What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[saustin5432]

I want a connection before e-boning but it’s hard to know if the other person finds you attractive. I think If you’re able to video chat it helps and you can better determine if the person is actually into you and not just wanting to get off at your expense. Also, there are lots of attractive people here but I don’t necessarily want to e-bone them, but it doesn’t mean they aren’t worth e-boning.

Is that a new thread topic? "Is the poster above e-bonable?" Maybe we can develop an algorithm off the data and just provide a top 10 list on your profile of the people you're most likely to e-bone. Eliminate the whole e-introducing, e-flirting, e-drinks and movie, e-making out and e-exposing yourself the first time phases altogether.

 

[Xerxes82]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

This is a fascinating question. I'm gonna answer it, and probably reveal some things about myself I shouldn't in the process. Oh well, maybe Lit will crash and erase them and save me from myself.

I generally don't know, or even believe, that the other person finds me physically attractive. I pretty much always presume that I'm the last available option, and that they're imagining somebody else.

Some of that is insecurity on my part, some of it is simply experience, where previous e-bone partners have told me as much or at least heavily suggested it. The last person there was e-boning with basically flat out told me that she was thinking about other people instead, and that I was just a convenient means to an end. So sexy! Way to make me feel like something other than an inanimate object.


As for the deal breaker, sort of? It's pretty rare that there isn't SOMETHING about a woman that I find attractive. Whether it be physical or mental or emotional or just seasonal. LOL. I need something to be attracted to, but it needn't be looks. I'm quite visual when it comes to sex, even e-boning, so it doesn't hurt. Also, I find a LOT of different kinds of women attractive and sexy. It's not difficult for me to be physically attracted someone. And there are some seriously, seriously lovely women here. I'd name names, but I don't want anybody to think I'm looking to e-bone them, so better not. Also, that list would fill the whole page and nobody needs to do all that scrolling.

For a long time, it didn't bother me that much that she wasn't attracted to me. Getting off is fun, right? As long as she was game, I could stroke that out and just pretend. But over time it wears thin. This is a large part, though not the entirety of, why I no longer e-bone or seek to e-bone. Getting off is fun, but it never feels like it's about me, or even about us, just about them. It doesn't cripple the experience, but over the haul it adds up to not feeling great about myself or the experience. So why bother?

I can elaborate further if that's as messy as I think it is. Sorry for being such a rambler!

 

[shenglung]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

For the first part of this all you can do is trust the feedback from the other person, If there regularly asking to see images of you or wanting you to get on cam it's a safe bet they find you attractive. E-boning doesn't require physical attraction for everyone for some it's purely a mental exercise. For me personally it depends on the person I've had amazing experience with people who I've never seen as well as women who've made my jaw hit the floor. So I guess in my case if the physical attraction isn't there it's not necessarily a deal breaker, if there not attracted to me they can just say so it won't hurt my feelings.

*disclaimer there are always exception to the above based on certain extremes. e.g. poor hygiene, obnoxious personality, general asshattery. Does anyone other then Chillygirl read the fine print here?

 

[Ratchetman1982]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

This is a very interesting question. In the online realm, it can be difficult to have a firm grasp on the attractiveness of someone. I know some people use fake photos, so it is difficult to pin down if the person you are talking to is the same in the picture.

I have met some truly gorgeous women that were absolute shit to talk to. It definitely lowered their attractiveness. I've also met women that some in society would seem less attractive, but whose intellect and rapport made them extremely attractive. It can be difficult to separate the mind from the eyes. When I think attraction, I look at the entire picture.

Basically, I never should have responded to this question because my answer does everything but answer the question. So, lovely weather we've got here...

 

[AmberLGreen]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

For me attraction comes from inside. IRL and online, there have been people that I have not had a physical attraction to but that can change if I see the inner them. The inner person is sexier than the physical appearance. I have never visualised a different person during any e-boning session.

I would like to think that if e-boning is taking place then they are attracted to me in some way. However, I am very trusting so would probably believe them if they said it whether it was true or not. I like to think I would sense it if they weren’t.

 

[Shenanigans90]

I need a physical attraction in real life but not necessarily online. Personality and sense of humor are the two most attractive traits to me online. Although, I would never sext, ebone, or actually bone anyone that openly found me unattractive.

 

[AlexBailey]

Um...okay. What exactly is e-boning?

Is that a specific thing? Is it live video/audio with remote controlled toys? Can it be audio only, text through PMs?

Sheesh! I feel like a virgin nerd trying to hang with the hot crowd.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

The official decree was passed in this very thread as I recall it.

Yes, NRJ outlined it quite nicely. The mods should sticky his post.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Yes, NRJ outlined it quite nicely. The mods should sticky his post.

Can someone link it? I'm not fully clear on it either...

Is it this, maybe? http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=94090865&postcount=85

 

[tedsbeds]

Can someone link it? I'm not fully clear on it either...

e-boning - Urban Dictionaryhttps://www.urbandictionary.com › define › term=e-bo...
a sexual attraction to mucus, especially boogers. I'm fully fantasizing about e-boning that girls nasal cavity. Do you see how crusty her nostril is from snot?

 

[tedsbeds]

Can someone link it? I'm not fully clear on it either...

e-boning - Urban Dictionaryhttps://www.urbandictionary.com › define › term=e-bo...
a sexual attraction to mucus, especially boogers. I'm fully fantasizing about e-boning that girls nasal cavity. Do you see how crusty her nostril is from snot?

Yuk!

 

[AlexBailey]

I think maybe it's the first, second, third, fourth base system maybe? Let me see if I can spitball on the subject...

First is flirty banter, talking about likes and dislikes and all that. Second is fap inspiration by way of conversation. Third is pics, sound clips, maybe vids. Fourth would maybe be a couple going live on Skype and going at it.

Feel free to chime in and modify as needed. Lol

Lol. Okay, so my example of skyping with remote toys would be a grand slam - bases loaded!

 

[AbsintheFather]

You need both. For a longer term relationship anyway.

Physical works for a short time. Mental works for a short time too. Whatever gets you through the night, you know?

I've had a number of short-termers and three long-term relationships here. In all three my partners have had it all going on. Looks, smarts and the sexy. Of course that's all subjective, beauty is indeed in the eye of the beerholder

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

I definitely connect over banter here and admittedly lost my lady boner as I learnt more about a person. That's partly why I just ride most things out. I'm ok being superficial and fun.

As I said recently to a friend here, if there's something that's flirty AND funny to be said, I'm gonna say it. But that's not e-boning.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

To be honest, I don't think on the physical so much. The nice thing about the board is that there's enough activity to see the person's personality. Of course if they post a picture or something, it's cool. But more often than not I fall for their personality.

 

[Dribble]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

I have said it before...one can be the most beautiful person in the World....if they aren't vaccinated or if they voted Republican...they ain't worth my online time. Why? Why would I treat anyone differently online than I do in real life? I have standards.

People here get upset with this. I have no clue why? They openly judge others. Why is it ok for them to judge others but not me? That's right....it is those unwritten playground rules again.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I'm nosey about whether or not Amber received the vajazzle starter kit.

An update on the vajazzle situation.

Kit has not arrived so therefore I shall be attending tomorrow’s party sans sparkly fairy

 

[Ratchetman1982]

An update on the vajazzle situation.

Kit has not arrived so therefore I shall be attending tomorrow’s party sans sparkly fairy

Well, I just tracked the package and it would appear that the Queen seemed to have received the vajazzle I specifically picked out for you. Sooooo, I'm either an enemy of the crown, or her biggest fan? I will keep you posted.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Well, I just tracked the package and it would appear that the Queen seemed to have received the vajazzle I specifically picked out for you. Sooooo, I'm either an enemy of the crown, or her biggest fan? I will keep you posted.

Adds a whole new meaning to Crown Jewels

Just to give you fair warning Ratchet, I will most probably be slightly (read absolutely) drunk tomorrow so expect the usual

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I have said it before...one can be the most beautiful person in the World....if they aren't vaccinated or if they voted Republican...they ain't worth my online time. Why? Why would I treat anyone differently online than I do in real life? I have standards.

People here get upset with this. I have no clue why? They openly judge others. Why is it ok for them to judge others but not me? That's right....it is those unwritten playground rules again.

You miss out on knowing some wonderful people by painting everyone with the same brush and putting them in a box. Some people have valid reasons for not being vaccinated. Not all republicans are horrible, judgmental people. But you do you.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I’m nosey about physical attraction.

In your online interactions, how do you -know- the other person finds you physically attractive? To look at, to desire, etc. Not in a “oh they’re not ugly way” but in a “fuck they’re sexy/handsome/beautiful/rugged way.” Do you rely on the verbal feedback, is the e-bone confirmation enough, is it both, something else? If the physical attraction isn’t there online is that a deal breaker -if you’re the one not attracted or you’re they’re not attracted to?

I give more weight to what someone says in those not-as-highly-charged situations. If they give those compliments regularly, and not just when sexual gratification is the goal, I can tell there is a genuine attraction.

Physical attraction is important but subjective and easily swayed/changed based on personality.

 

[Ratchetman1982]

Adds a whole new meaning to Crown Jewels

Just to give you fair warning Ratchet, I will most probably be slightly (read absolutely) drunk tomorrow so expect the usual

Looks like the wife and kids are getting sent to be early!!!

 

[ydahecnot]

I’m nosey about these repeatedly referenced ”unwritten playground rules.”

Let’s hear them. I’m keen to understand exactly what they are. Let’s write them down.

Don’t bunt for a hit when there’s a no-hitter going. Don’t show up a pitcher as you round the bases. A pitcher throws at one of yours, you throw at one of theirs.

Oops….baseball’s unwritten rules. My bad

 

[hairball18]

Don’t bunt for a hit when there’s a no-hitter going. Don’t show up a pitcher as you round the bases. A pitcher throws at one of yours, you throw at one of theirs.

Oops….baseball’s unwritten rules. My bad

I was always you hit one of ours, we hit one of yours. If you hit our batter because he hit a home run off you, then the first batter up, does not matter who he is, the first pitch drills him.

 

[Jake069258]

Don’t bunt for a hit when there’s a no-hitter going. Don’t show up a pitcher as you round the bases. A pitcher throws at one of yours, you throw at one of theirs.

Oops….baseball’s unwritten rules. My bad

Dont steal or swing 3-0 when youve got a big lead...