Why do older men become bi-curious?

[prof39]

I hope its normal to be turned on by hard shemale cocks! Lately, some males as well....

 

[KUJACK]

Twice the chance of a blow job

Lips are lips, don't be choosy

 

[WerdNerd]

Lips are lips, don't be choosy

And they are so fun to get how can you not be curious about what it feels like giving one? Especially when you see some of the delicious looking cocks around this place.

 

[fitandfresh]

And they are so fun to get how can you not be curious about what it feels like giving one? Especially when you see some of the delicious looking cocks around this place.

Sure would here no objections cumming from this old guy.......would love to have a nice cock in my hand now stroking it and getting it ready

 

[bicuriohub]

I’m only 34 and my curiosity has increased exponentially year after year

 

[WerdNerd]

Sure would here no objections cumming from this old guy.......would love to have a nice cock in my hand now stroking it and getting it ready

Just thinking about that is getting my cock ready

 

[Vitriolhack]

I hope its normal to be turned on by hard shemale cocks! Lately, some males as well....

Put it to you this way; there is nothing abnormal about your likes; as long as it involves consenting adults in a safe and pleasurable environment.

Enjoy your attractions.

V.

 

[Tinyharold46]

I don’t have an answer as to the “why this happens”, but I do know it it truly happening to me. I have read this entire thread and can relate to most of you that have posted. I wonder if it happens to all men, whether they admit it or not. I am 73 and still a bi curious virgin and would like to lose my virginity with another man very discreetly. I know that I am not alone thanks to this thread.

 

[KnottyProfessor]

I'm part of this club too. Never had any experiences or inclinations till about 3 years ago, just before I turned 50. Have had limited experience and want more, but find my mind, perhaps, or desires, assert the biness of my sexuality and thus desire to connect with a couple. Somehow the idea of sharing the experience with a woman seems that much more erotic. Of course, transsexuals are looking hotter and hotter too. Who knows where I will be in a few months.

 

[dacoach44]

Well prof....

My wife died suddenly when I was 69; and I had found Lit. Soon I was dating sissies and loving it. I think of it as "marriage insurance." Eventually I began sucking alpha cock, and thats so damn fun!

 

[Jaime1493]

Been bi since I was 15. Been married twice, current one has been over 30 years. Sex stopped many years ago, so I am looking for another married guy who wants to be FWB. I am horny a lot, j/o a lot, but it is so difficult to find a guy that only wants one guy like I do.

 

[KnottyProfessor]

My wife died suddenly when I was 69; and I had found Lit. Soon I was dating sissies and loving it. I think of it as "marriage insurance." Eventually I began sucking alpha cock, and thats so damn fun!

Not sure I'll be there, but am sure I'll soon be connecting with, preferably, another married guy.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I fantasised

about sucking cock for years before I actually did it. And when I finally did, it did nothing for me. I was/am so disappointed. I still look at cock on here and appreciate a lot of them, I can jerk off with someone on here, chatting about cock, but actually doing it? Didn't even make me hard. Some of you will think I'm weird and I certainly know I'm unusual, given posts on here, but there you go. My loss perhaps.

 

[Vitriolhack]

about sucking cock for years before I actually did it. And when I finally did, it did nothing for me. I was/am so disappointed. I still look at cock on here and appreciate a lot of them, I can jerk off with someone on here, chatting about cock, but actually doing it? Didn't even make me hard. Some of you will think I'm weird and I certainly know I'm unusual, given posts on here, but there you go. My loss perhaps.

Perhaps it’s not sucking you should look for but for a hard dick to Impale your ass!

V.

 

[blowit]

Been bi since I was 15. Been married twice, current one has been over 30 years. Sex stopped many years ago, so I am looking for another married guy who wants to be FWB. I am horny a lot, j/o a lot, but it is so difficult to find a guy that only wants one guy like I do.

Like you I only want one guy. Buggered if I can find him though...................if I ever find him I might be.

 

[none2_none2]

about sucking cock for years before I actually did it. And when I finally did, it did nothing for me. I was/am so disappointed. I still look at cock on here and appreciate a lot of them, I can jerk off with someone on here, chatting about cock, but actually doing it? Didn't even make me hard. Some of you will think I'm weird and I certainly know I'm unusual, given posts on here, but there you go. My loss perhaps.

I seriously doubt that all the posts from people about how wonderful cock sucking is all the time actually are being 100% honest It may make ones post turn on others, but I have my doubts.

For you, it may have been the individual you were with that did less than you imagined it to be. Who knows for sure. It also may be that there is something else that is your true trigger for m2m sex. One is never too old to figure out what exactly it is that they really want.

I may find videos or stories of cock sucking hot, but they have never done anything much for me, and I'm probably much more oriented for m2m sex than you are. I always had to jack off in a guy's mouth when he wanted my cum there. His manipulations just were never enough for me. Likewise, I don't care for teeth, or someone who is simply jacking me off with just my head in their mouth.

I also just don't care for going down on a penis either. I don't like to have someone pounding my face, nor did I ever care for the various tastes of cum.

I simply had to be honest with myself.

Now on the other hand, I also never cared to get fucked either. I did it years ago thinking I had no choice. However, one day a guy let me top him, and it was out of this world for me. To be honest, I think I knew in the back of my mind that I might like it, but it wasn't until I actually did it that I realized just how much I completely enjoyed it both physically, sexually, and emotionally.

I have ED now (which pisses me off of course), but it hasn't changed what I desire. My partner has to settle for me to finger his beautiful hole.

There is nothing more hotter than a very nice man wanting "ME" (as opposed to just any cock, etc) to be inside him. The feeling of bonding, trust, etc for a man to let me inside him means so much to me. When I could fuck that emotional high as well as the physical sensations were divine to me. I also loved to smell, finger and lick a guy's hole after I fucked him. It is the least I could do to appreciate that he let me cum in him. It wasn't anything dirty-- I had no desire to do anal if the guy wasn't clean.

I think that many of the guys who let me fuck them did so not because they just wanted any cock, but because they could figure out enough about myself to know I genuinely wanted them to have a good time, and if that meant I needed to stop for the night, or rest for a while, I would. Because above all else no matter how wonderful it was for me, if I didn't show them a good time, then "I" failed.

I think most heterosexual men probably feel the same about fucking a woman. Sure they want to get their own rocks off, but they want their partners to really enjoy it too.

Again, anal may never be your thing (top or bottom). I'm just sharing my truth given what you said.
Just because you didn't enjoy a one time cock sucking encounter doesn't make you weird; rather, it makes you VERY honest. It is more a matter to figure out if your disappointment was because it was the wrong partner or perhaps the wrong activity with another guy.

Keep in mind too that given you waited SO many years for this opportunity, your expectations from years of fantasy may have over-shadowed what a real activity would be like.

Best wishes in your future sexual self-discoveries!

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I seriously doubt that all the posts from people about how wonderful cock sucking is all the time actually are being 100% honest It may make ones post turn on others, but I have my doubts.

For you, it may have been the individual you were with that did less than you imagined it to be. Who knows for sure. It also may be that there is something else that is your true trigger for m2m sex. One is never too old to figure out what exactly it is that they really want.

I may find videos or stories of cock sucking hot, but they have never done anything much for me, and I'm probably much more oriented for m2m sex than you are. I always had to jack off in a guy's mouth when he wanted my cum there. His manipulations just were never enough for me. Likewise, I don't care for teeth, or someone who is simply jacking me off with just my head in their mouth.

I also just don't care for going down on a penis either. I don't like to have someone pounding my face, nor did I ever care for the various tastes of cum.

I simply had to be honest with myself.

Now on the other hand, I also never cared to get fucked either. I did it years ago thinking I had no choice. However, one day a guy let me top him, and it was out of this world for me. To be honest, I think I knew in the back of my mind that I might like it, but it wasn't until I actually did it that I realized just how much I completely enjoyed it both physically, sexually, and emotionally.

I have ED now (which pisses me off of course), but it hasn't changed what I desire. My partner has to settle for me to finger his beautiful hole.

There is nothing more hotter than a very nice man wanting "ME" (as opposed to just any cock, etc) to be inside him. The feeling of bonding, trust, etc for a man to let me inside him means so much to me. When I could fuck that emotional high as well as the physical sensations were divine to me. I also loved to smell, finger and lick a guy's hole after I fucked him. It is the least I could do to appreciate that he let me cum in him. It wasn't anything dirty-- I had no desire to do anal if the guy wasn't clean.

I think that many of the guys who let me fuck them did so not because they just wanted any cock, but because they could figure out enough about myself to know I genuinely wanted them to have a good time, and if that meant I needed to stop for the night, or rest for a while, I would. Because above all else no matter how wonderful it was for me, if I didn't show them a good time, then "I" failed.

I think most heterosexual men probably feel the same about fucking a woman. Sure they want to get their own rocks off, but they want their partners to really enjoy it too.

Again, anal may never be your thing (top or bottom). I'm just sharing my truth given what you said.
Just because you didn't enjoy a one time cock sucking encounter doesn't make you weird; rather, it makes you VERY honest. It is more a matter to figure out if your disappointment was because it was the wrong partner or perhaps the wrong activity with another guy.

Keep in mind too that given you waited SO many years for this opportunity, your expectations from years of fantasy may have over-shadowed what a real activity would be like.

Best wishes in your future sexual self-discoveries!

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and intelligent comments. Your second last paragraph probably nails it; too much expectation. The other factor is that my fantasy has always been sharing a cock with my wife. But she won't entertain the idea. So I think it's likely that, although I went ahead, the circumstances were not those I had envisaged and therefore couldn't possibly live up to expectations.
Anyway, it's not something that sits heavily with me - I'm far more concerned about the environment! But I thank you again, sincerely, for your considered comments. There should be more like you. Take care.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and intelligent comments. Your second last paragraph probably nails it; too much expectation. The other factor is that my fantasy has always been sharing a cock with my wife. But she won't entertain the idea. So I think it's likely that, although I went ahead, the circumstances were not those I had envisaged and therefore couldn't possibly live up to expectations.
Anyway, it's not something that sits heavily with me - I'm far more concerned about the environment! But I thank you again, sincerely, for your considered comments. There should be more like you. Take care.

I agree with you that None2's comments were great. I just wanted to add my two cents...
I never get hard when I am sucking. For me, it's the satisfaction I get in making a guy grow and get hard in my mouth, and finally getting him to the finish line. I am not submissive, I just enjoy knowing that I am pleasing my partner.

For me, it's all about knowing the guy I am with. While stories about guys blowing ten guys at gloryholes are hot, it's not my style or desire. I want to meet a guy for coffee or a few beers before agreeing to be with him. It's a connection thing.

While I love to suck, I detest having my face fucked. I want to be in control. I make this clear when communicating with my partner.

Good luck in your future endeavors!!!

 

[Buscando]

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and intelligent comments. Your second last paragraph probably nails it; too much expectation. The other factor is that my fantasy has always been sharing a cock with my wife. But she won't entertain the idea. So I think it's likely that, although I went ahead, the circumstances were not those I had envisaged and therefore couldn't possibly live up to expectations.
Anyway, it's not something that sits heavily with me - I'm far more concerned about the environment! But I thank you again, sincerely, for your considered comments. There should be more like you. Take care.

The first thing I'd like to do here is to thank N2 N2 and the man who followed for their interesting, cogent and useful comments. This is the kind of thing that I really do love about this site.

Next, and this is ironic because I'd just been thinking of this aspect of our subject a day or so ago, I saw what may - or may not - also offer a clue to your disappointment contained in your response to N2.

I've noticed that a great many guys state the desire, or even requirement, that a female partner, whether wife or whomever, "make" or "direct" or in some way even "force" them to suck their first cock, or to just be there to share with them, as you stated to be your own desire.

As I say, I've often wondered after the cause for that, thinking it to be somewhat counterintuitive, since most of us did or would want to try this entirely on our own, for a variety of reasons.

My theory is that in such cases the guy knows what he desires, generally speaking, but is having a hard time reconciling that because of all the previous "training" we've received in our lives in this society, telling us how evil and horrible and non-masculine even these thoughts and fantasies are. The result being that he might be able to, first, accomplish the actual act, and then to live with it afterward if he felt that he hadn't actually done it all on his own.

That's, again, just a tentative theory, and I'm happy to hear other's opinions on this as well.

My own first experience was with a bi married couple, and it was in every way a genuine and huge stroke of luck, since it not only made it all in some ways easier, I suppose, but an incredibly erotic and altogether satisfying night as well.

I remember doing some self-examination on the way home the next morning, naturally, and I found that I was in every way good with it all, and as a matter of fact found myself asking, "Wow! What the hell took you so long?"

I had been exploring a lot in other directions, though, as in with other solo males, and I have no doubt that if a different opportunity had presented itself first, I would have taken it. But then that's just me. Your mileage may vary.

Again, I'm just tossing the idea out there as a theory. Not gospel.

 

[Pines]

I think alot of older men become bi curious because they may have had an experience earlier in life. Many teenage guys have masturbated together with a friend or acquaintance back then. Then life comes along, marriage, raising a family and so on. Then as the years go by they think, hey I'd like to try that again. So you have quite a few men willing to further explore their sexual needs and desires.

 

[meflash]

I think alot of older men become bi curious because they may have had an experience earlier in life. Many teenage guys have masturbated together with a friend or acquaintance back then. Then life comes along, marriage, raising a family and so on. Then as the years go by they think, hey I'd like to try that again. So you have quite a few men willing to further explore their sexual needs and desires.

this was my experience in my early teens when I and 2 buddies would exchange BJs. The next time I gave my next BJ I was 50 and in the process of getting divorced. Now my favorite sex act is giving BJs and I get to enjoy more sex now the last few years then I had in my 25 marriage.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

about sucking cock for years before I actually did it. And when I finally did, it did nothing for me. I was/am so disappointed. I still look at cock on here and appreciate a lot of them, I can jerk off with someone on here, chatting about cock, but actually doing it? Didn't even make me hard. Some of you will think I'm weird and I certainly know I'm unusual, given posts on here, but there you go. My loss perhaps.

That probably where the reality didn't meet up with the fantasy... we tend to think of thing sin those rose colored glasses. You probably aren't alone with that, but no harm still enjoying the fantasies

 

[Pines]

That probably where the reality didn't meet up with the fantasy... we tend to think of thing sin those rose colored glasses. You probably aren't alone with that, but no harm still enjoying the fantasies

I agree completely. Enjoy the moment and enjoy the orgasm.

 

[smooth-boy]

When I finally sucked cock, I completely gave up pussy and haven't looked back.

 

[dacoach44]

Good boi.........

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