When is Cyber-ing Cheating, thoughts? opinions?

[unfaithful2005]

Cheating is cheating no matter how one chooses to color it. There will always be those that hold up one justification after another in an attempt to make it right, but I dare say that when the chips fall, see how far those same justifications go to the person that feels betrayed. There will be nothing that you can say to erase the hurt, the memory will linger, and in most cases fester. You know not whom will be susceptible to the betrayal and if you care...how can you take the chance to crush the one person you profess to love?

To answer this question of cheating I think maybe this needs to be asked....How would you like for your SO to act in the same situation?

I couldn't have said it better. Although we are trying to recover from my discovery of my husband doing cybersex behind my back, I have to admit that this has changed our relationship permanently. Its awful to always wonder if your SO is as faithful to you as much as you are. Its a terrible self torture that I go through everyday. Trust is so fragile that I wonder how anyone would risk losing it.