What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I’m wondering if anyone ever gets jealous when they hear that their online/text fwb is getting some hot kinky sex fairly regularly whilst you’re stuck with the same old same vanilla routine once every 3-4 months - if you’re lucky….

Or are you genuinely happy they’re getting some and enjoy hearing about it with 0 jealousy?
Does it depend on the person? The relationship? How much you feel for them vs it being a strictly platonic fwb situation?


There’s a lot going on in my noggin’ at the moment 😳 I need to shut it down lol
I rarely get sex, so I am genuinely happy for them. Don't want details though, that's not my place to know about their relationship. And it might make me jealous.

If it's me getting lucky for the third time this year, I would want them to be happy for me. Definitely wouldn't want them to ask for details. Also don't want to feel like telling them would make them depressed or sad.
 
I am genuinely happy that they are getting some but I don’t want to know the details of it. That isn’t because of jealousy though. I am not a jealous person by nature. I don’t even want to hear details of my friends’ sex life. They can say they are getting sex, but don’t give me all of the ins and outs.

Then again, I am happy if anybody is getting sex. I haven’t had any in 12 years so I am pleased there are people out there still experiencing it
Same about being happy for them but I do love hearing the details.

12 yrs huh? I sadly have that beat which is probably why I love hearing the details and live vicariously through them.
 
Hoping a friend is doing OK atm.
Sending her lots of good vibes.

And thinking is to be kept to a bare minimum today for tomorrow it is back into last weeks shit storm.
 
I agree, I'm happy when he gets some, though I wouldn't mind if he shared details, or didn't. That's up to his comfort level. I'm not jealous, but I also know my place. I can care, have genuine affection, but keep keenly in mind that we're not real life, we're online fun, an escape, a little pocket we carve out that makes the monotony of real life bearable. Caring for him also means hoping he has a fun & full sex life, even if I can't be a part of that.
This is basically my view. I don’t lose sight of what this is. The fantasy is wonderful but I want their reality to be even better.

I don’t tend to share details. Nor do I want any. Not because I’m jealous, but because intimacy is intimate for a reason. It’s not for anyone else besides the participants in my mind.
 
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