Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Lricky]

I spent many years in the locker room trying not to look at other guys cocks. Some to see if they were bigger or just longer or thicker. Finely at age 45 while in a hot tube an older man, one of the guys I had checked out climbed in and said you have a nice one too. Taken a back I just said Hugh. His reply was don't worry about it we all do, check out the competition. Pretty well ended the conversation until I was about to leave and he asked if I would like to get coffee.

Over coffee he confessed like me he was always looking at cock as well as pussy. It was not until 3 years ago he met a bi couple who introduced him to cock sucking. Found he liked it straight off just as much as he enjoyed eating pussy. Anytime I liked he would be happy to show me the ropes.

I took him up on his offer, after all once would just be an experiment. Well I have been sucking cock for 5 years now. And, still enjoy pussy.

Nice friend to have around in a hot tub.

 

[Lricky]

In my early teens I sucked my best boy friend next door and had mutual experience. I later had my older brother. I got married in my 20's and that was normal back then. I chased other women and had a 2nd marriage and the sex was great and almost every night. She was the best sexual partner I have ever been with. Then it fell apart and we divorced. All during my life I had m2m experiences and liked it. When I was young I too dressed in femme lingerie and felt good. I have done that with a few of the guys that I would suck if they liked a guy in panties.
Now, I am in my 3rd marriage which started out very sexual but has cooled over the years. She is not what she use to be and I am not the stud I use to be. She does not know about any of my kinks and will never know. She thinks I look at pretty women with desire but it is fair from the truth. Now in my 60's, I have the desire more for cock. I still maintain a purely heterosexual life style in my home life and professional life. PM me if you want.

 

[blowit]

In my early teens I sucked my best boy friend next door and had mutual experience. I later had my older brother. I got married in my 20's and that was normal back then. I chased other women and had a 2nd marriage and the sex was great and almost every night. She was the best sexual partner I have ever been with. Then it fell apart and we divorced. All during my life I had m2m experiences and liked it. When I was young I too dressed in femme lingerie and felt good. I have done that with a few of the guys that I would suck if they liked a guy in panties.
Now, I am in my 3rd marriage which started out very sexual but has cooled over the years. She is not what she use to be and I am not the stud I use to be. She does not know about any of my kinks and will never know. She thinks I look at pretty women with desire but it is fair from the truth. Now in my 60's, I have the desire more for cock. I still maintain a purely heterosexual life style in my home life and professional life. PM me if you want.

If I only could have a neighbour like you.

 

[SexyLitForAll]

If I only could have a neighbour like you.

I was lucky, I had a neighbor like this in my teens.

 

[minn]

I have fantasized many times about sucking a cock. I'm still a little nervous about doing it but it sends my senses reeling, I have been looking at bi porn for a few years now and love looking at cocks online... Who knows, maybe soon.

Wow, I couldn't have said it any better! While I did have the pleasure of sucking a cock years ago, I haven't since. I am also in the Midwest, Minnesota. Wish we were neighbors!

 

[IntrovertWantsOut]

The older I become, the bigger the desire grows.

That's the case with me too. I didn't see it turning out this way. But I'm happy to be turned on this way. (Though I don't tell everyone, or hardly anyone about it. Which is why it's so great to have a place like this to talk about it, share stories and pics and the like.)

 

[TinaAndy76]

Wow, I couldn't have said it any better! While I did have the pleasure of sucking a cock years ago, I haven't since. I am also in the Midwest, Minnesota. Wish we were neighbors!

Same! I need to get back to Minn, been to long...

 

[wntn2try]

Not Sure

I don't exactly know why but I'm glad I did. The urges only get stronger and more frequent. I'm frustrated that it's so hard to find a regular buddy for pleasure.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Indeed it is.

Especially when you live in a small town.

 

[Series 6]

Here is an anecdote from my own life experience. It shows how much the passage of time can strip us of inhibitions and how it might change the way we might handle a situation. Just yesterday I related this to a male 'Lit' member with whom I exchange personal messages. I've shortened it a bit for comment purposes...

Years ago, and I mean many years ago, long before 'personals ads' made such hookups at least a little bit easier, I had a 'missed opportunity' for a M2M encounter. But because I was not 'there' yet, and and wouldn't be for quite some time, I did not take the advantage of it that was all too obvious.

The year was 1979. I was 'between marriages'. It was the around the peak of the 'disco era', where both women AND men were often seen wearing VERY tight 'disco pants' that seem to be almost spray painted on. I think of some of the pants I wore then, and in retrospect I cringe.

At that time I was working at a small design firm in a southern city. One of the employees was a male secretary. I'll call him Jake.

It was no secret around the office that Jake was gay. No, he didn't go around flaunting it, or get in your face about it. Far from it. He was very likeable, and undeniably masculine and handsome. If he had been so inclined, he would have had little trouble being a 'chick magnet'.

Among the features of this particular office building was a long, somewhat drab corridor that ended at a stairwell. Also at the end were a couple of vending machines. One day, dressed in another pair of my ass cheek flattering disco pants, I made my way to the soft drink machine. When I arrived, there was Jake, coins in hand to buy his little soft drink. I stop in front of the machine just as he deposits the coins and pushes the button of his choice. We exchange rountine pleasantries as he bends over to retrieve his soft drink.

As he straightens back up, he YELPS! 'Oh my God, I almost DID IT! I ALMOST did it! At first it didn't register what he meant, but then I realized that as he straightened up, his other hand formed a cup as if he were about to grab my crotch! I suspected that when he was alone with a 'man friend' such playful actions were habitual, and he had ALMOST groped my bulge as if by force of habit.

Now, understand that at that time, I had no interest or even 'curiosity' about M2M intimacy. And Jake was a nice guy, and so I played dumb and made nothing of it....

Fast forward to today. Were that same situation were to happen today, my response would be to invite him into the stairwell, and after looking around to make sure we were alone for a few seconds, I would take his hand, place it on my crotch and ask 'Is this what you 'almost' did?' I would have then offered 'If you can keep shut about it, how about dropping by my place tonite and you can do the same thing, only this time with the pants out of the way.'

Ah, if only there really was a 'time machine'...

When I was a teenager, I had a friend that everyone thought was gay. This was back in 1983. We were hanging out in my bedroom after school one afternoon. We were sitting next to each other on my bed, joking around about something when he leaned against me a put his arm around me. I pushed his arm off. Now at 48, I wonder if he had some intentions. Now at age 48, I think about "what if?" I regret not putting my arm around him and doing more.

But you are right. At the time, I had no desire. Now I think back to that moment and fantasize about what could have been. Oh if I only knew then what I know now. Youth is wasted on the young.

 

[Jerseyshore]

When I was a teenager, I had a friend that everyone thought was gay. This was back in 1983. We were hanging out in my bedroom after school one afternoon. We were sitting next to each other on my bed, joking around about something when he leaned against me a put his arm around me. I pushed his arm off. Now at 48, I wonder if he had some intentions. Now at age 48, I think about "what if?" I regret not putting my arm around him and doing more.

But you are right. At the time, I had no desire. Now I think back to that moment and fantasize about what could have been. Oh if I only knew then what I know now. Youth is wasted on the young.

Fortunately we older chaps are here to help them in their learning *weg*

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I need advice. Fast.

In my profile on biaustalia.com, I said my preferred age range was 60 to 75 (I'm 69). And I specifically said I wanted to meet bi or bi-curious guys. So.... I got a message from a 42 yo gay guy from Sydney, who wants to meet Says I sound "great" and he'll be in such and such a hotel in Launceston today (Wednesday) and Friday. I have to go to Launceston today. This guy has a nice body but no cock pics. I'm very wary of going to the hotel room of someone I've never met. Any opinions?

 

[jackstud]

Go, you can always leave. Don't feel you have to stay

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Thanks, Jack

Makes sense. I guess I'm wondering why a gay guy, 28 years my junior, wants to hook up. Maybe we should meet in the lobby or the bar, rather than his room. He says he has a seven and a half inch cock, so why not show it?

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

Makes sense. I guess I'm wondering why a gay guy, 28 years my junior, wants to hook up. Maybe we should meet in the lobby or the bar, rather than his room. He says he has a seven and a half inch cock, so why not show it?

Yes, meet in the bar! It's simply more convivial, and will put your mind at ease. If he hedges at that, then I'd wonder.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Thanks, Joe Bob

That's it, mind made up. Shit! In a few hours, I might have a cock in my mouth.

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

That's it, mind made up. Shit! In a few hours, I might have a cock in my mouth.

Enjoy!

 

[Lricky]

meeting in hotel

That's it, mind made up. Shit! In a few hours, I might have a cock in my mouth.

Yes I would meet in the bar downstairs. Good luck

 

[J1biboi]

That's it, mind made up. Shit! In a few hours, I might have a cock in my mouth.

Best of luck to you!

 

[Lricky]

That's it, mind made up. Shit! In a few hours, I might have a cock in my mouth.

P.S. Don't worry about the age difference. It is only a number.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Thanks, guys.

Feels very good to have support from like-minded people.

 

[Series 6]

Fortunately we older chaps are here to help them in their learning *weg*

Sounds like an offer

 

[Series 6]

That's it, mind made up. Shit! In a few hours, I might have a cock in my mouth.

You'll have to tell us all what happened

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Nothing

Just before I left home, I got a message saying he couldn't make it before 3.15 because of meetings. I had to be on the way home by then, so fuck all suck. Jesus, I could almost taste him, t was so close to happening. Feeling rather deflated right now.

 

[Samisstout]

The more cuck videos I watch the more I hope that the cuck gets a turn with the cock .. I mean it could skip put my wives pussy and accidentally go in my mouth . And I could by instinct start sucking it ... right