What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

Be open and honest about your wants and needs. If he’s not open to it now then he certainly won’t be open to it if things get more serious.
I think about that often.....makes me anxious and nervous but I'm so hopeful that we can get some common understanding...but thank you
 
I think about that often.....makes me anxious and nervous but I'm so hopeful that we can get some common understanding...but thank you
As someone who spent 20 yrs in a relationship hoping things would change and improve I say wholeheartedly, it really is time to assess things.

"When you're wearing rose coloured glasses, the red flags just look like flags" Wanda from Bojack Horseman

Take off the rose coloured glasses darl. This seems like a red flag.
 
How do I get my man friend (4 months now) to understand my wants and needs with being on Lit?
I'm uncertain as to your Literotica wants and needs, although I could offer up a guess or two 😏 buuut - perhaps, you could explain your presence here via comparison...?

While titillation is a likely (and desirable) goal, the interactions are the means to that goal. Interaction, though, can take a number of forms - scripted program (e.g., SIMS app), trained learning (e.g., AI chat), or organic connection (e.g., the gooey carbon found on Literotica).

Sooo, all interactions seemingly have a human element to them - of varying proximity yet undeniable presence. Taking exception to one over another is a bit like splitting hairs. I suppose a partner could object to all interactions regardless of the type, but what would that say of their "interaction" with you - why isn't that equally objectionable beyond an appeal to an "exception"...?

Would using such "logic" convince a partner that the interactions are just a means to a more meaningful end - and that end is essentially no different than masturbation...? Admittedly, I don't know; however, the glass of Merlot consumed while typing this response convinced the heck out of me 🤪

I do wish you only the best @LauraLO in resolving this obvious concern 🤗
 
For the first time in over 13 yrs of being on Lit I've had my gender and motives questioned. 😂 Part of me wants to prove I'm female, part of me feels like I have done well to go this long without someone finding me sus, part of me is offended, and the rest of me finds it hilarious.
 
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