Why do older men become bi-curious?

[peter49parker]

I'd be more into finding a mature bi man for a long term friends with benefits situation.

I agree. The most agreeable solution for me too.

 

[ramoredrake]

Sounds ideal to me!

 

[smooth-boy]

I never was exposed to homosexuality until later in life and I'm sure lots of other men weren't. One I experienced sexual activity with men, I felt extremely liberated. I do fantasize that someone "got to me" when I was in my earlier 20s because I think I'd probably be primarily homosexual now if not fully.

 

[mtsnowrider]

I'd be more into finding a mature bi man for a long term friends with benefits situation.

Exactly

 

[JCSTREET]

that's occurred to me, too

 

[liv2srv]

I sometimes think it can be a natural reaction that many of us have to decades of living in what is, more often than not, an unhealthily hyper-masculine society.

As enlightened as we like to think we may be, one has to admit that the generic 'standards' of 'manhood' in our culture still fall under the category of ridiculously paranoid and neurotic overcompensating behavior. The insane lengths men are taught to go to to 'prove' their manhood, on a daily basis, involves such a fundamental rejection of our natural selves that it seems only natural to me that, as we age, we would tend to react, sometimes quite strongly, against this societally imposed behavior.

Or, to paraphrase many other posters on this thread, as we age, we tend to give less of a fuck about the bullshit behavior society tries to impose on us.

 

[hubbyinstockings]

Simple

Wank and go -Suck and go -Fuck and go - no commitment = Simple

 

[BiiCuz]

guess it is missing the passion and eroticism and being single and older there seems to be more opportunity and openness to find that

 

[Hornycanuk69]

My situation as well

 

[IntrovertWantsOut]

I remember once, ten years ago now, I was sitting beside a condo pool reading and an older guy sat down across from me at a patio table. I'd spoken to him before. He was a retired schoolteacher from Atlantic City. I had a water bottle and idly drank.
We chatted about this and that. At one point he said, "I know why you like that water bottle. It turns you on." He smiled.
The water bottle was phallic.
But I didn't say anything.
I'm really good at not saying anything, just acting as if something never happened.

But I later thought, "You know, I probably could have had a lot of fun with that old guy. If nothing else, I could have told him, 'yeah, sometimes I think of a water bottle as a big cock and I wish I was sucking it..."

 

[photobuff56]

Wank and go -Suck and go -Fuck and go - no commitment = Simple

And cum back again if you like it

 

[freakyandthensome]

Iknow what you mean Mqoi Ihave similar ambitions

same here

 

[curiousdreamer51]

Totally Agree

I sometimes think it can be a natural reaction that many of us have to decades of living in what is, more often than not, an unhealthily hyper-masculine society.

As enlightened as we like to think we may be, one has to admit that the generic 'standards' of 'manhood' in our culture still fall under the category of ridiculously paranoid and neurotic overcompensating behavior. The insane lengths men are taught to go to to 'prove' their manhood, on a daily basis, involves such a fundamental rejection of our natural selves that it seems only natural to me that, as we age, we would tend to react, sometimes quite strongly, against this societally imposed behavior.

Or, to paraphrase many other posters on this thread, as we age, we tend to give less of a fuck about the bullshit behavior society tries to impose on us.

That last sentence nails it. I’m not going to let the society norms define me!

 

[Hornycanuk69]

Also my story but I'm determined to enjoy as many cocks as I can

 

[Hornycanuk69]

I agree with you on that

 

[Mqoi]

I'd be more into finding a mature bi man for a long term friends with benefits situation.

Let me add discrete to this as well.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I'd be more into finding a mature bi man for a long term friends with benefits situation.

That's the ideal set up, but not the easiest one! For most of us, hosting becomes the main obstacle.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I'd be more into finding a mature bi man for a long term friends with benefits situation.

same here.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

And cum back again if you like it

Had a buddy who I would meet for Happy Hour years back. A "Beer and a Blowjob" as we called it!

 

[Jdeere_1866]

That's the ideal set up, but not the easiest one! For most of us, hosting becomes the main obstacle.

I agree 100%

 

[Shameless60]

Had my first experience with a friend, his first too

Was great having someone I could trust

Would love one on going discreet friend

 

[Mqoi]

Had my first experience with a friend, his first too

Was great having someone I could trust

Would love one on going discreet friend

If you both liked it, why not keep on?

 

[cuck72]

such horny bi thoughts as I get older

The older I become, the bigger the desire grows.

WOW! I know how you feel. My first time it hit me was with an old friend years ago, I would get peeks of his big uncut cock in the men's room at work, or when we were out having some beers and both went to piss. I first started having fantasies of him fucking my wife, then myself sucking him off. It was just him for a few years. NOW! in my 60's, I think of so many guys I would think of bottoming and sucking off. It's such a strong bi curious desire today. Would LOVE! to get my wife into it, and I would make a good clean up old cuckold.

 

[JtheKidd]

Bi

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I have come to meet many older women who are very in need of companionship and some have boyfriends who are also by curious.

 

[DiscoveringUtopia]

I discovered I wanted cock at an early age. Thank god for the Bee-Line novels of my youth. Went into my first ABS in '73 got hit on and practically ran to the car. Joined the Army and got stationed near Boston. Had an older gentleman pick me up there one Saturday night and my life changed forever.