Oof that gets into all kinds of debate about normalizing; although that wasn’t quite what I was referring to, and my pondering was on the nature of friendship. But after my previous experience, I’m going to avoid expressing a different perspectiveBecause it is a sex site and lots of inhibitions are lower here. Also because if you ask for folks to show you pics in the threads they may think you want them to show you.
I still think they should confirm before sending but they may think you are interested.