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I would (really ) be willing to meet a man I met on Lit in person (in a public place, of course) if I trusted them... knew them for a while and had a grasp on their mindset. Course, there'd be no guarantees of anything ... except the meet up. So... Yes... I'd meet a visiting man from Lit... depending on the man.It does happen on a rare occasion.
While I agree that this is a very good idea, I wonder to what extent women would be willing to risk such a meeting with a strange man. (And believe me, many of us are pretty strange, although mostly not dangerous). Most of these meeting threads are overwhelming dominated by men. (I.e., the married and looking by area code, etc.). There are a whole bunch of reasons for that.
I know its unfair to ask you as a representative of all women on lit, but I'll ask you anyway, and if other women reading this thread wish to, feel free to respond. Would you really be willing to meet a man who was visiting your area alone, on business?
What would it take for you to feel comfortable with the idea?
Mike
I would (really ) be willing to meet a man I met on Lit in person (in a public place, of course) if I trusted them... knew them for a while and had a grasp on their mindset. Course, there'd be no guarantees of anything ... except the meet up. So... Yes... I'd meet a visiting man from Lit... depending on the man.
For the record, I do live in a tourist vacation destination (in CA) that is beautiful, coastal and just a tad off the beaten path...
There is also the reverse danger. We all know sometimes on here, some people pretend to be women, when they are men. So "innocently" arranging to meet a woman could end up meeting some fella(s) that you werent expecting.
Or something else may happen.
I guess the thing to do to some extent is treat it like a normal dating thing...meet in public, make sure you have an escape plan, dont give your home address etc.
Not one you can probably take a friend along to "i met this bird/bloke on the internet, and i'm meeting him/her and i;m not really sure, could you keep an eye?..the website?...ermm....well...ermm....."
I guess get to know them first. Hopefully, you would normally be able to tell teh chancers, and if you dont feel safe, dont do it.
Saying all that, any ladies want to meet me in ******* next week? I'm there on business
I would (really ) be willing to meet a man I met on Lit in person (in a public place, of course) if I trusted them... knew them for a while and had a grasp on their mindset. Course, there'd be no guarantees of anything ... except the meet up. So... Yes... I'd meet a visiting man from Lit... depending on the man.
For the record, I do live in a tourist vacation destination (in CA) that is beautiful, coastal and just a tad off the beaten path...
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I've got a trip planned for mid November.. Vegas, Phoenix and my little AZ desert town.. Havasu! Still firming up dates and details.
Currently travelling through rainy ole England until Monday morning. Scotland until 20 September then flying towards the heat of Bangkok 21 September, before heading home to Oz
as a Brit - I apologise for the weather!!!
I did manage to amble through the grounds of Weston Park Museum, bask in the sun at a local pub enjoying cider before the heavens opened up while I was buying wine and brie at Tescos. I can forgive the weather as long as I have wine and cider.
You better be planning to see me!!!!