Well, yesterday morning now, not today - a stranger who says he knows nothing of my situation and who claims to be a ‘daddydom’ - ie supposedly affectionate and with real understanding of d/s dynamic and impact, right? - telling me any pain I feel from how I was treated is entirely my choice and responsibility, and that I’m a weak little sub if I still feel anything for the person involved
Red flag, I think
Red flag, I think
