Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

[v_indigo]

Oh yes! Because 9/10 it was the husbands approaching describing mine and their wives use. Meanwhile wifey is no where to be seen or heard from and it’s assumed that I would want either or both of them.

I packed up my kinky suitcase and hit the road I know a lot of people who like FetLife and more power to them and I hope they have a blast, but it was once described as a pit of vipers and I feel it’s soo accurate.

I use it for events only. There’s no way I’d publicly exist there

 

[MrsPassion]

I use it for events only. There’s no way I’d publicly exist there

There weren’t enough events around me that I found interesting enough to stay. I found a local group near me and have a blast with those folks.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

There weren’t enough events around me that I found interesting enough to stay. I found a local group near me and have a blast with those folks.

Lol, meanwhile, I read like 1-2 articles saying FetLife has lead to missing and murdered women and I made all the conclusions from there.
I've got enough Hell on Lit, thanks.

 

[MrsPassion]

Lol, meanwhile, I read like 1-2 articles saying FetLife has lead to missing and murdered women and I made all the conclusions from there.
I've got enough Hell on Lit, thanks.

With the lack of moderation and oversight over there; I’m not surprised and it’s heartbreaking they could have a trend like that happening and more people aren’t concerned. As if kink communities don’t already have to deal with assumptions that’s it’s all dangerous and coercion, you can’t have women going missing and being harmed without putting in some kind of safeguard, but they really just say “you’re on your own—be careful”

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Lol, meanwhile, I read like 1-2 articles saying FetLife has lead to missing and murdered women and I made all the conclusions from there.
I've got enough Hell on Lit, thanks.

Oh also, some porn sites have chat features now (which is weird to me) & it is like a 2nd, more raggedy Lit. I was getting so inundated with messages before I even filled out a basic profile & I never uploaded any pics. Chile, I was drowning in unsolicited dick. I tried responding to some & at least met 1 decent guy. But yeah, I go to porn sites for porn; not chats.
Plus, lol... There's nothing more frustrating than being so close to cumming & then some jerkwad says shit that ruins all your solo hard work .

 

[RachelWalsh]

Lol, meanwhile, I read like 1-2 articles saying FetLife has lead to missing and murdered women and I made all the conclusions from there.
I've got enough Hell on Lit, thanks.

I once met a guy there. We stayed in public. I was drunk. I am still alive. You can pm me if you want more details.

 

[MrsPassion]

Oh also, some porn sites have chat features now (which is weird to me) & it is like a 2nd, more raggedy Lit. I was getting so inundated with messages before I even filled out a basic profile & I never uploaded any pics. Chile, I was drowning in unsolicited dick. I tried responding to some & at least met 1 decent guy. But yeah, I go to porn sites for porn; not chats.
Plus, lol... There's nothing more frustrating than being so close to cumming & then some jerkwad says shit that ruins all your solo hard work .

When did they start chatting on porn sites?! and the disrespect of interrupting a good solo session like “thank you, but I’ve got it covered”

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

When did they start chatting on porn sites?! and the disrespect of interrupting a good solo session like “thank you, but I’ve got it covered”

Fucking right?!
There's a guy on Lit, very popularly unpopular & likes to chant that there are no women on here, who ghosted me because I wouldn't cum on command for him. What type of wind-up Barbie shit you think this is?!
Women can cum multiple times, yes. Doesn't mean they have any less significance for me & I'm not doing shit under coercion.

 

[MrsPassion]

Fucking right?!
There's a guy on Lit, very popularly unpopular & likes to chant that there are no women on here, who ghosted me because I wouldn't cum on command for him. What type of wind-up Barbie shit you think this is?!

Yeesh! Did you turn around and demand multiple spontaneous orgasms from him? Fair is fair.

Women can cum multiple times, yes. Doesn't mean they have any less significance for me & I'm not doing shit under coercion.

I don’t understand the demanding of orgasms like they exist on tap and are a free for all. it’s the forceful ones that bother me, and the unrelenting ones that honestly scare me. Just go away. Bugger off and find someone who wants that attention or wants to be told to cum on demand.
I’m sorry he was so entitled and greedy, you owe people nothing.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

I’m sorry he was so entitled and greedy, you owe people nothing.

Thank you so much. Unfortunately, Lit has been a sink-or-swim crash course in how to stand up for yourself. I failed a lot. But I'm getting there.
It's embarrassing because when you're on the outside looking in, you know you wouldn't put up with certain things. But once you're thrown into those situations, alone and back up against the wall, you adapt sometimes when you should be fighting (followed by an eternal block).
I know now.

 

[MrsPassion]

Thank you so much. Unfortunately, Lit has been a sink-or-swim crash course in how to stand up for yourself. I failed a lot. But I'm getting there.
It's embarrassing because when you're on the outside looking in, you know you wouldn't put up with certain things. But once you're thrown into those situations, alone and back up against the wall, you adapt sometimes when you should be fighting (followed by an eternal block).
I know now.

It’s a learning curve for most people. I would say don’t be embarrassed; the shame really isn’t yours to carry. You protect yourself with the tools you have currently at your disposal and you learn and adapt as you go and trade out the tools that no longer serve you for the ones that do.

We don’t always take care of ourselves the “best” way but hindsight is 20/20 and you owe yourself some grace and compassion.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

It’s a learning curve for most people. I would say don’t be embarrassed; the shame really isn’t yours to carry. You protect yourself with the tools you have currently at your disposal and you learn and adapt as you go and trade out the tools that no longer serve you for the ones that do.

We don’t always take care of ourselves the “best” way but hindsight is 20/20 and you owe yourself some grace and compassion.

You're so beautifully wise.
Thank you. Thank you so very much.

 

[MrsPassion]

You're so beautifully wise.
Thank you. Thank you so very much.

Anytime babes

Now watch me ignore my own sage advice and keeping messing around with these fuckboys

Do as I say, not as I do type shit

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Anytime babes

Now watch me ignore my own sage advice and keeping messing around with these fuckboys

Do as I say, not as I do type shit

Guuuuurllllll.
When I say I almost had a weak moment right before your first reply on here. Whew, you don't even know.
Dealing with ain't-shit guys is wild .

 

[MrsPassion]

Guuuuurllllll.
When I say I almost had a weak moment right before your first reply on here. Whew, you don't even know.
Dealing with ain't-shit guys is wild .

Same girl, same
I’m trying tho lol but sometimes…ain’t-shit guys be like

You know I’m a sucker for some confident/cocky type of energy I’m hopeless lmfao

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Same girl, same
I’m trying tho lol but sometimes…ain’t-shit guys be like

You know I’m a sucker for some confident/cocky type of energy I’m hopeless lmfao

I've got it! We just need to invent an ideal-guy-creator on some Build-a-Bear type shit.
Because I just need full respect to accompany the confidence & deviant sexy stuff. If I can like the dark stuff that I like and still be a genuinely decent person, I know guys can too.

 

[MrsPassion]

I've got it! We just need to invent an ideal-guy-creator on some Build-a-Bear type shit.
Because I just need full respect to accompany the confidence & deviant sexy stuff. If I can like the dark stuff that I like and still be a genuinely decent person, I know guys can too.

Yes! That last part. I’m very happy for the ones that get it and can do that. It’s rare for me (now) to find myself entertaining the ones who can’t be respectful and fun. Like it’s so much better for everyone, when everyone is having a good time

 

[Submissivepat]

I’m a submissive woman, older, and I have had a really good conversation with another woman. I would like to find more female friends who want to chat. It would be great if you were Dominant but not really necessary. Just be someone nice.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

I’m a submissive woman, older, and I have had a really good conversation with another woman. I would like to find more female friends who want to chat. It would be great if you were Dominant but not really necessary. Just be someone nice.

We've got you. Nice is in our blood. And we want you to stay and enjoy Lit.

Oh, also, you should post an ad in the Lit personals. Cast a wider net. But you're more than welcome here.

 

[Submissivepat]

Just want to chat, not interested in meeting others.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Just want to chat, not interested in meeting others.

Oh, the personals forum & the ads therein aren't solely for irl meetings. I'd wager to guess, & I might be a bit off, that most people who post ads are strickly seeking online chats/fun.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

All I will say is, thank God for the ability to block. Over the hurt, but for a few messed up men on here, you will never get a second chance to mess with me. I'm unashamedly straight, so I've only dealt with the male unhinged lit guy. But for every sexy cool guy I've met over the years (this is not my first rodeo) there are a million who can't deal with the fact that women get horny too and sometimes we like to express that, that doesn't mean we're looking for help or an invitation. Sometimes I just want people to know, I'm feeling myself today. One of the reasons why I love men who have self control is because they can make me feel desired WITHOUT making me uncomfortable. But if they get the green light.... its on.

I’ve had one decent male fuckbuddy here on Lit. We’d hook up occasionally in chat, get each other off, then say “k bye, see you around!” His kinks meshed with my kinks, and most important he would GO AWAY. He never tried to insert himself in my life like other guys here. I’ll suck your virtual dick, but I don’t want to be your side piece. Sometimes I’m just horny. I don’t want a soulmate, or a daddy.

 

[neci]

it makes me happy that this thread is here.

in solidarity.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

it makes me happy that this thread is here.

in solidarity.

I'm glad.
It is my hope that more women find comfort here & feel safe sharing their experiences from Lit interactions.

 

[JohnnySavage]

A thread on the GB without a single Pirated Porn Pic. How old school!