Would you meet someone from Lit for coffee?

I have met several ladies from Lit over the years and although I had been away from Lit for a while, I find myself back and would gladly do it again when all this shit is over...and usually the preferred meeting spot was for a cup of coffee. (I am from the land of Dunkin) I also think most women feel more comfortable meeting in the light of day and having coffee than meeting in a bar or drinking alcohol...but really it is depending on the individual...some were more about getting to know each other over coffee....some were impressing me with their “skills” within minutes of meeting...all depends on what they are looking for.
 
I've never met anyone from Lit. I would love to of course. It seems that some find it easy to find someone that wants to meet up. Here in the UK it seems non existent. Or is it just me..?

I'm clearly not in the right circles lol
 
The best lover of my life was from a rural area and experience has shown me that there seem to be more horny people per capita in such places than in urban areas. She introduced me to polyamory. We met for coffee once and enjoyed some hot car play afterwards. Neither of us expected the relationship to go anywhere but we were soon fucking like bunnies with one another at every opportunity. We were both free to play with others (which we did) but eventually agreed to keep condom free intercourse solely between the two of us to minimize any chance of getting nasty STD's. So that one meeting over coffee turned into a beautiful 16 year relationship.

I didn't mean that as any sort of insult. I just meant that, I've only ever seen males post that they are in Arkansas on here. I've been here a while, and never seen any local women here. I would LOVE to meet one that was polyam and mutually attracted with me, at least if she weren't infected with covid-19.
 
I would need some security agreements for my personal safety. I would have to have been pen-paling for a while. Feel like I could trust them, erotica can be per-vee. I may not be into what they are into, I would need to build a bit of respect for them.
 
Not now

Right now I won’t even my friends out for coffee, but once all this over..ohh hell yes
 
via zoom/skype - sure, why not! and when the cafes are open again and the espressos are flowing freely, even more so...
 
I would need some security agreements for my personal safety. I would have to have been pen-paling for a while. Feel like I could trust them, erotica can be per-vee. I may not be into what they are into, I would need to build a bit of respect for them.

I understand that perfectly. If a woman is into blood play, anal or s&m then I know that she is not for me. I also would not consider going to meet someone in a place that is likely to be a crack house. The sexiest organ of the body is the brain and if she does not turn me on mentally then anything else is a no go. I once was in touch with a woman who at first seemed sexy but then she insisted that we would have to meet in a dark hotel room without even knowing one another's names; she stopped being sexy for me right away.
 
Had coffee tea and a beer with a great friend

Coffee with another...

I would love to do either again
 
met a lit friend at a motorcycle rally....lol, enjoyed a beer, i believe both of us enjoyed it. totally platonic
 
Coffee 6 feet away sounds like fun.

Two people shouting across the distance:

A: "So, how have you been?"

B: "Oh, things are good. Have you seen Tiger King yet?"
 
Well I was hoping to have a beach day with someone this summer, but obviously that isn't going to happen this year. :rolleyes::mad:
 
Only in public.

Only if we had talked for a long time.

Only if there was some kind of connection.

Only if they have proved they are who they claim to be.
 
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