Desiring my wife to become a Hotwife

Hi. I've been a HotWife for 30 years. I'm so glad that I listened to my then husband's(now my cuckold's) advice. It's a great lifestyle.
Just so I understand, does the use of the wording "my then husband, now my cuckold" insinuate that you and he no longer have sex together - just you and your boyfriend(s)?
 
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Just so I understand, does the use of the wording "my then husband, now my cuckold" insinuate that you and he no longer have sex together - just you and your boyfriend(s)?
You understand my meaning perfectly. Richard is now only allowed to do clean up after I've been fucked by my boyfriend. During the week, when I rarely go on dates due to the pressure of my day job (I'm a primary school teacher) I still need pleasuring, so my cuckold is permitted to use tongue and fingers on me. But his ridiculously small cock is of no use to me. I keep it locked away and I milk him on a Saturday afternoon. As for p in v sex, he hasn't had the honour for over 28 years. I do peg him regularly, which is something we both enjoy. Our lifestyle might seem harsh and cruel to those who practise a 'normal' marriage, but we both love our chosen way of life, and everything we do is consensual.
 
You understand my meaning perfectly. Richard is now only allowed to do clean up after I've been fucked by my boyfriend. During the week, when I rarely go on dates due to the pressure of my day job (I'm a primary school teacher) I still need pleasuring, so my cuckold is permitted to use tongue and fingers on me. But his ridiculously small cock is of no use to me. I keep it locked away and I milk him on a Saturday afternoon. As for p in v sex, he hasn't had the honour for over 28 years. I do peg him regularly, which is something we both enjoy. Our lifestyle might seem harsh and cruel to those who practise a 'normal' marriage, but we both love our chosen way of life, and everything we do is consensual.
I think I would enjoy parent/teacher conferences with you.
 
We've never done it, but it's really the only way we have sex. We usually talk about a distant friend of a friend we know, or her HS bf, he's really the only other guy she ever messed with, and then it was just masturbation, and fingerings, she sucked him off once. He's her got to mostly, and the first time she let me know she did think about him oh she got off so many times, our bed was soaked. If it ever happened it would have to be a spur of the moment wild happenstance deal.
 
I don't think you can 'make' a wife into a hotwife. In my previous marriage it was a goal of mine. In the early years she did sleep around a bit (often copping off with some guy at a party) and we had a couple of 3somes but as soon as kids came along she stopped dead.

I think true 'hotwives' are a special kind of person, having a high sex drive, the emotional intelligence to accept and embrace it and to reject the expectaions society puts on them.

My current partner I met through fabswingers. We both made it clear to each other, as we got more involved, that neither of us wanted to give up the variety. She'd fucked a LOT of guys, attended sex parties etc and though we both liked the idea of being in a relationship, we both still loved the thrill of new partners, and I loved that in the swing scene she was considered to be a slut (not as a pejorative). This was also important to me as she's 20 years younger than me and I'm mindful of the fact that she'll still have a voracious appetite (she's really greedy and loves a big cock) when I'm being put out to pasture.

We've been together a year now, still enjoy multiple partners, 3somes etc and are both loving every minute of it.
 
It's a really hot fantasy but don't forget that whatever you two 'agree' on, you'd probably lose her as some people have themselves admitted on this very thread. It could be better to roleplay this.
 
We've been doing the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle since new years. The first other man lasted less than 6 months and for me wasn't ideal as he didn't want me around at all. I only got to watch once and it was awkward and not pleasurable at all. He never really liked me and certainly didn't respect me one bit.
Now we're in it with our single neighbor who I've became good friends with since last summer. I've completely opened up to him about our lifestyle, my fantasies and my wife's desires before he was ever included.

Having him involved is so much better as we all get along very well and I'm included in the play. No awkward moments at all now and we're all very open. When together just sitting around we have a little game we play. We each tell a fantasy that we want to play out.
We've done this several times now and it's great. Since early July with him included has been the best sexual time of our lives.
 
We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.
It took us a few years of communicating and talking about fetishes and fantasies before moving to toys and roleplaying. Eventually my wife started chatting (here and old Yahoo Chat/messenger) and that led to some regular guys she interacted with. From there it progressed to meeting for coffee and eventually fun. Over a period of 10 years she had multiple lovers and friends, but that has basically dried up over the last 7 years. Only one guy is periodically in the picture and it is because he and I have become good friends over the years. Whenever he spends the night, my wife typically gives him more attention.
Would be willing to chat anytime.
 
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