Why do older men become bi-curious?

[frenchygolf]

I guess I got an early start in this being raised Catholic.
Learning to respect older men at an early age helped me become the man I am today.
Visiting the Y to go swimming was especially enjoyable for me.
I did not realize until I got there tho that it was male only and swim suit optional.
Memories I shall always cherish.
ChosenOne2

almost the same thing, however, we become bi curious because of lack of se from the wife and the fact that ladies want to much. where as with guys, most of the time is it blow and go and oh let he have your number so we can do the same thing again

 

[IntrovertWantsOut]

Part of it for me is wanting to be a slut. ;o)
When I think about women, I am in love (or at least smitten) and it's playful and sexy and hot. (Actually, I don't so many fantasies like this anymore.)
When I think about men, it's pure lust. I want to blow them, want them to fuck mde. It's intense---almost an athletic competition. (Though the older I get, the more broadly "athletic" must be understood.)

If women are in my fantasies now, they're usually "making" me suck cock, or making me watch them fuck some stud.

I have very little actual sex.
Curiously, I have a girlfriend now and we care a lot for each other. It's nice to sit close, to lie in bed and snuggle, but I never get an erection while with her.

 

[dacoach44]

Pretty much....

Part of it for me is wanting to be a slut. ;o)
When I think about women, I am in love (or at least smitten) and it's playful and sexy and hot. (Actually, I don't so many fantasies like this anymore.)
When I think about men, it's pure lust. I want to blow them, want them to fuck mde. It's intense---almost an athletic competition. (Though the older I get, the more broadly "athletic" must be understood.)

If women are in my fantasies now, they're usually "making" me suck cock, or making me watch them fuck some stud.

I have very little actual sex.
Curiously, I have a girlfriend now and we care a lot for each other. It's nice to sit close, to lie in bed and snuggle, but I never get an erection while with her.

I got a GF I dont fuck,good companion. If I fuck her, here comes the squeeze. Own me, control me, etc. Jealous and possessive. But if I sleep with a CD, great sex and none of that drama.

 

[nakedworld]

Maybe we were in a different era. Feelings were suppressed. Any curiosities we had are now accepted and we wish we could make up for lost time.

I think this very true.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

not all older. younger too..like my ex bf. bi and not curious about it.

 

[Mqoi]

I've always been bi, but hadn't been much on the idea of anal sex (giving or receiving). Now that I'm older, I find myself daydreaming about fucking a guy and him fucking me. All of my life, that was a line that I wouldn't cross or contemplate doing.

But, in the last year or so, I find myself very interested in both fucking another guy and having him fuck me. I keep having this mental image of being on all fours, reaching behind me and playing with his balls as he pounds my ass.

 

[IntrovertWantsOut]

I got a GF I dont fuck,good companion. If I fuck her, here comes the squeeze. Own me, control me, etc. Jealous and possessive. But if I sleep with a CD, great sex and none of that drama.

Hhm, I never thought of it that way. Well, I did always think of marriage as sort of a trap. For me. It's fine for many.

I'm a writer and musician---I need a LOT of alone time. I'm not emotionally available on a daily basis. Not always on a weekly basis. But I do tend to care about people I spend time with.

 

[timmy67]

Me too

Iknow what you mean Mqoi Ihave similar ambitions

 

[latecomer91364]

Times change

I became bi at 49, after ending my 13 year marriage. I believe we don't necessarily GET bi-curious, but it's always been there. When I lost my virginity in 1972, gay and bi men were not readily acting upon those impulses because of the huge social stigma still attached to it at the time.

These days, it's almost like you're socially inept if you have those feelings and DON'T try it (at least in L.A.) people are much more inclusive of sexual orientation. It's that freedom that I believe emboldens men of my age to go for it. I'm so glad I did - it unfolded other fetishes of which I was less aware that existed in me to emerge, like my crossdressing.

 

[Jerseyshore]

Before I met the love of my life I hooked up with a number of men and some of those encounters led to friendships (and repeat sex in some cases). I those cases we weren't looking for love but pleasure and that led to several friendships. Kind of typical with gay men where we enjoy uncomplicated, drama free hookups just for the pleasure.

 

[luv23way]

Bi? Or not bi?

I sucked cock for the first time in a MFM 3way. Many of us remember answering ads in swinger magazines...dark ages! Got married at 21, massive sex drive...much greater than my wife. Good pussy, and she gives awesome head...but not much imagination and I always have to ask for/initiate it. I had affairs, but swinging as a single guy, getting to fuck their wife or girlfriend and then go home was perfect. Most of the women seemed to really enjoy the attention of 2 or more guys, and I loved watching the others guys cock go in and out of her pussy. A couple of the guys sucked me, but I didn't reciprocate. When I was almost 40, I answered an ad...she was so hot in the pic and and he was bi. The first time we met, she was sucking him, and he had a big cock, and she looked up at me and asked me to join her. D and I shared that cock many times, and from the first time it felt good in my mouth...very natural. Doing to him what I like done to me was easy, and I guess I'm lucky because I learned to suck cock sucking a big cock. I told myself I did it for the pussy, because she was the best I've ever had, but did I?

Why do I still do it occasionally? No pussy involved. i probably do it more frequently than I'd like to admit, but I try to keep it to once a month...or so. Probably a combination of my sexual addiction, porn, an extremely active imagination and libido at 62. But I don't find guys sexy unless I'm wearing at least something feminine, let me play that role and suck your cock.

 

[oxfordsea]

Simple Answer

Gay porn is more often hotter than straight porn, so it drives the curiosity meter way up.

 

[deelite45]

I have fantasized many times about sucking a cock. I'm still a little nervous about doing it but it sends my senses reeling, I have been looking at bi porn for a few years now and love looking at cocks online... Who knows, maybe soon.

 

[meme62626]

I'm right there with you Deelite. It's been one long fantasy....so far..

 

[herrdrier]

I have always been bi-curious, I just crave it more.

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

and then some of us become more than curious!

 

[randymany]

More Experiences, More Perspectives, More Tolerance

The reason is because you are wiser and see things from educated perspectives. You have more tolerance. Honestly, I've seen men from behind in garter belts and stockings and they look better than Molly Maybe.

 

[Controlu69]

When you get older regrets come into play and bucket list comes into play. Back then men were expected to be strong old school and tough, the world wasn't as accepting. Before the internet it was harder to find out if someone is gay, it wasn't as out there. Now it's more accepting, technology enables us to share secrets maintaining discretion In our personal lives and men are sexy lol.


Without the internet we wouldn't know how many curious, bi, ts,cd, or gaymen are out there.

 

[KUJACK]

When you get older regrets come into play and bucket list comes into play. Back then men were expected to be strong old school and tough, the world wasn't as accepting. Before the internet it was harder to find out if someone is gay, it wasn't as out there. Now it's more accepting, technology enables us to share secrets maintaining discretion In our personal lives and men are sexy lol.


Without the internet we wouldn't know how many curious, bi, ts,cd, or gaymen are out there.

Ever since I gave my first blow job in my teens I have always loved cock
Now in my sixties I want to do it again and I have a little bit but I need more

 

[Controlu69]

Ever since I gave my first blow job in my teens I have always loved cock
Now in my sixties I want to do it again and I have a little bit but I need more

Did it the urge come back suddenly or was it always there. ?

 

[bottomshooter]

The older I become, the bigger the desire grows.

 

[hubbyinstockings]

The older I become, the bigger the desire grows.

Think its the same for all of us, I know it is for me.

 

[scott6251]

The older I become, the bigger the desire grows.

A lot of guys I chat with have experienced the same - I know I have

 

[jimmyturtleman]

A lot of guys I chat with have experienced the same - I know I have

Sounds like a trend we have here. I agree wholeheartedly.

 

[Harley55]

I agree the desire grows with age. For me I said what the fuck and finally fulfilled my fantasy and as many others have said here, the reality is so much better than the fantasy. I knew I needed to try it and I now now I am truly bisexual. Love sex with my wife but also love cock. I say when in doubt go for it. You won't regret it.