What do you want?

If they are that difficult to identify, darlin', then they aren't rocks. They are merely clumps of sand. Though if you are talking about goals...that is a different issue. then one must build rocks...or in my case, mountains!

So, a rock is clear, easy to identify?
 
1. I want to find a program that fits my needs and wants.

2. I want to find an advisor who knows what they are talking about and who can guide me in the right direction to help me with what I want.

3. I want to graduate before I'm 30 and start my career.

*sigh*

What are you studying, darlin'? and I love that "ass" quote!

So, a rock is clear, easy to identify?


Well, rocks are those pressing things that you have already identified and know you must tackle. They are short term obstacles, for the most part. However, they can be the long term. E.g: Published author.
 
What are you studying, darlin'? and I love that "ass" quote!




Well, rocks are those pressing things that you have already identified and know you must tackle. They are short term obstacles, for the most part. However, they can be the long term. E.g: Published author.

Ah! So it's looking at them, and knowing what I have to do... just a matter of doing it?
 
Ah! So it's looking at them, and knowing what I have to do... just a matter of doing it?

I wish Covey was on here! It's more of not wasting your resources (energy, emotions, etc.) on being distracted by the small things. Kind of a way to take a breather when everything seems to be overwhelming. Difficult to really convey posting on a thread.
 
I wish Covey was on here! It's more of not wasting your resources (energy, emotions, etc.) on being distracted by the small things. Kind of a way to take a breather when everything seems to be overwhelming. Difficult to really convey posting on a thread.

Along with the 8th habit? :p

So, it's more of a way of directing, of breathing, of focusing?
 
I know the feeling, Ice.




Uh huh. But the next time you feel overwhelmed, try to think of it. Decide what is a rock and what is sand. Then focus on the biggest rock confronting you.

at least i'm not alone in the feeling right ?
 
I know the feeling, Ice.




Uh huh. But the next time you feel overwhelmed, try to think of it. Decide what is a rock and what is sand. Then focus on the biggest rock confronting you.

One rock at a time, right?
 
1. To be wanted. To know that I am desired, emotionally and phsyically. Not just for one thing (i.e. sex, influence, knowledge). To know that I am on someone's mind as often as that person is on mine. For little messages left on voicemail, texts, notes that tell me how much I mean and I'm wanted.

2. To know that my attentions are appreciated. For someone to tell me how they feel about my gestures, my adorations, the things I do and say.

Bashfull....your two listed here fit me pretty good.

Adding #3. For people to take the time to get to know me before they pass judgement.
 
Bashfull....your two listed here fit me pretty good.

Adding #3. For people to take the time to get to know me before they pass judgement.

Thanks, darlin'. So, on what do they usually pass judgement?
 
Too much time on my hands today and too many thoughts in my head. Sitting at my desk drinking wine and chewing on a cigar mulling over things. Thought I might not be the only one who could use some crystalization to their life. Hence, a thread on what do you want...out of life, out of a relationship, out of a work, what you are wanting RIGHT NOW or even what you want out of a porn movie. Just put the subject (e.g. LIFE, Work, relationship, etc.) in the Tiltle. However, you can only list three (3) things. This should help everyone focus more clearly.
Since you've always been so good to respond to me :)

In addition to what you named I want....

1. To be secure enough in my life to get out of a shitty relationship.
2. Romance.. a guy who pays attention to things I say and acts on them
3. To finish school..
 
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