As a sub do you sometimes misbehave on purposes ?

[shy slave]

i also get really curious about anger and wanting to know what will happen if i make him angry. What will he do? What will he say? How will i feel? Sometimes i just have to find out.

Once again, we have similar outlooks.

When in a relationship this sums me up so well.

I want to know how well I can cope when they lose their temper, once I have seen that happen i feel more at ease and relaxed about who he is and who i am.

It as if I want to see the worst, so I know if I can cope.

This part of me is not new, I did it all the time in vanilla relationships, but again, once seen I relaxed and settled into the whole nine yards of it all.

 

[ammre]

I don't do well with "acting out because I feel ignored", but then, I've never dealt with that from someone I care about a lot. If I were emotionally invested enough in the person as a whole. I think I could get into even that form of give and take.

See, when I feel ignored, if after evaluation I start worrying that I'm being too clingy, I'll give some distance. If i don't think that i'm just being insecure of clingy I'll be like, "Hey, soo uh, what's with the lack of intrest?"

I may play some physical games if i can tell the Dom doesn't mind, but I won't play emotional games.

 

[ponysslave]

I am continuously bratty. I don't mean to be and my Master definitely lets me know when he's had enough. My brattiness caused me to lose my collar a couple weeks ago. I have earned it back on a probationary term but that was the worst punishment I could ever have and there was no beating involved. However, I learned more about our relationship and my desire to serve during that time.

So, no...I'm not intentionally bratty or misbehaving...and I have definitely learned why.

 

[hardcorexmaster]

I can say I wouldn't want too. I'm way too into the pleasing aspect to do that. Not that I have one to misbehave for...lol.... but if I did, I would want to be an incredibly, incredibly good girl so that he's pleased.
I feel like truly submitting means letting go of what I want for pleasure and really focusing on doing what is necessary to please him which is my main purpose.


What do most of the Doms reading this think?

I'm a Master and I think that that is how every submissive should be. I don't mind punishing my bitch (I don't have one right now either, but when I do...) for misbehaving, but if she isn't trying to please me then she really just isn't a good sub. In my relationships, I try to meet the needs of my sub without letting her know that I care. I want her to think that my needs are more important to me than hers, even though that's not true. I expect her to value my wishes far above her own, so if I don't look out to give her satisfaction no one will.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm a Master and I think that that is how every submissive should be. I don't mind punishing my bitch (I don't have one right now either, but when I do...) for misbehaving, but if she isn't trying to please me then she really just isn't a good sub. In my relationships, I try to meet the needs of my sub without letting her know that I care. I want her to think that my needs are more important to me than hers, even though that's not true. I expect her to value my wishes far above her own, so if I don't look out to give her satisfaction no one will.

You are not my kind of Dom.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

You are not my kind of Dom.

Mine either.