Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[MastersSlut1882]

Hello all, I think I have found my place

 

[Booboobear84]

Welcome to a space for sharing, learning, and support.

 

[Strixaluco]

I think it’s more that as Littles, we sometimes don’t get out of our own heads and make sure we’re nurturing and caring for our Daddy just like he does for us. I know I’m guilty of forgetting to check, because I’m used to Daddies just being strong and stoic. But they don’t have to be.

You're not alone there. It's so easy to forget to check. I'm relieved my Dom often tells about his week even without me asking! Then I start asking more, of course.

We have a risk of getting financial balance issues. He's used to paying when we are out, and buying stuff, but now he's unemployed. I think it was a bit new to him when, by a coincidence I ended up paying in the restaurant this week, and now I'm paying at least most of our party trip. I don't want him to end up too tight, that's one way of me caring.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Do littles get confused about this? I assume so since it was posted, but I'm surprised. Fake Daddies on the other hand get very confused about this.

This is to keep the conversation going for everyone, I quoted you to keep it tied with the previous page

We should be checking in with our Daddy to see how he's doing mentally, emotionally, and physically - if not daily - regularly. Speaking for myself, it helps me help him, even if it's by not being so needy and focused on myself.

 

[Booboobear84]

This is to keep the conversation going for everyone, I quoted you to keep it tied with the previous page

We should be checking in with our Daddy to see how he's doing mentally, emotionally, and physically - if not daily - regularly. Speaking for myself, it helps me help him, even if it's by not being so needy and focused on myself.

Daddies need to know we’re needed, and occasionally be reminded of self care because we tend to worry almost exclusively about our littles.

 

[SnowIris]

Daddies need to know we’re needed, and occasionally be reminded of self care because we tend to worry almost exclusively about our littles.

This is very true, and not just for Daddies. I think for anyone who is used to be the one to care for someone else, it can be easy to forget about self care.

 

[Strixaluco]

Daddies need to know we’re needed, and occasionally be reminded of self care because we tend to worry almost exclusively about our littles.

Somehow, though, many littles seem to be very caring, when they realise there's a need. So there's potential for it to go both ways.

At least I can be one little Moominmama at times...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Somehow, though, many littles seem to be very caring, when they realise there's a need. So there's potential for it to go both ways.

At least I can be one little Moominmama at times...

I'm a nurturer, so it's my instinct. Caring for someone makes me happy, like I'm "giving back" to our relationship.

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm a nurturer, so it's my instinct. Caring for someone makes me happy, like I'm "giving back" to our relationship.

That's what I mean. It seems to be relatively common for littles.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

This is to keep the conversation going for everyone, I quoted you to keep it tied with the previous page

We should be checking in with our Daddy to see how he's doing mentally, emotionally, and physically - if not daily - regularly. Speaking for myself, it helps me help him, even if it's by not being so needy and focused on myself.

I need to remind myself of this more. I've had a lot going on and have needed a lot from him lately in terms of support. I do check up on him all of the time but I know I could do more to show him he can rely on me too.

 

[Strixaluco]

I know I could do more to show him he can rely on me too.

The question is, how? For me at least. I've noticed my D has a strong tendency to play down his challenges. He's not used to being cared for, and I wonder how I can make him realise that this time he has someone to actually rely on. At least short of anything really terrible happening so that he cannot play it down anymore.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

The question is, how? For me at least. I've noticed my D has a strong tendency to play down his challenges. He's not used to being cared for, and I wonder how I can make him realise that this time he has someone to actually rely on. At least short of anything really terrible happening so that he cannot play it down anymore.

Yes I struggle with how. Especially as we're online with a big time difference. He's pretty guarded, gives simple answers to my questions so I don't like to dig too deep (even though I really want to).

I know they like to be the caregivers and the ones to make everything better but I like to do that too. If someone is important to me then their happiness is as well. I'll go miles out of my way if it'll make something easier for them.

How do we get them to lean on us? We may be little but we're still strong.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I tend to hope that my Daddy knows he can vent to me if need be. I just try to be there when he needs his babygirl time...

 

[barefootgirl69]

I hope everyone has or is having a good Monday morning. Don't forget to eat and stay hydrated.

I need a few more minutes of sleep!

 

[Strixaluco]

Can't brag with the morning - the way last night was. But the afternoon is better!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Time with Daddy has been amazing lately!
It's always great, but I'm sure you understand that some times are just....
Awesome!!

 

[Strixaluco]

Bad nights/mornings seem to be the norm these days. I'm really waiting to be able to be little tonight, though there's nothing hot to be expected.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Bad nights/mornings seem to be the norm these days. I'm really waiting to be able to be little tonight, though there's nothing hot to be expected.

Sometimes just being with our Daddy's is enough. Are you able to have yours tonight? I hope you get little time tonight

 

[Strixaluco]

Sometimes just being with our Daddy's is enough. Are you able to have yours tonight? I hope you get little time tonight

I'll see him in a munch in an hour, and will probably fall into little node straight away (it's in principle a public place, but practically only BDSM folks around, so I don't have to pretend to be adult).

And then he follows me home to tuck me in, sneaking into the night afterwards, switching lights off on the way.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I'll see him in a munch in an hour, and will probably fall into little node straight away (it's in principle a public place, but practically only BDSM folks around, so I don't have to pretend to be adult).

And then he follows me home to tuck me in, sneaking into the night afterwards, switching lights off on the way.

I love that!!! Being tucked in figuratively is wonderful, but PHYSICALLY!? You're sooooo lucky!

 

[Strixaluco]

I love that!!! Being tucked in figuratively is wonderful, but PHYSICALLY!? You're sooooo lucky!

One of the upsides of living in the same city and having a very caring and unselfish DD. It's not something he does year-around, but this summer he's unemployed and it doesn't bother him being late at home (it takes 1h in the bus between our homes). In the winter it's different, and with a jobi it wouldn't be an option. There was even one week he did it every night, when i was struggling with the cortisone cure side effects.

And yes, it's absolutely wonderful! I even have a flash memory of his expression when he's tucking me in. Any time I think of that my shoulders go down an inch. He hasn't had a little before me, but damn that man is truly a DD at heart.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

One of the upsides of living in the same city and having a very caring and unselfish DD. It's not something he does year-around, but this summer he's unemployed and it doesn't bother him being late at home (it takes 1h in the bus between our homes). In the winter it's different, and with a jobi it wouldn't be an option. There was even one week he did it every night, when i was struggling with the cortisone cure side effects.

And yes, it's absolutely wonderful! I even have a flash memory of his expression when he's tucking me in. Any time I think of that my shoulders go down an inch. He hasn't had a little before me, but damn that man is truly a DD at heart.

Aw that is so wonderful. I'm so glad you have each other

 

[Booboobear84]

One of the upsides of living in the same city and having a very caring and unselfish DD. It's not something he does year-around, but this summer he's unemployed and it doesn't bother him being late at home (it takes 1h in the bus between our homes). In the winter it's different, and with a jobi it wouldn't be an option. There was even one week he did it every night, when i was struggling with the cortisone cure side effects.

And yes, it's absolutely wonderful! I even have a flash memory of his expression when he's tucking me in. Any time I think of that my shoulders go down an inch. He hasn't had a little before me, but damn that man is truly a DD at heart.

Sometimes I think DD is more wiring than intention. That said, work is needed to put that desire into action. I can't help how I feel about littles if I wanted to (and I have no desire to change how I feel)

 

[barefootgirl69]

 

[SnowIris]

The trouble comes in because I want to be all 3 at once