What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

I have laid on a bed, legs spread, moaning loudly as a man is fucking me. Looking over at the bed next to us, or sitting in a chair close by, my husband is stroking his rock hard cock, watching intently. On occasion he has been so turned on he could not hold back from unleashing his cum. I asked him one night, as we were having sex, what was it he liked about watching me with another man. "It gets me off watching you being pleasured, hearing you begging for it. And it's like watching a porn movie with you as the star."

 

[MerWilh]

Watching my ex getting fucked by another man was amazing! Seeing his cock sliding in and out of her while getting to watch her hot body and her looking at me with her tits bouncing and ass jiggling with every thrust. Seeing the pure look of lust on her face as he fucked her in front of me.

Few things are as hot as that.

 

[LMWM321]

Knowing some handsome guy orgasmed inside my wife scratches a very strong pride-of-ownership kink. To be very clear, I don't believe I own my wife, but I do own her promise to be my partner and soulmate for the rest of our lives. So, knowing this guy enjoyed her body and psychical presence for a short while but can never truly have her love, feels a bit like letting a friend drive your Ferrari for an hour. When he gives back the keys, with a huge smile on his face, you revel in his envy for something you will have forever, that he got to enjoy only briefly.

I will point out that the thought of my wife having sex with another man would have been a torment much earlier in our marriage. When a relationship is still maturing, you believe sexual exclusivity is essential because you worry your partner might leave you if they find they enjoy sex more with someone else. ..But after 35 years of loving each other, raising kids, supporting each other through crisis after crisis, that fear has completely evaporated; indeed, the idea that my wife would leave me for another because of better sex seems totally ridiculous. Yeah, sex still matters.. a lot, in fact. But way less than those other parts of our relationship. These days, I'm quite certain my beautiful wife is not going anywhere, so she is free to occasionally enjoy sex with others. In fact, I encourage it because I think it keeps her overall interest in sex at a higher level than if limited to sex with just me.

To my thinking, allowing my wife to wring all the joy and pleasure she can from this very short life is the ultimate expression of my love for her.

 

[Ramone45]

As a heterosexual male, I find the thought of sex with a male repulsive. I don't want anything to do with male genitalia and I almost find the male climax frightening. She however, CRAVES it. She lusts for that cock. She WANTS to lick his balls. She needs to feel his dick inside of her and she wants his semen wherever she can get it. She wants to be claimed and possessed by him. I think it's that dichotomy that I find exciting. She is a different person.

 

[Wisconsin65]

As a heterosexual male, I find the thought of sex with a male repulsive. I don't want anything to do with male genitalia and I almost find the male climax frightening. She however, CRAVES it. She lusts for that cock. She WANTS to lick his balls. She needs to feel his dick inside of her and she wants his semen wherever she can get it. She wants to be claimed and possessed by him. I think it's that dichotomy that I find exciting. She is a different person.

Erotic and sexy hot

 

[OldJock60]

He gets to pick up the bill when they go out.

 

[Sgts19]

We we're early 40's?? around there. We had been married many years and some of the lust had worn off, happens when you fuck the same people over and over, with me anyways. The first time I saw her with someone else she was much more animated, moaned more, did things she doesn't with me, said things, moved different, look on her face different Was like looking at a different person than I'd been sleeping with all those years. The more fun she had the more it turned me on

 

[Ramone45]

I can't make my wife cum, either. She strongly prefers to orgasm with her lover's dick inside her, but I blow my load too fast. I love the thought of her cumming on another guy's cock.

 

[Nellie60]

I can't make my wife cum, either. She strongly prefers to orgasm with her lover's dick inside her, but I blow my load too fast. I love the thought of her cumming on another guy's cock.

That illicit thought of fucking another man has made her be aroused enough before the union and all she needed was a good pounding..

 

[PFWilly]

I sucked the very same cock that went in her pussy four times, and twice in her mouth one night. I wasn’t there to watch, but I have a very active imagination. Love to think about her bent over our kitchen table…lol.

PS. He had a very quick recovery time, and nice big hard cock. We both admired his capabilities…lol.

 

[NxtLvlHuman]

Seeing her lost in the moment, in the arousal. Hearing the way she responds to movements and touch that is different than mine. The ability to watch her expressions evolve from curiosity, to pleasure, to pure lust. The power she feels to be free in enjoying herself in new ways with new men.

(and I love cleaning up afterwards, while praising her for being so amazing!)

 

[SmallHubby7897]

My wife has being a hotwife for the past 7 years or so.

Since then I love how she clearly is more sluttier since she became a hotwife compared to when I married her, things like the way she dresses(at home and out) has completely changed, both her clothes and lingerie.

One of my favorite developments since my wife became a hotwife is that she often lets bulls act like they own her body.
So even when they're not fucking her, they constantly do things like,telling her how to dress (or when not to wear anything), expose her body, grope and rub her body openly.

More specifically in relation to sex acts, I've seen her do several things with other men that she never did with me.
Things like anal, regularly giving blowjobs, deep throat, cum swallowing and generally behaving in a much more sensual and slutty way.

 

[Nellie60]

Lost in the moment for sure! Watching her touching another man's cock and seeing her facial expressions was such a turn on.

The sounds of her excitement really was overwhelming at the time. And his reactions to her beautiful body and touches.

 

[Mu5tang]

Most guys want their GF or wives to enjoy sucking and fucking bigger better cocks.

My wife was presented an opportunity to experience a much larger cock, from a younger, married co-worker while traveling for work. Even though she was intrigued, she politely declined his invitation. She told me about his offer. She said it was a running joke based on 'race / size' since he was mixed. One evening after the group went for dinner, while heading back to the hotel, he pulled it out to show her. She said she did touch it, and made him hard but nothing else.

We would talk about it occasionally, and I told her if it was safe, she could play. She said she wouldn't be able to take him if she wanted to due to his size. I told her my offer stood. A few more trips happened but he didn't travel.

In May of last year, a voluntary 2day training seminar was happening in Cincinnati. I told her to see if "your friend" was going and if not suggest him to go. She admitted that she was thinking alot about it and would like to try "it".

He fucked her 11 times in 3 1/2 days.

 

[impresso]

He fucked her 11 times in 2 1/2 days.

Nice. It wasn't a wasted trip ))

My wife has a friend who works in a company where such trainings happen quite often. She says that no one comes back from there un-fucked.

 

[Mu5tang]

Nice. It wasn't a wasted trip ))

My wife has a friend who works in a company where such trainings happen quite often. She says that no one comes back from there un-fucked.

She doesn't travel as much now. Software installation and support for specific corporations. Teams of 20-30 people would travel sometimes up to 2 weeks. I told her that there has to be some hooking up. She said definitely for sure there is clandestine fucking.

 

[impresso]

She doesn't travel as much now. Software installation and support for specific corporations. Teams of 20-30 people would travel sometimes up to 2 weeks. I told her that there has to be some hooking up. She said definitely for sure there is clandestine fucking.

Corporations care about releasing the sexual energy of employees. )

 

[jasexy28]

I just love the thought of intimately kissing my wife, really delicate and passionate, as another guy fucks her and shoots fresh sperm deep into her pussy. Kissing her mouth as I hear him cumming and knowing her pussy is being filled with cum, would be so erotic.

 

[CockSparrow]

Don't really know.

 

[Mike130]

My wife was presented an opportunity to experience a much larger cock, from a younger, married co-worker while traveling for work. Even though she was intrigued, she politely declined his invitation. She told me about his offer. She said it was a running joke based on 'race / size' since he was mixed. One evening after the group went for dinner, while heading back to the hotel, he pulled it out to show her. She said she did touch it, and made him hard but nothing else.

We would talk about it occasionally, and I told her if it was safe, she could play. She said she wouldn't be able to take him if she wanted to due to his size. I told her my offer stood. A few more trips happened but he didn't travel.

In May of last year, a voluntary 2day training seminar was happening in Cincinnati. I told her to see if "your friend" was going and if not suggest him to go. She admitted that she was thinking alot about it and would like to try "it".

He fucked her 11 times in 2 1/2 days.

Impressive. Seems that she liked it!

 

[CuriousOneHere]

Seeing how my wife reacts to different men she has fucked in front of me is very hot. Sometimes she gets so wild she will do almost anything. I also like see a guy cum in her pussy.

 

[Mu5tang]

Impressive. Seems that she liked it!

They both took advantage of the opportunity. Sun evening until Wednesday afternoon. Yes, she did say "it" was a very intense experience.

 

[Mike130]

They both took advantage of the opportunity. Sun evening until Wednesday afternoon. Yes, she did say "it" was a very intense experience.

Yeah, I’d say 4-5 times a day is pretty intense fucking, especially with a big cock. She must have been pretty stretched out when she got back.

 

[Mu5tang]

Yeah, I’d say 4-5 times a day is pretty intense fucking, especially with a big cock. She must have been pretty stretched out when she got back.

Lol. She did say she was a bit tender, making the trip home a little uncomfortable sitting for long periods. Pelvic muscles and ass cheeks. Didn't really notice anything stretched out. She said, him knowing I gave her permission to play, amped him up.

 

[waldo75]

My wife was presented an opportunity to experience a much larger cock, from a younger, married co-worker while traveling for work. Even though she was intrigued, she politely declined his invitation. She told me about his offer. She said it was a running joke based on 'race / size' since he was mixed. One evening after the group went for dinner, while heading back to the hotel, he pulled it out to show her. She said she did touch it, and made him hard but nothing else.

We would talk about it occasionally, and I told her if it was safe, she could play. She said she wouldn't be able to take him if she wanted to due to his size. I told her my offer stood. A few more trips happened but he didn't travel.

In May of last year, a voluntary 2day training seminar was happening in Cincinnati. I told her to see if "your friend" was going and if not suggest him to go. She admitted that she was thinking alot about it and would like to try "it".

He fucked her 11 times in 2 1/2 days.

Wow you just described a huge fantasy of mine! I'd love for my wife to experience this then describe me the intimate details of her experiences.