Worry about my health

[bigboldromeo]

I have not had sex with a girl from last 14 years now, I could not say what was the reasons behind that but I was unlucky always, no girl turned to be my friend ever as my society don't like girl and guy to be friends, I have tried to get married but still no luck. During this time masturbation was my only hope to satisfy my self for a while but I have found that its not a permanent source to fulfill my sexual needs, last month my friends forced me to go for prostitute, I paid lots of bucks and hired a girl for night I was feeling that my erection was not good enough to have sex meanwhile that girl told me she like my another friend who was driving us home (actually he seems to be richer than me). so I called him and left somewhere else (another misfortune) now a month passed and i could not feel any erection, I am worried if this is state of mind or there is really some problem.

Need advice please.

 

[SweetErika]

Do you have an erection in the morning when you wake up, or at other non-sexual times throughout the day? If not, it's likely a physical problem that needs to be checked by a doctor (preferably a urologist).

If you do get random/non-sexual erections and are only having problems getting sexually aroused, it's almost certainly a psychological/mental issue and worrying will only make it worse.

 

[fuckmeat]

I agree with Erika, if you still get random erections it's most likely to be depression that's killed your libido. Do you watch porn? Surely that has some effect on your equipment?

Fourteen years is a hell of a long time to be single. If you start doing something proactive about that, such as joining a dating website, you may find that your interest in sex returns.

 

[Cloudy10]

This is going to sound weird, but one trick I've heard is to put a strip of postage stamps around your penis before bed, and if the strip has been broken in the morning it means you had an erection during the night. If the strip is not broken, you should see a doctor. Best of luck.

 

[fuckmeat]

This is going to sound weird, but one trick I've heard is to put a strip of postage stamps around your penis before bed, and if the strip has been broken in the morning it means you had an erection during the night. If the strip is not broken, you should see a doctor. Best of luck.

Doesn't sound all that conclusive. Just moving around in the night would easily break it... not that I have a better idea.