What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[ShaneoD]

No they do it for a green card… and it’s creepy asf… igh.

Oh okay, that was something that I'd never thought of, we do pretty well as an island I guess most people that come here kind of have to have that stuff sorted before they get here.

 

[Shady_nz]

How did I get so goddam lucky?
I must have done something good....

 

[dawn_of_night]

Was this a good idea???
Its only been 56 minutes....

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Welp…she showed 2 entirely different and kinda gross attitudes in a short amount of time today. I don’t think we’re gonna be friends, and I’m totally okay with that.

 

[MidwestPrincess23]

Ho…ly
Shit!

Kinda glad I was away for that

 

[LostHorizon]

Ho…ly
Shit!

Kinda glad I was away for that

Oh come on….

 

[Sn0wBelle]

I just read a book and it broke me and I don't think I'll ever be the same again

 

[Photog1rl]

it’s incredibly ironic when someone devoid of decency feels the need to stand up to others. The whole I’m a nice guy I defend women trope is super played out. Newsflash, inserting yourself into issues that are NOT yours is not the look you think it is.
And to be clear, downloading images without permission gives me the yuck but so do men that feel the need to white knight every fucking chance they get.

Edited to correct night to knight and newslash to newsflash

 

[EvaLane]

I just read a book and it broke me and I don't think I'll ever be the same again

Please tell me!!! What!!! Book!!!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

it’s incredibly ironic when someone devoid of decency feels the need to stand up to others. The whole I’m a nice guy I defend women trope is super played out. Newslash, inserting yourself into issues that are NOT yours is not the look you think it is.
And to be clear, downloading images without permission gives me the yuck but so do men that feel the need to white night every fucking chance they get.

Funny that you’re wrong in your passive aggressive nature. Again. And again and again. I was very particular in my non-gendered language. This isn’t a male or female issue. SF is clearly bi. But even if he wasn’t, consent is important for all who post pictures.

 

[Biggalute]

Funny that you’re wrong in your passive aggressive nature. Again. And again and again. I was very particular in my non-gendered language. This isn’t a male or female issue. SF is clearly bi. But even if he wasn’t, consent is important for all who post pictures.

Is it about you?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Is it about you?

Yes.

 

[barefootgirl69]

No, it could be applied to others. You're not special.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

East coast, we have to talk. This whole traffic thing isn’t working for me. And my dog really doesn’t like it. But shout out to the couple who had a just married sign on their back window with their Venmo info on it.

 

[Photog1rl]

Funny that you’re wrong in your passive aggressive nature. Again. And again and again. I was very particular in my non-gendered language. This isn’t a male or female issue. SF is clearly bi. But even if he wasn’t, consent is important for all who post pictures.

Have you posted after a man or non binary person has posted a picture? I haven’t seen it. And the last time I knew both you and Bry identified as male not non binary. If that has changed I can update my language. What I see over and over is you inserting yourself on the side of righteousness. It is not needed. The posters on these threads have voices and they can and do use them.
You have been asserting your privilage all over these threads and it is so old.

 

[Photog1rl]

Yes.

Someone is downloading the images of you that you are posting? Has this been confirmed? So your comments that images are not to be downloaded are about you and your consent to not have your images downloaded? Funny as I haven’t seen any of your commments come after images you have shared.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Words like “white-knighting,” or even “woke” when used in a negative context, are used to silence people who stand against something they want to normalize. It’s entirely possible for a person to have empathy when something affects people they care about but not themselves.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

it’s incredibly ironic when someone devoid of decency feels the need to stand up to others. The whole I’m a nice guy I defend women trope is super played out. Newslash, inserting yourself into issues that are NOT yours is not the look you think it is.
And to be clear, downloading images without permission gives me the yuck but so do men that feel the need to white night every fucking chance they get.

You’re free to feel this way.

 

[Photog1rl]

Words like “white-knighting,” or even “woke” when used in a negative context, are used to silence people who stand against something they want to normalize. It’s entirely possible for a person to have empathy when something affects people they care about but not themselves.

White knighting is about screaming it over and over again. It is used to explain the privilage and space that men, who already occupy most of our spaces, take up under the guise of supporting others.

Edited to add-And kitty I agree. Having empathy is very important. And supporting your people is very important but there are ways to do this and ways to not do it. The way it is being done on Lit, in my opinion has moved right past empathy and support and is more about pot stirring. It is not helpful and not promoting a solution to an issue.

 

[Photog1rl]

You’re free to feel this way.

I do not remember asking for your permission but again you feel justified in inserting yourself and giving me permission to feel a certain way where you have no right to do so. Thank you for illuminating my point that you feel others need to hear or see your comments without taking into account their own feelings.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I think I over did it. But, we needed tacos.

 

[TXRafe]

i will not comment or join this conversation because its wrestlemania and im going to be happy this weekend damnit...i will not comment or join this conversation because its wrestlemania and im going to be happy this weekend damnit...i will not comment or join this conversation because its wrestlemania and im going to be happy this weekend damnit...i will not comment or join this conversation because its wrestlmania and im going to be happy this weekend damnit...i will not comment or join this conversation because its wrestlmania and im going to be happy this weekend damnit...

 

[Sexy_Singer]

I think I over did it. But, we needed tacos.

Yes. Tacos are always needed

 

[NakedStoryLover]

I hate doing laundry at the laundry mat

Landraumats are my least favorite place on earth. Too much generalized childhood trauma related to having to wait, wait, waaaaaiiiiiiiiiittt for the laundry to finish.

My first adulting purchase was a washer and dryer. My a second was a pop-a-shot.

 

[CuriousRick]

Feeling off right now