm saying is that p/s is much like r/l sex for me & I need the total connection....
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Hiya BEM..very well stated answers there.
I'm not familiar with Paradise.....I'll have to check that one out.
LMT.....seems that you and I agree on most of these points. Imagine that.
I certainly think that the connectibility factor is an important one. That goes for any relationship, but for something as personal and intimate as p/s, as I said before, I have to really believe that I would want to have flesh on flesh sex with that person in order for me to really get into it. I guess I feel I would only be doing it half-heartily if I didn't have that physical attraction.
Great to see so many thoughts on this.
I'm not familiar with Paradise.....I'll have to check that one out.
LMT.....seems that you and I agree on most of these points. Imagine that.
I certainly think that the connectibility factor is an important one. That goes for any relationship, but for something as personal and intimate as p/s, as I said before, I have to really believe that I would want to have flesh on flesh sex with that person in order for me to really get into it. I guess I feel I would only be doing it half-heartily if I didn't have that physical attraction.
Great to see so many thoughts on this.
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Just thought I'd bump this to see if anyone else wants to share their thoughts to the questions.
I suppose I'm just wondering if there are any other people who agree that physical attraction is a must for p/s.
I've been suprised that most people who've posted seem to think it isn't a needed part of the mix.
I suppose I'm just wondering if there are any other people who agree that physical attraction is a must for p/s.
I've been suprised that most people who've posted seem to think it isn't a needed part of the mix.
Well, my $.02 here.....
A couple of years back I actually had a situation right up this thread's alley! After quite a bit of online chat, a friend and I decided to converse on the phone...and inveriably the conversations turned to the more sexual things. Well, she finally did send me a picture of herself, and while I found she was much different than I had pictured her in my mind ( definently not UNATTRACTIVE, just not what I had expected ), her personality and voice just transcended anything and everything else.
She was the most beautiful woman in the world.... and the picture could not have changed my view at all ( which it didn't, by the way ).
A couple of years back I actually had a situation right up this thread's alley! After quite a bit of online chat, a friend and I decided to converse on the phone...and inveriably the conversations turned to the more sexual things. Well, she finally did send me a picture of herself, and while I found she was much different than I had pictured her in my mind ( definently not UNATTRACTIVE, just not what I had expected ), her personality and voice just transcended anything and everything else.
She was the most beautiful woman in the world.... and the picture could not have changed my view at all ( which it didn't, by the way ).
enjoyingitall said:
i was hesitant to reply to this thread but since it's your's Ej i'm putting my 2 cents worth in...
I would definately have to of gotten to know someone very well and have an emotional connection with them to have p/s. physical attraction is nice but it's the person i come to know INSIDE that attracts me to someone....i've only had p/s with one person and it would of never hapened if i hadn't of cared very much for them..and it was only after we had talked for quite some time before it did happen. I will also add thast it's something i will not do again....my walls are up to keep from developing that much of an emotional attachment again...sometimes the hurt is a little too much
just my feelings....hope it makes sense
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Dbtk44 said:
Hiya Sweetie..good to see you here!
That was an interresting situation...
I'm beginning to think I really am shallow....hmmm maybe..
But then again, does wanting to be physically attracted to someone prior to engaging in p/s with them make me shallow or callous?
Friendships are one thing. Certainly, I don't look at a person's physical appearance to sway me one way or the other about a friendship..I look for the inner person for that....sex..in any form... real or p/s is quite another in my opinion. I just need both...to be enticed by them, emotionally and physically.
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Hornymama said:
Yes, it makes sense HM..glad to see you come by.
I'm sorry to hear that you had an emotionally draining experience with p/s.
I can imagine how it could cause hurt.
Also, walls can be excellent defense mechanisms..but only if you remember to open the door to allow for some fresh air sometimes. Sometimes, we can find that we over-protect ourselves from emotions.
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Re: Re: The Merits of Phone Sex??
LOL..You had to go back and re-read the directions, huh??
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us, hon.
Dbtk44 said:
LOL..You had to go back and re-read the directions, huh??
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us, hon.
enjoyingitall said:
You're NOT shallow, sugar.....
Look at it this way, sex is more or less opening up one's self to another person, or expanding ones Ego to include another. Only YOU decide who you'd let this take place with and who you wouldn't; the criteria for such a selection is irrevelent to anyone outside of you, because it's YOU ( and possibly your body) that is being shared.
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It was pretty much the same with me...I got to know her pretty well before we talked on the phone. She was the first and last as well. I had to deal with some serious heartache at the end of the situation...I dunno if I'd ever do it again myself. As much as it hurt though, I still cherish the memories very much.
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Dbtk44 said:You're NOT shallow, sugar.....
Aww..thanks sweetie pie..that was nice to read
No wonder I like you so much..you're a smart guy!
Seriously, I do agree with that. Each one of us does set our own parameters concerning who we allow to share certain aspects of ourselves. What works for some of us might not work at all for another.
Diversity is a good thing.
I think what it really comes down to is chemistry, plain and simple.....the looks play a part in it, but there are a lot of other things that come into play when one speaks of physical attraction. A picture...hell, just about anybody can work a picture to tell what they'd like it to say, same as the written word and statistics. If the chemistry is right, and ya pretty much know when it IS...well, all bets are off...*L*
