Why do older men become bi-curious?
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The hard part for me is knowing where to find a guy who will discreetly use me this way...
On the central coast of California if there is a guy like this...
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This is exactly what I worry about it would be nice to know someone or find some one that wanted what I wanted .
I would venture to say your next door neighbor would probably be more than happy to use you that way. The problem letting him know you're available. I envy the guys who are "out"about their bisexuality, and aren't afraid to announce it to the world.
But I've had success finding other bi guys on Squirt and Silverdaddies. It's always nice to be able to chat and see if there is some commonality before committing to a meet up.
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I don't know about anybody else, but I find sex with other guys is just plain easier than sex with women. I know lot's of guys who would whip out their cocks and let me suck it. Women, on the other hand, although I do love 'em, just take too much energy and time.
Wow. It's very true. I thought I was the only one who thought this way.
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Dammit I used to live nearby. Life is cruel sometimes.
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I find hard cocks so damn sexy and pretty!
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There is something very sexy about a solid erect cock. I have gotten more excited by seeing mens cocks as I've aged but not sure why.
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how to make the first approach?
I have been looking on squirt and ventured to a local cruising spot when i saw a post that someone would be there at a particular time.
i drove in to carpark and bottled it just turning and driving straight back out without stopping. There were 2 cars there and in one of them was a guy who works in florist across the street from my office. I Know he is gay and out and since then i have wondered how to let him know that i would love to suck him off, but don't want to be outted.
I have been looking on squirt and ventured to a local cruising spot when i saw a post that someone would be there at a particular time.
i drove in to carpark and bottled it just turning and driving straight back out without stopping. There were 2 cars there and in one of them was a guy who works in florist across the street from my office. I Know he is gay and out and since then i have wondered how to let him know that i would love to suck him off, but don't want to be outted.
Ask him if he fancies meeting up with you for a drink after work? Might take some nerve but you know he is gay. He might be flattered and during the chat you can let on about being 'curious' but very scared of being outed. I assume the person who advertised that he would be there isn't the florist? Did he see and recognise you when you were turning out of the car park I wonder?
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taking it a step further
I don't know who advertised as the user had no photo. I think he saw me turning the car but not sure. I keep hoping to bump into him walking back to the car after work but so far no joy.
I don't know who advertised as the user had no photo. I think he saw me turning the car but not sure. I keep hoping to bump into him walking back to the car after work but so far no joy.
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You live in Kalafornia..You can't have Styrofoam containers, but you can walk around naked with a 10" dildo stuffed up your butt..."don't judge me"
ill tell you this, fact is, If you want to find it...you'll put the effort into it.. I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't have someone in your town right now...jackin his cock to bi porn. Wondering if he has the nerve, and can "I" find that DADT buddy...
Yes!!!
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As are the younger men that have them.
Younger men, older men........ I just love a beautiful cock.
Go in his shop and speak?
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When I was in college I started wearing thongs as underwear and quickly wore them at the beach. With tan lines I wanted more and experimented with men and liked and liked women too. I saw it as a means to expand my sexuality and find new ways to get off. Not for all guys but as I stand in my thong now with my tan lines, I love it!
I would too...
I have wondered the same thing, as I've pondered this same question. Someone else mentioned internet porn, and I think that also stimulates it these days, constant images of virile young guys with hard cocks. But now I have a more complicated question, which maybe some of you know the answer to. What if you want to actually go through with it and try sucking cock, let's say. In your mind, if you're like me, the fantasy is very specific, as far as the description of the other guy. In addition, I have serious concerns about health safety, and, because I have no wish to smell the usual male odors, he would have to be immaculate. Now, were there no such thing as STDs, a male escort would be a logical answer, but as there are lots of STDs and a male escort spends his time sticking his thing in strange men's asses, it just isn't safe. What makes this frustrating, though, is that I can't think of another way to be able to choose the individual based on his appearance, age, race, etc., be able to control the experience, blah blah. Anyone?
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I'm 60, and it hasn't been the case for me as I have gotten older. I've ALWAYS been turned on by hard cocks and cum, and I've always wanted to experience having a cock shoot in my mouth. I consider myself str8 but somewhat more than curious. When I was young and used to jerk off with a friend I used to BEG him to let me suck him. He was freaked out about it and that ended our jerk sessions, but I would have sucked him in a heartbeat. I agree though that as I get older I want to do it more, but that might be too because I'm not getting laid regularly. I'm still firmly committed to pussy, but it'd be awesome to be in a MMF situation. There's a swing club I've gone to in the past, it's a pretty hot time. They have a "bi night" that's coming up. I intend to go and check it out. I'll keep anyone posted who's interested
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Excellent post.
Would love to find a male partner for occasional fun
In my late 60's, married and always fantasizing about sucking another man's cock and getting more intimate. Unfortunate I too am paranoid about picking something up. Whenever I masturbate now it involves viewing males and dreaming of sucking cock. Wish I could find someone who feels the same way and is safe but have no clue how to do so.
In my late 60's, married and always fantasizing about sucking another man's cock and getting more intimate. Unfortunate I too am paranoid about picking something up. Whenever I masturbate now it involves viewing males and dreaming of sucking cock. Wish I could find someone who feels the same way and is safe but have no clue how to do so.
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Good reality check !
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