Why do older men become bi-curious?

[alwayshorny2010]

I think it just comes down to the fact that we want more sex. Gay/bi sex is simply a supplement for our needs. I have generalised there a bit but I would do anything involving sex and yet I don't find blokes attractive.

 

[dlcalguy]

The internet gave me access to more and different porn.
I started looking at stuff I'd never looked at before. Found myself aroused, first by shemales. And what do shemales have that women don't? So I realized I was fascinated by their cocks.
Once I got my head around the fact that I like looking at them, it wasn't much of a step to my starting to appreciate cocks on men. And then men fucking men. And sucking cock. Which I really really want to try. Since it was just me and nobody would know, I began to develop my fantasies.
I am extremely bi-curious and have acknowledged to myself that if an opportunity arose I would take it.
But the reality is that no opportunity will arise, my bi-curiosity is completely anonymous and I just use gay porn for wanking. Cute traps are my niche of choice.
Most of what I write is of a first-time gay fantasy nature. For my own benefit, primarily. My first story on here is currently in 'pending' status. Can't wait to get some feedback.

 

[oldenough59]

well...i am not turned on by other men, but, every once in a while i see a porn movie where the "woman" has a penis, and i mean she looks like a female in every way until she opens her legs...it makes me wonder...i guess at my age i will not likely find out

 

[bear175]

well...i am not turned on by other men, but, every once in a while i see a porn movie where the "woman" has a penis, and i mean she looks like a female in every way until she opens her legs...it makes me wonder...i guess at my age i will not likely find out

It is never too late to find out, at least in our mind, what is turning us on.

 

[bluesbreaker_69]

lack of female interest in sex

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I have been bi all my sexually active life and I find more men in their 50's and older interested in male sex, mainly from the lack of interest in sex from the wife. It is easier to find a guy to enjoy than another woman

 

[klippert]

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I have been bi all my sexually active life and I find more men in their 50's and older interested in male sex, mainly from the lack of interest in sex from the wife. It is easier to find a guy to enjoy than another woman

We're testosterone driven.. How many site and posts can a guy find, with NSA, No Reciprocation...Blow and go. We want to get off without having to get involved. and other guys are just easy for that .

I have a good chat / cam buddy. We've had this conversation. You make the point of sex at home or lack-their-of, that's a different conversation. I won't get into the details...my Chat Buddy regaled me of his experience...basically, met a guy. they chat. he was invited to his apartment. their was no smoochie, watch Ellen, and bake cookies moment. This guy he met new he was married, and wanted to get his stones off...
handed him lube and a condom..the real Ice breaker was, this 20 something guy wasn't expecting him to actually be packing thick, cut 8"...."I hope the condom fits"..
In the end...my buddy walked through the door, lead to the master bedroom got naked...condom on, lubed up...fucked, pulled out, hauled off the rubber dumped a load of cum on this guy and left.....

 

[BigBear2066]

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I have been bi all my sexually active life and I find more men in their 50's and older interested in male sex, mainly from the lack of interest in sex from the wife. It is easier to find a guy to enjoy than another woman

I totally agree, and am actively looking for my first at 60 years old....

 

[PleasePeesMe]

My wife and I

have a terrific sex life. My interest in cock is as well as, not instead of.

 

[xperthands]

have a terrific sex life. My interest in cock is as well as, not instead of.

Exactly. The my wife & I (both 60+) still go at it 3 times a week. But there's something she doesn't have. She can use a strapon, but it's just not the same as the pleasure I see in the face of a man when he's plowing me or I'm sucking him.

I am a pure bottom with men. I save my thrusting for my wife. But I love guys who just want me to get them off.

 

[betabrad]

I know that I've had lower than average testosterone all my life. My nature isn't very assertive , but tends to be more submissive. Also there is the availability of all kinds of porn on the internet. I started with just pictures of nude women, but then I ventured into hard core sex, then I started looking more and more at those big hard cocks which were so much bigger than mine. Then I started looking more at bi porn, cuck , shemale porn and then sissy porn. Sissy porn really struck a chord with me. Since turning 40 my testosterone levels seem to drop more and more each year and I find it more and more difficult to achieve a full erection. I still get horny but now usually only get a semi or a full erection as long as I continue to stroke it. In sissy porn it was ok to have a small penis and to not get fully hard. Lately I just haven't felt very confident in my abilities and now it just feels more natural to take on a more submissive role , to take the role of the female and try to please a cock, because I feel I can do a better job at that than trying to please a woman - unless I please a woman using my mouth and tongue.
I just feel more confident in my ability to please a woman or a man with my mouth and tongue now than trying to use my little dicklette, and it really just takes the pressure off of me

 

[bicuriousairman]

have a terrific sex life. My interest in cock is as well as, not instead of.

Your pictures turn me on so much, damn. I'd love to service you.

As for the OP, I'm in my early 30s and this started in my early to mid-20s. I only came to terms with it recently and now I'm married. The wife accepts it but has no interest in letting me explore (even if she's involved). Don't know what I'll do, but I doubt I'll be able to go years upon years without sucking some cock and letting someone own my ass.

I'm definitely open to PMs from anyone, I get so hot thinking about cock now.

 

[BigBear2066]

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I have been bi all my sexually active life and I find more men in their 50's and older interested in male sex, mainly from the lack of interest in sex from the wife. It is easier to find a guy to enjoy than another woman

yes and with a wonderful cock like that.....

 

[playfuldophin]

I think porn has helped to normalize bisexuality over the last 30 years and as you get older one cares less about what other people think. and maybe it is just plain curiosity that ferments over the years and finally bubbles to the top when life slows down a bit

 

[QuidProQuo77]

I'm with you.

Maybe a drop in sex as our women become less interested. My wife and I haven't had sex in over 10 years but if she caught me stepping out it would be my fault.

Married for almost 40 years, relationship is more a business partnership. Sex not a priority. Then seeing these super cute t-girls I'm like, "yeah, that could be my next wife!"

But no way I could safely step out without getting caught - after all these years she knows my habits too well, would notice if anything changed.

 

[ssremember129]

I had some experiences when I was young and then it started again after 50. I think the idea is not just an idea but a desire to experience all life has to offer. I would be great to chat or PM with interested age similar and see where it goes.

 

[tonycurinmass]

I often wonder if that experience when young didn't set the stage for wanting this when we got older.

 

[cosmic264]

I am just tired of JO'ing by myself and the wife gave up sex years ago. I am thinking I have become addicted to porn and would like to just watching and stroking with another guy. but still haven't.

 

[BigBear2066]

I am just tired of JO'ing by myself and the wife gave up sex years ago. I am thinking I have become addicted to porn and would like to just watching and stroking with another guy. but still haven't.

Same situation for me.

 

[Shavedallover]

I was curious, then took the plunge a few years back. No regrets. Love cock and pussy equally

 

[lithos43]

curious about t-girls and she males

I'm not attracted to men, but a 'woman' with a cock - that's something else. On my knees, her cock pressed against my lips. Oh, man, that sounds good.

 

[rockoid2]

CDs and T girls

I'm not attracted to men, but a 'woman' with a cock - that's something else. On my knees, her cock pressed against my lips. Oh, man, that sounds good.

I am also attracted to CDs and TGs. Been with a couple and love the feel of a cock in panties. They always seem to want and enjoy sex.

 

[bicuriousnc]

I think....

We all get a case of the "Aw fuck it why not..." I've got my case.... still looking for my first injection ;-)

 

[CuriousConvert]

A great read, thanks for starting the thread

 

[bjheinz]

So are you near Lake MI during the summer?

 

[TinaAndy76]

I was curious, then took the plunge a few years back. No regrets. Love cock and pussy equally

Me, soon. Love pussy but really want to hold and suck my first cock.