wife with other men

[stonedme2mysole]

Great Thread ! add me to the list

Id love to either see my wife in action or have her tell me all about after she was a 'bad girl'

I used to think this was a very strange fantasy and felt a bit of conflict whenever I thought about this scenerio and became aroused. Thanks to the internet and sites and boards like this though, I have come to realize that its actually a pretty common fantasy for men !

I wonder if its the number one fantasy and most men are afraid to admit it ?

What do you think ?

 

[Detom]

Where are all these women in Australia?

Wow what a great land of opportunity the USA is

 

[mikemann]

Id love to either see my wife in action or have her tell me all about after she was a 'bad girl'

I used to think this was a very strange fantasy and felt a bit of conflict whenever I thought about this scenerio and became aroused. Thanks to the internet and sites and boards like this though, I have come to realize that its actually a pretty common fantasy for men !

I wonder if its the number one fantasy and most men are afraid to admit it ?

What do you think ?

Most men at some time in their married/attached life, often in a drunken state develop a fascination with seeing their wife/partner pleasured by another, or others, most of those 'most' never attemtp to do anything about it for fear of the wife's reaction to her hubby telling her she can shag another bloke ot two if she wants to... Some of us, the lucky ones, with a wife or partner who's game for some fun go through with it... Some of us 'some' become sick with jealousy and guilt and wish we'd never done it, or the wife finds she didn't like it and won't do it again... A few of us 'some' find it's the most arousing and satisfying thing we've ever done in our boring life up to that point, and our lovely slutty wife loved it, so we carry on and never want it to end

 

[stonedme2mysole]

Yeah

Im hoping that im part of the 'some' that finds they like this lifesyle and that my wife enjoys it !

I am worried that she might think I have an agenda and that I just want to fool around myself, which is certainly not true... Also, I just know she would be worried that others might find out and what they would think of her...

Lucky for me, she is a huge flirt and is feeling pretty confident about herself these days and has really surprised me in the past with her willingness to go beyond the normal boundries ! We are at the point where she can make comments about other men freely without me being jealous...

Im a patient man and am not pushing it though, so meanwhile its just a big old fantasy for me

 

[mikemann]

Im hoping that im part of the 'some' that finds they like this lifesyle and that my wife enjoys it !

I am worried that she might think I have an agenda and that I just want to fool around myself, which is certainly not true... Also, I just know she would be worried that others might find out and what they would think of her...

Lucky for me, she is a huge flirt and is feeling pretty confident about herself these days and has really surprised me in the past with her willingness to go beyond the normal boundries ! We are at the point where she can make comments about other men freely without me being jealous...

Im a patient man and am not pushing it though, so meanwhile its just a big old fantasy for me

Keep hold of your fantasy friend, and keep hold of your cock while fantasising

On a serious note, it sounds as though your lady could be for turning with the right approach and right guy... but as I say with care and the right approach... How far does she take her flirting, any physical contact like
sensual kisses, dirty dancing, or is it just teasing and innuendo from a distance.

Mike.

 

[stonedme2mysole]

Trust me...

I have hold of my cock plenty of times thinking about that !

She has done all of that and then some.. But not so much lately... I have seen her kiss most of my friends at one point or another - a couple of them got some tongue Im sure... And she loves to dance so she has had plenty of dance partners who have been more than aroused

 

[mikemann]

I have hold of my cock plenty of times thinking about that !

She has done all of that and then some.. But not so much lately... I have seen her kiss most of my friends at one point or another - a couple of them got some tongue Im sure... And she loves to dance so she has had plenty of dance partners who have been more than aroused

She'll do it given enough rope to play on mate All up to you now whether you give her that rope or not without making it too obvious... Horrid fact is she's probably going to have to cheat on you, or think she is, to get it going... That's how I had to play it with my randy tart, set her up a treat then caught her out cheating

 

[Hornywench]

Hey I didn't fall off the face of the earth I swear. I just got rear ended ( and not in the good way ) and have been recouping at home the last couple of weeks. Today was actually the first day I have felt fairly decent. Anyway, much to tell you all, but I will probably have to save it for tomorrow....pretty tired here. Talk to you soon.
Hornywench

 

[LorriLove]

just spotted this thread again, i looked at it once before and was going to comment but didn't get round to it fact of the matter is i got laid by another bloke just last weekend, a good friend of my husband.

paul my hubby was out of town and i was feeling lonely so i went out for a drink down the pub and who should be there but peter our friend out without his wife, well one thing led to another as it does, giggle! and i wound up spread all over the back seat of pete's car with my legs high and wide taking a slut fucking god i needed that, giggle!

when paul got home monday evening and i sheepishly told him i'd been a naughty girl and what i'd done with one of his best mates, and like a common prossy in a car in a pub car park, he went mental..... mental with lust that is and dragged me straight upstairs and we made love for fucking ages..... paul just loves it when i screw with other blokes behind his back then tell him all about it

 

[Rigger100]

Hi all just wanted to say thanks as well to conquen for starting this thread and everyone else who,s contributions i have followed from the start , its obvious
The fascination of our wives with other men is a deep seated taboo that seems to
Press some amazing erotic buttons.

We are a long term married couple with a reasonable sex life Six months ago I started to try spice up our love life through suggesting various fantasies , watching videos etc and although pleasant and mildly exciting it just never seemed to unlock that key to my wife’s sexuality until one night while still hard inside I asked her “would you like to be fucked by another man” , her bodily response was amazing as within seconds she completely flooded me and the bed she was soaking , and her reply “well its something I have never thought of “ working on the assumption her response was pure BS I have intensified that side of our fantasy and role play around the theme of other men fucking her and our sex sessions are now wild beyond all imagination , she now has enough self confidence and trust to say “ I want another man to fuck me”

This has not happened yet but its merely a matter of time, as we are actively planning to make this happen, but one thing I do know is that a very definite line has been crossed in our relationship , this is something that cannot ever be put back into a box once opened so be careful guys , you may just get what you wished for.

Love to you all and have fun.

 

[LorriLove]

Hi all just wanted to say thanks as well to conquen for starting this thread and everyone else who,s contributions i have followed from the start , its obvious
The fascination of our wives with other men is a deep seated taboo that seems to
Press some amazing erotic buttons.

We are a long term married couple with a reasonable sex life Six months ago I started to try spice up our love life through suggesting various fantasies , watching videos etc and although pleasant and mildly exciting it just never seemed to unlock that key to my wife’s sexuality until one night while still hard inside I asked her “would you like to be fucked by another man” , her bodily response was amazing as within seconds she completely flooded me and the bed she was soaking , and her reply “well its something I have never thought of “ working on the assumption her response was pure BS I have intensified that side of our fantasy and role play around the theme of other men fucking her and our sex sessions are now wild beyond all imagination , she now has enough self confidence and trust to say “ I want another man to fuck me”

This has not happened yet but its merely a matter of time, as we are actively planning to make this happen, but one thing I do know is that a very definite line has been crossed in our relationship , this is something that cannot ever be put back into a box once opened so be careful guys , you may just get what you wished for.

Love to you all and have fun.

you're so right sweetheart, once she's out of the box, you can't always get her back in..... and same for the girls once he's opened a present he might not be able to put the wrapper back on..... sounds like your wife wants it so bad she's aching rigger honey, sounds like you are the same way for it, giggle! do it hun, but careful how you go.

 

[mikemann]

you're so right sweetheart, once she's out of the box, you can't always get her back in..... and same for the girls once he's opened a present he might not be able to put the wrapper back on..... sounds like your wife wants it so bad she's aching rigger honey, sounds like you are the same way for it, giggle! do it hun, but careful how you go.

What the lady says... Hi Lorri, long time no see darling

PS: Rigger, if you need a local bloke to help ease her into it, just holler mate

 

[Jonny G]

just spotted this thread again, i looked at it once before and was going to comment but didn't get round to it fact of the matter is i got laid by another bloke just last weekend, a good friend of my husband.

paul my hubby was out of town and i was feeling lonely so i went out for a drink down the pub and who should be there but peter our friend out without his wife, well one thing led to another as it does, giggle! and i wound up spread all over the back seat of pete's car with my legs high and wide taking a slut fucking god i needed that, giggle!

when paul got home monday evening and i sheepishly told him i'd been a naughty girl and what i'd done with one of his best mates, and like a common prossy in a car in a pub car park, he went mental..... mental with lust that is and dragged me straight upstairs and we made love for fucking ages..... paul just loves it when i screw with other blokes behind his back then tell him all about it

he is such a lucky man, you are a gift, my wife has had affairs, but would never "share" it was all just for her with my blessing, i now feel she has been very selfish and i resent her for it, i couldnt ever deny her pleasure, i still hope one day she will unlock the magic erotic box, but i dont think she ever will, we havnt had sex for over a year now and she refuses to discuss the matter.

 

[LorriLove]

he is such a lucky man, you are a gift, my wife has had affairs, but would never "share" it was all just for her with my blessing, i now feel she has been very selfish and i resent her for it, i couldnt ever deny her pleasure, i still hope one day she will unlock the magic erotic box, but i dont think she ever will, we havnt had sex for over a year now and she refuses to discuss the matter.

hiya honey, that sounds like a shite way to go on... ok i've kept a few secrets and played a bit close to the edge at times over the years but i would never deny paul his share of the fun times... share being the operative word most times, i don't just fuck behind his back then tell, but more often in front of him and have him join in the games, he likes going last after watching the others have finished playing with me .

you're an angel for allowing her to play her games and not trying to deny her, but sweetheart she's a bitch for not including you fully... does she still fuck with other men even though she won't have it with you.

 

[LorriLove]

What the lady says... Hi Lorri, long time no see darling

PS: Rigger, if you need a local bloke to help ease her into it, just holler mate

hiya mike darling

 

[Jonny G]

hiya honey, that sounds like a shite way to go on... ok i've kept a few secrets and played a bit close to the edge at times over the years but i would never deny paul his share of the fun times... share being the operative word most times, i don't just fuck behind his back then tell, but more often in front of him and have him join in the games, he likes going last after watching the others have finished playing with me .

you're an angel for allowing her to play her games and not trying to deny her, but sweetheart she's a bitch for not including you fully... does she still fuck with other men even though she won't have it with you.

what she said was , she couldnt handel the fact that i knew about the affairs, so what i told her then was it was the lies i couldnt stand, i knew i was very close to what i had always wanted then she said she had stopped seeing other men.

its been two years scince she last told me she had been with others, if she is fucking around i dont know about it at all, and perhaps she can handle it now. you realy are my dream woman, and i live with the opposit, its very frustrating, dont get me wrong i love her and will never leave her, but were more like brother and sister, no passion etc.....

 

[LorriLove]

what she said was , she couldnt handel the fact that i knew about the affairs, so what i told her then was it was the lies i couldnt stand, i knew i was very close to what i had always wanted then she said she had stopped seeing other men.

its been two years scince she last told me she had been with others, if she is fucking around i dont know about it at all, and perhaps she can handle it now. you realy are my dream woman, and i live with the opposit, its very frustrating, dont get me wrong i love her and will never leave her, but were more like brother and sister, no passion etc.....

have you actually told her in plain english that you've always wanted to get into swinging with her honey, see her getting it as well as letting her play her games... or did you just hedge round that subject?

i think i know what her problem was, she thought you should have been raving mad and jealous as hell about her affairs.... it hurt her twisted mind that you weren't..... you were supposed to be the strong possessive husband and yet you acted like a whimp in her eyes and let her get away with it..... all a misunderstanding between you both, you assumed she'd fall into swing sex once allowed some freedom, she assumed you go nuts at her for cheating and slap her about some and try to put a stop to it..... i don't know how you were with her of course honey, but you shouold have sat her down and told her outright in the beginning..... "ok you can fuck with other guys, but i want in on it for the kink, no inclusion, no more other guys"..... if you'd said that and appeared to be going to stick to it, she'd have come round i'm sure..... i think you've given in to her too easily over the years honey... and this is a woman speaking..... i fucking well know us, giggle! we need a firm hand sometimes..... even a slap or two, i've had some of those for misbehaving, it sorted me out, giggle!

i know you love her or you wouldn't still be with her sweetheart but she might still respond to a good hard talking to, up to you of course how you go on.... have you screwed around in revenge? you fucking well better have or i'll call you a whimp

 

[stonedme2mysole]

Question for the lucky ones...

Hey Peeps !

One thing I have noticed on this subject by reading numerous responses, stories and accounts on other sites is that there are a whole lot of people who are on second, third and more marriages... Do people think this is a factor ? I know the divorce rate is up there and very common, so it may just be a coincidence like age or color...

We happen to have a great relationship with very little jealousy and lots of trust and dont want to change that !

Its a huge turn on for me and I have had some serious fun thinking about it, and teasing my wife, but so far we have not crossed that line and talked about actually doing something... Although, I do suspect she knows Id go for it, given the chance

I have always thought I would just put the bug in her ear, throw her comments about it, play it cool and easy, then see if a situation ever came up !

Thoughts, Comments, naked pics ?

Thanks

-VM

 

[LorriLove]

Hey Peeps !

One thing I have noticed on this subject by reading numerous responses, stories and accounts on other sites is that there are a whole lot of people who are on second, third and more marriages... Do people think this is a factor ? I know the divorce rate is up there and very common, so it may just be a coincidence like age or color...

We happen to have a great relationship with very little jealousy and lots of trust and dont want to change that !

Its a huge turn on for me and I have had some serious fun thinking about it, and teasing my wife, but so far we have not crossed that line and talked about actually doing something... Although, I do suspect she knows Id go for it, given the chance

I have always thought I would just put the bug in her ear, throw her comments about it, play it cool and easy, then see if a situation ever came up !

Thoughts, Comments, naked pics ?

Thanks

-VM

i've been married near 25 yrs to the same bloke honey... see my posts above and elsewhere to tell you it can and does happen and in steady loving marriages..... most of our group of swing friends are on their first and long term marriage, only a couple are divorced..... if anything it's a steadying influence adds spice to a marriage that could otherwise go down the pan

 

[swede7214]

i tell my wife all the time how i would like to see her fucked by another guy and maybe i can join in. She just doesn't get it though. I would still consider doing it with somebodys wife. never done it before.

 

[stonedme2mysole]

Word to Live by...

i've been married near 25 yrs to the same bloke honey... see my posts above and elsewhere to tell you it can and does happen and in steady loving marriages..... most of our group of swing friends are on their first and long term marriage, only a couple are divorced..... if anything it's a steadying influence adds spice to a marriage that could otherwise go down the pan

Thanks LL !!

You made my day and gave me the encouragement I needed

Maybe someday soon, I will be posting a response with my own damn story !!

Here's dreaming...

-VM

 

[stonedme2mysole]

And...

i tell my wife all the time how i would like to see her fucked by another guy and maybe i can join in. She just doesn't get it though. I would still consider doing it with somebodys wife. never done it before.

maybe the Swede here can help me out !!

 

[swede7214]

maybe we can help each other. Check my picture in my other posts today. If you like what you see show your wife and we'll figure it out.

 

[Jonny G]

have you actually told her in plain english that you've always wanted to get into swinging with her honey, see her getting it as well as letting her play her games... or did you just hedge round that subject?

i think i know what her problem was, she thought you should have been raving mad and jealous as hell about her affairs.... it hurt her twisted mind that you weren't..... you were supposed to be the strong possessive husband and yet you acted like a whimp in her eyes and let her get away with it..... all a misunderstanding between you both, you assumed she'd fall into swing sex once allowed some freedom, she assumed you go nuts at her for cheating and slap her about some and try to put a stop to it..... i don't know how you were with her of course honey, but you shouold have sat her down and told her outright in the beginning..... "ok you can fuck with other guys, but i want in on it for the kink, no inclusion, no more other guys"..... if you'd said that and appeared to be going to stick to it, she'd have come round i'm sure..... i think you've given in to her too easily over the years honey... and this is a woman speaking..... i fucking well know us, giggle! we need a firm hand sometimes..... even a slap or two, i've had some of those for misbehaving, it sorted me out, giggle!

i know you love her or you wouldn't still be with her sweetheart but she might still respond to a good hard talking to, up to you of course how you go on.... have you screwed around in revenge? you fucking well better have or i'll call you a whimp

well you have got it ina nutshell, she wanted me to go mad at her, and she couldnt understand why a man would allow her to cheat on him, she knew fine well what i wanted, that it would turn me on, the thought of swinging now turns her cold, and she gets very angry when i try to talk about the subject, i could never hit her as i love her too much. im not a wimp, i think it takes a strog man to give a woman the gift.......!!! i will pm you a little more.

 

[Scottie62]

i've been married near 25 yrs to the same bloke honey... see my posts above and elsewhere to tell you it can and does happen and in steady loving marriages..... most of our group of swing friends are on their first and long term marriage, only a couple are divorced..... if anything it's a steadying influence adds spice to a marriage that could otherwise go down the pan

I think that you're one of a kind Lorri


I wish and probably a lot more than let on wish their wives would have such an open disposition when it comes to sharing themselves and each other.



I've read your story ..... that got my juices going...... when's your next reunion and can I be guest ?