KillerMuffin
Seraphically Disinclined
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Social sanctions are the preferred method for one individual or group to maintain dominance or "control" over other individuals or groups.
I believe I mentioned them and did not assign a value judgment on whether they were necessarily "good" or "bad".
Local negative social sanctions include the cyber version of the cut direct, sarcasm, one liner put downs, and outright insults. Positive social sanctions would be hugs, praise, and certain beta behaviors (such as submissiveness toward perceived alpha), and the excusing of outrageous behavior that would normally receive negative social sanctions from the group.
Group social sanctions are the primary reason why I believe that this forum does not need to be moderated. The group moderates the forum itself through the use of sanctions--both positive and negative.
Cliques do not exist because of these sanctions and these sanctions do not exist because of cliques. They do, however, go hand in hand as both of these things are social behavior inherent in the individual. It's why adult gatherings are often referred to as being "junior high" or "playground" in flavor. We are born with the instinct to "group up" or form social circles. Everyone knows that there is safety in numbers. The instinct to survive is one of the strongest we possess and, as herd animals, there is a stronger chance of survival in a group. There is also a certain amount of unconsciously perceived threat in the unknown or in those who are different. The strength of that perceived threat grows as we age since we get hurt by others as we grow. We learn these group behaviors in the highly stratified school settings and reinforce them where ever we become a part of a group, any group.
My argument is that cliques have no inherent badness or goodness, they just are. I also claim that by recognizing the sanctions and reasoning behind the sanction we take against others--in particular new people, we can use reason rather than biology in our dealings with them.
I have no argument regarding negative social sanctions since I don't really want to get involved in a cyberbrawl today.
Again, for clarity's sake, argument is a hypothesis or a claim, not a verbal fist fight. I have an engineer's soul.
I believe I mentioned them and did not assign a value judgment on whether they were necessarily "good" or "bad".
Local negative social sanctions include the cyber version of the cut direct, sarcasm, one liner put downs, and outright insults. Positive social sanctions would be hugs, praise, and certain beta behaviors (such as submissiveness toward perceived alpha), and the excusing of outrageous behavior that would normally receive negative social sanctions from the group.
Group social sanctions are the primary reason why I believe that this forum does not need to be moderated. The group moderates the forum itself through the use of sanctions--both positive and negative.
Cliques do not exist because of these sanctions and these sanctions do not exist because of cliques. They do, however, go hand in hand as both of these things are social behavior inherent in the individual. It's why adult gatherings are often referred to as being "junior high" or "playground" in flavor. We are born with the instinct to "group up" or form social circles. Everyone knows that there is safety in numbers. The instinct to survive is one of the strongest we possess and, as herd animals, there is a stronger chance of survival in a group. There is also a certain amount of unconsciously perceived threat in the unknown or in those who are different. The strength of that perceived threat grows as we age since we get hurt by others as we grow. We learn these group behaviors in the highly stratified school settings and reinforce them where ever we become a part of a group, any group.
My argument is that cliques have no inherent badness or goodness, they just are. I also claim that by recognizing the sanctions and reasoning behind the sanction we take against others--in particular new people, we can use reason rather than biology in our dealings with them.
I have no argument regarding negative social sanctions since I don't really want to get involved in a cyberbrawl today.
Again, for clarity's sake, argument is a hypothesis or a claim, not a verbal fist fight. I have an engineer's soul.