Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[barefootgirl69]

Happy Anniversary, @RosewoodTulip and her Daddy! . It makes me very happy to know you have each other!

 

[barefootgirl69]

My Wednesday hasn't gone great either.

Not sure if this is the place for a question like this, so please yell at me if not:

But do any of the women here like using their hair to caress a man's skin? I particularly love it down my back. Haven't had it done for ages, but THAT is what I need right now from someone who WANTS to do it. You know?

I was hoping your week would get a bit easier. I know you are already exhausted from Mon - Tues!

I'm not sure I've ever done that to intentionally caress someone, but I can see it as something incredibly soothing. I hope you get that soon, my sweet friend.

 

[13Fantasies]

I was hoping your week would get a bit easier. I know you are already exhausted from Mon - Tues!

I'm not sure I've ever done that to intentionally caress someone, but I can see it as something incredibly soothing. I hope you get that soon, my sweet friend.

I won't, but thanks.

 

[Strixaluco]

Happy anniversary for you two, @RosewoodTulip! That sounds so wonderful

 

[onanismaddict]

Today has been exactly one year since a very friendly message was delivered to me offering a greeting and a glass of wine.

That message turned into several more which then led to a beautiful relationship between a Daddy and a little.

I can honestly say I've changed for the better since knowing him. We've shared amazing highs and rubbish lows (mainly mine) and through it all he's shown me patience, affection, desire and support.

I've been broken for a long time and never thought I'd be able to let myself be vulnerable again with anyone but he's seen my darkness and is still leading me towards the light.

So happy anniversary to you and thank you for everything

Happy anniversary, Rosie!

Seeing darkness, leading towards light, showing vulnerability, sharing highs and lows, and changing for the better...
What a beautiful post. What a moving journey. Thank you for sharing your powerful words with us here. I am so happy for you!
Happy anniversary!

 

[Yesok1]

Did you do anything special Rosie?

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Did you do anything special Rosie?

I didnt
School holidays mean zero privacy. So hopefully next week I can make it up to him

 

[morelikeasong]

Happy anniversary @RosewoodTulip ! I’m so happy you found someone who makes you so happy

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Today has been exactly one year since a very friendly message was delivered to me offering a greeting and a glass of wine.

That message turned into several more which then led to a beautiful relationship between a Daddy and a little.

I can honestly say I've changed for the better since knowing him. We've shared amazing highs and rubbish lows (mainly mine) and through it all he's shown me patience, affection, desire and support.

I've been broken for a long time and never thought I'd be able to let myself be vulnerable again with anyone but he's seen my darkness and is still leading me towards the light.

So happy anniversary to you and thank you for everything

Happy anniversary to you and your daddy! You are so fortunate to have found one another. It's amazing what can happen when a person decides to be brave and allows themself to be vulnerable.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Hello everyone! New here, but not new to Lit. I've been reading stories for years and signed up in February under a different alt so I can publish.
I started hanging out in the forums and eventually learned about this thread from a person who is active here. I‘ll let her self-identify if she chooses.
I’ve read the first thread and I'm reading the second. What I've learned is that I think that I need a Daddy, and I think that my husband can be Him, but I need advice on how to approach him.
I see a lot of aspects of the relationship I have with my hubs within those threads. I feel a need to share with him. Perhaps he will be open to exploring with me.
He is a protector by nature, both in his personal and professional lives. He's who I go to when I need comfort, even more so than my female friends. The thing is, we're always in reactive mode as a couple, I have a bad day, I scurry to his arms, he comforts me. Wash, rinse, repeat. I feel the need need for someone who can help me be proactive, and show me how to slay my own dragons. I've met no better dragon-slayer than Him. We strive to be equals in our relationship, but I need someone who will tell me no. No Bunny, stop your stress eating. No Bunny, you can't hide, we are going out. But I also need someone to tell me yes. Yes Bunny, what you did was very good. Yes Bunny, you are brave. Yes Bunny, it's okay to feel that way. He's so focused on being a supporting husband, but I feel the need for what some on the thread have called a caretaker, or mentor, more of a daddy figure. I'm a badass most days, but some days my anxiety takes over and I want someone I can disappear into, give up all control, and know I am safe. And maybe I need some of that in the bedroom too.

I'm thinking about curling up in his lap and reading the threads with him. I'm just so concerned that he might feel that I'm suddenly too much.

Any advice?

 

[barefootgirl69]

@FrenchLopBunny

My only advice would be to talk to him, tell him your needs. Even if it's a need to explore this with him. That's the foundation of any relationship. Communication. If he's ready and willing to explore, I think these threads are a good start. Finding someone for him to talk to like you've found someone.

Don't get hung up on "treating someone as an equal". In this, "we are equally invested". There is still respect for one another. It is a beautiful thing.

 

[13Fantasies]

I think Barefoot Girl is correct.

But I also think you might be surprised. I think a lot of guys will find it somewhat comforting to know there is a social dynamic behind their actions.

Plus, knowing there are resources like this thread and others, as well as other online sources, can help. Independent and research with you definitely helps. Read with him and let him read/explore.

Just make sure to give him time to process. Most guys with that mentality want to take time to think about how it impacts the relationship dynamic at home, etc. A little patience can go a long way.

Good luck and I hope to hear of your success!

 

[Strixaluco]

@FrenchLopBunny You came here straight away
Leaves some apple crisp for you to find.

 

[barefootgirl69]

@FrenchLopBunny You came here straight away
Leaves some apple crisp for you to find.

Apple crisp? Is there more for everyone?

 

[Strixaluco]

Apple crisp? Is there more for everyone?

Sure! More than I can possibly eat alone.

I'll reheat it, you take the plates?

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I think Barefoot Girl is correct.

But I also think you might be surprised. I think a lot of guys will find it somewhat comforting to know there is a social dynamic behind their actions.

Plus, knowing there are resources like this thread and others, as well as other online sources, can help. Independent and research with you definitely helps. Read with him and let him read/explore.

Just make sure to give him time to process. Most guys with that mentality want to take time to think about how it impacts the relationship dynamic at home, etc. A little patience can go a long way.

Good luck and I hope to hear of your success!

Thank you. My bunny brain wants to charge full speed ahead. I will follow your advice.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

@FrenchLopBunny You came here straight away
Leaves some apple crisp for you to find.

Following the advice of a wise owl!

The crisp is delicious! A bit messy for a bunny to eat. I may be cleaning my face for a bit.

Bunny leaves crumpets and lemon curd for Strix and bfg.

 

[13Fantasies]

Thank you. My bunny brain wants to charge full speed ahead. I will follow your advice.

If he wants to talk to people, maybe have him make an account here and post in this thread. Barefoot Girl and the other Littles do a great job keeping out the riff-raff and keeping it productive

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I apologize if I overstepped.
Sunday evening is our quiet time together so I'm going to introduce the subject then.

 

[Acktion]

Daddies, may I have your input?

I'm looking for online resources to offer my husband after asking him to be my Daddy. I'm sure he's going to want a lot of information. Do you have your favorite resources outside of Lit?
I found this website that seems to me to offer a good description of the role of a Daddy.

Thank you in advance for any response you offer.

***shrug*** They aren't perfect. If there's one specific to Daddy/Mommy Doms I am unaware of it. But, these served as decent primers when I was first wrestling with the label a smart assed little tried to slap on the side of my cage (mostly trying to prove her wrong).

And, of course, the big thing for both of you to remember is it's a dynamic. Which means it is all about how the two of you fit your own needs and wants together while respecting each other's boundaries.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

***shrug*** They aren't perfect.

Thank you

 

[Strixaluco]

I also had a huge desire to get lots of information in the beginning. It may be difficult to even fathom what could be, or how certain results might be reached.

Then at some point it just looses relevance and you simply just do you, as a couple.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

So, I had my move all planned for tomorrow evening, but he didn't let me wait. As I said, he knew something was up. He sat me down this morning and gave me the, “We need to talk.” It caught me off guard and I was very awkward. Turns out that he was a DD in a prior relationship! He knows about this thread but hasn't been on it for years, like 7 or so, and he deleted his account when they broke up!
At first, I was angry because he kept it from me. I'm afraid I said some things that I regret. He got me calmed down and explained that being a DD is not a requirement for him to be happy, and he didn't tell me because of my past abusive relationship.
We talked for a few hours, lots of tears, and now we're out to lunch. He told me to check-in.
This afternoon we're going to look over the threads and the memes I saved. He said that he needs to understand what I find attractive about the lifestyle.
So far, so good, I guess. Definitely not the path I expected.

More late tonite or tomorrow.

 

[Strixaluco]

So far, so good, I guess. Definitely not the path I expected.

Life! Definitely takes us off the guard.

 

[barefootgirl69]