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Why do older men become bi-curious?

bikurinpa said:
I was married 28 yrs when she passed away, live alone, and been trying to find a bi male who is discreet and wants friendship as well is totally impossible to find around here!
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How hard are you trying... If you really want to start a discrete Bisexual M/M relationship, and your computer is turned on. by mid-day or earlier you'll be chatting with someone..
It's all in your desire to make it happen

Why do older men become bi....internet porn :cool:
 
klippert said:
How hard are you trying... If you really want to start a discrete Bisexual M/M relationship, and your computer is turned on. by mid-day or earlier you'll be chatting with someone..
It's all in your desire to make it happen

Why do older men become bi....internet porn :cool:
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Agree with you, Klippert, but I'd add another factor: working from home, alone. Internet porn and working at home in an often emplty house give me more time than I should probably use to view, fantasize and sometimes act on the porn and chat sites I frequent . . .
 
prof39 said:
I'm stuck, like many others, in an otherwise happy marriage that menopause hit very hard. I continued non-painful oral sex for a while but now that's gone too. I'm horny and need relief but don't want to flash her with a throbbing hard-on so try and be discrete - but every now and again get 'caught' hot and hard.
Do you guys in similar situations hide as you spill your cum load?
Say what the hell and jack off whenever you need to - whether she's there or not?
Curious and would like to compare notes with other older horny males....
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I know what you mean prof. Although I was always curious and have an overactive imagination, it does seem like the libido builds and needs to escape somehow. Less (or no) activity within the marriage can leave us wanting. And bi-sexual curiosities always seem to bubble up, especially for us little guys with latent sissy tendencies.
 
Well prof....

LanaBehave said:
I know what you mean prof. Although I was always curious and have an overactive imagination, it does seem like the libido builds and needs to escape somehow. Less (or no) activity within the marriage can leave us wanting. And bi-sexual curiosities always seem to bubble up, especially for us little guys with latent sissy tendencies.
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I would be straight up about it. She knows you love to get off. My dame helps me buy panties and bra, but she is fucking me silly. I just like the idea of some cock every now and then, even if online.

Not many post-menopausal women care for sex, it seems to me. They should understand we need relief, without wrecking the marriage.
 
Need for discretion?

prof39 said:
I'm stuck, like many others, in an otherwise happy marriage that menopause hit very hard. I continued non-painful oral sex for a while but now that's gone too. I'm horny and need relief but don't want to flash her with a throbbing hard-on so try and be discrete - but every now and again get 'caught' hot and hard.
Do you guys in similar situations hide as you spill your cum load?
Say what the hell and jack off whenever you need to - whether she's there or not?
Curious and would like to compare notes with other older horny males....
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Well Prof, I can easily relate, since my last marriage was sexless for some time before we finally split up, primarily - but not entirely, to be fair - to a meno that hit early and hard, and didn't respond to any of the standard remedies. Her accompanying weight gain was substantial as well, which wasn't good for either of us.
But be all that as it may, with your situation, it's not clear why you "...don't want to flash her with a throbbing hard-on so try and be discrete..."
Are you just no longer intimate with each other at all? Was there a time when you would mutually masturbate each other, or would either of you masturbate in front of the other as a part of your playtime together?
If so, well what's changed now in that respect? She must be aware of your needs (assuming you're talking), and so I'd think she'd be understanding of your pleasuring yourself, and think lovingly of you for doing so.
If not, perhaps there may have been some latent problems early on that were just never addressed?
The fact that you feel the need to hide your very normal sexual activity from her, wouldn't seem to be the healthiest thing for either of you. I'd suggest some straight-ahead conversation about your shared situation and the thoughts and feelings you've both been wrestling with, albeit alone, as the best means to avoid some serious and marriage-destructive problems in the future.
Either way, though, if you're feeling some degree of bi-curiosity, that's a whole different issue, and why not just give it a shot (so to speak)? It's not fatal, and need not be life-changing, unless you want it to be.
If you find you enjoy it ... then go ahead; enjoy it! Can you find any reasonable or logical reason why not? It's just something you try, like anything else, and if you find that you don't like it, well, as with anything else, just don't do it again. It's just sex. It ain't gonna kill you. And like so many of the other guys whose experiences you read about in here (including me), you just may find yourself asking "What the hell took me so long?"
In any case, I'm sure that there are many of those here who have been in the same place(s) that you're in for the moment, and we're all hoping that you're also able to work it all out for the best, whatever that may be.
 
dacoach44 said:
Not many post-menopausal women care for sex, it seems to me. They should understand we need relief, without wrecking the marriage.
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And yet they seemingly do not. I have become more active online here and another site, and it's just amazing how common it is for men to be cut off. Not even a, "I'm not all that interested, but I'll give you a this or a that." Instead, it's, "Nope, too bad, dude, I'm not interested and you're SOL."

I know I've tried to get that to change to no avail and being that I'm no longer in my 20s, doing a Spike Lee, "Please, baby, please," in my own house is not how I'm going to live. So here we are getting relief in multiple ways online and sometimes, maybe a lot of times, elsewhere.
 
So tragic...........

mrmiwon said:
And yet they seemingly do not. I have become more active online here and another site, and it's just amazing how common it is for men to be cut off. Not even a, "I'm not all that interested, but I'll give you a this or a that." Instead, it's, "Nope, too bad, dude, I'm not interested and you're SOL."

I know I've tried to get that to change to no avail and being that I'm no longer in my 20s, doing a Spike Lee, "Please, baby, please," in my own house is not how I'm going to live. So here we are getting relief in multiple ways online and sometimes, maybe a lot of times, elsewhere.
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If you did a dude, in whatever role, the marriage isnt really threatened. I date sissies and CD's, most married. Just want some fun; no commitment.
 
Dreamer110 said:
That is part of it but I'm not sure.
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For us in the older generation... growing up, sex was a taboo not to be discussed in the open, and anything other than mf sex was verboten... We get older and realize that maybe there isn't really a taboo to it... especially seeing what the internet has to offer in porn these days and how wide open the younger generation is... it all gives a bit of a normalcy to being curious.
 
yes

CuriousGuyVa said:
For us in the older generation... growing up, sex was a taboo not to be discussed in the open, and anything other than mf sex was verboten... We get older and realize that maybe there isn't really a taboo to it... especially seeing what the internet has to offer in porn these days and how wide open the younger generation is... it all gives a bit of a normalcy to being curious.
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I agree completely. I don't really spend much time wondering why, but I love to think about it and chat with like minded guys.
 
All true........

prowood said:
I agree completely. I don't really spend much time wondering why, but I love to think about it and chat with like minded guys.
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Dont forget the fact that the post menopausal wife dont wanna fuck.
 
You ain't getting any younger

So here's my question, guys: Really, what the hell are you waiting for? Chances of the day coming when you're kicked back in the old Lazy Boy, chokin' the chicken, and the doorbell rings and you answer to find a beaming face there who declares,"Dude! I'm here to suck your cock, and I hope you'll suck mine too!" are just not very good, are they?

You've just got to quit dabbing your toe in the water ... and take the plunge. Take an afternoon or an evening and get together with someone - whether it's someone like yourself, who's also inexperienced, or a guy who's past curious and just loves to suck and be sucked. He'll be happy to help you.

Then at least you'll know whether you like it or not and you can stop with all the angst. If you don't care to do it again, so what? Just don't do it anymore. You're still the same guy shaving the same face in the morning, right? My own life's road is littered with stuff I tried and didn't care to repeat; like golf or canasta.

But there's this to think about if it helps: When you think about all the hundreds of accounts you've read and heard, here and other places, of guys sucking their first cock, how many have you heard say, "Oh! Never again. I hated it. Why did I ever want to do that?" Hell, I've never heard a man who was even ambivalent about it, as in, "Ahh, I can take it or leave it." Nope, virtually every account, at least in my memory, is much more like, "Wow! I loved it right from the start. I knew I should have tried this a long time ago, and I hate to think about what I've been missing all this time."

Be brutally honest with yourself. Every day look in the mirror and ask, "If you really want this, what have you done today to make it happen?"

"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt." ~ Wm. Shakespeare
 
O hell yes...

Buscando said:
So here's my question, guys: Really, what the hell are you waiting for? Chances of the day coming when you're kicked back in the old Lazy Boy, chokin' the chicken, and the doorbell rings and you answer to find a beaming face there who declares,"Dude! I'm here to suck your cock, and I hope you'll suck mine too!" are just not very good, are they?

You've just got to quit dabbing your toe in the water ... and take the plunge. Take an afternoon or an evening and get together with someone - whether it's someone like yourself, who's also inexperienced, or a guy who's past curious and just loves to suck and be sucked. He'll be happy to help you.

Then at least you'll know whether you like it or not and you can stop with all the angst. If you don't care to do it again, so what? Just don't do it anymore. You're still the same guy shaving the same face in the morning, right? My own life's road is littered with stuff I tried and didn't care to repeat; like golf or canasta.

But there's this to think about if it helps: When you think about all the hundreds of accounts you've read and heard, here and other places, of guys sucking their first cock, how many have you heard say, "Oh! Never again. I hated it. Why did I ever want to do that?" Hell, I've never heard a man who was even ambivalent about it, as in, "Ahh, I can take it or leave it." Nope, virtually every account, at least in my memory, is much more like, "Wow! I loved it right from the start. I knew I should have tried this a long time ago, and I hate to think about what I've been missing all this time."

Be brutally honest with yourself. Every day look in the mirror and ask, "If you really want this, what have you done today to make it happen?"

"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt." ~ Wm. Shakespeare
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Its only a cock...........we know what it does.
 
Why older men?

Because their desire for variety finally overcums their homophobia.
 
As for me, at 74...

PG564E said:
Having some jack off buddies when I was growing up was a lot of fun not only because I had ejaculations from their hands, I liked making them cum also and marveled at the fact that no two dicks are the same, soft or hard. I had only one instance where I had an erection in my mouth and I did not follow through and really suck it good.
Girls came into my life and the following decades sex for me was all about pussy. As I got older those long ago memories seemed to come to life. I began reading and watching bisexual porn and got up the nerve to start tasting my own sperm.
I liked it - a lot!
The taste, the taboo aspect, and the desire to suck dick grew stronger by the month.
I drank my own semen all the time then (and now) and it is thrilling when I give a guy a blow job and the first blast of warm thick cum shoots from his cock makes me feel wonderful. I absolutely love everything about giving head, licking and kissing balls, swallowing cum, and more.
So my memories led to the curiosity, which led to obsessive desire, which led to craving cock to the absolute NEED TO FULFILL THIS DESIRE.
Age is just a number, and male on male sex is my preference. Giving oral pleasure is the most intimate sexual act a man can give to another man in my opinion. I am now an avid cock sucker and nothing is going to change that.
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I see many marriages without passion or sex. I have dated CD's for 5 years; its fun and I saw it as "marriage insurance." I would not blame any man for seeking excitement with another man. The stigma of gay is not as painful as it used to be.

I am lucky to have stumbled onto a lovely woman who is as sexed as I am. To keep her, and not hurt her, I will likely give up my sissy/CD fantasies. But if a man is healthy, takes care of wife and kids; I see no reason why he cannot find pleasure with another man. The drama of an affair is not there.
 
Having a JO buddy just seems like a very cool way to spend an afternoon to get off while watching porn or swapping wife pictures
 
I just thought of something

for most of us gf 1.0 is hot and adventurous but upgrade to wife 2.0 and she seems to lose a lot of that and even when we get sex it is US doing all the work, or 80% of it. If you risk an affair you are probably gonna end up in divorce court or worse. (there are some men) but women are to emotional and eventually will let it slip or want way more than you want to offer. With another guy it offers the prospect (at least to us uninitiated) for some reciprocal fun with someone who will keep his mouth shut. I call that Operational Security. I have kept secrets about things my whole life and doubt I'd ever bring them up now. My humble opinion
 
I live in Canada and I used to date a lot of white Canadian women,
One day I thought I was chatting with a girl but when he touched a wrong button and turned his cam on, I saw a bald old man looking for my cock to suck at his home.
It was like a shock for me.
After that, I asked myself what if I do more than him, dressing up will help me and will encourage me to explore a male's body and how to feel like a real woman,
I started dressing up, dating horny white males
Now, I will live my life only with a horny white male
:kiss::rose::heart:
 
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