wife with other men

Just gotta bump my favorite thread to the top....hoping to get some more female input...so ladies Please contribute! WE want and need your input into sharing...
 
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wishfulsynfull said:
I love having another man join us in bed.My wife loves the pleasure two men can give her.

Hi wishful! When did you last share your wife.....and do you both have a say in picking him out?
 
Doctor Joe said:
Just gotta bump my favorite thread to the top....hoping to get some more female input...so ladies Please contribute! WE want and need your input into sharing...

Doc's right, cum on girls let's have your ideas on this, positive or negative, it's a matter of interest as well as sexual arousal... I must see if Julie has any more comments she'd like to make and talk her into posting again maybe.
 
wishfulsynfull said:
I love having another man join us in bed.My wife loves the pleasure two men can give her.

And I love joining a couple in bed...an extra set of hands, tongue, and cock really elevate the pleasure.
 
hmmm

Ok.......I have read this entire thread very carefully. It just so happens that my husband REALLY wants me to start fucking random guys whenever I go out with my friends and then coming home and telling him all about it. I never thought he was serious at all!! Maybe I was wrong hmm? He started talking about this after we went to a club with a couple (Chris & Stacy) that I used to work with. They have been swingers for years but we never had tried it. We all went to a club, got completely smashed and after much flirting, kissing, licking and touching, we ended up at their house. Their roomate (female) was home and we all just ended up in bed together. My husband was getting his dick sucked by Stacy while he watched me get fucked by Chris. The roomate joined in and I got my first experience with licking :cattail: It was all very exciting and we switched off back and forth so much, it was hard to keep up with all of it. It was a little strange the next day....but we both soon got over that. My husband and I will talk about how much we liked it while we are fucking. I dunno about going out on my own though....I think that I would like to do it and come home and tell him all about it, I think I would like it very much :devil: guess I am just waiting to hear the " you can BUT...." What do yall think?
 
Hornywench said:
Ok.......I have read this entire thread very carefully. It just so happens that my husband REALLY wants me to start fucking random guys whenever I go out with my friends and then coming home and telling him all about it. I never thought he was serious at all!! Maybe I was wrong hmm? He started talking about this after we went to a club with a couple (Chris & Stacy) that I used to work with. They have been swingers for years but we never had tried it. We all went to a club, got completely smashed and after much flirting, kissing, licking and touching, we ended up at their house. Their roomate (female) was home and we all just ended up in bed together. My husband was getting his dick sucked by Stacy while he watched me get fucked by Chris. The roomate joined in and I got my first experience with licking :cattail: It was all very exciting and we switched off back and forth so much, it was hard to keep up with all of it. It was a little strange the next day....but we both soon got over that. My husband and I will talk about how much we liked it while we are fucking. I dunno about going out on my own though....I think that I would like to do it and come home and tell him all about it, I think I would like it very much :devil: guess I am just waiting to hear the " you can BUT...." What do yall think?


Ok Hornywench... "You can... BUT" Now go get laid girl :devil:

Serious note!! I think you have the right attitude to go through with this dear lady, you enjoyed the swing sex with little real aprehension at the time or recrimination and regret later... Your husband wants this to happen, he would have stopped talking about it after the swing session with your friends otherwise... If he'd been phased out by your sex play with the other guy and girls like... The "BUT" of course is, 'But' be very careful about going out alone to try this game with strangers, which you already know and are thinking of I believe... I think the idea arouses the hell out of you, but the danger element worries you... Julie often goes out and pulls a stranger, but never completely alone, she's always in the company of friends who we trust to look after her interests, or I escort her as far as the pick up location then keep a remote eye on her from a hidden or discreet vantage point as she flirts her way to a pick-up... Of course the voyeur in me :devil: as well as the protective hubby bit :) makes me follow if possible to be as close to her as I can while she's being fucked by the guy, or guy's, she picks up... Maybe your hubby would like to escort you and keep an eye on things from a distance, or would you prefer to be out of hubby's sight and mind when you get laid?

Have you or hubby no trusted male friends who could be seduced into having sex with you so hubby could be told the filthy lovely details later with less risk all round??
 
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re "Mikeman's" reply to "Hornywench"

Your comment, Mikeman: ". . . The protective hubby bit makes me follow if possible to be as close to her as I can while she's being fucked by the guy, or guy's, she picks up... Maybe your hubby would like to escort you and keep an eye on things from a distance, or would you prefer to be out of hubby's sight and mind when you get laid?" is good advice.

Hornywench, since the endgame for your husband is to live the whole experience through you, and for you to join in his most erotic, marriage-ensuring fantasies, you have three basic options--which I can only surmise from personal experience: 1.) Your being alone with your lover, then relating all to Hubby afterward; 2.) Letting him witness all from a distance, anonymous to your lover/s; and 3.) Having him present with your lover as voyeur or partner.

Being alone with your lover, then relating the whole incident to him afterward is exciting for both of you (for me, it was like the anxious anticipation at home of getting ready for a first date with the girl of my secret, nocturnal dreams). Your husband will become anxious as the time he expected you to be gone lengthens. He'll wonder what you're doing, if you are doing what he suggested, hoping you won't disappoint him, then the thought overcoming him that you must be enjoying your new lover, not thinkng of him. All the while he'll be missing you, rediscovering how much he loves you, feeling at once on the brink of a precipace (of his own making) and joyous that he is alive--living a mystery and a fantasy at the same time. His sexual tension will mount apace with his anxiety. When you get home, he'll be all over you, immediately wanting you to sit on him, drawing you down on him and slowly thrusting as deeply as he can into you, holding your hips hard onto him and impetuously interrupting your narrative with hungry, thankful kisses on your mouth as you reveal something you did with your lover that is so perfect a fantasy for your husband that he will want to relive it over and over through the years while making love to you and you again answer all his questions and repeat for him the little unexpected things that at the same time it twisted his gut with jealousy for a moment, satisfies his need on hearing it to feel in lightning-quick succesion, a sweet, temporary forsaking of you for another, relief that you were fulfilled, pride in his woman (you) and gratitude that you have returned to him, your husband. Then, in the shared intimacy of your cunt intimately cuddling his cock inside you and his ache to pierce you to your throat, to lick his own cock coming from the back of your mouth, will blossom in him a heretofore unguessed lust, an exponentially increased pride, a mounting gratitude and a deepening appreciation of you.

For the man, watching at a distance is scary and unbearably erotic. He listens, feels protective, wants desperately to push you, coach you to do more, and is shocked that you so easily initiate the caress, stand to pull your panties off, suck the other man into your mouth and give your breast to him, holding it with one hand while you bring his head to you, that you do little things for your new lover that you've refused your husband--that you mount him without a condum, kiss and lick under his balls, enjoy his kissing in your ear (which you shy away from when your husband does it), let him fuck you in your anus (even raise your bottom to help), show him his semen on your tongue and then let him see how you savor it as you pridefully swallow. Your husband will love it all.

Please note--eventually your husband will come around to wanting to be present, the closer the better. Speaking for myself, it took me a while to make the leap from voyeur to unabashed, only slightly awkward step-downer (someone who wants to see another man take the responsability for satisfying and thrilling his wife/mate--a man who wants sloppy seconds. He especially wants to see her carried way, hear her cries of pleasureand the compliments she gives her lover on every aspect of his body and performance. Afterward, he wants to draw into his lungs the tantalizing mix of the lover's aromas and her scent--that exquisite elexir of unknown sweat, semen . . . with his wife's perfume, her hair and breath. That concotion is aphrodisiac beyond reason. It took me a while to get over the shyness. Eventually, as you've read in my previous contributions to this thread, you'll see that I became--as will your husband--a full-blown, comfortable extension of you in the experience.

Take it in stages. Let it be him who discovers that the closer he is the better; let him think it is his choice to carry things further.
 
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Thanks :)

Thanks for your input guys. I showed my husband what yall wrote and we seriously started discussing things......needless to say things got very hot very fast. I am going out tomorrow night with a group of friends for a kind of business dinner and there is a guy that is going who is definitely interested in being more than just a business associate. I think I will probably just take things kinda slow, get my feet wet ;) or something wet anyway. Will let you know how things go if you want. Thanks again, reading your posts helped us to decide that this is really what we want to do :D
 
Hornywench, we'd LOVE to hear your stories (if you'd care to share!)
I'd also like to hear from your hubby's viepoint...how hot it makes him to know that you might be seduced....or shared.....

Please keep the thread going and keep us informed??

Your voyeuristic friendly Doctor Joe
 
Dave32111 said:
mmm great thread! Would love to hear more, or see or participate!

:nana: :cattail: :nana:

Shame you're so far away, we're often looking for new participants to spice things up a bit for Julie :p :)
 
Go for it Hornywench -- I'm sure your husband is serious about being turned on by the thought.

For me, the scenario where my wife would go out and get fucked and then talk about it is, while related, a different one than the thrill from being present and/or participating in the act. Where the fucking is off-stage, as it were, it creates a whole interesting mash-up of imagination, desire, uncertainty as well as evoking a whole stewpot of emotions. What's nice about it is that the husband is unsure of what is going on. So I'd advise teasing your husband when you come home from being with friends whether or not you've been with another man. You can imagine how. Tell him you may not be able to tell him the first couple of times your with someone else -- until you are comfortable with it.

Sorry this is so disconnected -- but you get the idea, I'm sure.
 
Mac_Flecknoe said:
Go for it Hornywench -- I'm sure your husband is serious about being turned on by the thought.

For me, the scenario where my wife would go out and get fucked and then talk about it is, while related, a different one than the thrill from being present and/or participating in the act. Where the fucking is off-stage, as it were, it creates a whole interesting mash-up of imagination, desire, uncertainty as well as evoking a whole stewpot of emotions. What's nice about it is that the husband is unsure of what is going on. So I'd advise teasing your husband when you come home from being with friends whether or not you've been with another man. You can imagine how. Tell him you may not be able to tell him the first couple of times your with someone else -- until you are comfortable with it.

Sorry this is so disconnected -- but you get the idea, I'm sure.

You are so right Mac about the trill of knowing she's likely to be at it with another guy, or in my wife Julie's case possibly 'other guy's' plural, but not being 100% certain, maybe she didn't pull a guy, maybe she did, perhaps he's fucking her, perhaps not... What is happening out there, you sit with a hard cock one minute visualising what he's doing to her, a soft member the next minute cos you can't be sure anyone's doing anything to your wife... You can't wait for her to arrive home so you can ask and be told one way or the other... Excitement if she launches into a filthy no holds barred description of everything she did with her lover/lover's while climbing all over you sexing you up to sample her soaking wet loose orifice freshly fucked by somone else... disapointment if she just waves an arm and says "it was crap, no one about, didn't even get a kiss and cuddle"... or briefly relates a piss poor session with some guy she'd expected to perform better, "fucking useless, he only lasted 3 minutes, not worth talking about" she says and stomps off to shower in a huff of frustration.

Yes Hornywench, tease hubby a little, he'll love it, not too much though or he'll think you are seriously trying to pull the wool over his eyes... Now go get fucked girl and tell us all about it :devil: :p :)
 
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sexy_baby said:
I think a lot of your wives will be having major doubts and need a lot of seduction into this lovely lifetyle.

so now you know a bit of our history, I supppose you want to know how did it, and does it, feel being passed round other men and allowed to fuck who I please when I please.

I did need it badly, I was and still am a very over sexed woman, mike has always been more than adequate in bed, but no one man could ever give me the full sexual satisfaction I need sometimes, I can fuck for many hours and still not be satisfied, I find myself craving sex and frustrated as hell when I can’t gain satisfation, call me a nympho slut if you like, but that’s just the way I am and I can’t alter it.

what you guys have to ask yourseves before you get her into this is, can you really handle it, no way back once it begins with some women, especially natural born sluts like me. you might think it fun until she starts coming home from nights out with her friends with her cunt all wet and sloppy where she’s been putting it about out of your sight. she might not want to stop once she’s started, you won’t be able to stop her if she gets bitten by the bug. we women can be very restrained and controlled, a lifetime of boring marriage is acceptable because that’s the way it’s always been, but show some of us the other possiblities and look out guys, even the most sedate and clean living woman can turn into a slut once bitten by the bug. i’ve seen it so many times, guys who i’ve played with behind their wife’s back have decided to get her into the fun only to find she wants a lot more fun than he bargained for. i’ve seen previously straight laced women and religious natured females turned into sex crazed sluts by unthinking husbands. I was lucky, mine wanted a sex crazed slut wife, and he’s got one, lol!!

julie xxx
Hi Julie,
You make a very good point here, the guy thinks it will be fun to share his g/f or wife but how many times does he call a halt to the action after a few times. I have been happy with just 1 man for so long, but now that I have ventured out in the MMFF sex, Im ready to let it happen again. Looking forward to it actually.
so be careful guys, this is for real.
sexy_baby[/QUOTE]

I have read this entire thread, and I WAS a husband that enjoyed my wife getting fucked by others. But, the above warning is true. My wife and I had been married about 6 years when I started encouraging her to suck dick and fuck around. She was a hot hispanic, catholic girl w/ serious sexual oppression issues. It started w/ her mentioning that she thought a guy was attractive -- and slowly it built from there. I encouraged her to tell me her true sexual feelings. It made me rock hard when she talked about wanting to suck off another guy.

Slowly she started. First she would come home a little late, and tell me about sucking a guy off in his car after work. How he had pulled her hair and humped her mouth.

Then she started going to clubs with her friends. She would come back the next day and tell me about going to a frat house w/ a guy and getting fucked 4 times in one night.

Finally, she would stay gone for a few days at a time. I found a girlfriend and we slowly grew apart. But I never tired of her stories. I loved to fuck her, knowing another man's dick had been in her earlier that day.

We never pulled off the MMF or MFF, although I did try.

I am glad we are divorced now. But, I would have been happier had she became a slut w/ me involved.

Me, personally, I want a slut. I don't want a woman that "proper" or uptight. I want a woman that WANTS COCK. A woman that isn't afraid to get it, but I would also like that woman to love me, to want me to be adventeruous w/ her.
 
New guy on the block

:) This is exciting stuff! I only wish my wife would be that slut I want her to be. Well, I will keep reading and you guys keep fucking. If ever in the Denver area - hit me up!!!
 
hey would all of you that practice this wife being a slut post some real pics,i find it thrilling as hell.i really like it when there is a pic of a wife holding another guys cock and you can see her wedding ring as hubby takes pic
 
Who would have thought?

I never thought this thred would take off like this when I started it. I'm glad to see everyone enjoying themselves. I hope to hear more from the ladies.
When I was married to my first wife I had a strange experience. Our relationship was a bit weak and she would, on ocasion, go out after work without me. She was an incredibly sexy woman who knew how to use it. I'm convinced she could have given Michaelangelo's "David" an erection.
Anyway, there I was, alone around midnight in the middle of the work week. She hadn't come home and I couldn't sleep. It was a warm summer nite. I got out of bed and poured myself a glass of scotch. I always slept without clothes. I went out onto the patio to get some air, neighbors couldnt see even if they were awake so i didn't put any clothes on. I sat there feeling totaly helpless. At the time I was a jealous control freek. My mind was racing thinking about what she was doing. I was heart broken at the thought of my wife with another man. There was a strange feeling welling up from deep within me. My cock began to throb, I had not realized I even had an erection and yet there it was pulsing and leaking like never before. I soon realized how the thought of my wife's infidelity had me trembling with excitement. I barely touched it as my fingers traced the glistening trail of precum down my shaft when I suddenly and involentarily erupted all over my chest and stomach.
I guess I was hooked.
 
kingtutt1000 said:
hey would all of you that practice this wife being a slut post some real pics,i find it thrilling as hell.i really like it when there is a pic of a wife holding another guys cock and you can see her wedding ring as hubby takes pic

Sorry mate mine won't allow that kind of pic to be taken, (well there are a couple when she was too drunk to realise I was photographing her :devil: ) and certainly wouldn't allow me to post one like it here... I posted two pics of her a while back up this thread, but just normal everyday flirting slut wife pics :D , no sex act taking place.... You'll have a job to get many genuine swingers to post real pics of the wife's bits being done by another man anyway in public... Wish a few would though :devil:
 
conquen said:
I never thought this thred would take off like this when I started it. I'm glad to see everyone enjoying themselves. I hope to hear more from the ladies.
When I was married to my first wife I had a strange experience. Our relationship was a bit weak and she would, on ocasion, go out after work without me. She was an incredibly sexy woman who knew how to use it. I'm convinced she could have given Michaelangelo's "David" an erection.
Anyway, there I was, alone around midnight in the middle of the work week. She hadn't come home and I couldn't sleep. It was a warm summer nite. I got out of bed and poured myself a glass of scotch. I always slept without clothes. I went out onto the patio to get some air, neighbors couldnt see even if they were awake so i didn't put any clothes on. I sat there feeling totaly helpless. At the time I was a jealous control freek. My mind was racing thinking about what she was doing. I was heart broken at the thought of my wife with another man. There was a strange feeling welling up from deep within me. My cock began to throb, I had not realized I even had an erection and yet there it was pulsing and leaking like never before. I soon realized how the thought of my wife's infidelity had me trembling with excitement. I barely touched it as my fingers traced the glistening trail of precum down my shaft when I suddenly and involentarily erupted all over my chest and stomach.
I guess I was hooked.

Thanks for starting the thread and giving some of us somewhere to air our wild ways and some to air their wild dreams.

The way your fascination with the wife getting it elsewhere began is very common my friend, a lot of wife sharing begins as infidelity on one partners part... My fascination grew as I watched Julie flirting with other guys at dances and parties, not infidelity as such, but close to foreplay at times, horny tart :D it grew and grew as the events went by and she played her flirting games unhindered by me... the more freedom I gave her the worse she got bless her... the worse she got the harder my cock would get watching her play... until eventually I could take no more and set her up to be seduced so I could watch the real thing, and boy did I enjoy it. :devil:
 
Huzzah! Congratulations, Conquen. Indeed, you are a writer!

You wrote the account of you in the back yard waiting for your wife to return from who knows what adventure as the memory came to you--wonderfully erotic! Douglas (MilkFountain)
 
There were several other such instances with my x. I never told her how I felt. I guess I wasn’t really sure how I felt. We were only in our 20’s. I was sexually immature. She once asked me if I ever masturbated, I lied and said no. She wanted to watch me but I was too uptight. Now I love to demonstrate for a willing audience.
My current wife is even more beautiful than my x though not as sexual, although she most definitely was at one time. I once asked her to tell me her fantasies, hoping for something graphic. All she had for me was making love under a waterfall with me. I guess I shouldn’t complain. When she asked me mine I replied. “Watching you……..have sex.” There was no response from her although she appeared in thought.
She joked around about it about two weeks later when we were talking about an old boyfriend of hers. She said I would have liked him. I asked if she thought I would like him enough to let him fuck my wife. She just smiled and changed the subject. That was probably a year ago. There have been two occasions since then which makes me think this may still be a possibility. Not with him but perhaps someone. She has a wonderfully dark erotic side that slips out when least expected. Now I have to figure out how to nurture it.
 
conquen said:
There were several other such instances with my x. I never told her how I felt. I guess I wasn’t really sure how I felt. We were only in our 20’s. I was sexually immature. She once asked me if I ever masturbated, I lied and said no. She wanted to watch me but I was too uptight. Now I love to demonstrate for a willing audience.
My current wife is even more beautiful than my x though not as sexual, although she most definitely was at one time. I once asked her to tell me her fantasies, hoping for something graphic. All she had for me was making love under a waterfall with me. I guess I shouldn’t complain. When she asked me mine I replied. “Watching you……..have sex.” There was no response from her although she appeared in thought.
She joked around about it about two weeks later when we were talking about an old boyfriend of hers. She said I would have liked him. I asked if she thought I would like him enough to let him fuck my wife. She just smiled and changed the subject. That was probably a year ago. There have been two occasions since then which makes me think this may still be a possibility. Not with him but perhaps someone. She has a wonderfully dark erotic side that slips out when least expected. Now I have to figure out how to nurture it.

With great care conquen my friend, nuture it with great care and tenderness... Keep plugging away at the idea of a voyeuristic kink in your nature with the same kind of hints to her, but not too often as to alarm her, and let her dark side do the fantasising and conditioning of her own mind and feelings on the subject... if she's for turning it will happen, if not love and enjoy her as she is my friend.
 
conquen said:
There were several other such instances with my x. I never told her how I felt. I guess I wasn’t really sure how I felt. We were only in our 20’s. I was sexually immature. She once asked me if I ever masturbated, I lied and said no. She wanted to watch me but I was too uptight. Now I love to demonstrate for a willing audience.
My current wife is even more beautiful than my x though not as sexual, although she most definitely was at one time. I once asked her to tell me her fantasies, hoping for something graphic. All she had for me was making love under a waterfall with me. I guess I shouldn’t complain. When she asked me mine I replied. “Watching you……..have sex.” There was no response from her although she appeared in thought.
She joked around about it about two weeks later when we were talking about an old boyfriend of hers. She said I would have liked him. I asked if she thought I would like him enough to let him fuck my wife. She just smiled and changed the subject. That was probably a year ago. There have been two occasions since then which makes me think this may still be a possibility. Not with him but perhaps someone. She has a wonderfully dark erotic side that slips out when least expected. Now I have to figure out how to nurture it.
I'm sure there are some x-rated features that mirror your desires - does she enjoy watching a movie with you? That could be a good place to start as well. Good luck - and do keep up with your fantasies and true life - very exciting *s* - and if you need help with her anytime... :nana:
 
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