Adult onset bisexuality

And yes, as I aged I became more open minded. I NEVER (back in my early days) would have even thought or considered of doing anything with any other guy or males. To this day I don't find men "attractive" beyond the penis & sex acts. I have no interest in kissing a guy nor do I look at them sexually in anyway. But get me in a room privately with another guy that I've known & trust, get naked & I'd be fine with the fun.
I remember when I felt this way. Then I met a guy who challenged my thinking on it. We had a lot of interesting discussions on why so many guys express this sentiment. Eventually he became my first boyfriend and it was amazing. I think it has become more acceptable for guys to engage in male on male sex, but there is still a HUGE stigma in this group against male-male relationships. I am glad I met someone who was able to help me move past that stigma.
 
I remember when I felt this way. Then I met a guy who challenged my thinking on it. We had a lot of interesting discussions on why so many guys express this sentiment. Eventually he became my first boyfriend and it was amazing. I think it has become more acceptable for guys to engage in male on male sex, but there is still a HUGE stigma in this group against male-male relationships. I am glad I met someone who was able to help me move past that stigma.
Well I think that is great. Good for you. Right on. I never seen much of any HUGE stigma in this group against male-male relationships. This is a great place for those with or without "stgmas" to discuss really. I have no hang ups myself. I WISH it was more exceptable in society where it would be easy for guys to hook up. I myself never personally wanted any male-male "relationship" beyond maybe a few brews, video games and then maybe some mutual oral or j/o. I never wanted a "boyfrined" or anything like that I've just never been personally attracted to males beyond juet getting off. Not into kissing or any of that kind of stuff and I don't think thinking that way makes it still any "stigma" or hangups I am perfectly fine with any male-male relationships. I actually wish I knew some guys open like that who woud understand my limits and might want to invite a guy like me. But I'd still not be into the "realationship" aspect or any kissing for myself anyways. Any other guys that like that kind of thing I'm perfectly fine with to each their own likes & tastes.
 
I'm surprised there aren't more female responses to this. Personally, I didn't use to think about women as potential sex partners at all, but gradually became more and more bi-curious over the years. After chatting and eventually sexting with many on various platforms, I even felt a desire to try this out in real life (which I haven't acted on yet).
I've had open adult chats with lots of 40+ women, and this seems to be a fairly common experience - mid-life bisexuality isn't just for guys :)
 
Need to hear more on this!
First some background. My wife was raised in a very conservative Christian home. I knew she had a kinky streak but it took a few years to work through her repressed sexuality. She eventually become very comfortable with expressing herself, and we started expanding our activities. Eventually she got comfortable sharing her fantasies. Which is where we pick up the story..

We were driving home from a friend's house when she asked me to pull into a parking lot so we could talk. Once we were parked, she nervously looked at me, and said she wanted to ask me something but I had to promise not to get upset or angry. I assured her I wouldn't. She nodded, and then proceeded to ask me if I would be willing to make her favorite fantasy come true, even if it was something I didn't want to do. I told her as long as it didn't involve body mutilation or physical harm, there wasn't anything I wouldn't do to make her happy. She nodded.

'Okay, I want you to suck a cock with me. A real cock, another man's cock'

That was not what I was expecting. I am sure the look on my face could not have been encouraging.

She pleaded with me, telling me how long she has had fantasy of watching a guy suck another guy, and sharing with him. How she knew it could never happen, but thought that maybe I might be willing since I had been so encouraging her in escaping her repressed past.

After some discussion, I agreed that I would consider it but I wasn't committing to it. To be honest, it wasn't really something I was interested in but I also wanted to continue encourage my wife in her sexual journey. So I eventually agreed that if we could find someone we were both comfortable with I would try it one time.

It took a while and a lot of time on hookup apps and websites, but eventually we met 'Rob'. After several texts and chats we agreed to meet at a hotel bar for drinks. We were all nervous at first, but we quickly developed a good rapport. I gave her the nod and we all agreed to head to our room.

Once there, things happened really fast. My wife and Rob started making out while I watched. The quickly undressed each other and she started fondling his cock and balls. She then started kissing me while she unbuttoned pants and told me to get naked. While I undressed, she continued to play with Rob's now hard dick. Once I was fully undressed she started stroking me as well. She pulled us closer together and then got on her knees and started sucking our cocks, switching back and forth. After a few minutes of this, should pushed Rob onto the bed and motioned for me to join her. I knelt down next to her, my heart beating a hundred miles an hour.

She held Rob's dick in her hand, looked at me intently and whispered 'Lick his dick, baby.'

I reached out with my tongue and slowly licked his shaft from her hand to the head.

'Oh my God. Baby this is so hot.' she said as I continued to lick up and down with my tongue.

My wife eased me away from his erect penis, as she then started to suck his cock. After a few seconds, she stopped and said 'Now you're turn. Suck Rob's cock for me.'

I hesitated for just a moment, then leaned over, opened my mouth, and wrapped my lips around the head of his cock. I then begin to give another man a blowjob for the first time in my life. I bobbed up and down on him while my wife continued to whisper encouragement to me. She was really get turned on, and eventually joined me as we took turns to Rob's great enjoyment. After several minutes of sharing, my wife joined Rob and the bed and said she wanted to watch me suck my first cock. They started kissing, while I continued to pleasure him. After several more minutes, Rob said "Your husband is doing a great job, but I really need to fuck right now".

My told Rob we had not really planned on going that far, but I told her I was okay with it if she was. At this point, I really did want to watch Rob fuck my wife (my own secret fantasy). So we changed positions and I got to watch another man fuck my wife for the first time and I loved it. At one point, Rob positioned my wife on her knees and asked me to get underneath and eat her pussy. He then proceeded to fuck her doggy style, and I got my first fucklicking experience. We soon got into rhythm where he would fuck her for several seconds, then pull out and feed me his cock. Then he would resume fucking her. The experience ended with my wife giving Rob a hand job to completion.

After Rob left, we proceeded to have the hottest sex we had every had. After that, I asked her if the experience had met her expectations. She said it had blown her mind and was way better than she had ever imagined. She wanted to know how I felt and I was honest. I told I enjoyed it was more enjoyable than I expected but it wasn't earth shattering. I told I would be open to a repeat if she wanted to, which she eagerly agreed to.

Skip forward about ten months. We had had a few more experiences with Rob, and another guy. And then we met 'Jay'. After a few times meeting for drinks there was some definite chemistry between the three of us and we agreed to meet at his house. It didn't take long before we were all naked and playing with each other. Jay was the first guy to give me a blow job, and I reciprocated. And he had amazing stamina. After at least two hours, my wife needed a break. While we recuperating, my wife was slowly stroking his cock when she smiled at me and then asked Jay if he only fucked wives or if he did husbands too. I was pretty shocked at this, since we had never discussed it. I wasn't a complete novice when it came to butt play, as my wife had used her fingers and a couple of toys on me. But this was definitely new territory, but I was curious to see where this would go.

Jay replied that he had never done that before, but he was willing to try. My wife looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. So she got some lube and started preparing my ass while she had me play with Jay. After a couple of minutes, she had me lay an my back while Jay got in position and she held my legs. Soon I felt the head of Jay's cock against my ass and I took a deep breath and tried to relax. My wife was watching with pure lust as Jay slowly pushed into me. I was actually surprised at how easy it was for Jay to enter me, there was some uncomfortable pressure at first but after the first few inches it started to feel really good.

'Oh baby, he's actually fucking you. I can't believe it. This is amazing.' my wife said as she watched us. 'Do you like it baby? It looks so hot!'

I had to admit, I was actually enjoying this. 'It feels so good. Your cock feels amazing.' I said.

Jay didn't need any further encouragement, and he proceeded to fuck me in earnest. My wife moved up and started kissing him while he continued to plow my ass, and it just felt better and better. I was amazed at how good it felt, and was surprised to find my dick rock hard and leaking precum. I moaned when Jay grabbed my dick and started stroking me as he continued his fucking as he and my wife made out. It didn't take long before I reached the point of no return.

'Oh fuck, I'm going to cum' I said as I started having one of the most amazing orgasms ever. I shot four or five ropes of cum over my chest and stomach as I blew my load. It wasn't long before Jay got to that point as well, and asked where he should cum.

'Cum inside him, I want you to cum inside him' my wife said. Jay looked at me and I nodded. Three of four strokes later and I could feel him stiffen and then shoot his load into my ass.

We played for a long time that night..

And that is the story is how my wife took me from a straight man to a cock loving bisexual horndog.
 
First some background. My wife was raised in a very conservative Christian home. I knew she had a kinky streak but it took a few years to work through her repressed sexuality. She eventually become very comfortable with expressing herself, and we started expanding our activities. Eventually she got comfortable sharing her fantasies. Which is where we pick up the story..

We were driving home from a friend's house when she asked me to pull into a parking lot so we could talk. Once we were parked, she nervously looked at me, and said she wanted to ask me something but I had to promise not to get upset or angry. I assured her I wouldn't. She nodded, and then proceeded to ask me if I would be willing to make her favorite fantasy come true, even if it was something I didn't want to do. I told her as long as it didn't involve body mutilation or physical harm, there wasn't anything I wouldn't do to make her happy. She nodded.

'Okay, I want you to suck a cock with me. A real cock, another man's cock'

That was not what I was expecting. I am sure the look on my face could not have been encouraging.

She pleaded with me, telling me how long she has had fantasy of watching a guy suck another guy, and sharing with him. How she knew it could never happen, but thought that maybe I might be willing since I had been so encouraging her in escaping her repressed past.

After some discussion, I agreed that I would consider it but I wasn't committing to it. To be honest, it wasn't really something I was interested in but I also wanted to continue encourage my wife in her sexual journey. So I eventually agreed that if we could find someone we were both comfortable with I would try it one time.

It took a while and a lot of time on hookup apps and websites, but eventually we met 'Rob'. After several texts and chats we agreed to meet at a hotel bar for drinks. We were all nervous at first, but we quickly developed a good rapport. I gave her the nod and we all agreed to head to our room.

Once there, things happened really fast. My wife and Rob started making out while I watched. The quickly undressed each other and she started fondling his cock and balls. She then started kissing me while she unbuttoned pants and told me to get naked. While I undressed, she continued to play with Rob's now hard dick. Once I was fully undressed she started stroking me as well. She pulled us closer together and then got on her knees and started sucking our cocks, switching back and forth. After a few minutes of this, should pushed Rob onto the bed and motioned for me to join her. I knelt down next to her, my heart beating a hundred miles an hour.

She held Rob's dick in her hand, looked at me intently and whispered 'Lick his dick, baby.'

I reached out with my tongue and slowly licked his shaft from her hand to the head.

'Oh my God. Baby this is so hot.' she said as I continued to lick up and down with my tongue.

My wife eased me away from his erect penis, as she then started to suck his cock. After a few seconds, she stopped and said 'Now you're turn. Suck Rob's cock for me.'

I hesitated for just a moment, then leaned over, opened my mouth, and wrapped my lips around the head of his cock. I then begin to give another man a blowjob for the first time in my life. I bobbed up and down on him while my wife continued to whisper encouragement to me. She was really get turned on, and eventually joined me as we took turns to Rob's great enjoyment. After several minutes of sharing, my wife joined Rob and the bed and said she wanted to watch me suck my first cock. They started kissing, while I continued to pleasure him. After several more minutes, Rob said "Your husband is doing a great job, but I really need to fuck right now".

My told Rob we had not really planned on going that far, but I told her I was okay with it if she was. At this point, I really did want to watch Rob fuck my wife (my own secret fantasy). So we changed positions and I got to watch another man fuck my wife for the first time and I loved it. At one point, Rob positioned my wife on her knees and asked me to get underneath and eat her pussy. He then proceeded to fuck her doggy style, and I got my first fucklicking experience. We soon got into rhythm where he would fuck her for several seconds, then pull out and feed me his cock. Then he would resume fucking her. The experience ended with my wife giving Rob a hand job to completion.

After Rob left, we proceeded to have the hottest sex we had every had. After that, I asked her if the experience had met her expectations. She said it had blown her mind and was way better than she had ever imagined. She wanted to know how I felt and I was honest. I told I enjoyed it was more enjoyable than I expected but it wasn't earth shattering. I told I would be open to a repeat if she wanted to, which she eagerly agreed to.

Skip forward about ten months. We had had a few more experiences with Rob, and another guy. And then we met 'Jay'. After a few times meeting for drinks there was some definite chemistry between the three of us and we agreed to meet at his house. It didn't take long before we were all naked and playing with each other. Jay was the first guy to give me a blow job, and I reciprocated. And he had amazing stamina. After at least two hours, my wife needed a break. While we recuperating, my wife was slowly stroking his cock when she smiled at me and then asked Jay if he only fucked wives or if he did husbands too. I was pretty shocked at this, since we had never discussed it. I wasn't a complete novice when it came to butt play, as my wife had used her fingers and a couple of toys on me. But this was definitely new territory, but I was curious to see where this would go.

Jay replied that he had never done that before, but he was willing to try. My wife looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. So she got some lube and started preparing my ass while she had me play with Jay. After a couple of minutes, she had me lay an my back while Jay got in position and she held my legs. Soon I felt the head of Jay's cock against my ass and I took a deep breath and tried to relax. My wife was watching with pure lust as Jay slowly pushed into me. I was actually surprised at how easy it was for Jay to enter me, there was some uncomfortable pressure at first but after the first few inches it started to feel really good.

'Oh baby, he's actually fucking you. I can't believe it. This is amazing.' my wife said as she watched us. 'Do you like it baby? It looks so hot!'

I had to admit, I was actually enjoying this. 'It feels so good. Your cock feels amazing.' I said.

Jay didn't need any further encouragement, and he proceeded to fuck me in earnest. My wife moved up and started kissing him while he continued to plow my ass, and it just felt better and better. I was amazed at how good it felt, and was surprised to find my dick rock hard and leaking precum. I moaned when Jay grabbed my dick and started stroking me as he continued his fucking as he and my wife made out. It didn't take long before I reached the point of no return.

'Oh fuck, I'm going to cum' I said as I started having one of the most amazing orgasms ever. I shot four or five ropes of cum over my chest and stomach as I blew my load. It wasn't long before Jay got to that point as well, and asked where he should cum.

'Cum inside him, I want you to cum inside him' my wife said. Jay looked at me and I nodded. Three of four strokes later and I could feel him stiffen and then shoot his load into my ass.

We played for a long time that night..

And that is the story is how my wife took me from a straight man to a cock loving bisexual horndog.
The world needs more wives like yours.
 
First some background. My wife was raised in a very conservative Christian home. I knew she had a kinky streak but it took a few years to work through her repressed sexuality. She eventually become very comfortable with expressing herself, and we started expanding our activities. Eventually she got comfortable sharing her fantasies. Which is where we pick up the story..

We were driving home from a friend's house when she asked me to pull into a parking lot so we could talk. Once we were parked, she nervously looked at me, and said she wanted to ask me something but I had to promise not to get upset or angry. I assured her I wouldn't. She nodded, and then proceeded to ask me if I would be willing to make her favorite fantasy come true, even if it was something I didn't want to do. I told her as long as it didn't involve body mutilation or physical harm, there wasn't anything I wouldn't do to make her happy. She nodded.

'Okay, I want you to suck a cock with me. A real cock, another man's cock'

That was not what I was expecting. I am sure the look on my face could not have been encouraging.

She pleaded with me, telling me how long she has had fantasy of watching a guy suck another guy, and sharing with him. How she knew it could never happen, but thought that maybe I might be willing since I had been so encouraging her in escaping her repressed past.

After some discussion, I agreed that I would consider it but I wasn't committing to it. To be honest, it wasn't really something I was interested in but I also wanted to continue encourage my wife in her sexual journey. So I eventually agreed that if we could find someone we were both comfortable with I would try it one time.

It took a while and a lot of time on hookup apps and websites, but eventually we met 'Rob'. After several texts and chats we agreed to meet at a hotel bar for drinks. We were all nervous at first, but we quickly developed a good rapport. I gave her the nod and we all agreed to head to our room.

Once there, things happened really fast. My wife and Rob started making out while I watched. The quickly undressed each other and she started fondling his cock and balls. She then started kissing me while she unbuttoned pants and told me to get naked. While I undressed, she continued to play with Rob's now hard dick. Once I was fully undressed she started stroking me as well. She pulled us closer together and then got on her knees and started sucking our cocks, switching back and forth. After a few minutes of this, should pushed Rob onto the bed and motioned for me to join her. I knelt down next to her, my heart beating a hundred miles an hour.

She held Rob's dick in her hand, looked at me intently and whispered 'Lick his dick, baby.'

I reached out with my tongue and slowly licked his shaft from her hand to the head.

'Oh my God. Baby this is so hot.' she said as I continued to lick up and down with my tongue.

My wife eased me away from his erect penis, as she then started to suck his cock. After a few seconds, she stopped and said 'Now you're turn. Suck Rob's cock for me.'

I hesitated for just a moment, then leaned over, opened my mouth, and wrapped my lips around the head of his cock. I then begin to give another man a blowjob for the first time in my life. I bobbed up and down on him while my wife continued to whisper encouragement to me. She was really get turned on, and eventually joined me as we took turns to Rob's great enjoyment. After several minutes of sharing, my wife joined Rob and the bed and said she wanted to watch me suck my first cock. They started kissing, while I continued to pleasure him. After several more minutes, Rob said "Your husband is doing a great job, but I really need to fuck right now".

My told Rob we had not really planned on going that far, but I told her I was okay with it if she was. At this point, I really did want to watch Rob fuck my wife (my own secret fantasy). So we changed positions and I got to watch another man fuck my wife for the first time and I loved it. At one point, Rob positioned my wife on her knees and asked me to get underneath and eat her pussy. He then proceeded to fuck her doggy style, and I got my first fucklicking experience. We soon got into rhythm where he would fuck her for several seconds, then pull out and feed me his cock. Then he would resume fucking her. The experience ended with my wife giving Rob a hand job to completion.

After Rob left, we proceeded to have the hottest sex we had every had. After that, I asked her if the experience had met her expectations. She said it had blown her mind and was way better than she had ever imagined. She wanted to know how I felt and I was honest. I told I enjoyed it was more enjoyable than I expected but it wasn't earth shattering. I told I would be open to a repeat if she wanted to, which she eagerly agreed to.

Skip forward about ten months. We had had a few more experiences with Rob, and another guy. And then we met 'Jay'. After a few times meeting for drinks there was some definite chemistry between the three of us and we agreed to meet at his house. It didn't take long before we were all naked and playing with each other. Jay was the first guy to give me a blow job, and I reciprocated. And he had amazing stamina. After at least two hours, my wife needed a break. While we recuperating, my wife was slowly stroking his cock when she smiled at me and then asked Jay if he only fucked wives or if he did husbands too. I was pretty shocked at this, since we had never discussed it. I wasn't a complete novice when it came to butt play, as my wife had used her fingers and a couple of toys on me. But this was definitely new territory, but I was curious to see where this would go.

Jay replied that he had never done that before, but he was willing to try. My wife looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. So she got some lube and started preparing my ass while she had me play with Jay. After a couple of minutes, she had me lay an my back while Jay got in position and she held my legs. Soon I felt the head of Jay's cock against my ass and I took a deep breath and tried to relax. My wife was watching with pure lust as Jay slowly pushed into me. I was actually surprised at how easy it was for Jay to enter me, there was some uncomfortable pressure at first but after the first few inches it started to feel really good.

'Oh baby, he's actually fucking you. I can't believe it. This is amazing.' my wife said as she watched us. 'Do you like it baby? It looks so hot!'

I had to admit, I was actually enjoying this. 'It feels so good. Your cock feels amazing.' I said.

Jay didn't need any further encouragement, and he proceeded to fuck me in earnest. My wife moved up and started kissing him while he continued to plow my ass, and it just felt better and better. I was amazed at how good it felt, and was surprised to find my dick rock hard and leaking precum. I moaned when Jay grabbed my dick and started stroking me as he continued his fucking as he and my wife made out. It didn't take long before I reached the point of no return.

'Oh fuck, I'm going to cum' I said as I started having one of the most amazing orgasms ever. I shot four or five ropes of cum over my chest and stomach as I blew my load. It wasn't long before Jay got to that point as well, and asked where he should cum.

'Cum inside him, I want you to cum inside him' my wife said. Jay looked at me and I nodded. Three of four strokes later and I could feel him stiffen and then shoot his load into my ass.

We played for a long time that night..

And that is the story is how my wife took me from a straight man to a cock loving bisexual horndog.
I can only imagine how many guys reading this are incredibly envious of your experience with you and your wife sharing a cock. I know I would love to experience this . Thank you for sharing your experience with all of us dreamers.
 
First some background. My wife was raised in a very conservative Christian home. I knew she had a kinky streak but it took a few years to work through her repressed sexuality. She eventually become very comfortable with expressing herself, and we started expanding our activities. Eventually she got comfortable sharing her fantasies. Which is where we pick up the story..

We were driving home from a friend's house when she asked me to pull into a parking lot so we could talk. Once we were parked, she nervously looked at me, and said she wanted to ask me something but I had to promise not to get upset or angry. I assured her I wouldn't. She nodded, and then proceeded to ask me if I would be willing to make her favorite fantasy come true, even if it was something I didn't want to do. I told her as long as it didn't involve body mutilation or physical harm, there wasn't anything I wouldn't do to make her happy. She nodded.

'Okay, I want you to suck a cock with me. A real cock, another man's cock'

That was not what I was expecting. I am sure the look on my face could not have been encouraging.

She pleaded with me, telling me how long she has had fantasy of watching a guy suck another guy, and sharing with him. How she knew it could never happen, but thought that maybe I might be willing since I had been so encouraging her in escaping her repressed past.

After some discussion, I agreed that I would consider it but I wasn't committing to it. To be honest, it wasn't really something I was interested in but I also wanted to continue encourage my wife in her sexual journey. So I eventually agreed that if we could find someone we were both comfortable with I would try it one time.

It took a while and a lot of time on hookup apps and websites, but eventually we met 'Rob'. After several texts and chats we agreed to meet at a hotel bar for drinks. We were all nervous at first, but we quickly developed a good rapport. I gave her the nod and we all agreed to head to our room.

Once there, things happened really fast. My wife and Rob started making out while I watched. The quickly undressed each other and she started fondling his cock and balls. She then started kissing me while she unbuttoned pants and told me to get naked. While I undressed, she continued to play with Rob's now hard dick. Once I was fully undressed she started stroking me as well. She pulled us closer together and then got on her knees and started sucking our cocks, switching back and forth. After a few minutes of this, should pushed Rob onto the bed and motioned for me to join her. I knelt down next to her, my heart beating a hundred miles an hour.

She held Rob's dick in her hand, looked at me intently and whispered 'Lick his dick, baby.'

I reached out with my tongue and slowly licked his shaft from her hand to the head.

'Oh my God. Baby this is so hot.' she said as I continued to lick up and down with my tongue.

My wife eased me away from his erect penis, as she then started to suck his cock. After a few seconds, she stopped and said 'Now you're turn. Suck Rob's cock for me.'

I hesitated for just a moment, then leaned over, opened my mouth, and wrapped my lips around the head of his cock. I then begin to give another man a blowjob for the first time in my life. I bobbed up and down on him while my wife continued to whisper encouragement to me. She was really get turned on, and eventually joined me as we took turns to Rob's great enjoyment. After several minutes of sharing, my wife joined Rob and the bed and said she wanted to watch me suck my first cock. They started kissing, while I continued to pleasure him. After several more minutes, Rob said "Your husband is doing a great job, but I really need to fuck right now".

My told Rob we had not really planned on going that far, but I told her I was okay with it if she was. At this point, I really did want to watch Rob fuck my wife (my own secret fantasy). So we changed positions and I got to watch another man fuck my wife for the first time and I loved it. At one point, Rob positioned my wife on her knees and asked me to get underneath and eat her pussy. He then proceeded to fuck her doggy style, and I got my first fucklicking experience. We soon got into rhythm where he would fuck her for several seconds, then pull out and feed me his cock. Then he would resume fucking her. The experience ended with my wife giving Rob a hand job to completion.

After Rob left, we proceeded to have the hottest sex we had every had. After that, I asked her if the experience had met her expectations. She said it had blown her mind and was way better than she had ever imagined. She wanted to know how I felt and I was honest. I told I enjoyed it was more enjoyable than I expected but it wasn't earth shattering. I told I would be open to a repeat if she wanted to, which she eagerly agreed to.

Skip forward about ten months. We had had a few more experiences with Rob, and another guy. And then we met 'Jay'. After a few times meeting for drinks there was some definite chemistry between the three of us and we agreed to meet at his house. It didn't take long before we were all naked and playing with each other. Jay was the first guy to give me a blow job, and I reciprocated. And he had amazing stamina. After at least two hours, my wife needed a break. While we recuperating, my wife was slowly stroking his cock when she smiled at me and then asked Jay if he only fucked wives or if he did husbands too. I was pretty shocked at this, since we had never discussed it. I wasn't a complete novice when it came to butt play, as my wife had used her fingers and a couple of toys on me. But this was definitely new territory, but I was curious to see where this would go.

Jay replied that he had never done that before, but he was willing to try. My wife looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. So she got some lube and started preparing my ass while she had me play with Jay. After a couple of minutes, she had me lay an my back while Jay got in position and she held my legs. Soon I felt the head of Jay's cock against my ass and I took a deep breath and tried to relax. My wife was watching with pure lust as Jay slowly pushed into me. I was actually surprised at how easy it was for Jay to enter me, there was some uncomfortable pressure at first but after the first few inches it started to feel really good.

'Oh baby, he's actually fucking you. I can't believe it. This is amazing.' my wife said as she watched us. 'Do you like it baby? It looks so hot!'

I had to admit, I was actually enjoying this. 'It feels so good. Your cock feels amazing.' I said.

Jay didn't need any further encouragement, and he proceeded to fuck me in earnest. My wife moved up and started kissing him while he continued to plow my ass, and it just felt better and better. I was amazed at how good it felt, and was surprised to find my dick rock hard and leaking precum. I moaned when Jay grabbed my dick and started stroking me as he continued his fucking as he and my wife made out. It didn't take long before I reached the point of no return.

'Oh fuck, I'm going to cum' I said as I started having one of the most amazing orgasms ever. I shot four or five ropes of cum over my chest and stomach as I blew my load. It wasn't long before Jay got to that point as well, and asked where he should cum.

'Cum inside him, I want you to cum inside him' my wife said. Jay looked at me and I nodded. Three of four strokes later and I could feel him stiffen and then shoot his load into my ass.

We played for a long time that night..

And that is the story is how my wife took me from a straight man to a cock loving bisexual horndog.
God I am sooooo jealous that you have a wife like that.
 
I can only imagine how many guys reading this are incredibly envious of your experience with you and your wife sharing a cock. I know I would love to experience this . Thank you for sharing your experience with all of us dreamers.
Believe me, I am aware of how lucky I am. It took a lot of courage for my wife to share her fantasy with me. She was terrified that it would turn out poorly.

I have since had many conversations with women after they find out I am bi and I am always amaze at how many share my wife’s fantasy but they are certain they husband would never be open to it. I know there a lot of guys out there in your position whose wives would love to see you experience it but are afraid to tell you. I feel for you guys. I am just enormously grateful to be one of the fortunate ones and hope that someday you are able to have an experience like mine.
 
First some background. My wife was raised in a very conservative Christian home. I knew she had a kinky streak but it took a few years to work through her repressed sexuality. She eventually become very comfortable with expressing herself, and we started expanding our activities. Eventually she got comfortable sharing her fantasies. Which is where we pick up the story..

We were driving home from a friend's house when she asked me to pull into a parking lot so we could talk. Once we were parked, she nervously looked at me, and said she wanted to ask me something but I had to promise not to get upset or angry. I assured her I wouldn't. She nodded, and then proceeded to ask me if I would be willing to make her favorite fantasy come true, even if it was something I didn't want to do. I told her as long as it didn't involve body mutilation or physical harm, there wasn't anything I wouldn't do to make her happy. She nodded.

'Okay, I want you to suck a cock with me. A real cock, another man's cock'

That was not what I was expecting. I am sure the look on my face could not have been encouraging.

She pleaded with me, telling me how long she has had fantasy of watching a guy suck another guy, and sharing with him. How she knew it could never happen, but thought that maybe I might be willing since I had been so encouraging her in escaping her repressed past.

After some discussion, I agreed that I would consider it but I wasn't committing to it. To be honest, it wasn't really something I was interested in but I also wanted to continue encourage my wife in her sexual journey. So I eventually agreed that if we could find someone we were both comfortable with I would try it one time.

It took a while and a lot of time on hookup apps and websites, but eventually we met 'Rob'. After several texts and chats we agreed to meet at a hotel bar for drinks. We were all nervous at first, but we quickly developed a good rapport. I gave her the nod and we all agreed to head to our room.

Once there, things happened really fast. My wife and Rob started making out while I watched. The quickly undressed each other and she started fondling his cock and balls. She then started kissing me while she unbuttoned pants and told me to get naked. While I undressed, she continued to play with Rob's now hard dick. Once I was fully undressed she started stroking me as well. She pulled us closer together and then got on her knees and started sucking our cocks, switching back and forth. After a few minutes of this, should pushed Rob onto the bed and motioned for me to join her. I knelt down next to her, my heart beating a hundred miles an hour.

She held Rob's dick in her hand, looked at me intently and whispered 'Lick his dick, baby.'

I reached out with my tongue and slowly licked his shaft from her hand to the head.

'Oh my God. Baby this is so hot.' she said as I continued to lick up and down with my tongue.

My wife eased me away from his erect penis, as she then started to suck his cock. After a few seconds, she stopped and said 'Now you're turn. Suck Rob's cock for me.'

I hesitated for just a moment, then leaned over, opened my mouth, and wrapped my lips around the head of his cock. I then begin to give another man a blowjob for the first time in my life. I bobbed up and down on him while my wife continued to whisper encouragement to me. She was really get turned on, and eventually joined me as we took turns to Rob's great enjoyment. After several minutes of sharing, my wife joined Rob and the bed and said she wanted to watch me suck my first cock. They started kissing, while I continued to pleasure him. After several more minutes, Rob said "Your husband is doing a great job, but I really need to fuck right now".

My told Rob we had not really planned on going that far, but I told her I was okay with it if she was. At this point, I really did want to watch Rob fuck my wife (my own secret fantasy). So we changed positions and I got to watch another man fuck my wife for the first time and I loved it. At one point, Rob positioned my wife on her knees and asked me to get underneath and eat her pussy. He then proceeded to fuck her doggy style, and I got my first fucklicking experience. We soon got into rhythm where he would fuck her for several seconds, then pull out and feed me his cock. Then he would resume fucking her. The experience ended with my wife giving Rob a hand job to completion.

After Rob left, we proceeded to have the hottest sex we had every had. After that, I asked her if the experience had met her expectations. She said it had blown her mind and was way better than she had ever imagined. She wanted to know how I felt and I was honest. I told I enjoyed it was more enjoyable than I expected but it wasn't earth shattering. I told I would be open to a repeat if she wanted to, which she eagerly agreed to.

Skip forward about ten months. We had had a few more experiences with Rob, and another guy. And then we met 'Jay'. After a few times meeting for drinks there was some definite chemistry between the three of us and we agreed to meet at his house. It didn't take long before we were all naked and playing with each other. Jay was the first guy to give me a blow job, and I reciprocated. And he had amazing stamina. After at least two hours, my wife needed a break. While we recuperating, my wife was slowly stroking his cock when she smiled at me and then asked Jay if he only fucked wives or if he did husbands too. I was pretty shocked at this, since we had never discussed it. I wasn't a complete novice when it came to butt play, as my wife had used her fingers and a couple of toys on me. But this was definitely new territory, but I was curious to see where this would go.

Jay replied that he had never done that before, but he was willing to try. My wife looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. So she got some lube and started preparing my ass while she had me play with Jay. After a couple of minutes, she had me lay an my back while Jay got in position and she held my legs. Soon I felt the head of Jay's cock against my ass and I took a deep breath and tried to relax. My wife was watching with pure lust as Jay slowly pushed into me. I was actually surprised at how easy it was for Jay to enter me, there was some uncomfortable pressure at first but after the first few inches it started to feel really good.

'Oh baby, he's actually fucking you. I can't believe it. This is amazing.' my wife said as she watched us. 'Do you like it baby? It looks so hot!'

I had to admit, I was actually enjoying this. 'It feels so good. Your cock feels amazing.' I said.

Jay didn't need any further encouragement, and he proceeded to fuck me in earnest. My wife moved up and started kissing him while he continued to plow my ass, and it just felt better and better. I was amazed at how good it felt, and was surprised to find my dick rock hard and leaking precum. I moaned when Jay grabbed my dick and started stroking me as he continued his fucking as he and my wife made out. It didn't take long before I reached the point of no return.

'Oh fuck, I'm going to cum' I said as I started having one of the most amazing orgasms ever. I shot four or five ropes of cum over my chest and stomach as I blew my load. It wasn't long before Jay got to that point as well, and asked where he should cum.

'Cum inside him, I want you to cum inside him' my wife said. Jay looked at me and I nodded. Three of four strokes later and I could feel him stiffen and then shoot his load into my ass.

We played for a long time that night..

And that is the story is how my wife took me from a straight man to a cock loving bisexual horndog.
Amazing! My fantasy!
 
Believe me, I am aware of how lucky I am. It took a lot of courage for my wife to share her fantasy with me. She was terrified that it would turn out poorly.

I have since had many conversations with women after they find out I am bi and I am always amaze at how many share my wife’s fantasy but they are certain they husband would never be open to it. I know there a lot of guys out there in your position whose wives would love to see you experience it but are afraid to tell you. I feel for you guys. I am just enormously grateful to be one of the fortunate ones and hope that someday you are able to have an experience like mine.
Before we married my wife and i would have marathon sex on the weekends. Whe would often rent and watch straight porn movies. One move we thought was straight had bi scenes which turned me on since i have allways be bi but she didn't know. She picked up on my excitement. At that point the movies we rented we allways bi oriented. She would tease me while fucking saying she knew i wanted to suck cock. I finally admited that did and confessed my sexual past.
 
You are a very lucky man. When I told my wife, she went berserk. Well, she definitely wasn't happy about it. Took quite a while to get our marriage back on track.
My 1st sexual experiences were same sex. I married my 1st wife at 21 years old. I continued having same sex activity for the 25 years we were married with out her knowing.
 
I have to say that the thread title seems strange: "Adult onset bisexuality". If you google just "Adult onset" what comes back is various health chronic conditions such as

Adult onset allergies
Adult onset asthma
Adult onset diabetes (type II of course)
Adult onset Still's disease
Adult onset Hydrocephalus
...

Hopefully, the author didn't mean to insinuate that bisexuality is a disease; still that is the typical connotation of the phrase "adult onset..."

While I personally don't like labels, I have little in common with most of the men who comment on this "alphabet" Chatter. I don't crave cock at all. It simply, usually cums with men. Oral sex pales in comparison with being inside a man's behind. I've had hundreds (if not thousands) of attempted blow jobs. I think it should be a requirement that if a guy claims how great they are at giving blowjobs that they should be filmed doing so with their hands tied behind their backs. Why? Because most guys literally suck at giving blow jobs. The namely suck on the head ah the last part of the shaft. They hardly ever take the entire shaft or if they do it isn't for very long. They usually give what I would call a hand job with a modification that they will suck on the tip of the cock while jacking most of the shaft with their hands.

Where as with a man's asshole, if it is clean and the guy isn't in pain, you can stay as deep and as long as you want to and get lost in the moment. Of course some tops run it by treating a man's asshole as though it is a titanium chamber to excavate as if you possess a jack hammer. A man's asshole is a privilege sanctuary to enter into. Sadly, may times it may be the one and only time you get to enter such a man's cave. It should be treated as a shrine and privileged space to enter.

You never know if you will have the chance to be there again, so make the most of it. I'm so fortunate, that I have a beautiful man with a beautiful hairy ass. Sadly, with my ED, I am cursed not to be able to enter -- at least not with my cock. You cannot get any deeper closeness with another man than being inside him. Thank GOD for ever man who is willing to let you enter his most sacred space. Bottoms are the closet a man can get to the divine on earth.
You said men suck at giving blow jobs. i have to disagree. I've had many awsome blow jobs from women but by far the best blow jobs I've received were from men. They do far more than just sucking on the head and jacking. I'm sure there are men that are bad at it but then again the worst i ever had was good.
 
Early 50's when I though about expanding and experimenting. Chatted with a bi-cpl online and decided it was time to make the move. Arranged to meet at their place and i was early so popped in local dive for a lil liquid courage. Got to their place, he opened the door and she was sitting on the couch naked. We all had the same thought, Jackpot. Was offered a beer and sat down next to her and he sat on the other side of me. Wasn't much small talk going on.
He made the first move and started rubbing my cock while I was stroking her thigh. After 60 seconds I was rock hard and reached for my first experience rubbing another guy's cock. We immediately moved upstairs to the king mattress on the floor and off came the laundry. We were stroking each other's cock while she sat in front of us watching.
Got my first taste of cock when I sat next to her and she grabbed his cock and pointed it to my mouth. Nice mushroom head.
We passed him back and forth and I needed a taste of her. Got into the triangle, I was eating her, he was sucking me, she was sucking him, then BING, switch. I'm sucking him, he's eating her, and she's sucking me.
Him and I stood up and he pinned me against the wall, got on his knees and just went to work on my cock. Didn't hold out too long and dumped my first load down his throat. He didn't skip a beat and kept sucking me til I got hard again, the whole time she's on the bed with her toy buried deep, turned-on watching us enjoy each other. Didn't take long when I got hard again and put a second load down his throat. First 2 BJ's by another guy was one to remember.
I plopped down on the bed and he plopped in front of me, stroking and pointing his cock towards my mouth. Rolled on my stomach and took his cock full throat. Was sucking him and wasn't even aware of her til she propped my ass in the air, lubed up my ass, and slid her toy inside me. She's pounding me with her toy and I'm bobbing on his cock, then BING, they switched.
My tongue is deep in her honey hole when he grabs my hips and pressed his mushroom head into me. I felt that pop when his head pushed in me. I was completely blown away by how he felt sliding deeper in my virgin ass. What started slow quickly built up until he couldn't pound me hard or fast enough. As he slowed down I could feel his cock beginning to throb. He drilled me hard one last time and dumped his whole load deep in me.

3rd inning stretch lol

After cleaning up and some fluids, it was her turn but I knew I'd be back around to him soon. She's on all fours and I'm fucking her from behind with him standing by me with his cock in my mouth until he caught me by surprise and dumped his warm salty load down my throat. My first time swallowing another guy's load. I knew it wouldn't be the last.
She rolled over just in time to watch me take his load, then I moved him down, ass propped up, lubed him up, and the wait to fuck another guy was over as I pushed into him. She got a POV as she held his ass cheeks apart while I pushed inside him. There was a gleam in her eyes watching her man taking my cock. The harder I fucked him, the more she moaned until I couldn't hold back anymore and dumped my load inside my first guy.
We went another few innings, 7th inning stretch, cleaned up, got fluids in, and went back at it til 4 in the morning. Needless to say, my first time with the cpl who popped my cherry got me forever hooked. Got together with them twice a month for the next 6 months, even with them bringing in another bi-cpl twice.
Wow that was great. I've had soom great experiences but yours beat them all. Very exciting!
 
Herr is my story. What is yours?.

I was 50 when I first got the desire ro have sex with another man. I resisted i
the urge for several years. Finally I could no longer resist. I came out to my wife before my first time. After many discussions she helped be clarify that my primary interest was in sucking cocks. She was OK with that and was even a bit excited about it.

We found out neither of us were really all that happy with penis in vagina sex. She wanted more cunnilingus and then wanted to help me masturbate or just watch me masturbate. I was OK with that.

Within a month I sucked cock for the first time. It was better than I expected. My homosexuality did not replace my heterosexuality. It was an addon.
Boom, same story just wish I had the similar experience
 
You said men suck at giving blow jobs. i have to disagree. I've had many awsome blow jobs from women but by far the best blow jobs I've received were from men. They do far more than just sucking on the head and jacking. I'm sure there are men that are bad at it but then again the worst i ever had was good.
i have had 100's of BJ's over the years though I have been monogamous with my partner who I have been with for 21 years this Labor Day. While he came the closest to getting me off orally, the fact is that I have had ZERO orgasms from strictly getting blown. Most men give up after about 20+ minutes of sucking. They eventually would try to jack me off which with their acidic saliva would start to rub me raw. If they continued oral, their jaw would get tired and then the teeth scraping begins which also can make my cock sore.

Now on the other hand a nice muscular, hairy, clean asshole is just perfect. Sadly, with my very bad case of ED, I have only fond memories. Fucking is so natural to me, and it was never a race to the finish line. I enjoyed the journey of being truely connected to another man who I found attractive and manly yet with a kind heart. To look into his eyes and feel like you were as close physically as two men can get. Likewise, I always had such a high sex drive that I enjoyed post fucking hugging. I also remembered so many conversations about any topic be it fun and light hearted or serious about things they normally didn't discuss. ;Now when I say I have a high sex drive. I'm not saying I always was up for doing it again and again. My ability to recuperate and start again, greatly diminished when I was in my 30's. It is more about these post fucking times that with all this extra stuff, I felt truly satisfied for a time than sex only would have felt.
 
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Started for me at 23 while doing military service.
Before I considered myself gay but for service (15 months) I hired my female cousin (she knew I was gay) as a “GF”. She picked me up at barracks, we smooched in public, she wrote hot letters and sent me pictures (this is late 90s) to keep in my pocket and show my room-mates. All for the sake of being straight. But she was very flirty with my room-mates and seeing how she affected them I started nursing the idea of being attracted by girls.

After service I studied at the university but the gay community there was too outspoken and flamboyant and I couldn’t relate or take part. So I started dating what could be call tomboys instead. Settled for the sportier type (soccer and floorball) and spent my university years flipping between guys and girls that attracted me.
Thanks for sharing your history with me. Extremely smart the decisions you made. Really cool!
 
I have to say that the thread title seems strange: "Adult onset bisexuality". If you google just "Adult onset" what comes back is various health chronic conditions such as

Adult onset allergies
Adult onset asthma
Adult onset diabetes (type II of course)
Adult onset Still's disease
Adult onset Hydrocephalus
...

Hopefully, the author didn't mean to insinuate that bisexuality is a disease; still that is the typical connotation of the phrase "adult onset..."
I KNOW RIGHT i saw the title and was like wtf
 
I’ve always been bi and known I was so I can’t comment for myself but one of the guys I met at the sauna today told me while we were in the bar that he has only started experimenting recently. He’d watched some hay porn and jerked off with a friend but that’s the sun total of his experiences. His wife has gone off sex and he’s frustrated and horny. So he’s started to release his frustration by using the sauna and expanding his horizons (and my hole) he’s found a whole new side of himself and is loving being sexually active, he doesn’t see it as cheating on his wife as he says he still loves her and just needs to experience his pleasure
 
I did in no way want to imply that bisexuality was in any way pathological. I just could not think of a better way of describing the phenomenon. I am open to suggestions and recommendations.

I am convinced that the phenomenon is real although there appears to be little sociological research on the topic. It is clear that many are reacting to declining sexual interest on the part if their wives. However, that does not explain why they sought gay sex rather than sex with another woman.
 
When we are just starting with sexuality, we are so new to it that almost everything seems new and exciting. Since we tend to be groomed to hetrosexual relations in one form or the other, I know I was intrigued by this other gender... ladies... and found sex interesting and engaging in my earlier years. There was so much to experience and learn!!

I will never fully understand the other gender granted, but that is what makes bi-sexual curiosity also intense at elevated ages.

Suddenly at an elevated age where life has tought people, "things are not always what they seem", and inhabitions become eroded, it seems almost natural to wonder about the other 3.5 billion people on this earth that are the same gender.

As I stand at a urinal straing straight ahead, I have to wonder, what does that man beside me have for a cock? With the magic of the internet, I can see pictures and find out. It seems other guys wonder too fromwhat I read on this site. So it seems, I am not as strange as I thought I was.

For thirty years I have been getting blowjobs, and at age 20 the act of getting one was new and exciting. Now at age 50 I have to wonder, what would GIVING ONE be like? So too, I always wondered why Lisa had no problems swallowing my cum, but Kelly hated too? There is only one way to truly find out.

How we were raised will have a huge impact on how far these thoughts take us. If we have had strong religious upbringings then when opportunites present itself we may not act upon them, but that is different then general bi-sexual curiosity. Nobody is wrong on how far, or how little they proceed, as that is up to their own moral compass. But I do think there is a natural bi-sexual curisosity as we age.
 
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