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seela said:
It's not really a journey, at least not anymore. For clarity, I'm only doing No Nut November now, so it's not any crazy long stint this time around.

I really enjoy the feeling that comes from actively not having an orgasm. Actively here meaning that I want one but don't have one. I become softer, more open, less bothered by little things. My mind escapes to sexy bliss every time there's a chance. Even tiniest stimulation feels amazing, like sitting on a tram when it goes through an intersection with lots of tracks going every which way. The clonkity-clonk makes the tram seat vibrate a little and that makes me tremble.

I love it how my hands wander and I squeeze my thighs together when I don't notice, how I actually feel sexy (it never, ever happens otherwise), and how I become so very pliable and willing to go an extra mile. It can all be extremely intimate, as long as the big letter person is so inclined.

Not knowing when the release comes, if it will be a full orgasm or a ruined one, possibly getting the chance to earn it... It's so good. And after I've had an orgasm, I always end up wondering if I could have gone on longer without and if it would have made a difference in the experience.

I'm now doing this solo and as the name of the challenge, or whatever you'd like to call that, is No Nut November, I obviously know when I'll finish and I get to decide everything by myself. It's a little different from my previous experiences, but I've managed to reach some of the positive aspects doing this alone, too.
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O. M. F. G.

I completely agree with:

seela said:
I become softer, more open, less bothered by little things. My mind escapes to sexy bliss every time there's a chance. Even tiniest stimulation feels amazing ...
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Yes. I mean ... I personally find the experience to become more painful after a while, but I also think that I'm a more liberated, exciting, energetic person. Part of that feeling came from hearing your stories at the beginning of the year, actually, so ... thank you.

Your experiences always sound slightly ... spiritual? Is that the right word? It sounds like you are pursuing pleasure beyond the purely obtainable?

... I don't know whether this is a diplomatic question to ask about "doing it solo" so ... I won't ask it. I just hope everything is alright and you are happy doing ... whatever it is you do.

I'll place a wager that you actually try to go no-nut until the end of the year though. Prove me wrong!
 
HotBrand said:
O. M. F. G.

I completely agree with:



Yes. I mean ... I personally find the experience to become more painful after a while, but I also think that I'm a more liberated, exciting, energetic person. Part of that feeling came from hearing your stories at the beginning of the year, actually, so ... thank you.

Your experiences always sound slightly ... spiritual? Is that the right word? It sounds like you are pursuing pleasure beyond the purely obtainable?

... I don't know whether this is a diplomatic question to ask about "doing it solo" so ... I won't ask it. I just hope everything is alright and you are happy doing ... whatever it is you do.

I'll place a wager that you actually try to go no-nut until the end of the year though. Prove me wrong!
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Interesting that you'd interpret it as spiritual, because I don't feel like that about this at all. I think orgasm denial just plays nicely into the aspects that I enjoy about D/s.

I don't think I'm going to go until the end of the year. I'm getting antsy and as there's no real reason to keep going beyond November, I highly doubt I'll do it.
 
Hi Seela.

I'd like to know, if there's one element of yourself that you've developed and attempted to change using BDSM as a tool to explore, what would that be?
 
You can choose any one animal as a pet. It's friendly and well trained, it's not going to injure anybody (unless they're asking for it), and it will live as long as you do. What do you pick?
 
You're stranded on a desert island, seela.

The island has sixteen trees, four bushes with berries, and a tiny pool of rainwater. The soil is mainly sandy, the fauna is a mixture of small snakes and seagulls, and there are no other islands in sight.

You can tell that it can get stormy in these parts by the bits of driftwood that lie off one side of the island.

Knowing all this ... how long do you think your no nut would last?

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I'm joking! If you were left on a desert island, what one item would you wish to have with you?
 
HotBrand said:
You're stranded on a desert island, seela.

The island has sixteen trees, four bushes with berries, and a tiny pool of rainwater. The soil is mainly sandy, the fauna is a mixture of small snakes and seagulls, and there are no other islands in sight.

You can tell that it can get stormy in these parts by the bits of driftwood that lie off one side of the island.

Knowing all this ... how long do you think your no nut would last?

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I'm joking! If you were left on a desert island, what one item would you wish to have with you?
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A functioning phone so that I can call someone to get me out of there. A satellite phone or some such. I wouldn't survive no matter what one item I picked, so the only option is to get out of there.
 
Bramblethorn said:
You can choose any one animal as a pet. It's friendly and well trained, it's not going to injure anybody (unless they're asking for it), and it will live as long as you do. What do you pick?
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I'm not sure I'd want any animal as a pet. I have serious doubts I'd be able to provide a good home for any animal. Good meaning one where they can engage in behavior that is natural to the anima, like digging, roaming etc. As much as I generally like cats and find them cute, I have issues with owning an animal just for my own entertainment.
 
seela said:
A functioning phone so that I can call someone to get me out of there. A satellite phone or some such. I wouldn't survive no matter what one item I picked, so the only option is to get out of there.
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Egh. A functioning phone? No. No phone. There's no network. It's dead. You can't speak!

Such a disappointing answer. Stay on your tropical island in misery!

Loved your answer about the pet though. How thoughtful :)
 
seela said:
It's not really a journey, at least not anymore. For clarity, I'm only doing No Nut November now, so it's not any crazy long stint this time around.

I really enjoy the feeling that comes from actively not having an orgasm. Actively here meaning that I want one but don't have one. I become softer, more open, less bothered by little things. My mind escapes to sexy bliss every time there's a chance. Even tiniest stimulation feels amazing, like sitting on a tram when it goes through an intersection with lots of tracks going every which way. The clonkity-clonk makes the tram seat vibrate a little and that makes me tremble.

I love it how my hands wander and I squeeze my thighs together when I don't notice, how I actually feel sexy (it never, ever happens otherwise), and how I become so very pliable and willing to go an extra mile. It can all be extremely intimate, as long as the big letter person is so inclined.

Not knowing when the release comes, if it will be a full orgasm or a ruined one, possibly getting the chance to earn it... It's so good. And after I've had an orgasm, I always end up wondering if I could have gone on longer without and if it would have made a difference in the experience.

I'm now doing this solo and as the name of the challenge, or whatever you'd like to call that, is No Nut November, I obviously know when I'll finish and I get to decide everything by myself. It's a little different from my previous experiences, but I've managed to reach some of the positive aspects doing this alone, too.
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Okay Seela, annoying question: are you edging this time or simply being celibate?
 
afriquemystique said:
Hi Seela.

I'd like to know, if there's one element of yourself that you've developed and attempted to change using BDSM as a tool to explore, what would that be?
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I'm not sure if you're asking what (if anything) I've done in past or what I'd like to do.

In past I have used BDSM as a tool to get more exercise. I find it easier to do things for others than I do for myself. I don't like exercise, so when someone tells me to go, it's easier to get myself motivated. It's worked fine, but only as long as it's been actively enforced. When the dynamic wasn't there anymore, I didn't find myself any more interested in exercise than I used to be.

I have started to wear matching underwear as a result of a BDSM thing. Not sure if that counts.

One thing I'd love to use BDSM for is better self-confidence and just being kinder towards myself. I don't see that happening or working out.

I think the changes have to come from within me, I have to truly want it and believe in my ability to achieve the goal. It's lovely, if the D person encourages and helps, but the D person can't be the reason I do the things. Otherwise it'll never work out.

I liked this question, thank you.
 
Speaking for everyone here ... I *love* the new AV. The face made me laugh out loud!

Question: is there any part of your sexuality, and how you express yourself, that you feel you should work on?

Is there any part that you feel you have improved on, and feel better or stronger as a result?
 
HotBrand said:
Speaking for everyone here ... I *love* the new AV. The face made me laugh out loud!

Question: is there any part of your sexuality, and how you express yourself, that you feel you should work on?

Is there any part that you feel you have improved on, and feel better or stronger as a result?
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That's a difficult question.

I should work on being more open about my desires. I wasn't always this stuck up. I also should work on being more accepting in general and definitely more accepting of myself and kinder towards myself. I should learn to use my words. I've become shy.

Honestly, I think I've regressed rather than improved on anything. But if I have to say something, I've gotten better at edging and cleaning. I don't think it makes me feel better or stronger, though.
 
seela said:
Do you know the answers?
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No, but I can check if your answers are right. There are groups dedicated to solving it. The dictionary page one seems to be the most difficult one, as far as I can tell from the postings. And the answers will be published on the 9th by the newspaper itself.
 
Primalex said:
The christmas riddle of the Süddeutsche Zeitung:

https://imgur.com/a/APiIdoM

What are five of seven answers or the final answer?
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2, 4 and 6 solved. I think I might know the two components of #7 but I'm struggling with the Redewendung part of it. So maybe that means I don't actually have the right parts.

I also have sort of an idea for #1. I just have to find a good word list to find the exact word. Edit: Ooh, I was completely in the wrong with this one before. Got it now. :)

My German isn't quite up to par to a task like this, I'm afraid.
 
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Primalex said:
:rose:
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Are they correct? Do you already know the answers to the dictionary and the map?

I think the map might be about majority catholic Gemeinde (omg I've broken my English!) but I have no clue about the perk it could bring. An extra day off on the local Saint's day? :D

Clearly, with the dictionary puzzle the ending is important, so it's probably in ABC order by the last letter or syllable or there's some other clear progression to it. But my vocabulary isn't good enough to figure out the words. Suppenteller is one of them, I think.

I don't have any ideas for the final puzzle with the stamps. You probably have to identify the people and places. I also noticed there's no value on them. That's how far I got.

gracie920101 said:
I think your German probably outshines about 90% of us here.
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Yes, that's probably true. I studied German for 8 years in school. :)

Ooh, Gemeinde is municipality, now I remember! All I could think of before was communion. :D

MeekMe said:
Yes, seela is gifted. :rose: a beautiful mind. She doesn’t realize her beautiful outside, though. It’s beautiful, if you didn’t know.
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:eek::rose:
 
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