Can a Dom & a Domme play together?

[shy slave]

someone with that attitude (a female, acting dominant, believing she is dominant, etc.) would be a complete and utter turn-off to him. not his type. my Master's strange in that he only has sexual interests in those who turn him on.

Now I'm confused, I only have sexual interests in those who turn me on as well.
Does this make me a Domme?
If so I can have stab at answering Lance's question as I play with my Dom.
If it doesn't make me a Domme... am I OSG's Master and I just don't live in the right dimension to realise it yet???


Tablets please nurse, I am hallucinating again

Great to see your posts OSG, don't see enough of them

 

[FungiUg]

I always find it interesting when someone tries to tell me that either I don't exist, or the woman I am with doesn't exist, or that I/she is faking it.

My partner doesn't "believe" she is dominant. She IS dominant. She's a classic alpha personality. What she is NOT (per se), is a "Domme" -- largely because she doesn't have the same interest in BDSM that I do.

We are both dominant, and we are equals in every way within our relationship.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I always find it interesting when someone tries to tell me that either I don't exist, or the woman I am with doesn't exist, or that I/she is faking it.

Heh.

 

[Netzach]

I'm not going to change anyone's opinion or libido though.

All I've garnered is that osg's Daddy would not have the hots for me. And that's pretty cool, because I'm pretty sure the feeling would be mutual.

There's only two people who I hope view me as Dominant. That's all I care about. That more than two do makes me think they could be right, that more than five want to keeps me in business, but really I only care about two.

 

[Lancecastor]

wouldn't say he's disgusted by their existence (i don't think), more that he believes they are going against the natural order of things and i would say he does not believe there is such a thing as a true female Dominant.

Us straight white guys love that whole natural order deal...boo-ya!

 

[FungiUg]

So... what exactly IS this "natural order"? And can you get it home delivered?

 

[Scarlett_t2]

Hummmmmmm interesting....
Scarlett

 

[A Desert Rose]

... It seems to be a big fantasy for many slaves to be in a relationship with two Dominants though.

That's not my fantasy. One Dominant is plenty fine.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Us straight white guys love that whole natural order deal...boo-ya!

Here's a pretty subjective statement, if I've ever read one.

 

[vogon8n]

someone with that attitude (a female, acting dominant, believing she is dominant, etc.) would be a complete and utter turn-off to him. not his type. my Master's strange in that he only has sexual interests in those who turn him on.

Well I cant say I know any Dommes.
I do know a hell of a lot of high powered women, who seem to be controlled by NO ONE!

Some of them repulse me Utterly,
Others, SO erotic, So totally in controll and so desirable, turn me on no end..
This is not a physical atraction..
It is a sensual attraction...

The real difference to me is the character of the person that I pick up on. Sort of like---I would be happy if this one beat me, but for this other one, Move away, I am not your friend.

Surley wouldnt it be the same with a Dom and a Domme. Personal Chemistry, respect, Intimacy and whatever elements you rely on to judge a person to be positive or negative for you..
If you take intollerance of co-dominance to the sports field, HOw would any games be played.

 

[vogon8n]

.....If it doesn't make me a Domme... am I OSG's Master and I just don't live in the right dimension to realise it yet???.....

Well I think you may have kinda a point although it probably wasnt intended..

If you are a sub, you still have an agreed consensual and predefined relationship with your Dom.
IE: he needs a sub as much as you need a Dom… He needs your cooperation.
From that point, its just a matter of control, probably via intelligence or observation..

Does the sub deliberately behave in certain ways to elicit a desired response from her dom? If yes, then who is really in control? Therefore who really is the Dom?
Does the Dom expect the sub to behave in certain ways to trigger specific behaviours?

As previously posted, I am speaking not from experience, but from impressions and ideas.
Its all getting a bit messy in my head, really…