What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[StacyLeigh]

I already know how it works for guys...I want to know how it works for women.

See, if someone says to me, "I could easily fall for you", how can this be true while at the same time she is e-fucking a couple other guys here?

Some women (and men) separate *feelings* from “just e-boning” situations. I’d say this person is signifying that difference with you. This isn’t how I work, so I’m simply guessing.

While I agree with Rainshine regarding the word “could” - I would take it as a compliment.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Hi I think you don’t make any sense sometimes. I saw a post recently which you said about where you live to when you’re in the UK and that isn’t 1,000,000 miles away from where I live now. But why is that put 1 million in figures. I don’t know stupid text.I know that fen folk often don’t make any sense but your mind is like way way out there. I would love to know what sort of childhood you had

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[Fingerfuxs]

Hi I think you don’t make any sense sometimes. I saw a post recently which you said about where you live to when you’re in the UK and that isn’t 1,000,000 miles away from where I live now. But why is that put 1 million in figures. I don’t know stupid text.I know that fen folk often don’t make any sense but your mind is like way way out there. I would love to know what sort of childhood you had

If you get on the back of a bike , you can whisper in the drivers ear. Or talk to him when they park …..duh

u , have to hold on silly , hold on write , so you don’t fall off.

 

[AmberLGreen]

If you get on the back of a bike , you can whisper in the drivers ear. Or talk to him when they park …..duh

u , have to hold on silly , hold on write , so you don’t fall off.

I never fall off I have a very very good grip

 

[Ratchetman1982]

In my opinion, E-boning doesn't require a crush. You could just really enjoy writing about sex and the chemistry is good. You can have a crush and not E-bone that person. It think a crush is when you really like someone and their is quality chemistry between the two of you. Falling for someone is way more intense and you could possibly see yourself with them in real life.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I crush is a cling on , a sucker fish ****

 

[shenglung]

Hi this is one that I have had a problem with. I don’t understand how I can virtually feel that way about somebody. It has affected my thinking and emotional state but if I say a crush on somebody because I think about them morning during the day and night then that would apply if I fell for somebody. Maybe I’m just too new to this and need to Experience more. Maybe I don’t want to but yeah I mean I I don’t really know. If somebody could explain the difference then maybe that might sort out this on charted territory that I keep finding myself in recently

I'm not sure if my further thoughts on this will be helpful or if I understood what your having trouble with correctly but here goes nothing. (Warning wordy post incoming)

I'm going to try and keep my thoughts as simple as possible but nothing about human emotion is simple. We've established the definition of crush is an infatuation with someone usually being brief or fleeting. Now that being said because of the complexity that is our emotions a crush can lead to someone falling as well. The two are not mutually exclusive. I've admitted to crushing on Rainshine's voice because I find it attractive but I'm not going to fall for her because there's no emotional connection (sorry Rainshine nothing against you I just don't know you that well

Everyone is different in how they fall for someone too though, some people fall at the drop of a hat while others never fall at all.as an example of how complicated it can be. I have a friend who is demisexual and has no attraction to anyone until an emotional connection is made. It took her years to even figure that out cause she realized early on she had no attraction to guys and thought ok she's a lesbian. The she realized she had never had a crush on a girl either and started to assume she was asexual. Finally randomly well into her 20's she started to have a crush on a friend she knew for years and got that much more confused.

Again I know it's not helpful but as a species we are a mess when comes to our emotions and what about a person attracts us. Unfortunately the only way to figure any of that out is with time and experience.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I'm not sure if my further thoughts on this will be helpful or if I understood what your having trouble with correctly but here goes nothing. (Warning wordy post incoming)

I'm going to try and keep my thoughts as simple as possible but nothing about human emotion is simple. We've established the definition of crush is an infatuation with someone usually being brief or fleeting. Now that being said because of the complexity that is our emotions a crush can lead to someone falling as well. The two are not mutually exclusive. I've admitted to crushing on Rainshine's voice because I find it attractive but I'm not going to fall for her because there's no emotional connection (sorry Rainshine nothing against you I just don't know you that well

Everyone is different in how they fall for someone too though, some people fall at the drop of a hat while others never fall at all.as an example of how complicated it can be. I have a friend who is demisexual and has no attraction to anyone until an emotional connection is made. It took her years to even figure that out cause she realized early on she had no attraction to guys and thought ok she's a lesbian. The she realized she had never had a crush on a girl either and started to assume she was asexual. Finally randomly well into her 20's she started to have a crush on a friend she knew for years and got that much more confused.

Again I know it's not helpful but as a species we are a mess when comes to our emotions and what about a person attracts us. Unfortunately the only way to figure any of that out is with time and experience.

Totally totally agree with this I think feelings and emotions run further than mental interpretation. I have been unsure of how I feel about things and have made a conscious decision to just treat my online feelings is superficial. I don’t know whether that will work or not but for now it is the only thing I can do to balance my own mental and emotional feelings

 

[shenglung]

Totally totally agree with this I think feelings and emotions run further than mental interpretation. I have been unsure of how I feel about things and have made a conscious decision to just treat my online feelings is superficial. I don’t know whether that will work or not but for now it is the only thing I can do to balance my own mental and emotional feelings

In my personal experience it has never worked for me. I don't fall at the drop of a hat but I can't bring myself to treat the friendship I make online any different than those I make anywhere else. Again human interaction and emotion is complicated no matter where it happens we all have to find what works for us. I'm just glad you found some meaning in my musings and I hope you find the balance you seek.

 

[Xerxes82]

This leads me to another nosey question is falling for someone the same as a crush?

Hmm. There is to me.

A crush is a want. Even an intense one. Desire and craving and thoughts consumed.

Falling is a need. It's the sudden lack of oxygen when she's not there. Of something essential in place when she's present. An almost physical response to an emotional connection.

A crush can be a precursor to falling, but it can also just be a fun rollercoaster ride. Also, and speaking purely for me, a crush can happen online. Falling simply can't. Or at least I've never been in any situation where it was even remotely feasible.

 

[Pad_Foot]

For me? A crush does not mess to be sexual
It can be the fun of a new friend
Granted, here, usually female

Losing a friend is hell
But…. Did the other person even know what my perception was?

Things here can get “intimate” in what is shared very quickly

If you’ve gone on a real date with a Lit friend? It’s not like a first date!

 

[shenglung]

Hmm. There is to me.

A crush is a want. Even an intense one. Desire and craving and thoughts consumed.

Falling is a need. It's the sudden lack of oxygen when she's not there. Of something essential in place when she's present. An almost physical response to an emotional connection.

A crush can be a precursor to falling, but it can also just be a fun rollercoaster ride. Also, and speaking purely for me, a crush can happen online. Falling simply can't. Or at least I've never been in any situation where it was even remotely feasible.

I like your description of crushing vs falling. However I disagree that falling can't happen online. Before I joined Lit I used to play the MMO SWG and two of my friends there fell for each other online through the game. They now have two wonderful kids and are celebrating there 15th wedding anniversary.

But as I said in a previous post everyone's emotional experiences are different.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I like your description of crushing vs falling. However I disagree that falling can't happen online. Before I joined Lit I used to play the MMO SWG and two of my friends there fell for each other online through the game. They now have two wonderful kids and are celebrating there 15th wedding anniversary.

But as I said in a previous post everyone's emotional experiences are different.

What is MMOO and SWG.

 

[Xerxes82]

However I disagree that falling can't happen online.

Never said it couldn't. It has, and does. Right here on Lit, from some stories I've heard people tell.

I was speaking purely for myself. Online doesn't offer what I need to reach that place with somebody. I couldn't even explain to you why or in what way. Maybe it's as simple as never finding the person I connect with in that way. Not that I'm looking, to be fair.

What is MMOO and SWG.

Massively Multiplayer Online, a style of video game, for the former. And, from context, I'm going with Star Wars Galaxies for the latter. But I could be wrong about that one, I'm not as in the know where MMO's are concerned.

 

[shenglung]

What is MMOO and SWG.

Massively Multiplayer Online, a style of video game, for the former. And, from context, I'm going with Star Wars Galaxies for the latter. But I could be wrong about that one, I'm not as in the know where MMO's are concerned.

^ this exactly.

And no worries again everyone is different I just read Falling can't and felt the need to state I had seen it happen.

 

[Mei5ter]

When I'm sore it's too much.

The main thing I keep in mind is to keep the way I get off varied. I don't want to get so used to getting off in one way that I can't get off in other ways.

Now I'm nosey about this.

I can see how one's body might get used to the physical sensation of one particular way of masturbating, so much so that over time one's body learns to expect that as the *only* way of masturbating which leads to orgasm. So I guess it takes retraining your body (???) to respond to other ways too. The male orgasm is much more mechanical, I guess, though not completely so.

But I'm especially nosey about needing such a specific mental image too. Is that a particular person, or a particular scenario, or a perfectly worked-out fantasy which has to be exactly right each time or it doesn't work?

And does it make a difference if you haven't had an orgasm for a while? I think for guys, if we haven't cum for a week or two, a handjob from Ted Cruz while we looked at the pictures in Concrete Quarterly Magazine would probably still work. At that stage it's just physical release. (And apologies to Ted if he's reading this - he may give the best handjobs ever for all I know).

 

[ydahecnot]

Now I'm nosey about this.

I can see how one's body might get used to the physical sensation of one particular way of masturbating, so much so that over time one's body learns to expect that as the *only* way of masturbating which leads to orgasm. So I guess it takes retraining your body (???) to respond to other ways too. The male orgasm is much more mechanical, I guess, though not completely so.

But I'm especially nosey about needing such a specific mental image too. Is that a particular person, or a particular scenario, or a perfectly worked-out fantasy which has to be exactly right each time or it doesn't work?

And does it make a difference if you haven't had an orgasm for a while? I think for guys, if we haven't cum for a week or two, a handjob from Ted Cruz while we looked at the pictures in Concrete Quarterly Magazine would probably still work. At that stage it's just physical release. (And apologies to Ted if he's reading this - he may give the best handjobs ever for all I know).

Ted Cruz, maybe. But I draw the line at Josh Hawley.

 

[Modern_drunkard]

I’m curious to know if other ladies hate to be called cute as much as I do? Babies are cute, puppies are cute, kittens are cute. Don’t say I’m cute. Lol

Fuck you’re adorable.

 

[Mattentive]

Noted life tip number 327: don't call women cute.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I’m curious to know if other ladies hate to be called cute as much as I do? Babies are cute, puppies are cute, kittens are cute. Don’t say I’m cute. Lol

I have no issue with it, but I understand why some women (likely many) don’t care for it.

Noted life tip number 327: don't call women cute.

I think it’s best to just read your audience.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Now I'm nosey about this.

I can see how one's body might get used to the physical sensation of one particular way of masturbating, so much so that over time one's body learns to expect that as the *only* way of masturbating which leads to orgasm. So I guess it takes retraining your body (???) to respond to other ways too. The male orgasm is much more mechanical, I guess, though not completely so.

But I'm especially nosey about needing such a specific mental image too. Is that a particular person, or a particular scenario, or a perfectly worked-out fantasy which has to be exactly right each time or it doesn't work?

And does it make a difference if you haven't had an orgasm for a while? I think for guys, if we haven't cum for a week or two, a handjob from Ted Cruz while we looked at the pictures in Concrete Quarterly Magazine would probably still work. At that stage it's just physical release. (And apologies to Ted if he's reading this - he may give the best handjobs ever for all I know).

Funny, I can only get off when I’m fantasizing about giving Ted Cruz a handjob!

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I’m curious to know if other ladies hate to be called cute as much as I do? Babies are cute, puppies are cute, kittens are cute. Don’t say I’m cute. Lol

I have no issue with it although I don’t know that I remember ever being called cute. I’m generally not offended by much though.

I call men cute all the time. Maybe they’re offended? Who knows. I mean it in an endearing way.

 

[Mattentive]

Maybe other women like it, idk.

I think it’s best to just read your audience.

I'm going to give 'handsome' a try.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I know there’s an unspoken rule against kink shaming, but Jesus.

I also have a blowjob giving kink, so maybe you can look past the other. LOL

 

[Modern_drunkard]

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