What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

Several reactions to the maintenance shutdown made me nosy about how many hours of an average day you spend on Lit? (forums, stories, and chats)
 
Several reactions to the maintenance shutdown made me nosy about how many hours of an average day you spend on Lit? (forums, stories, and chats)

More than I'll admit to but far less than many here. Most my time is replying to PM's of late.
 
Several reactions to the maintenance shutdown made me nosy about how many hours of an average day you spend on Lit? (forums, stories, and chats)

Way too many hours. Maybe I should check out that addictions thread...
 
Several reactions to the maintenance shutdown made me nosy about how many hours of an average day you spend on Lit? (forums, stories, and chats)

Too much. Since being home all fucking year. Lit has become my "normal" It is the one place I can be where I don't feel like I am Cancer.
 
Several reactions to the maintenance shutdown made me nosy about how many hours of an average day you spend on Lit? (forums, stories, and chats)

It waxes and wanes.

I am here enough right now too notice that there was an outage, but not enough to be personally affected by it.
 
Too much. Since being home all fucking year. Lit has become my "normal" It is the one place I can be where I don't feel like I am Cancer.

The people that make up the Lit community help each in many different ways. I am happy you are getting your physical strength back. Some of the emotional scars will linger but you will defeat those just like you beat cancer. You are a inspiration to many here.
 
Several reactions to the maintenance shutdown made me nosy about how many hours of an average day you spend on Lit? (forums, stories, and chats)
I think mine yo yo’s as to how I’m feeling and what’s going on on the boards.
If it’s fun, I’ll spend a bit of time here if it’s not, I leave.
I would say I check in most days so probably more time than I think ha!
Definitely not as much any more since the lockdown and restrictions eased that’s for sure.
 
It waxes and wanes.

I am here enough right now too notice that there was an outage, but not enough to be personally affected by it.

We have a breast feeding section at the Lit Addiction thread , just saying


We have a meeting room too , step in anytime and tag a friend. Like yor it
 
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I’m feeling nosey about the things that scare you or push your boundaries. What really stretches you, maybe here at Lit or in your real life? I’m not talking about spiders or snakes. I’m talking about the bigger things like, maybe being vulnerable, or not good enough, or trusting someone not to rip out your insides, or jealousy or letting them into your personal mess of who you really are? When was the last time you felt like something scared you… do you think doing/facing the scary things makes your relationships better or worse? If you don’t do the scary things have you regretted it down the track?

Several months back. I let someone in. I had promised myself that I would stop doing that. All it did was lead to getting hurt. I had enough on my plate, and I needed to just get through.
He managed to get in. I thought I was on the path of a new best friend. We talked daily. Messenger/phone etc.
It truly scared me, because I knew the shoe would drop. And it did.
I only have myself to blame though. I got too dependent on him. He became my normal. I let someone else make me feel safe.
It hurt like fuck when he stopped talking to me. But I have no regrets. Everyone who comes into your life, teaches you something.
 
I’m feeling nosey about the things that scare you or push your boundaries. What really stretches you, maybe here at Lit or in your real life? I’m not talking about spiders or snakes. I’m talking about the bigger things like, maybe being vulnerable, or not good enough, or trusting someone not to rip out your insides, or jealousy or letting them into your personal mess of who you really are? When was the last time you felt like something scared you… do you think doing/facing the scary things makes your relationships better or worse? If you don’t do the scary things have you regretted it down the track?

I think every time you share of yourself beyond mere chitchat. it’s a scary thing at first; the other’s perception is that sword of Damocles in that you don’t want to say something wrong though it may not be clear what would be “wrong” to say. But I think the plunge, so to speak, is rewarding much more often than not.
 
The voice in my head is always asking me “what is the message you want to send your children here?”

Specifically scary: I don’t want you fuckers in my heart. GTFO. Nor are you seeing my whole naked body. I’m not brave enough for that shit here.

These two things. I’m always thinking about my daughter and how I want her to be stronger, better than me.

And my heart and body. My heart has been shattered and that’s never going to happen again. And my body...you’ll see what I choose to show and nothing more.

Also...the few times I do choose to let someone in, male or female, and I confide in them...I’m terrified I’ll read it posted openly as a casual comment.
 
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