why are there no nice women on here??

[cremebrulee]

Re:NYTE CRUZR

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From my experience and it didn't begin just yesterday, nice gets you nothing. Nice sucks, no woman wants nice any more. Try opening a door for one, you may be iced on the spot. Women today seem to see nice as weak and outdated. Manners, who uses them any more? Who even understands them any more, women? Like hell. I have had quite enough of the alleged nice female, they are extinct.
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Pardon me, bub. I have a little bone to pick with you.
Nice is the ONLY thing that gets somewhere with me. I want nice unless I am looking to just FUCK, and that is not often.
Try the traditional opening of the door with me, call me to see how I am, invite me to church. I LIKE IT!!
Seems as though giving up is the only true way to make the NICE stuff extinct. Try busting ahead and walking through a door ahead of me and THEN you'll be iced on the spot! LOL
As far as the ideas about avatars, personally I prefer to see one that has some creativity put into it. Most guys I know have cocks, whether large or small, right? I'd like something REAL and NEW wih a bit of insight for a change.
My vote is to contiue the chivalry, some of us are seaching our little butts (and in my case BIG butts, hee hee) off just trying to find it.
I would appreciate it if you would please abstain from quitting hence making it a guaranteed impossibilty to EVER find manners and niceness.

Sincerely,
~CremeBrulee

 

[stehorn]

No need to get personal Blessed Be, you'd think I was having a go at you personally, well after a comment like that it just goes to prove my point doesn't it about some of the women on here, well one in particular, the typical lets get personal because you don't like some facts and can't have a proper opion, if you read my post properly I said some, meaning some and not all women on here, if there anything like you, than no thank you. I'd like to say as well, thank you to the nice lady who IMd me, she understands what I'm talking about, so there are some nice women on here after all, it's just finding them and thanks to these posts I am. so thanks for your imput Blessed Be.Just remember free speech and all that.

 

[NyteCruzr]

Re: Re:NYTE CRUZR

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From my experience and it didn't begin just yesterday, nice gets you nothing. Nice sucks, no woman wants nice any more. Try opening a door for one, you may be iced on the spot. Women today seem to see nice as weak and outdated. Manners, who uses them any more? Who even understands them any more, women? Like hell. I have had quite enough of the alleged nice female, they are extinct.
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Pardon me, bub. I have a little bone to pick with you.
Nice is the ONLY thing that gets somewhere with me. I want nice unless I am looking to just FUCK, and that is not often.
Try the traditional opening of the door with me, call me to see how I am, invite me to church. I LIKE IT!!
Seems as though giving up is the only true way to make the NICE stuff extinct. Try busting ahead and walking through a door ahead of me and THEN you'll be iced on the spot! LOL
As far as the ideas about avatars, personally I prefer to see one that has some creativity put into it. Most guys I know have cocks, whether large or small, right? I'd like something REAL and NEW wih a bit of insight for a change.
My vote is to contiue the chivalry, some of us are seaching our little butts (and in my case BIG butts, hee hee) off just trying to find it.
I would appreciate it if you would please abstain from quitting hence making it a guaranteed impossibilty to EVER find manners and niceness.

Sincerely,
~CremeBrulee

Dear Creme: :

How did you know name nick name was bub?

While it may have sounded so, I am not a quitter. I still have to live my life and will based on the values that are important to me. I have just become rather weary of the games and faux pax of our society today. The majority of women you meet and greet will greet you with the silliest plastic smile. Where is real? Then there is the classic approach, throw out the bait and when the dumb sucker grabs it set the hook. In other words, using sex as a means of ensnaring someone and once they are, changing the game plan. Suddenly its hands off. I could give you numerous examples. It might even be said, I am looking in the wrong places or for the wrong faces. I could buy that except I have paid considerable attention to this in order to keep it from being a factor. I have no certain preconception of looks, ethnicity, size or any other natural trait. I am far from perfect and can hardly expect her to be otherwise. Is it too damn much to simply want real?

 

[SlayerZ1]

It is bloody amazing how something that is more truth than fiction is labeled bitter. Lets face it, chicks prefer bad boys to anything else. Then after they are used up they might want to settle for something milder. And as for what the "bloke" said about putting up avatars with big cock, abs and such. It is like any other form of "out there" advertising, it captures attention and in this case it captures that of the female set. Am I saying they are easy.....nope, only as easy as they want to be.

From my experience and it didn't begin just yesterday, nice gets you nothing. Nice sucks, no woman wants nice any more. Try opening a door for one, you may be iced on the spot. Women today seem to see nice as weak and outdated. Manners, who uses them any more? Who even understands them any more, women? Like hell. I have had quite enough of the alleged nice female, they are extinct.

Are you absolutely sure your experience didn't start yesterday ? cause that just sounded so immature!!

How on earth can you say that no women wants nice men ? Are you attempting to imply that every female on earth is seeking out the same type of men, they all strive for the same facets and characteristics in males ? That is the biggest load of... whoops, I was gonna swear, but I shall refrain from doing so because ladies are in the thread.

"Nice females are extinct" ? That is a scandalous remark to make. It sounds as if you've been burned once too often, But you cant label EVERY women like that. Just because you've been hurt once or twice you choose to condemn a whole sex, thats just idiotic. How dare you!

You owe all the women at lit an apology.

So, basically what you're saying is that all men should be Neanderthal pigs, and all women aren't particularly pleasant creatures.

WOW! What a utopian society your world would be.

And for the record, I'm a nice guy, I'll remain a nice guy, whether or not a few women dont like that kinda guy. and that's just how I am. And besides, women like nice guys.
I had a nice girlfriend for 2 years. I've met nice women, I have nice women as friends.

Sounds to me like you have issues with women.

 

[NyteCruzr]

Are you absolutely sure your experience didn't start yesterday ? cause that just sounded so immature!!

How on earth can you say that no women wants nice men ? Are you attempting to imply that every female on earth is seeking out the same type of men, they all strive for the same facets and characteristics in males ? That is the biggest load of... whoops, I was gonna swear, but I shall refrain from doing so because ladies are in the thread.

"Nice females are extinct" ? That is a scandalous remark to make. It sounds as if you've been burned once too often, But you cant label EVERY women like that. Just because you've been hurt once or twice you choose to condemn a whole sex, thats just idiotic. How dare you!

You owe all the women at lit an apology.

So, basically what you're saying is that all men should be Neanderthal pigs, and all women aren't particularly pleasant creatures.

WOW! What a utopian society your world would be.

And for the record, I'm a nice guy, I'll remain a nice guy, whether or not a few women dont like that kinda guy. and that's just how I am. And besides, women like nice guys.
I had a nice girlfriend for 2 years. I've met nice women, I have nice women as friends.

Sounds to me like you have issues with women.

You are totally entitled to your opinion, as am I.

You comment that I owe an apology is ridiculous. Anyone who reads and writes much of the content on this site shouldn't need an apology for anything.

What I do find interesting is the amount of responses that my writing brought forth versus writing something 180 degrees different which would have done well to get one response.

As for the attempt to put words in my mouth, I never said men should be Neanderthal Pigs and or all women aren't particularly pleasant creatures. If you are going to reiterate then please do so as stated. On the other hand you may just be attempting to make yourself a few points.

 

[SlayerZ1]

You are totally entitled to your opinion, as am I.

You comment that I owe an apology is ridiculous. Anyone who reads and writes much of the content on this site shouldn't need an apology for anything.

What I do find interesting is the amount of responses that my writing brought forth versus writing something 180 degrees different which would have done well to get one response.

As for the attempt to put words in my mouth, I never said men should be Neanderthal Pigs and or all women aren't particularly pleasant creatures. If you are going to reiterate then please do so as stated. On the other hand you may just be attempting to make yourself a few points.

Yep, I agree with that.

I would say that you do owe an apology, but if you dont thats up to you. It's totally your call.

Ahh, so you're saying you wrote it with the sole purpose of whipping up some controversy or to instigate a few arguments ?

I guess that may be true, but we'll jus see how many PMs you get. "You catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar,"

In fact you did say that, in a roundabout sort of a way.

 

[pop_54]

Now now

Now now ladies and gentlemen, calm down, everyones different, no two people are the same, or have the same opinions, jeez wouldn't life be shit boring if they did.

Personally I'm an old fashioned guy and I believe in chivalry and politness, most women I know prefer it that way, some don't however, one girl I know would accuse a guy of patronising her if they held a door open for her. (I actually hold doors for her because it winds her up, I get thumped bloody hard at times).

Not all guys are the same or have the same kind of manners, it's just a case of accepting folks as they are and learning to live with different views.

As for visiting role play, well I'd love to but I'm no good at that sort of thing, too old fashioned for you youngsters in there.

pops...........

 

[Hello_Kitten]

Re: Re:NYTE CRUZR

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From my experience and it didn't begin just yesterday, nice gets you nothing. Nice sucks, no woman wants nice any more. Try opening a door for one, you may be iced on the spot. Women today seem to see nice as weak and outdated. Manners, who uses them any more? Who even understands them any more, women? Like hell. I have had quite enough of the alleged nice female, they are extinct.
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Pardon me, bub. I have a little bone to pick with you.
Nice is the ONLY thing that gets somewhere with me. I want nice unless I am looking to just FUCK, and that is not often.
Try the traditional opening of the door with me, call me to see how I am, invite me to church. I LIKE IT!!

I have to agree. I want a nice guy. I know it seems like most women just want the rude bad boy, but there are some of us that want nice, sweet, romantic, and polite. I like men that are a little shy and unsure. Don't know why, but I find it very charming.

I could do without the church invites though.

*edited for grammer errors

 

[SlayerZ1]

Re: Re: Re:NYTE CRUZR

I have to agree. I want a nice. I know it seems like most women just want the rude bad boy, but there are some of us that want nice, sweet, romantic, and polite. I like men that are a little shy and unsure. Don't know why, but I find it very charming.

I could do without the church invites though.

YAYYYY!!!

You just described me in every way!

"sweet, romantic, polite and a little shy and unsure." They could put that on my tombstone.

church, hm ? *offers my hand* well, it is sunday.

 

[ChocolateHarlot]

Aaaawww, Chripper.

You're so sweet!!!!!

 

[SlayerZ1]

Aaaawww, Chripper.

You're so sweet!!!!!

Awww *blush*

Thank you.

 

[Hello_Kitten]

Re: Re: Re: Re:NYTE CRUZR

YAYYYY!!!

You just described me in every way!

"sweet, romantic, polite and a little shy and unsure." They could put that on my tombstone.

church, hm ? *offers my hand* well, it is sunday.

WAHEY!

 

[SlayerZ1]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:NYTE CRUZR

WAHEY!

Hehehe, there's nothing like a good "Wahey" followed by a smooch to end a sunday.

 

[veryshy19m]

wow. I think this thread has got a little outa hand.
Firstly I want to thank Blessed, she has shown her thoughts on this thread. You have helped me a lot and shown that there is at least one nice women on here...although I have had a few pms and other people are showing me that there are nice people on here.
Secondly I will also have to agree slightly with the bad...although I am only 20 I have learnt at my ages nice guys finish last. It is a fact of life untill you reach the mature market where women are sick of the bad guys etc. You may disagree but if you look back to your late school life etc you will see my point although there are a lot of people who have never been interested in the bad guy look and they are very hard to find. I have come here in hopes that even though only young I can attract the mature women who is looking for the nice guy.
I wont condem any statements on my thread but everyone has a point...and a valid one at that.....through own personal experiences.
I dont want to let this get outa hand.
Thank you all for your imput and I have had replies which may or may not work out but as one of you have mentioned....take it with a laugh. And in my honest opinion....

SHIT HAPPENS

Thank you all

XxshyguyxX

 

[Feistyred16]

RE:men

After going back & reading this thread from the beginning, I must say, that not all women are as some of the men have potrayed here nor are all the men that way either. I must agree that nice does it for me...not the bad boy type...
Having a sense of humor is high on my list of appealing traits that I look for too. Having a Avatar with a HUGE cock isn't going to do it for me...
Gentlemen...If you really want to get my motor running...MAKE LOVE TO MY MIND FIRST!


(oh and a nice ass helps too!)

 

[cremebrulee]

To VERYSHY

I must apologize as I feel I am one of us that got this thread out of hand. I love nice guys, but I am too old for you in a traditional sense.

I wish you the best.
There are good and bad everywhere, be it on LIT or at (sorry for being redundant with this reference again) church.
We all must learn to give and take a little and not judge so harshly, myself included.

If we ever run into each other, I look forward to your holding the door for me .


Many hugs and no hard feelings,


~Creme

 

[NyteCruzr]

Re: To VERYSHY

How much concern or how many responses would any of you have made had the comments on this thread been, "nice?"

I you have a tendency to fire back some pearls of wisdom, check out the few "nice" statements you may find on this site. Probably won't find many. While there may be any number of visitors to a thread, check out how many actually respond to nice. Yea, really important eh? It is easy to say you are something but damn lot harder to be it.

Now impress me with more of, "I like nice."



SHY, be your own guy. What I or anyone else on here has to say take with a grain of salt. Everyone has an opinion. Develop your own but please, do not base it on what you read on these sites.


And for whatever it is worth, I may have feelings as expressed. However, I will still open doors for "ladies" and offer my hand in assistance, etc.

 

[veryshy19m]

Please don't feel like you have to say sorry. What are you sorry for?? voicing your opinion?? I have come onto lit in hopes that I can find a women who is interested in the nice shy type. I know that here is the place to find what you are looking for. I will always be the nice guy not matter what happens or what is said. As I have said, I can see all opinions....they all hold some thruth whether we like to admit it or not. I have been as honest as possible...whether that gets me anywhere or not remains to be seen but I have, and always will be that way.
Im not going to get offended etc by any replies to my thread. I will take them and add them to what I already know to make me stronger and to produce a better thread next time round...if I produce another thread.
Again I thank you all for your imput and btw....I have a great butt

XxshyguyxX

 

[alwaysawake]

There are many wonderful women on Lit from all different backgrounds and nations. Treating them like ladies and interacting/posting back and forth a bit, you will likely find one that will suit your fancy. The "Nice Shoes--Wanna F***?" routine will rarely work, as most of the ladies here did NOT just fall off the turnip truck and don't like being treated as just an 'object'. Just relax, get to know them by posting, and enjoy your time on Lit. I have met some truly wonderful ladies here whom I am PROUD to have as friends. AA

 

[Guest]

The "Nice Shoes--Wanna F***?" routine will rarely work...

Rarely? I didn't know it ever worked.

 

[alwaysawake]

Rarely? I didn't know it ever worked.

To my knowledge, it doesn't. Just giving the benefit of the doubt.

 

[Guest]

Ah.

 

[Neftoon_Zamora]

Hey there, AA.. Nice shoes...

 

[omahaman2]

I Think i can contribute to this discusssion better than most since
the lady sleeping right next to me was once unknown to me until i stumbled upon LIT one day.LIT has been wonderful to me,I would never have met the woman of my dreams.I would also never met many many wonderful friends who just happened to be female. I would like it to be known that lit is filled with many wonderful women,who can touch your heart, touch your mind or touch your libidio, lol sometimes all at the same time. I would agree with the idea that all people are individuals and cant be stereotyped, we are showing that with the myraid of responses here. Each person,both male and female, are attracted to different things, that is what makes us individuals. Lit is composed of individuals, who also differ in likes and dislikes. However, even though its stereotyping them, I would like to say at LIT, I have never met a woman who didnt have one quality that didnt endear them to me. The lit ladies are wonderful, especially my sweet dear wonderful jenny. A person just needs to be themselves, you cant base a relationships beginnings on anything but honesty, it will have no foundation to grow,sooner or later, the real you will shine forth. Also, guys, dont worry about being yourself, if they accept me , theyll accept anyone LOL

 

[alwaysawake]

Hey there, AA.. Nice shoes...

ROFL Neffie..that does work for you! LOL Oman, I agree totally with your post and I am about 9 months behind you on the 'meeting curve' for the lady that I care for. I suggest to use the Windows adage for screen printing of 'WYSIWYG'...What You See Is What You Get. I don't put on airs for anyone here, just be myself and if somebody doesn't appreciate it--like George Carlin says "If you don't like the weather--Move!" LOL I treat everyone the way I wish to be treated, have fun, joke a bit, and am never condescending. Life is too serious to take seriously--AA