To swallow or not, that is the question

[bichbo]

Always swallow, from the first.

 

[Spoogecup]

Always swallow, from the first.

Me too hun.... If he dumped his load in my mouth or throat, I just thought he expected me to swallow it ...
I just instinctually swallow when I suck a guy's cock... It's natural for me.

 

[HawkeyeA1]

I was skeptical of swallowing for a long time.

In the years when I considered myself straight, swallowing struck me as disgusting, reinforced by my wife's reaction the one time I came in her mouth. You would have thought I was spewing gasoline the way she gagged and coughed before rushing to the bathroom to spit and rinse.

I would never again cum in her mouth, and I understood her reaction. It was a disgusting act, after all. Why would I do that to her?

Then one day, something in me changed. It wasn't a quick change, but a slow and gradual realization that I wasn't so straight after all. I came to accept that I wanted a man. I wanted his cock in my mouth, to feel the texture of the skin and the underlying shaft as it slid across my tongue.

But much as I wanted it, I worried how I would finish. Could I pull off before the moment of climax and finish my lover with my hand? What if my lover wanted to cum in my mouth? Would I refuse him? Would I take his cum, then spit it out? Surely, I wouldn't swallow?

I played with scenario after another, finally convincing myself that I would never swallow. It just wasn't an option.

Then one night, I met a man who had a beautiful cock. Long, thick and cut. I was desperate to have him, and he said I could. We retreated to my room. I quickly disrobed before removing my lover's clothes. And as I stood there watching my man harden, I reached down and took his shaft in my hand, gazing into his eyes. He smiled. I dropped to my knees, pointed the mushroom head at my face and licked the tip with my tongue.
Don't rush, I told myself, be patient. I lifted the shaft to expose the delicate underside and ran my tongue from the balls and up the ridge to the frenulum. I finished with a soft kiss on his glans.

At that point, my patience broke. I wanted more; I wanted my lover in my mouth. I parted my lips and took the head, just the head, swirling it with my tongue. I pulled off and opened my mouth again, only this time I took my man deeper. Much deeper, causing me to gag when the tip reached my throat. I pushed down as far as I dared before pulling back. I began to bob up and down. And as I thrilled to my man's groans of pleasure, I heard him whisper, "I'm going to cum." He was warning me, giving me the chance to stop. Except I didn't want to stop. I wanted much more. I quickened my pace.

And I wondered, What will I do when he cums?

Moments later, I felt the jets of fluid coating my tongue and palate. The texture was thinner than I'd expected, and the taste milder if a bit bitter. And as I let my man slip from between my lips, I asked myself one more time, What should I do?

At that moment, time must have fallen still, allowing me to debate myself. But it really wasn't much of a debate. I tilted my head up so I could see my lover's face. And I swallowed.

I think I'll always swallow.

Hot scenario. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Spoogecup]

Hot scenario. Thanks for sharing.

The guy I've been sucking regularly told me about the women he's been with had pretty much that same reaction to even just the thought of tasting cum... He said having me as a "side bitch" completely solved that dilemma for him... Now there's no stress between him and his woman and he still gets his masculine needs fulfilled by an eager and appreciative mouth.... He knows that he can cum in my mouth, throat or in my boi pussy at will .. He says that having me for a personal faggot has made for an almost perfect situation.

 

[Spoogecup]

I have sucked cocks since a young age. I have swallowed the cum of every single cock that has cum in my mouth. The only times that I have not is when I've been with an older man who couldn't cum.

I don't recall a single time when I didn't swallow the guy's cum unless he had put it in my other hole by choice... One of the black men I sucked a few times didn't get hard or cum a couple of times he used me... He was as big soft as a lot of guys are hard... I just didn't let that affect my performance as a faggot... I sucked, licked and fondled his huge cock until he was satisfied and gently removed it from my mouth and rubbed my face with the head for a few moments... There was one white guy in his late 30s who didn't ever cum but remained hard as a rock for close to forever ! He would use me until I was about used up every time and still finish with a huge hard-on but no cum...

 

[BiliBottoms]

The first time I sucked off a guy, I was worried if I should swallow or not. I wanted to but was scared he might not want me to, so asked him.if he wanted to cum in my mouth.
He basically said that swallowing was why I was using my mouth. If I didn't swallow it was just a handjob with my lips. Made sense to me and I happily swallowed his load.

 

[Spoogecup]

The first time I sucked off a guy, I was worried if I should swallow or not. I wanted to but was scared he might not want me to, so asked him.if he wanted to cum in my mouth.
He basically said that swallowing was why I was using my mouth. If I didn't swallow it was just a handjob with my lips. Made sense to me and I happily swallowed his load.

The guy who's been giving me cock for the last 5 years would have seriously set me straight right quick had I asked him that... Luckily for me, swallowing the guy's load has always been instinctual and that's one of the major reasons why I'm his regular cocksucker now, 5 years latter...

 

[Phatfeet]

For me, I just feel obligated to swallow. It's not a guilt thing per se though, but more of an understanding.

While I understand it is up to the person giving a blowjob what they do, I wish more people understood how it affects most men. To not swallow is really a form of rejection, and while men hate to admit this, we get our confidence bruised easily. To say, "I can't swallow", is really saying, "I don't want to be inconvenienced".

Well, it wasn't always convenient to start up the car and chill the car off in August twenty minutes before you got in either. Or picking your parents up at the airport. Or being alone for a week while you house sat for your friend. It is not a tit-for-tat sort of situation as that is not good in any relationship, but just this understanding of, "it's not what I love doing, but for you, and all you do for me", gulp, "I will". It's showing love and not just telling them.

 

[Phatfeet]

And there are ways to minimize it if its not to your liking.

1. Review what affects the taste of cum and adjust meals before oral sex.

2. Try and take him deeply at the last second and shoot it down the back of your throat so you can just swallow it down with much less taste buds coming into play.

3. Read up on here those that are not offended by the taste and consistency of cum so that any preconceived ideas about the act are nullified. The more we realize things we are asked to do are normal, the more we embrace them.

These three steps can help you make the guy feel validated which can be huge in a relationship. It is not about anyone being degraded or victimized by doing something they abhor, but about realizing the bigger impact this can have on men without outright rejection.

 

[Wageslave]

If you've done the work, you should get the reward

 

[cummerq4u]

Why suck a Cock and don't swallow the reward is just plain CRAZY...

 

[Escierto]

For me, I just feel obligated to swallow. It's not a guilt thing per se though, but more of an understanding.

While I understand it is up to the person giving a blowjob what they do, I wish more people understood how it affects most men. To not swallow is really a form of rejection, and while men hate to admit this, we get our confidence bruised easily. To say, "I can't swallow", is really saying, "I don't want to be inconvenienced".

Well, it wasn't always convenient to start up the car and chill the car off in August twenty minutes before you got in either. Or picking your parents up at the airport. Or being alone for a week while you house sat for your friend. It is not a tit-for-tat sort of situation as that is not good in any relationship, but just this understanding of, "it's not what I love doing, but for you, and all you do for me", gulp, "I will". It's showing love and not just telling them.

Definitely. The thought of swallowing someone's cum disgusts my girlfriend completely but she loves it that I swallow her cum. For her it does show her that I love her.

 

[Spoogecup]

Why suck a Cock and don't swallow the reward is just plain CRAZY...

Even though I have never performed as a "top", I would imagine it would be like fucking the hell out of a bottom like me and then quitting before you have the pleasure of deep seeding me.

 

[Escierto]

Even though I have never performed as a "top", I would imagine it would be like fucking the hell out of a bottom like me and then quitting before you have the pleasure of deep seeding me.

Very true!

 

[Spoogecup]

Very true!

Thanks hun.... That was the first analogy that came to mind and something that the guy I suck would never put up with...

 

[artgorden]

Begging to be fucked while you have his cum in your mouth because you know that means you get to suck him hard again.

 

[nostuff]

And there are ways to minimize it if its not to your liking.

1. Review what affects the taste of cum and adjust meals before oral sex.

2. Try and take him deeply at the last second and shoot it down the back of your throat so you can just swallow it down with much less taste buds coming into play.

3. Read up on here those that are not offended by the taste and consistency of cum so that any preconceived ideas about the act are nullified. The more we realize things we are asked to do are normal, the more we embrace them.

These three steps can help you make the guy feel validated which can be huge in a relationship. It is not about anyone being degraded or victimized by doing something they abhor, but about realizing the bigger impact this can have on men without outright rejection.

Let me recommend option #3.

In my experience, there is too much fear of the "yuck" when considering whether to swallow cum, and in retrospect, the time I spent worrying about the taste and texture was silly. Swallowing is wonderful.

That's not to say others will love the taste of semen. Maybe you will, perhaps not. But for me, I swallowed my first load not because of the taste, but because of the passion. I had taken a cock into my mouth and brought my man to completion. Swallowing, I understood, was the natural conclusion to my act of love, a moment to savor.

Yes, I'd had my doubts. I had never before accepted cum in any fashion, and so I wondered. But as the semen spread across my tongue and onto my palate, I realized that swallowing was the fitting conclusion, something I wanted to do. And had I chosen otherwise, I would have felt empty, incomplete. So I swallowed.

I still fantasize about that night, about my lover towering over me as I knelt down before him. The thrill of his cock sliding past my lips, his hands on my head as he pushed into my throat. And I remember him whispering, "I'm going to cum"; how I quickened my up-and-down pace on his shaft; the sensation of him filling my mouth; the feeling of completion as his fluid ran down my throat.

I will never forget looking up at my lover's smile when I'd finished and the satisfaction of knowing I'd done what I was meant to do.

I have only one qualm with swallowing, in that I've never had a man paint my face. Having my face covered in cum sounds incredibly erotic, and I want it badly. But for now, I need to swallow.

 

[Spoogecup]

Let me recommend option #3.

In my experience, there is too much fear of the "yuck" when considering whether to swallow cum, and in retrospect, the time I spent worrying about the taste and texture was silly. Swallowing is wonderful.

That's not to say others will love the taste of semen. Maybe you will, perhaps not. But for me, I swallowed my first load not because of the taste, but because of the passion. I had taken a cock into my mouth and brought my man to completion. Swallowing, I understood, was the natural conclusion to my act of love, a moment to savor.

Yes, I'd had my doubts. I had never before accepted cum in any fashion, and so I wondered. But as the semen spread across my tongue and onto my palate, I realized that swallowing was the fitting conclusion, something I wanted to do. And had I chosen otherwise, I would have felt empty, incomplete. So I swallowed.

I still fantasize about that night, about my lover towering over me as I knelt down before him. The thrill of his cock sliding past my lips, his hands on my head as he pushed into my throat. And I remember him whispering, "I'm going to cum"; how I quickened my up-and-down pace on his shaft; the sensation of him filling my mouth; the feeling of completion as his fluid ran down my throat.

I will never forget looking up at my lover's smile when I'd finished and the satisfaction of knowing I'd done what I was meant to do.

I have only one qualm with swallowing, in that I've never had a man paint my face. Having my face covered in cum sounds incredibly erotic, and I want it badly. But for now, I need to swallow.

I understand ! .... I've never had a facial either, even though I've sucked cock many many times... But, for the last 5 years, I've only served one guy... He made it clear from the start that his cum goes INTO me every time no matter which hole he uses... That's just a thing with him so it's not my place to question... Actually, most times I don't even need to swallow because he cums in the back of my throat .

 

[Mike302]

The guy I've been sucking regularly told me about the women he's been with had pretty much that same reaction to even just the thought of tasting cum... He said having me as a "side bitch" completely solved that dilemma for him... Now there's no stress between him and his woman and he still gets his masculine needs fulfilled by an eager and appreciative mouth.... He knows that he can cum in my mouth, throat or in my boi pussy at will .. He says that having me for a personal faggot has made for an almost perfect situation.

We need SO much more of this in the world!!!

 

[Mike302]

The first time I sucked off a guy, I was worried if I should swallow or not. I wanted to but was scared he might not want me to, so asked him.if he wanted to cum in my mouth.
He basically said that swallowing was why I was using my mouth. If I didn't swallow it was just a handjob with my lips. Made sense to me and I happily swallowed his load.

I was underage, and so was he, but we teased the hell out of each other until he was bold enough to make a move.

I wanted to suck it, and I knew I wanted to taste his cum, just curious if it was like mine. I'd never seen porn except for a few images and romance novels. I have no other idea why I wanted to swallow his cum but I did. It seemed rude and messy not to. Those young spurts defied gravity and filled my mouth as I tightened my lips to keep it in...but then a spurt hit the back of my throat and I gagged, losing about about half of the cum around his base. BUT I also swallowed desperately and did consume about half of that large, edged load. I told him I swallowed most of it because I wanted him to be satisfied and perhaps brag a little.

I felt a bit confused the next few days. Was I gay? Wasn't that bad? I gave him an angry look the next time I saw him in school, and he was confused. Then I felt bad for being mean like that. Unfortunately, he was in a military family, and they moved away weeks later. Oh, what fun we could have had if I'd figured myself out a little more quickly and if he'd stayed in my life!

 

[Escierto]

I understand ! .... I've never had a facial either, even though I've sucked cock many many times... But, for the last 5 years, I've only served one guy... He made it clear from the start that his cum goes INTO me every time no matter which hole he uses... That's just a thing with him so it's not my place to question... Actually, most times I don't even need to swallow because he cums in the back of my throat .

I have sucked and swallowed my girlfriend's cum hundreds of times but she has only given me a facial twice. Although she much prefers being sucked to completion, she loved giving me a facial. She said she never felt so dominant and loved it.

 

[Spoogecup]

In all of these eventualities of whether to swallow or not and all the reasons, etc., etc., etc.. I think the first HUGE factor is what is your understanding , if any, with the guy and/or your relationship: gay, friends, faggot, etc. ... In my case, I've always sucked from the standpoint of being his faggot or at least one time faggot for the night (very rare for me).... Swallowing is natural for me and just a matter of course... I want to provide the best experience for him that I'm able and not swallowing his load would be a kind of insult ...Especially since my stature in this setting is that of a faggot performing my natural function... Being a personal faggot for just one guy for a long while now, I really don't deal with this issue anymore... But it's been my experience that I've never run into any of these odd textured, rancid tasting or any other bad situations with the loads that guys have given me... They, for the most part, taste similar... A tad salt and a tad sweet... Some having very little taste at all.... I guess I'm just a lucky faggot...

 

[Spoogecup]

I have sucked and swallowed my girlfriend's cum hundreds of times but she has only given me a facial twice. Although she much prefers being sucked to completion, she loved giving me a facial. She said she never felt so dominant and loved it.

But, as you said, she finds a satisfying level of dominance and fulfillment through the act of painting your face with her

 

[Nicenashguy615]

Wow! Nice thread! So looking forward to getting my first suck job!

 

[Nicenashguy615]

Somehow, it seems almost mandatory for a guy to swallow since they understand the burning need one feels when you’re inside a warm mouth.

Women may or may not understand this as well but in my experience, only half the women out there will swallow. A crying shame!