Bisexuality openness

[stormin515]

How often do people really have in-depth conversations about sex in real life? With anyone other than sexual partners that is.

It's pretty rare for me to find myself in a situation where I feel the need to say, "cock is nice once in a while." But on the other hand, I also rarely feel the need to say, "I enjoy vaginas."

I mean, how often is sex seriously discussed?

Well said! My wife and I never discuss it with friends or family because it never comes up, it's no ones business and it just avoids being judged or questioned.

 

[Moheedo]

That's why we're here

Hats why this is such a great place. We can talk about all the things we think and not be judged. I'm married and my wife would be crushed if she knew I fantasize about sucking a cock.

 

[bear175]

How often do people really have in-depth conversations about sex in real life? With anyone other than sexual partners that is.

It's pretty rare for me to find myself in a situation where I feel the need to say, "cock is nice once in a while." But on the other hand, I also rarely feel the need to say, "I enjoy vaginas."

I mean, how often is sex seriously discussed?

Not often. The problem is once you opened up to a person about yourself, you never know what that person is going to to with what you revealed. So, you don't know if you just opened a loudspeaker.

 

[Path2Ozark]

I remember one time, while my wife and I were eating watermelon with another couple, I equated eating watermelon with eating pussy, that you have to use your whole face, and the other couple looked shocked. I wasn't trying to be offensive, just candid, C'mon world, lighten up!

And if you didn't get sticky back to your ears, you didn't really enjoy yourself.

 

[scott6251]

Well said! My wife and I never discuss it with friends or family because it never comes up, it's no ones business and it just avoids being judged or questioned.

It's unfortunate that we're judged by people who have no idea. Many of these people have the same desires!

 

[bear175]

It's unfortunate that we're judged by people who have no idea. Many of these people have the same desires!

Or even worse desires ...

 

[Hitchiker69]

Very true. I opened up to my first wife as soon as we met...we were both living in a very gay area...but it backfired years later when she told my parents. I had assumed I could trust her with my private business. My mistake!

 

[gk6h]

Very true. I opened up to my first wife as soon as we met...we were both living in a very gay area...but it backfired years later when she told my parents. I had assumed I could trust her with my private business. My mistake!

that sucks...

 

[Hitchiker69]

I used to be much more open than I am now. I've lived in very gay places and very sexually open times. Bisexuality was accepted and widespread when I was in my 20's. It was almost as if you could impress the girls about how open minded and bold you were if you told them you had sex with men.
Then I lived overseas, in a very gay friendly city, and women were surprisingly loose, too. I was open to many people I met, especially if we were likely to have sex. Again, bisexuality was widely practiced and accepted.
Now I live in the suburbs, where people are very straight. They love to gossip...I think it relieves their sexual frustrations...so I can't be open here. I'm told the nearby city is very gay friendly, I'm very much out of the loop. Now I keep my sexual history to myself. My wife has a suspicion, but doesn't know my past.
We have several gay couples as friends, but I'm not open with them either.

 

[Samsacks]

I had an amazing fuck session with my gay couple last night, and there's no one I can tell about it.

I'd love to have one female friend I could joke about having to "guide him in" or talk about how awesome it is to cum while riding a cock.

 

[load69]

I had an amazing fuck session with my gay couple last night, and there's no one I can tell about it.

I'd love to have one female friend I could joke about having to "guide him in" or talk about how awesome it is to cum while riding a cock.

Tell us all about it. I would love to hear it.

 

[chame1eon]

This is sad to me : (

I'm open about it, but I think people are more tolerant of bisexual women than men unfortunately.

 

[gamegamale]

I had an amazing fuck session with my gay couple last night, and there's no one I can tell about it.

I'd love to have one female friend I could joke about having to "guide him in" or talk about how awesome it is to cum while riding a cock.

I can appreciate your situation. As chane1ion commented, bi females are more readily accepted.

It's been my experience that lesbian and bi women are more understanding of bi & gay men.

 

[Mqoi]

This is sad to me : (

I'm open about it, but I think people are more tolerant of bisexual women than men unfortunately.

Unfortunately they are. I think a lot of it has to do with the myth that bisexuals can't have a long term relationship with one person and they'll always be cheating on their partner. If I'm single, I'll play the heck out of both sides of the field. But once that commitment is made to someone, I'm there for as long as they remain committed to me.

 

[damon340]

Like most

I know from my own experiences and conversations with both guys and women that most people talk more about their fantasy more than their experiences. I have to keep what I do with other truck drivers a secret because of the job that i have. Besides,i myself don't understand what i have gotten into how the hell do I try to explain it to my wife of over 30 yrs lol

 

[samantha647]

I'm bisexual, and I've recently made peace with the fact. At this point in my life, I've come to realization that if you don't love yourself, no one else will...

That being said, I don't announce my bisexuality to everyone I meet. In fact, I've only so far come out to one very dear friend in real life. Happy to say, she was quite supportive.

I suppose that if someone asked me point blank, I would be totally honest, but I'm not putting it out there!

I'm in the exact same situation why isn't life easier ??

 

[TallOne]

Yeah open to wife and our potential swinging partners, but that's it. Don't see anything good coming out of telling a random coworker/neighbor/etc. But now that I am working remotely with no coworkers nearby we could go to a pride parade or something and wear bi pride items...but just have no interest in being in such a mass of humanity.

Going to a combo burlesque and boylesque show next month. If I tip the guy by stuffing some bills in his thong(maybe graze his cock) that's about as big of a public hint I would put out there.

 

[FL30]

I work in an industry that is very open about gay people and their acceptance. However, in almost 30 years in this industry, I have only met 1 male that was openly bisexual, but have met several girls that were openly bisexual.

So, yes, I think it is a lot harder for men to be open and accepted as bisexual than it is for women.

It seems as though for men, that you have to be gay or strait, you can't be both. While for women, anything goes.

 

[capri31]

I also feel bisexuality is not a choice.

 

[chame1eon]

I also feel bisexuality is not a choice.

Yeah its a lot easier to just get involved with the appropriate gender and pretend everything is as it supposedly should be,but it's something that you are just born with.

Nice avatar BTW.

 

[Mqoi]

I know from my own experiences and conversations with both guys and women that most people talk more about their fantasy more than their experiences. I have to keep what I do with other truck drivers a secret because of the job that i have. Besides,i myself don't understand what i have gotten into how the hell do I try to explain it to my wife of over 30 yrs lol

I'm retired military and had to really keep my bisexuality in the closet to keep my career and it just kind of became a habit to do so. My ex knew and we had some fun times with it. I told my current wife and it didn't go over too well with her, so I just don't mention it anymore to her.

But in my case, I've been attracted to both men and women as long as I can remember, so I'm used to the idea.

 

[2JST4fun]

In my experience

I live in the bible belt. I was married for 20 years the first time and never stepped out, with a male or female. Once I was single again I had some fun with a married couple and a couple other one offs with a couple of girls I dated. I really don't care for label s but Bisexual and hetero romantic would probably fit me best. I hate that's most of the Bi girls I have ever met or the ones that like to put on a show for men's attention look at a Bi guy as a degenerate. When I opened up to one GF she really got very ugly about it. She started with, if we were to get married I could never trust to leave my children with you without worrying you would be having sex with some guy instead on taking care of my children. I was very hurt by this statement and frame of thought. Why would being Bi make me leads of a person and less of a man? I very much took my time edging into the Bi male subject with my current wife. When we had been living together a few years I started thinking she was growing in the acceptance of people being who they are sexually. She considers herself bisexual and sees nothing wrong with that and is somewhat open about it. Over the course of a few years I have come to the conclusion she will always think less of me as a man if I play with a guy even with her involved. We were active swingers but with good judgement for a few years and a few times did have a single male in bed with us. For the most part the only M to M contact she was good with was when we were both thrusting our docks in her pussy at the same time. A younger couple we know well recently split and are divorcing. I was and am still ok with my wife enjoying sex with the young soon to be single guy. One night he brought her back home and he and I were talking as we are very good friends and both work for the same company. I dropped a few hints in a joking way that sex is sex and does it really matter if its a girl or guy. He side it wasn't for him to judge but he sure likes just pussy. I didn't push it anymore but know his ex did do him at least once with a strap on. I have so much more I would like to share but have already rambled on way too long and am off topic to a degree. I am good with who and how I am as I should be recently passing 50. It would be nice to be open fully with at least my wife but its best I keep my male no thoughts and desires to myself.

 

[2JST4fun]

I knew I should have 3rd-read that post. Sorry for the errors. I am sure you get my points.

 

[Controlu69]

I have some people close to me who knows I am bi-sexual, but when I think of the full openly gay people in the world I admire their strength. Many are teased, bullied, harassed and abandoned. To stay true to who you are despite the world in your face condemning you takes more strength than any can imagine. I just want to give credit to true bravery, it's not easy.

 

[KUJACK]

Love you

Pussy and cocks I will suck either one if presented to me I love the puffy lips of a woman the long shaft in head of a man and I would never want to deny either from my lips
Sex is such a wonderful gift from God the feeling that we get from fulfilling ourselves and others from the wonderful exuberance that happens when we orgasm or even near orgasm is a special gift
I don't care whatever taboo there is as long as they were consensual adults who the hell cares what happens just except what humankind has to offer love acceptance giving and loving each other