Bi Married and closeted

[CuriousmwmCock]

Hi, discreet bi mwm and not out to anyone even my wife. Just wish I could find one normal married bi guy to play n explore with. I absolutely Love Cum and the Hard Cocks which unload it for my hungry mouth. Please feel free to say hello, thanks

 

[Guns444]

Hi, discreet bi mwm and not out to anyone even my wife. Just wish I could find one normal married bi guy to play n explore with. I absolutely Love Cum and the Hard Cocks which unload it for my hungry mouth. Please feel free to say hello, thanks

This sounds like me..alot

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Hi, discreet bi mwm and not out to anyone even my wife. Just wish I could find one normal married bi guy to play n explore with. I absolutely Love Cum and the Hard Cocks which unload it for my hungry mouth. Please feel free to say hello, thanks

This sounds like me..alot

Me too... I lean towards receiving then giving, and love the idea of his wife being present, either urging him on or giving him lessons. Nothing my own wife would ever accept...

 

[rickdickerson]

secretly bi and married

Been closeted bi for many years. You are not alone at all. Love my wife but there is that ever present urge to suck a hard a cock that I tried to block for years but now I love that part of me. Only wish there was fwb in my life to act on these urges when they happen.

Same here. I struggled for the longest time fighting with myself over my sexuality, but have since reconciled that I am bisexual and possibly gay. What I struggle with now is restraining myself from cheating, which I have not done, and probably won't.

 

[rickdickerson]

I'm so proud of myself, taking baby steps. I use to just eat my wife and mention to her about licking up her well fucked, cum filled pussy. There are guys that I know that I think about sucking off when I think of eating their cum from my wife. So I eat her and will open up about my clean up cuckold fantasy. But never mentioned sucking that guys cock clean in my fantasies. But last night we fooled around, and I love her just rubbing me off in my undies as we kiss, it makes me feel like such a cuckold. And I took another baby step. This time I said MY PANTIES! We kissed and I moaned, " you want me to cum in my panties" she said yes, I said " oh! your going to make me cum in my panties." Then I got up and straddled her thigh, I looked down at her in her baby doll nightie, and at her mature hairy pussy. I let it out as I masturbated on her, saying " I'm going to cum in my panties as I think of a real man fucking you so good. I said " I love thinking of a real man fucking you as I cum in my panties. " She moaned as I squirted on her nightie.

Now I know the next time, probably when I'm eating her and she's ready to orgasm. I will mention licking her lovers cum from her and sucking him clean in my panties.."

Don't know how I could ever tell her about my sucking BBC's fantasies.

That's so hot. I have many Cuckold fantasies as well. I would love to serve my wife as a submissive Cuckold while she fucks a well endowed Man, and makes me suck his Cock.

 

[PinkPanties4me]

Same here!

I have discussed this with my wife while down between her legs while I am wearing my panties and camisole.
As I am down there, I stop and tell her I am getting a man hard for her with my mouth.
Then since she likes anal sex, I put anal beads in her.
I continue down there, giving her more anal beads until I satisfy her.
It has become one of our favorite fantasy...

 

[carln3346]

I have discussed this with my wife while down between her legs while I am wearing my panties and camisole.
As I am down there, I stop and tell her I am getting a man hard for her with my mouth.
Then since she likes anal sex, I put anal beads in her.
I continue down there, giving her more anal beads until I satisfy her.
It has become one of our favorite fantasy...

You're so lucky to be married to an understanding woman

 

[cuckoldbill]

I have discussed this with my wife while down between her legs while I am wearing my panties and camisole.
As I am down there, I stop and tell her I am getting a man hard for her with my mouth.
Then since she likes anal sex, I put anal beads in her.
I continue down there, giving her more anal beads until I satisfy her.
It has become one of our favorite fantasy...

Do you think it will ever move to becoming a reality?

 

[PinkPanties4me]

No , I don’t think so. I think reality could never be as good as my fantasies..

 

[peter49parker]

Just from my own experience, I used to spend a lot of time fantasizing about sucking a cock without thinking it would ever come true. My wife was never aware of this as my desires grew.

Then, one day, I found myself with a fully loaded cock in my mouth, sucking on it, like I was possessed. Since that day, I have sucked a few more cocks and love it.

For me, the reality of it all is way better than any fantasy ever was.

 

[jackbird]

I think this happens to many mid life married guys when their wives biological urges wane. I think many naturally try to find a female replacement/suppliment and later realize over time that the men are more interested but many women aren't as much. Over time we get used to the idea. I've had a few experiences and once you get over the stigma they can be exciting and rewarding. I am surprised and frustrated by how many men respond on the bulletin board that they have the urge but cannot take action on any level.

yes your so right on that one. I haven't had sex with my wife for around 10 years. Of course I sucked my first one at age 14 back in 1972 but get over the stigma and the taboo of it you will enjoy it. It's all in the mind take the plunge you will love it. Back in 1976 had a girl friend we were teens have lots of sex. I asked for a blow job. When I shot in her mouth she got up fast after I was done ran to the bathroom spit it out said never ask me to do it again. The next day she said sorry it really wasn't that bad it was kind of good it was more of the thought than anything. She became a expert at sucking and loved it. It's all in the mind get over it if you have the urge and take the plunge.

 

[vizio]

Just from my own experience, I used to spend a lot of time fantasizing about sucking a cock without thinking it would ever come true. My wife was never aware of this as my desires grew.

Then, one day, I found myself with a fully loaded cock in my mouth, sucking on it, like I was possessed. Since that day, I have sucked a few more cocks and love it.

For me, the reality of it all is way better than any fantasy ever was.

It is much nicer when you can actually do it

 

[jimmyturtleman]

It is much nicer when you can actually do it

It sure is. For me, nothing beats it.

 

[Pkbnewbie16]

I am closeted, and it has been too long since I have been with another man....months.

 

[JCSTREET]

You're not alone at all in this. Similar feelings are common in those of us that visit here.

Have had occasional solo and MMW on 2/3 occasions - mainly oral - never had anal except with toys (rarely) - spent most of my life with women but it's difficult to forego the gorgious mouthfeel of a smooth pink boner pistoning in and out of one's hungry mouth and blowing a spurting and gushing load of rich cream down one's yearning throat - can be fun

In closing, you have a fetching profile pic - a touch of the shy and sissy

 

[Umanual]

me too

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

Not alone, count me in as well, age 58, married 36 years to the same gal. Very much Bi and in the closet to the outside world. My wife is aware and lets me enjoy some play time with the occasional man. Whilst in the throws of a MFM or MMF there are no holds barred... or should I say no holes barred...lol

 

[BiCuriousMaleUK]

Definitely want it. No one else knows that I want to try a man. Hopefully over time this will become a reality for me. I’d really love a second man in the bedroom with my wife, that’s a very long shot though....

 

[rickdickerson]

Hi, discreet bi mwm and not out to anyone even my wife. Just wish I could find one normal married bi guy to play n explore with. I absolutely Love Cum and the Hard Cocks which unload it for my hungry mouth. Please feel free to say hello, thanks

You aren't alone. I am seeking the same.

 

[HarryWales]

If your wife has shut down sexually, then how are you cheating?
I see this time and time again at the places I frequent. Over 50% of the guys (older) cruising are married. Almost exclusively they have been shutdown sexually by the wife.
Why not divorce? Life is short. As a couple you are distant sexually, you are distant socially = you barely speak to each other = you have run out of conversation. You barely laugh and joke anymore. Your situation will NOT improve. It will stay the same or get worse.
Your marriage is in the dead zone. If you were single you would be so much better off financially. You wouldn't have to be rushing home all the time. You could retire earlier. Have money to spend on yourself. Tell me your wife makes more money than you; go ahead - tell me.

Marriage has a shelf life of about 20 years max. Your marriage has expired. You are still in your marriage due to loyalty; not LOVE. When I see the media glorifying these 50 year marriages I want to puke. Those people are co-dependent more than anything else....so boring. They go out for dinner and barely a word passes between them. If your wife won't go to a nude beach with you, then there is no hope of salvaging the marriage. That is the true litmus test.
Good god man, you are well into your fifties. The happiest men I know are single; the most miserable are married.
Sex needs re-vitalizing, freshness, novelty. That is why the sexually adventurous are older. How many young people do you see at a nude beach? Your sexual abilities (code for erections) decline over time. You are running OUT of time.
Now dump that millstone around your neck and start LIVING!!!!!!!!!!

Finally, it wouldn't hurt you any to "firm up". And lose that disgusting body hair.
Now I've laid into you pretty good.....but somebody had to.....yes?

 

[bobb64]

If your wife has shut down sexually, then how are you cheating?
I see this time and time again at the places I frequent. Over 50% of the guys (older) cruising are married. Almost exclusively they have been shutdown sexually by the wife.
Why not divorce? Life is short. As a couple you are distant sexually, you are distant socially = you barely speak to each other = you have run out of conversation. You barely laugh and joke anymore. Your situation will NOT improve. It will stay the same or get worse.
Your marriage is in the dead zone. If you were single you would be so much better off financially. You wouldn't have to be rushing home all the time. You could retire earlier. Have money to spend on yourself. Tell me your wife makes more money than you; go ahead - tell me.

Marriage has a shelf life of about 20 years max. Your marriage has expired. You are still in your marriage due to loyalty; not LOVE. When I see the media glorifying these 50 year marriages I want to puke. Those people are co-dependent more than anything else....so boring. They go out for dinner and barely a word passes between them. If your wife won't go to a nude beach with you, then there is no hope of salvaging the marriage. That is the true litmus test.
Good god man, you are well into your fifties. The happiest men I know are single; the most miserable are married.
Sex needs re-vitalizing, freshness, novelty. That is why the sexually adventurous are older. How many young people do you see at a nude beach? Your sexual abilities (code for erections) decline over time. You are running OUT of time.
Now dump that millstone around your neck and start LIVING!!!!!!!!!!

Finally, it wouldn't hurt you any to "firm up". And lose that disgusting body hair.
Now I've laid into you pretty good.....but somebody had to.....yes?

bull shit

 

[Samsacks]

I was talking with the wife last night and mentioned how, between certain ages, it was totally normal for my friends and I to play naked, and, later, to jack off together (and sometimes jack each other off). That all went away as we got older. I'm in my mid-fifties, now, and I said, "It would be weird, now, like if I said to Brett (our neighbor), "Hey! Let's look at porn together and jack off."

What she said floored me.

"If you ever do, then I get to watch."

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I was talking with the wife last night and mentioned how, between certain ages, it was totally normal for my friends and I to play naked, and, later, to jack off together (and sometimes jack each other off). That all went away as we got older. I'm in my mid-fifties, now, and I said, "It would be weird, now, like if I said to Brett (our neighbor), "Hey! Let's look at porn together and jack off."

What she said floored me.

"If you ever do, then I get to watch."

If Brett turns you down ... give me a shout. And your wife gets a front row seat to do whatever she wishes. Watch, join in... her choice.

 

[Dad4]

No, you’re not alone. I am an older MWM with a strong desire to be naked with a man. Did not act on it until I was 30....think about it often but don’t have the opportunity to act on it.

 

[Jcarrington]

If my wife gave me the green light to do it I would be thrilled to preform in front of her with a bi friend

 

[JackinMO]

I was talking with the wife last night and mentioned how, between certain ages, it was totally normal for my friends and I to play naked, and, later, to jack off together (and sometimes jack each other off). That all went away as we got older. I'm in my mid-fifties, now, and I said, "It would be weird, now, like if I said to Brett (our neighbor), "Hey! Let's look at porn together and jack off."

What she said floored me.

"If you ever do, then I get to watch."

Lucky you! I'd act on what she said like right now. And chances are if you said that to Brett, he'd say yes. If I was him, I sure would.