What are you thinking?

Because it is a sex site and lots of inhibitions are lower here. Also because if you ask for folks to show you pics in the threads they may think you want them to show you.
I still think they should confirm before sending but they may think you are interested.
Oof that gets into all kinds of debate about normalizing; although that wasn’t quite what I was referring to, and my pondering was on the nature of friendship. But after my previous experience, I’m going to avoid expressing a different perspective
 
There are almost no times in my life when I feel like I deserve a blow job - they are too amazing and fantastic and I always feel just crazy fortunate if I get one. But right now I think I might feel like I do.
 
Because it is a sex site and lots of inhibitions are lower here. Also because if you ask for folks to show you pics in the threads they may think you want them to show you.
I still think they should confirm before sending but they may think you are interested.
i thought the rule was that men don't send nudes or dick pics unless specifically asked for? especially the first time. it's been my experience that while the majority of men are definitely visually stimulated, a large group of woman either don't require that visual stimulation or are not interested in it, especially from someone they aren't already in some kind of relationship or situationship with. its been my experience that women want you to touch their minds first.
 
i thought the rule was that men don't send nudes or dick pics unless specifically asked for? especially the first time. it's been my experience that while the majority of men are definitely visually stimulated, a large group of woman either don't require that visual stimulation or are not interested in it, especially from someone they aren't already in some kind of relationship or situationship with. its been my experience that women want you to touch their minds first.
I’m not sure I implied otherwise. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I was responding to a poster asking why men are feeling comfortable showing their bodies online more quickly then they would do in person. My response was specific to that person. They had been encouraging folks to post undressed pics in a thread. If you do that then you may get an increase of pics sent to you in your PM’s. It’s a simple if you ask for it you may get it.

There is no “rule” about sending nudes just common courtesy. I would never send or want to receive an unsolicited nude pic. That being said, if I encourage people to post in a thread, which have done, it may be viewed as soliciting a nude pic, and I can’t be surprised if someone thinks I want a pic of them in my PM’s.

Does that make sense?
 
Oh and tonight I’m thinking I am invisible, on multiple ignore list or just have bad timing. 😂😂
 
I’m not sure I implied otherwise. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I was responding to a poster asking why men are feeling comfortable showing their bodies online more quickly then they would do in person. My response was specific to that person. They had been encouraging folks to post undressed pics in a thread. If you do that then you may get an increase of pics sent to you in your PM’s. It’s a simple if you ask for it you may get it.

There is no “rule” about sending nudes just common courtesy. I would never send or want to receive an unsolicited nude pic. That being said, if I encourage people to post in a thread, which have done, it may be viewed as soliciting a nude pic, and I can’t be surprised if someone thinks I want a pic of them in my PM’s.

Does that make sense?
definitely, i was just offering my perspective, i wasn't meaning to make you feel challenged. you certainly have a point about applied consent in those situations. i think you said it best about common courtesy though. it's not something i would do, but i know people like to push boundaries, especially in an environment like this where men out number woman and "competition" exists. and yes, you make complete sense, at least to me, i apologize again if i implied otherwise through poor communication.
 
I'm just now catching up on the news from last week and can't help but snicker...

Melania Trump walks into a McDonald's and orders an Arnold Palmer
 
To all of my fellow Canucks….


We live in heaven on earth.
The snow comes soon….get outside early….and do it often.

Ps….Canadian girls….kick ass. 😉
 
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