Desiring my wife to become a Hotwife

[MrMikelobe1952]

Quite open minded. See my stories.

Are they true stories, or fantasies

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Hi. I've been a HotWife for 30 years. I'm so glad that I listened to my then husband's(now my cuckold's) advice. It's a great lifestyle.

Just so I understand, does the use of the wording "my then husband, now my cuckold" insinuate that you and he no longer have sex together - just you and your boyfriend(s)?

 

[HottieOlwen]

Just so I understand, does the use of the wording "my then husband, now my cuckold" insinuate that you and he no longer have sex together - just you and your boyfriend(s)?

You understand my meaning perfectly. Richard is now only allowed to do clean up after I've been fucked by my boyfriend. During the week, when I rarely go on dates due to the pressure of my day job (I'm a primary school teacher) I still need pleasuring, so my cuckold is permitted to use tongue and fingers on me. But his ridiculously small cock is of no use to me. I keep it locked away and I milk him on a Saturday afternoon. As for p in v sex, he hasn't had the honour for over 28 years. I do peg him regularly, which is something we both enjoy. Our lifestyle might seem harsh and cruel to those who practise a 'normal' marriage, but we both love our chosen way of life, and everything we do is consensual.

 

[PapaRomantic]

You understand my meaning perfectly. Richard is now only allowed to do clean up after I've been fucked by my boyfriend. During the week, when I rarely go on dates due to the pressure of my day job (I'm a primary school teacher) I still need pleasuring, so my cuckold is permitted to use tongue and fingers on me. But his ridiculously small cock is of no use to me. I keep it locked away and I milk him on a Saturday afternoon. As for p in v sex, he hasn't had the honour for over 28 years. I do peg him regularly, which is something we both enjoy. Our lifestyle might seem harsh and cruel to those who practise a 'normal' marriage, but we both love our chosen way of life, and everything we do is consensual.

I think I would enjoy parent/teacher conferences with you.

 

[drobert44]

I think I would enjoy parent/teacher conferences with you.

You are so sweet to your cuck, milking regularly, does he cum when you peg him?

 

[Tommelon]

Sent you a message....

Could u help me out too?

 

[magic_rat]

I don't think you can 'make' a wife into a hotwife. In my previous marriage it was a goal of mine. In the early years she did sleep around a bit (often copping off with some guy at a party) and we had a couple of 3somes but as soon as kids came along she stopped dead.

I think true 'hotwives' are a special kind of person, having a high sex drive, the emotional intelligence to accept and embrace it and to reject the expectaions society puts on them.

My current partner I met through fabswingers. We both made it clear to each other, as we got more involved, that neither of us wanted to give up the variety. She'd fucked a LOT of guys, attended sex parties etc and though we both liked the idea of being in a relationship, we both still loved the thrill of new partners, and I loved that in the swing scene she was considered to be a slut (not as a pejorative). This was also important to me as she's 20 years younger than me and I'm mindful of the fact that she'll still have a voracious appetite (she's really greedy and loves a big cock) when I'm being put out to pasture.

We've been together a year now, still enjoy multiple partners, 3somes etc and are both loving every minute of it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It's a really hot fantasy but don't forget that whatever you two 'agree' on, you'd probably lose her as some people have themselves admitted on this very thread. It could be better to roleplay this.

 

[WonderPonder]

We've been doing the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle since new years. The first other man lasted less than 6 months and for me wasn't ideal as he didn't want me around at all. I only got to watch once and it was awkward and not pleasurable at all. He never really liked me and certainly didn't respect me one bit.
Now we're in it with our single neighbor who I've became good friends with since last summer. I've completely opened up to him about our lifestyle, my fantasies and my wife's desires before he was ever included.

Having him involved is so much better as we all get along very well and I'm included in the play. No awkward moments at all now and we're all very open. When together just sitting around we have a little game we play. We each tell a fantasy that we want to play out.
We've done this several times now and it's great. Since early July with him included has been the best sexual time of our lives.

 

[wifewatcher1997]

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

It took us a few years of communicating and talking about fetishes and fantasies before moving to toys and roleplaying. Eventually my wife started chatting (here and old Yahoo Chat/messenger) and that led to some regular guys she interacted with. From there it progressed to meeting for coffee and eventually fun. Over a period of 10 years she had multiple lovers and friends, but that has basically dried up over the last 7 years. Only one guy is periodically in the picture and it is because he and I have become good friends over the years. Whenever he spends the night, my wife typically gives him more attention.
Would be willing to chat anytime.

 

[Const65]

Sent you a message....

We are a mid thirties couple, been married since late 2017. Together we have 4 kids ranging from 10 yes to 4 months. For some time now, I've had the fantasy to see my wife with another man. I'm definitely more of the Stag/Vixen type as there would be absolutely no humiliation of degradation towards any of those involved. Anyone willing to chat with me about this. Men and women are welcome, actually hotwives are very welcome as I'd love to pick your brain about the lifestyle.

My wife became a hotwife 5 years ago it has been amazing for us . Our sex has been.amazing fueled by her returning home from.a date She dresses sexier even.her work attire has a professional but sexy flair.when she goes out it short skirts high heels Jewelry makeup etc Some of her hotwife outfits could be rated as CFM feel free to.ask.us anything Bob

 

[Const65]

After fantasizing about my wife cuckolding me and becoming a hotwife for years it finally has happened. It is even better than I imagined it would be. It took 3 factors for this to become reality. First with me having serious health issues, cancer which I'm beating plus it has caused my heart function to deteriorate so intercourse is out of the question for another several months. Second is she went through menopause last summer which skyrocketed her libido and lastly she met a man through a mutual friend and they really hit it off becoming really good friends. All those things happened last July to labor day.

Joe, the other man asked her out for New years eve and they've been seeing each other regularly since then. All this has actually helped me through my issues and has changed our lives.
I have a small penis which has fueled my fantasies while the other man has a bigger cock, especially in thickness and gives my wife regular orgasms during intercourse whereas I have never given her one accept when I perform oral on her.
I've only met Joe once and that was at a bbq last July where they were inseparable the entire time. Eventually the three of us will be going out for dinner together.

So right now my sex life consists of performing oral on her and her giving me long session handjobs with lots of hot cuckold talk. I honestly find this more arousing than having actual sex with my wife. I've suggested that even when I get better I should be denied intercourse and blowjobs. Both her and Joe like the idea of this which is a big turn on for me.
My wife could never just "hookup" with just anyone, she needs to know the person, be comfortable with and also be attracted to them which is why all this is happening. I find it arousing knowing that this is much more than just a sexual relationship between them. Since menopause and now her seeing someone else has greatly changed my wife for the better. She seems to be actual glowing, has an extra jump in her step, losing weight, new hairdo with wardrobe change and more outgoing. She sees him one night during the week and then Saturday mid afternoon until Sunday night.

My wife thinks cream pies are gross so doing that doesn't happen, although she just showers before coming home so she isn't completely clean. Right now watching isn't happening but we've talked about it as I'd like that. My wife is warming up to the idea and so is Joe. I doubt I'd be joining in if it were to happen since I'll be denied.
Last night she came home and we talked some as they both talked about me being a cuckold. She brought up that we should purchase a chasity cage for me so that she will control my orgasms with handjobs and so I won't jerkoff. They read a lot and I'm liking some of the suggestions.
I love that all three of us have acknowledged that her pussy and body are completely his. Some of the things my wife says during our hot talk handjobs are such a turn on.

Sounds like the three of you have a great sexual relationship Caging really changes thi.gs makes you want her more even.if its controlled my hot wife cages me every time she has a fuck.date

 

[Const65]

For the first 15-16 years of our marriage the idea of my wife having sex with another man was abhorrent. I felt it posed a grave threat to our marriage because she might end up so preferring sex with the other man that she'd leave me, and our kids, for him.

Over the years, that concern faded. I see things quite differently now that the cement of our marriage has fully cured. We've raised awesome kids, built a home, share the love of our extended families, we still fuck like 20-somethings, and we look forward to sharing our retirement together and enjoying grandkids. Nowadays, the idea that she'd leave all this behind b/c someone made her cum harder the one time she fucked him seems utterly fucking ridiculous. Our devotion to each other is not going to be undone by something so trivial.

So now, it's feels downright petty, selfish and borderline cruel to tell her that she can't occassinally scratch the irrepressible, god-given urge for an hour or two of strange dick.

How much do I love my wife? So much that I want her to live her best life and wring all the joy and excitement she can from it. If for her that means occasionally fucking someone else, then have it. And I hope the orgasms are great. I wouldn't take it personally; being with someone new is exciting. It has nothing to do with my lacking in any way..

Put simply, today I feel no more threatened by the idea of her having sex with someone else than when she goes to get a massage. Call me weird.

I have two stories related to this subject. Please feel free to read them. Sharing My Wife Michelle, and Mature Hotwife Turns a Trick. ..Just be sure to leave a comment.

My wife and I got into the lifestyle about 5 years ago it has been.great for us she dresses better ,works out her outfits on a regular basis is sexier and when she has a hotwife date its short tight revealing outfits extreme high heels ,makeup jewelry etc.I asked her one time if she could ever go.back.to one cock woman
SHE SAID "" NO WAY EVER " SHE added you would never want me too you you LOVE the way I look.when.I go.out to FUCK