Wives who love big cocks (and the husbands who love to watch)

My wife had 3 lovers before me. 2 were average (around 5.5” long and average thickness, like me). One (she said) was huge (9” long and extremely thick). She said that sex with him was a good, but most times was uncomfortable and afterwards, her pussy was raw and left her in pain.

It took me 15 years to get her to fuck another guy and he was a little bigger and thicker than me (7” and above average girth). She enjoyed it and her pussy took it like a champ.

She only fucked him on two occasions, but they fucked multitudes on those two occasions. Afterwards, her pussy was stretched out a bit, but no pain. It was then that I told her that she should fuck a guy with a cock the size of her ex. She said no and said that she doesn’t want that pain again. I told her that now that she’s had 3 kids pass through her pussy, she could easily handle a huge cock and it would probably feel great in her.

I bought her a dildo the size of her ex and her pussy easily stretched to accept it. It also made her cum multiple times. Fucking her after her pussy was stretched out by that dildo was such an amazing feeling as I imagined that it was a lover that stretched her pussy out!

Afterwards, I told her that I knew it wouldn’t hurt and even encouraged her to reach out to her ex, to see if he was interested in fucking her again, but she refused. Now she won’t fuck anyone (to my knowledge) including me!
And you wrote that on Valentine’s Day!
Update us, is she still closed to all offers?
 
I am the proud husband (and cuck) of a hotwife. My wife and I began playing with others after years of fantasizing and it’s brought exceptional pleasure to our sex life and our marriage.

For the first several years of our play- the men (and male members of the couples) we played had very average-sized cocks (much like myself). It didn’t matter much at first- the newness of the experience, of seeing my wife with a new man, of actually watching her fondle, suck, and fuck another cock was all their mattered.

After some time though, my wife craved the experience of a truly “big dick.” Even her just saying those words nearly made me cum.

We set out to find a partner who could deliver what my wife wanted. We got very lucky and found a slightly younger man with a very big dick.

I must say, this experience was like nothing I’ve ever witnessed.

My wife truly worshipped this man’s cock.

She was in awe of it. (So as I)

Watching her handle it.

Lick it.

Suck it and finally- slowly- take all of it- was surreal at first.

She made sounds I’ve never heard her make.

He brought her to the edge of pleasure and pain and fucked her harder than I could ever hope to- her orgasms were intense and multiple.

She screamed for more!

It was intoxicating.

We were both addicting.

I would love to hear from other women that love big cocks and husbands that live seeing their wives take big cocks.
I have seen my wife with average cocks but never really big one I would love to see that. Just to listen to her sounds and watch her face as he pushes it into her.
 
. Afterwards, her pussy was stretched out a bit, but no pain. It was then that I told her that she should fuck a guy with a cock the size of her ex. She said no and said that she doesn’t want that pain again. I told her that now that she’s had 3 kids pass through her pussy, she could easily handle a huge cock and it would probably feel great in her.

I bought her a dildo the size of her ex and her pussy easily stretched to accept it. It also made her cum multiple times. Fucking her after her pussy was stretched out by that dildo was such an amazing feeling as I imagined that it was a lover that stretched her pussy out!

Afterwards, I told her that I knew it wouldn’t hurt and even encouraged her to reach out to her ex, to see if he was interested in fucking her again, but she refused. Now she won’t fuck anyone (to my knowledge) including me!

Wow…

You pressuring her to have sex with other men and repeated dismissals of her complaints about someone’s dick being too big has turned her off to sex? Gee, couldn't see that coming.

Sex is supposed to be something a person can enjoy throughout their entire life. But, sadly, not for your wife. Looks like you killed her interest in it.
 
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Wow…

You pressuring her to have sex with other men and repeated dismissals of her complaints about someone’s dick being too big has turned her off to sex? Gee, couldn't see that coming.

Sex is supposed to be something a person can enjoy throughout their entire life. But, sadly, not for your wife. Looks like you killed her interest in it.
Obviously, you didn’t understand what I was saying. First of all, “the damage caused by Catholic Priests sexually abusing members of your family, leading to an uneasy relationship with sex” is your issue!

Second, I never “pressured” her to have sex with other men. She knew of my kink from the beginning of our relationship. Yeah, I asked her to do it and although she said that she wouldn’t actually do it, we both fantasized about it and role played throughout the first 15 years of our marriage. There were many times that she would bring it up during sex and we both got off on the idea.

Third, she actually did have a sexual encounter with another guy when we first began dating, but she didn’t fuck him.

Fourth, she had an online “relationship” with a long distance acquaintance after about 12 years of marriage and almost consummated their relationship, but her conservative upbringing caused her to back out.

Fifth, the sex with her ex (with the huge cock) was over 35 years ago so it had nothing to do with our sex life (or lack there of). My cock is average size and the guy that did eventually take her marital cherry was not huge, but his cock was slightly larger than mine and she loved it. So much so that she fucked him 3x the first time and 4x the next. Based on her orgasms those 2 times, there’s no doubt that she enjoyed a larger cock than mine.

Sixth, there were many factors that led to her and I not having sex! I worked away from home Monday through Friday, leaving her to basically raise our 2 youngest children.

She worked part time and the stress of raising 2 kids (in today’s world) was extremely difficult and she resented me for putting her in that position. As a result, when I did come home (on the weekends) she constantly tore into me about basically making her a single mom.
Her bitching (I don’t blame her) led to constant fighting between us and NEITHER ONE OF US wanted to have sex.

Also, she had to wake up at 3am for work, so eventually, I slept in another room to get decent sleep. Therefore, sex between us became less and less frequent and eventually non-existent.

So in reality, my asking her to fuck another guy and her experience with her ex had nothing to do with us not having sex.

Our whole experience is detailed in my series:

https://www.literotica.com/series/se/my-lifestyle-experiences

Btw, posting your opinion and sarcastic remarks about someone else’s lives and choices without them asking for your input is not a good look. Nobody asked for your uneducated opinion on what “sex is supposed to be!”

Obviously, you don’t believe in your own statement about “supporting the right to pursue whatever sexual pleasure one desires, without shame or ridicule”

Mind your own business and please don’t respond! We’ve heard enough from you!
 
Btw, posting your opinion and sarcastic remarks about someone else’s lives and choices without them asking for your input is not a good look. Nobody asked for your uneducated opinion on what “sex is supposed to be!”

Obviously, you don’t believe in your own statement about “supporting the right to pursue whatever sexual pleasure one desires, without shame or ridicule”
So you're reading back what I have in my profile, which is fine, except that you left out, "so long as it (sex) is totally consensual - ie., all participants are of adult age, of clear mind and there is no coercion, or deceit."

Sorry, but pressuring your wife to take a bigger dick and to sleep with other men when she's told you she doesn't want to sounds like sexual bullying to me. And if you don't think you were pressuring her, I'd suggest re-reading your post. It sure sounds like pressuring to me. And I'm free to call it out as such. And, frankly, I don't care that you find that irritating, or that it's "not a good look."
 
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So you're reading back what I have in my profile, which is fine, except that you left out, "so long as it (sex) is totally consensual - ie., all participants are of adult age, of clear mind and there is no coercion, or deceit."

Sorry, but pressuring your wife to take a bigger dick and to sleep with other men when she's told you she doesn't want to sounds like sexual bullying to me. And if you don't think you were pressuring her, I'd suggest re-reading your post. It sure sounds like pressuring to me. And I'm free to call it out as such. And, frankly, I don't care that you find that irritating, or that it's "not a good look."
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For a husband with this kink of seeing or hearing your wife with another man somehow seems more exciting if he's got a big cock. At least in my case
You don't think that in the heat of the moment, watching the girl you love undress and get undressed by another man, seeing them make out, touch, seeing the sexual intensity build and build as they both get into it and turned on, that if he isn't hige it will be lacking? She is fucking another man while you sit and watch. Trust me, size isn't going to be the one factor that makes or breaks it for you.
 
You don't think that in the heat of the moment, watching the girl you love undress and get undressed by another man, seeing them make out, touch, seeing the sexual intensity build and build as they both get into it and turned on, that if he isn't hige it will be lacking? She is fucking another man while you sit and watch. Trust me, size isn't going to be the one factor that makes or breaks it for you.
I love the way you describe the sexual encounter. Very erotic.
 
Just different reactions with someone completely opposite of me that I got on. The more excited she was it was the same for me. Over many years we fell into a rut, same ol same ol been there done that so a change of pace was what we were looking for and it worked for a time. It wasn't just her involved with fucking someone else I was doing the same to their wife. We tried it got what we wanted from it and stopped. Looking back would we do it again, I seriously doubt it for several reasons
 
Just different reactions with someone completely opposite of me that I got on. The more excited she was it was the same for me. Over many years we fell into a rut, same ol same ol been there done that so a change of pace was what we were looking for and it worked for a time. It wasn't just her involved with fucking someone else I was doing the same to their wife. We tried it got what we wanted from it and stopped. Looking back would we do it again, I seriously doubt it for several reasons
We swapped with couples early on. But I found out that I prefer to watch her instead of trying to please another woman.
 
We've pretty much done it all with another couple we're friends with..over?? 30 years I'd guess. Briefly tried the swinging stuff lets just say the other men got the better end of the deal their wives didn't do it for me. Now watching her with another guy alone I'm all in. I did find out along the way that she reacts a lot differently when I'm not in the same room. Hard to explain except she seemed more open didn't hold back?? Something like that
 
We've pretty much done it all with another couple we're friends with..over?? 30 years I'd guess. Briefly tried the swinging stuff let’s just say the other men got the better end of the deal their wives didn't do it for me. Now watching her with another guy alone I'm all in. I did find out along the way that she reacts a lot differently when I'm not in the same room. Hard to explain except she seemed more open didn't hold back?? Something like that
I left my wife alone with a guy one time because I could tell that with me there she wasn’t “letting loose” or losing her inhibitions with me in the room. I stayed outside the room and listened (through the door) to them having sex. She was definitely more vocal, animated, and her orgasms were more intense without me being in the room.

I think that with me in the room she held back because she was worried that I may be hurt by seeing her let loose. But also, I think that it was easier to just enjoy sex completely without having “to perform” for me or just the fact of having an audience while trying to be intimate with another man.

It could also be that she was trying to spare my feelings, worrying that I could be jealous about just how pleasurable sex with him was or me thinking that she likes sex with him more and that he’s better than me.
 
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I left my wife alone with a guy one time because I could tell that with me there she wasn’t “letting loose” or losing her inhibitions with me in the room. I stayed outside the room and listened (through the door) to them having sex. She was definitely more vocal, animated, and her orgasms were more intense without me being in the room.

I think that with me in the room she held back because she was worried that I may be hurt by seeing her let loose. But also, I think that it was easier to just enjoy sex completely without having “to perform” for me or just the fact of having an audience while trying to be intimate with another man.

It could also be that she was trying to spare my feelings, worrying that I could be jealous about just how pleasurable sex with him was or me thinking that she likes sex with him more and that he’s better than me.
Almost the same thing I found out
 
I left my wife alone with a guy one time because I could tell that with me there she wasn’t “letting loose” or losing her inhibitions with me in the room. I stayed outside the room and listened (through the door) to them having sex. She was definitely more vocal, animated, and her orgasms were more intense without me being in the room.

I think that with me in the room she held back because she was worried that I may be hurt by seeing her let loose. But also, I think that it was easier to just enjoy sex completely without having “to perform” for me or just the fact of having an audience while trying to be intimate with another man.

It could also be that she was trying to spare my feelings, worrying that I could be jealous about just how pleasurable sex with him was or me thinking that she likes sex with him more and that he’s better than me.
I think you're on the right track with this thought .
 
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