Traveling Literoticans - Post your travel plans

[NotElvis]

I'll echo that this is a terrific idea for a thread.
I'm in Nashville, TN. I don't get to travel much myself, but plenty of folks come here to visit.
Ladies, feel free to message me for any reason!

 

[alt_ego]

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[ceoscott]

Flying to Vegas Saturday!

 

[ImpartialGuide]

Bermuda next week...

 

[mistertripps]

I happen to be in Miami right now. Just flew in for a meeting in the morning and have the evening free. Would love some Lit companionship for dinner and drinks.

 

[MBFemale]

Sadly I never travel...but I'm sure many travel to Myrtle Beach

 

[alt_ego]

Sadly I never travel...but I'm sure many travel to Myrtle Beach

One can never tell! I've followed your SC thread, and if I knew I was going there, I'd drop you a line.

Thanks for checking in.

 

[eroticman61]

Great Idea

52 Male that travels the US. Will be in in Phoenix, LA and San Diego next week.
Ladies, let me know what I can do to bring some Eastern charm into your day!

 

[phi1994]

will be in wilkes barrie pa for business sept 24-25 love to meet up with a female the 24th for dinner and drinks

 

[deviantego]

$$$$$

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Sadly I never travel...but I'm sure many travel to Myrtle Beach

It does happen on a rare occasion.
While I agree that this is a very good idea, I wonder to what extent women would be willing to risk such a meeting with a strange man. (And believe me, many of us are pretty strange, although mostly not dangerous).
Most of these meeting threads are overwhelming dominated by men. (I.e., the married and looking by area code, etc.). There are a whole bunch of reasons for that.

I know its unfair to ask you as a representative of all women on lit, but I'll ask you anyway, and if other women reading this thread wish to, feel free to respond.
Would you really be willing to meet a man who was visiting your area alone, on business?
What would it take for you to feel comfortable with the idea?

Mike

 

[MBFemale]

It does happen on a rare occasion.
While I agree that this is a very good idea, I wonder to what extent women would be willing to risk such a meeting with a strange man. (And believe me, many of us are pretty strange, although mostly not dangerous).
Most of these meeting threads are overwhelming dominated by men. (I.e., the married and looking by area code, etc.). There are a whole bunch of reasons for that.

I know its unfair to ask you as a representative of all women on lit, but I'll ask you anyway, and if other women reading this thread wish to, feel free to respond.
Would you really be willing to meet a man who was visiting your area alone, on business?
What would it take for you to feel comfortable with the idea?

Mike

Wow, what a question. I am not against the idea of meeting someone from online, I have done it before with positive results. There are a lot of creeps, jerks, etc out there...hope that does not offend anyone. And you really don't know someone until you meet them...public place is a great idea. So, for me...if after lots of conversation and such...yes I would consider meeting for lunch/a drink...maybe more/maybe not. I can't speak for other ladies though...just my thoughts....

 

[CMChristo]

Married man, 58, will be traveling to San Antonio, TX 11/4 thru 11/6 abd Fort Walton Beach, FL 11/6 thru 11/8. Any one for drinks, dinner, and what ever develops.

 

[lighterman75]

It does happen on a rare occasion.
While I agree that this is a very good idea, I wonder to what extent women would be willing to risk such a meeting with a strange man. (And believe me, many of us are pretty strange, although mostly not dangerous).
Most of these meeting threads are overwhelming dominated by men. (I.e., the married and looking by area code, etc.). There are a whole bunch of reasons for that.

I know its unfair to ask you as a representative of all women on lit, but I'll ask you anyway, and if other women reading this thread wish to, feel free to respond.
Would you really be willing to meet a man who was visiting your area alone, on business?
What would it take for you to feel comfortable with the idea?

Mike

There is also the reverse danger. We all know sometimes on here, some people pretend to be women, when they are men. So "innocently" arranging to meet a woman could end up meeting some fella(s) that you werent expecting.
Or something else may happen.
I guess the thing to do to some extent is treat it like a normal dating thing...meet in public, make sure you have an escape plan, dont give your home address etc.
Not one you can probably take a friend along to "i met this bird/bloke on the internet, and i'm meeting him/her and i;m not really sure, could you keep an eye?..the website?...ermm....well...ermm....."
I guess get to know them first. Hopefully, you would normally be able to tell teh chancers, and if you dont feel safe, dont do it.

Saying all that, any ladies want to meet me in ******* next week? I'm there on business

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Wow, what a question. I am not against the idea of meeting someone from online, I have done it before with positive results. There are a lot of creeps, jerks, etc out there...hope that does not offend anyone. And you really don't know someone until you meet them...public place is a great idea. So, for me...if after lots of conversation and such...yes I would consider meeting for lunch/a drink...maybe more/maybe not. I can't speak for other ladies though...just my thoughts....

Obviously, I do not expect you to speak for all the other Lit ladies.
If I had plans to be in South Carolina in the near future, I would certainly make a point of flirting with you between now and then.
It does seem reasonable, as long at the meeting is in a public place.
You seem to know what you are doing.

 

[Touch_72]

I travel to the DC area to stay with family (in MD) and catch up with massage clients regularly.

I'll be pulling into town tonight, hopefully, and will be there for about a week, give or take.

I'm pretty open minded... up for meeting for a casual drink and chat or a bit of fun. I'm honest there when I say "or"... sex is awesome, but not necessary. Sometimes it's just nice to sit and chat with someone interesting!

About me? There's some info in the signature block... or just ask! PM if ya wanna.

 

[CMChristo]

Early November

MWM, 58, traveling on business - I'll be in San Antonio, TX Nov 4-6 then Fort Walton Beach, FL Nov 6-8. Would enjoy the chance to meet local ladies for drinks, dinner, and what ever else develops! On line play to include cam or phone sex would be good too!

 

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[Pandora73]

It does happen on a rare occasion.
While I agree that this is a very good idea, I wonder to what extent women would be willing to risk such a meeting with a strange man. (And believe me, many of us are pretty strange, although mostly not dangerous).
Most of these meeting threads are overwhelming dominated by men. (I.e., the married and looking by area code, etc.). There are a whole bunch of reasons for that.

I know its unfair to ask you as a representative of all women on lit, but I'll ask you anyway, and if other women reading this thread wish to, feel free to respond.
Would you really be willing to meet a man who was visiting your area alone, on business?
What would it take for you to feel comfortable with the idea?

Mike

I'll chime in, if that's OK. (I'm female, I swear)

I've been fortunate enough to meet some gentlemen from Lit. One of the first few experiences I had was with a man who was visiting Atlanta on business. I believe he posted something similar -- that he would be traveling to the area and wanted restaurant recommendations, I think. Started innocently enough, and we chatted for a bit leading up to his visit. I agreed to meet him for drinks/appetizers near his hotel, and we had a great time talking. He was fun, attractive and I just got a good vibe from him. I went back to his hotel with him, and we had more fun, I'll leave it at that. Great experience, certainly no complaints. I'd see him again if he ever passed through town!

I've also met several local men and followed the same general process. Talk a good bit before hand, get a good feel for who they are, and usually meet publicly first. That all depends on how much contact I've had with them and how well I know them. I've also had a first time meeting actually occur at a hotel. But I knew them really well at that point.

I've been extremely fortunate in that I haven't had what I would describe as any bad experiences. But I'd also like to think I'm a decent judge of character. I think most women have pretty good instincts. You have to trust those instincts.

I would give the same advice to a man considering meeting a woman. Get to know her well, maybe have that first meeting over coffee, drinks, dinner, etc. Do whatever you have to in order to feel comfortable.

I am well aware there are some psychos out there, male and female. But I think a fairly good number of people on Lit are pretty harmless. Horny, absolutely, but harmless.

 

[meltingyou]

Amorous and adventure oriented

Love to open your box Pandora !! Is it okay if we consider the possibility of mystery/danger/adventure ? Alot more fun to be had compared to "harmless" - that always sounds like a furry creature looking to be fed or petted.

Yes in Philadelphia today, NYC tomorrow.....

 

[InsatiableDsire]

Bermuda next week...

Take me with you?

 

[deyv]

Ft. Lauderdale

Good idea for a thread:

49 swm here
Near Ft. Lauderdale for a few more weeks

Check out my bio and previous posts and if something strikes you then drop me a line.

 

[YourMentor]

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[MrMikelobe1952]

I'll chime in, if that's OK. (I'm female, I swear)

I've been fortunate enough to meet some gentlemen from Lit. One of the first few experiences I had was with a man who was visiting Atlanta on business. I believe he posted something similar -- that he would be traveling to the area and wanted restaurant recommendations, I think. Started innocently enough, and we chatted for a bit leading up to his visit. I agreed to meet him for drinks/appetizers near his hotel, and we had a great time talking. He was fun, attractive and I just got a good vibe from him. I went back to his hotel with him, and we had more fun, I'll leave it at that. Great experience, certainly no complaints. I'd see him again if he ever passed through town!

I've also met several local men and followed the same general process. Talk a good bit before hand, get a good feel for who they are, and usually meet publicly first. That all depends on how much contact I've had with them and how well I know them. I've also had a first time meeting actually occur at a hotel. But I knew them really well at that point.

I've been extremely fortunate in that I haven't had what I would describe as any bad experiences. But I'd also like to think I'm a decent judge of character. I think most women have pretty good instincts. You have to trust those instincts.

I would give the same advice to a man considering meeting a woman. Get to know her well, maybe have that first meeting over coffee, drinks, dinner, etc. Do whatever you have to in order to feel comfortable.

I am well aware there are some psychos out there, male and female. But I think a fairly good number of people on Lit are pretty harmless. Horny, absolutely, but harmless.

Thank you for your response. I believe you that you are female.
I think that the idea of asking for information about a place one will be visiting is a good idea, rather than a simple
"I'll be in Atlanta next week, any ladies want to meet" is probably a better way to open a dialog that could lead to a meeting.

Your input is very illuminating. Nice to hear about your positive experiences.

Oh, and if I did not say so before, I do think this is a good idea for a thread.

Mike

 

[alt_ego]

Hi All

Not traveling this week, again. Pretty odd that, short week in the US.

Next week, I'm in the Philly and Baltimore area. LUCKILY, this is one place where I have a very friendly and adventurous FWB, so Tuesday will hopefully be a sleepless night. I love it when the schedules align!!!

Happy trails!

I'm happy to see people are using the thread, and I hope some find it useful. I agree with what a few have said, that there will be a lot more male users than female, but that's probably a reflection of ANY site that has personals. It's been my experience that there is generally a ratio of about 10:1 guys to girls, whether it's here, or Match.com, or wherever.

It would be nice to hear if any of the travelers got responses to their postings. There may have been a few PM contacts, and I wouldn't want anyone to talk about WHO sent them a PM, but the fact that they got one at all might prompt more posts.

My bad news is that my trip to Philly/Baltimore has been postponed. At least it's not cancelled.