Why do older men become bi-curious?

[bkarp8]

older very bi curious here, need to find another and do it

 

[ssremember129]

older very bi curious here, need to find another and do it

Best of luck to you!

 

[Nekidinaz]

Don't know but I sure have....lol

I don't know why as I've gotten older I have become more curious...not even sure it matters why, I just know I have and I think it's kinda cool.

My wife really enjoys sucking my cock and I love to watch her while she does it...after a while I began thinking that if she enjoyed it as much as she does, maybe I would too [) So I began to fantasize how it would look and feel to have a nice cock in my hands and in my mouth. One thing seemed to lead to another and I began enjoying the idea of feeling someone's cock explode semen in my mouth and on my face.

I won't even go into how I've come to enjoy feeling dildos and butt plugs in my ass but I have and I really want to feel someone's real live cock inside me while I'm sucking another at the same time...and then they can switch places and we can do it over again

Just my fantasy right now but hope to make it my reality sometime soon...love to hear what you other curious guys think of what I said here...don't think I'm alone here, but maybe?

 

[Literousal]

Maybe it is a drop in testosterone? Or, that life perspective changes as we get older and our conditioning has less of a grip on us? Perhaps it's the naughtiness of it? Or just the reaching out with no strings. As a guy I know my experience has been that we don't talk intimately with each other enough (embarrassment/conditioning) and I really crave that matey/slightly naughty contact with other guys without it being a big thing.

Either way, I have a good sex life, but I still find a little conversation with other men very arousing - like someone said above - guys helping each other out! I had a pm conversation about a fantasy of mine with a guy not long ago and both of us got very hot and horny. When it finished, that's it, thank you & goodbye. No probs.

 

[blowit]

I don't know why as I've gotten older I have become more curious...not even sure it matters why, I just know I have and I think it's kinda cool.

My wife really enjoys sucking my cock and I love to watch her while she does it...after a while I began thinking that if she enjoyed it as much as she does, maybe I would too [) So I began to fantasize how it would look and feel to have a nice cock in my hands and in my mouth. One thing seemed to lead to another and I began enjoying the idea of feeling someone's cock explode semen in my mouth and on my face.

I won't even go into how I've come to enjoy feeling dildos and butt plugs in my ass but I have and I really want to feel someone's real live cock inside me while I'm sucking another at the same time...and then they can switch places and we can do it over again

Just my fantasy right now but hope to make it my reality sometime soon...love to hear what you other curious guys think of what I said here...don't think I'm alone here, but maybe?

You definitely aren't alone in your thoughts and feelings. I would very much like to somehow meet a local man who felt the same way and simply let it happen.

 

[damon340]

My strongest fantasies and most intense orgasms are when I imagine having a cock in my mouth and a cock in my ass. Same for me.... it's never about the man who has the cock....it's just about the cock. Perhaps one day.....

Same thing for me,sounds like we have a common bond.

 

[Intoanythin]

Same for me too.

 

[ChosenOne2]

Started young

Growing up in a Catholic Church, I soon learned I loved being sucked as well as sucking an older man.
I am older now and while I tried to ignore my desires of an older man sucking me or me him, the desires seem to grow every day. I guess I am worried that no one will take my interests seriously.
This is my first step at getting back to what I loved doing so long ago.
Please respond if you have any ideas, suggestions, etc..
Thanks for listening.
Tyler

ChosenOne2

 

[Sclovers]

Growing up in a Catholic Church, I soon learned I loved being sucked as well as sucking an older man.
I am older now and while I tried to ignore my desires of an older man sucking me or me him, the desires seem to grow every day. I guess I am worried that no one will take my interests seriously.
This is my first step at getting back to what I loved doing so long ago.
Please respond if you have any ideas, suggestions, etc..
Thanks for listening.
Tyler

ChosenOne2

Turn on your messaging

 

[PuttingOutFires]

Growing up in a Catholic Church, I soon learned I loved being sucked as well as sucking an older man.
I am older now and while I tried to ignore my desires of an older man sucking me or me him, the desires seem to grow every day. I guess I am worried that no one will take my interests seriously.
This is my first step at getting back to what I loved doing so long ago.
Please respond if you have any ideas, suggestions, etc..
Thanks for listening.
Tyler

ChosenOne2

I concur with Sclovers....If you want any suggestions or advice you have to turn on the
PM box. Good Luck with your situation.

 

[kismet999]

enable PMs for ChosenOne2

Click on User CP in the upper left of this page.
Click on edit options.
Scroll down and click the box that says enable private messaging.
Scroll down and hit save.

 

[rwtravln]

love to talk with you,

 

[rwtravln]

Growing up in a Catholic Church, I soon learned I loved being sucked as well as sucking an older man.
I am older now and while I tried to ignore my desires of an older man sucking me or me him, the desires seem to grow every day. I guess I am worried that no one will take my interests seriously.
This is my first step at getting back to what I loved doing so long ago.
Please respond if you have any ideas, suggestions, etc..
Thanks for listening.
Tyler

ChosenOne2

one catholic to another lol

 

[Intoanythin]

I'm up for chatting with anyone on here too.

 

[Samsacks]

I've said before on other threads - growing up (when we were all over 18, of course), my friends and I all enjoyed naked play. It tapered off when girls and cum began to get involved. I always enjoyed it, though, and when I turned 50 (52 now), I started seeking out like-minded men to play naked with.

I haven't been disappointed.

 

[camper23]

I started getting curious a few years ago, in my mid 40's, but it has been getting a lot stronger lately

 

[LoftyCraig]

makes a lot of sense to me. your reasoning applies ro me as well.Am over 70

same here

 

[Shavedallover]

I'll chat . Pm if anyone wants to

 

[maxwellq]

Maybe it is a drop in testosterone? Or, that life perspective changes as we get older and our conditioning has less of a grip on us? Perhaps it's the naughtiness of it? Or just the reaching out with no strings. As a guy I know my experience has been that we don't talk intimately with each other enough (embarrassment/conditioning) and I really crave that matey/slightly naughty contact with other guys without it being a big thing.

Either way, I have a good sex life, but I still find a little conversation with other men very arousing - like someone said above - guys helping each other out! I had a pm conversation about a fantasy of mine with a guy not long ago and both of us got very hot and horny. When it finished, that's it, thank you & goodbye. No probs.

Yes, exchanging PMs with others about fantasies and fetishes can be very arousing and pleasurable.

 

[loverofintersex1]

Yes, exchanging PMs with others about fantasies and fetishes can be very arousing and pleasurable.

Exactly. As someone who crossed over from being bi-curious to bisexual with the first cock in my mouth, I think talking about it to other so-called str8 men finds out if they've already taken that first step over. It's all sex -- forget the labels. I love to wear panties, I love to suck cock, as I get older I've got soft man-tits -- I love all of it. Now I'm looking to get cock up the ass, as soon as possible. Why not?

 

[Intoanythin]

Nicely said.

 

[truegent99]

I think taking a man's penis in your mouth IS an intimate act. I won't blow just to blow - I need to have some attraction/connection to the guy.
Not to mention if you get into swallowing . . .

I agree scott - love the pictures

 

[truegent99]

Nicely said.

You now into gay sex - I am now virtually into it all the time?

 

[peter49parker]

Exactly. As someone who crossed over from being bi-curious to bisexual with the first cock in my mouth, I think talking about it to other so-called str8 men finds out if they've already taken that first step over. It's all sex -- forget the labels. I love to wear panties, I love to suck cock, as I get older I've got soft man-tits -- I love all of it. Now I'm looking to get cock up the ass, as soon as possible. Why not?

There are probably a great deal of men who could have written your post. An increasing number of us are in exactly the same position as yourself.

 

[hubbyinstockings]

Age thing

Think its a natural progression for the older male when you look at the wife that looked after all your sexual needs for many years but now is content to nurture her plants and has no interest in sex what so ever, while we as males still hanker after a bit of sexual pleasure. I get as much pleasure wearing the wife's undies as I did when she was wearing it and to share that pleasure with another guy for me is a real turn on no commitment just mutual pleasure.