Bisexuality openness

[gamegamale]

Pussy and cocks I will suck either one if presented to me I love the puffy lips of a woman the long shaft in head of a man and I would never want to deny either from my lips
Sex is such a wonderful gift from God the feeling that we get from fulfilling ourselves and others from the wonderful exuberance that happens when we orgasm or even near orgasm is a special gift
I don't care whatever taboo there is as long as they were consensual adults who the hell cares what happens just except what humankind has to offer love acceptance giving and loving each other

I agree with your point of view. It's too bad more people don't.

 

[gamegamale]

I also feel bisexuality is not a choice.

Lucky for me I was born this way.

 

[1960curious]

I love sex with both women and men! I don't know why everybody's not BI!

 

[Mqoi]

Lucky for me I was born this way.

The world might look on it as a character defect, but I see it as a natural gift that opens up both sides of the menu for us. If someone looks sexually attractive to me, whether they're male or female doesn't make any difference on the attraction.

I love a cute ass whether it's on a woman or a man.

 

[scott6251]

The world might look on it as a character defect, but I see it as a natural gift that opens up both sides of the menu for us. If someone looks sexually attractive to me, whether they're male or female doesn't make any difference on the attraction.

I love a cute ass whether it's on a woman or a man.

Good post. And I agree about the cute ass . . .

 

[Marty Fisher]

It's a constant source of frustration to me that I must always be watchful of what I say in public that could possibly lead to people to suspect my bisexuality. A part of me wishes I could say " Yes, I'm a cocksucker. Why do you ask?" Do many of the people on the forum struggle with this issue? How open and candid are you regarding your sexuality?

I wish I could be 100% open and let everyone interested know that I LOVE to suck cock, would LOVE to be fucked by a nice cock, and I love to wear women's undergarments. I sometimes lose track of where I am and cum close to blurting that out....maybe that wouldn't be so bad....

 

[TallOne]

Yeah open to wife and our potential swinging partners, but that's it.

So as an update to this, after Bostock vs Clayton County I am much more open now.

I've got some subtle pride shirts I wear. Getting a tattoo that incorporates the colors. Declared as bi both on medical file and at my employer(which they privately gather for diversity statistics). Have attended Pride, hang flags on the patio in June. Hang out in the outside seating at a local LGBT bar, etc. Basically I no longer care if anyone finds out. Out to my sister, but not my parents. Don't expect them to find out, but if they did I would be fine with however that fell out.

I don't go around shouting that I've sucked cock. But those aware of the community would recognize the bi pride colors. I highly value those that have come before and gotten society to this point.

 

[klippert]

Geez

This comment is directed to the Men:
To each there own. I’m not struggling with my choices. I’m the one who doesn’t need a parade, a flag, certainly Don’t need activist. I Just try and live my life as I see fit and not bother other people with my sexual activities. I Don’t need to force anyone to accept my lifestyle. Seems more people want to shove their personal shit in our face for some idea that if they’re forced to acknowledge and accept my sexual activity, than I’m okay.
If you’re not a pedo, peeper or rypst. Fuck’n live your life.
I just don’t get the urge to have a big announcement; “I suck Dick”, seriously what will That do for you. Open up your dating life, jus asking. Expecting everyone one to break Into tears and start unzipping their pants or hang a medal on your shirt.
Everyone falls back on the tried and true ‘it’s society’. That’s just completely out of touch. Society is in full sex embrace, aiming directly at children, if you don’t realize this, your stuck in a time warp. MSM takes aim at people who are straight and married. As far as pop-psychology is concerned; everyone is gay and straight is fucked up.
Maybe you should try this. Meet up with your most trusted friend or dinner out with your wife. Then tell them your a cock sucker, or that you want to start sucking cock. If your wife loses her shit. Don’t blame her. You might have better luck with your buddy. Could be an opportunity for a regular, you never know.
Trust me even though I’ve never meet any of you. I bet I’d like most of you. Just relax people. Live your life before you’re life it taken over completely. If you need to tell someone; try my suggestion. Again, if your wife or GF loses her shit. You are not the victim.
Look men, I get it. You want to be who you are and don’t care if people in your local grocery store know you suck cock. Maybe make the town wives more attentive to their man. Or send them to you. Like tried to say; live your life without forcing other to have to live it with you.
Enjoy your day.

 

[ConradBird]

Even though I have been bisexual long before I even knew there was such a category, I have always hidden the fact from most everyone. It has been much safer that way. Even now, in 2021, when we are supposed to be somewhat enlightened and tolerant, we live in a world that believes gross political lies, refuses to wear masks during a pandemic, is leery of taking a vaccine (given out for free) that will protect themselves and their families, and don't yet believe that global warming is affecting the planet. And we are expecting people who have at least one foot stuck in the La Brea Tar Pits of ignorance to be accepting of bisexuality? I'll just stay comfortably in the closet and keep my sexual identity to myself. It is lonely but safe.

 

[coati]

It is lonely but safe.

But, a lot less lonely when in the embrace of a lover.

 

[CharlieBoker]

My bi awakening came in the mid 80s when Aids was all over the media making it extra scary for me, on top of the normal confusion a teenager feels regarding different sexual orientation. I didn't fully understand or accept my bisexuality for a long time so I wrestled with it over the years.

I'm pleased to say that I'm very comfortable in my own skin now, although being totally honest I think that I'd still be embarrassed in certain circles if it came out.

My wife knows and I guess if I was asked outright by someone, then I wouldn't lie, but I don't really want to shout about it.

 

[coati]

My wife knows and I guess if I was asked outright by someone, then I wouldn't lie, but I don't really want to shout about it.

I have known many bi men (and several in the "Biblical" sense), and none of them shout about it. Like ConradBird said, so much of society is stuck in the La Brea Tar Pits.

Meanwhile, there is a whole world of men quietly and safely liberating themselves from the tar.

 

[J1biboi]

Even though I have been bisexual long before I even knew there was such a category, I have always hidden the fact from most everyone. It has been much safer that way. Even now, in 2021, when we are supposed to be somewhat enlightened and tolerant, we live in a world that believes gross political lies, refuses to wear masks during a pandemic, is leery of taking a vaccine (given out for free) that will protect themselves and their families, and don't yet believe that global warming is affecting the planet. And we are expecting people who have at least one foot stuck in the La Brea Tar Pits of ignorance to be accepting of bisexuality? I'll just stay comfortably in the closet and keep my sexual identity to myself. It is lonely but safe.

There should be a 'like' button on this site.

 

[PFWilly]

I told my future wife during one of our first dates about some of my younger days adventures with guys. She had zero problems with my history. After marriage I had a few more encounters, spread randomly over several years.

She wanted to know the details...lol.

I was in a VERY conservative line of work, and retired early for health considerations. After pulling the pin, I had the chance to seek out other guys for some bedroom fun, and happy that I succeeded in making up a bit for lost time.

I’m not truly out of the closet, but some of my family members are aware of my interests, they don’t seem to judge me at all for those interests.

 

[muycurioso]

as of right now

the only people that know I may or I DO have gay fantasies are my soon to be EX wife, 2 former gf's, and my gay pal from college (and prob his roomates )

 

[sohorny469]

This comment is directed to the Men:
To each there own. I’m not struggling with my choices. I’m the one who doesn’t need a parade, a flag, certainly Don’t need activist. I Just try and live my life as I see fit and not bother other people with my sexual activities. I Don’t need to force anyone to accept my lifestyle. Seems more people want to shove their personal shit in our face for some idea that if they’re forced to acknowledge and accept my sexual activity, than I’m okay.
If you’re not a pedo, peeper or rypst. Fuck’n live your life.
I just don’t get the urge to have a big announcement; “I suck Dick”, seriously what will That do for you. Open up your dating life, jus asking. Expecting everyone one to break Into tears and start unzipping their pants or hang a medal on your shirt.
Everyone falls back on the tried and true ‘it’s society’. That’s just completely out of touch. Society is in full sex embrace, aiming directly at children, if you don’t realize this, your stuck in a time warp. MSM takes aim at people who are straight and married. As far as pop-psychology is concerned; everyone is gay and straight is fucked up.
Maybe you should try this. Meet up with your most trusted friend or dinner out with your wife. Then tell them your a cock sucker, or that you want to start sucking cock. If your wife loses her shit. Don’t blame her. You might have better luck with your buddy. Could be an opportunity for a regular, you never know.
Trust me even though I’ve never meet any of you. I bet I’d like most of you. Just relax people. Live your life before you’re life it taken over completely. If you need to tell someone; try my suggestion. Again, if your wife or GF loses her shit. You are not the victim.
Look men, I get it. You want to be who you are and don’t care if people in your local grocery store know you suck cock. Maybe make the town wives more attentive to their man. Or send them to you. Like tried to say; live your life without forcing other to have to live it with you.
Enjoy your day.

Fully agree with klippert

 

[gamegamale]

This comment is directed to the Men:
To each there own. I’m not struggling with my choices. I’m the one who doesn’t need a parade, a flag, certainly Don’t need activist. I Just try and live my life as I see fit and not bother other people with my sexual activities. I Don’t need to force anyone to accept my lifestyle. Seems more people want to shove their personal shit in our face for some idea that if they’re forced to acknowledge and accept my sexual activity, than I’m okay.
If you’re not a pedo, peeper or rypst. Fuck’n live your life.
I just don’t get the urge to have a big announcement; “I suck Dick”, seriously what will That do for you. Open up your dating life, jus asking. Expecting everyone one to break Into tears and start unzipping their pants or hang a medal on your shirt.
Everyone falls back on the tried and true ‘it’s society’. That’s just completely out of touch. Society is in full sex embrace, aiming directly at children, if you don’t realize this, your stuck in a time warp. MSM takes aim at people who are straight and married. As far as pop-psychology is concerned; everyone is gay and straight is fucked up.
Maybe you should try this. Meet up with your most trusted friend or dinner out with your wife. Then tell them your a cock sucker, or that you want to start sucking cock. If your wife loses her shit. Don’t blame her. You might have better luck with your buddy. Could be an opportunity for a regular, you never know.
Trust me even though I’ve never meet any of you. I bet I’d like most of you. Just relax people. Live your life before you’re life it taken over completely. If you need to tell someone; try my suggestion. Again, if your wife or GF loses her shit. You are not the victim.
Look men, I get it. You want to be who you are and don’t care if people in your local grocery store know you suck cock. Maybe make the town wives more attentive to their man. Or send them to you. Like tried to say; live your life without forcing other to have to live it with you.
Enjoy your day.

I agree with all you say.
As for wives loosing their "shit"...some do lose interest (in sex). Mine did. One of her favorite activities was to watch me with another man. Since loosing her sex drive she's told me to enjoy myself with any MAN I want. So I find pleasure as often as I desire.

 

[OldFred65]

I love sex with both women and men! I don't know why everybody's not BI!

I couldn't agree more. I wish I had gone bi sooner. My wife introduced me to bi sex at 42 and I absolutely love it.

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

It's a constant source of frustration to me that I must always be watchful of what I say in public that could possibly lead to people to suspect my bisexuality. A part of me wishes I could say " Yes, I'm a cocksucker. Why do you ask?" Do many of the people on the forum struggle with this issue? How open and candid are you regarding your sexuality?

I suppressed my bisexuality for so long that once I finally embraced it myself I didn't know how to tell anyone else. It's never been important to me to tell people about it... I am celebrating Pride openly this year for the first time though, and that has been very liberating to be openly proud of who I am. My sexuality doesn't define me, but I'm not afraid to share my journey anymore if it helps someone else along their journey of self discovery to not feel alone.