Do women love big cocks more?

[CockSparrow]

This question – Do women love big cocks more – was directed at women. I am not a woman. But, over the years, I have had full and frank discussions with more than a few women.

What these discussions have tended to suggest is, yes, some women do prefer big cocks. But there are also many women who would not want another big cock within shouting distance of any of their various orifices ever again. ‘Once was quite enough,’ one of my wives told me. The truth is (if my ‘research’ is anywhere near accurate) most women don’t really think about it too much.

A few years ago, I used to have an occasional fuck buddy who was married to a chap who was rather well endowed and, in between playing with him and playing with me (separately, not together) she sometimes took her knickers off for a chap who might have made Jumbo feel that he had been short changed. And yet she said if she could only choose one, it would be me (Mr Average) every time. As another of my ladyfriends used to say: ‘There’s someone for everyone. It’s just a matter of finding the one who fits you best.’

It seems, when it comes to women’s preferences in cocks, you can’t make generalisations.

 

[WonderPonder]

My wife and I discussed this and she says size does matter. She's only ever been with me and one other man for intercourse. I'm 4.5 - 4.75" in length and a circumference of 3.5 - 3.75".
The other man is about 6.75 - 7" in length with a circumference of 5.5 - 5.75"
What she said about the difference is the bigger girth gives her orgasms. I've never given her orgasms from intercourse. The length is less important but with me some positions just don't work.

 

[luckyseven]

My wife tells me most penis feel the same inside her vagina. But, sometimes, a longer penis gives more pleasure than a small or thin penis.

But the man she's having sex with also has a significant impact on the sexual experience. She would rather have sex with a guy with a similar sex style to her own (moderately rough and very tender) than with a guy who’s into spanking.

Her final point was that it feels much better when his penis is on its way in because you're giving the body what it's craving, but when you pull out, you're taking it away.

 

[dodgeboy2]

My wife was a virgin, she says, and my little guy is the only one she has had, oh yeah only bought he small vibrators so mine seems normal to her! LOL

 

[fullservice65]

What's the long and short of this conversation? *teehee*

 

[Alicia_Kim]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

I have a couple of question for you, Tim, or more specifically for your wife.

1. Where is your wife finding all these guys with cocks of 10-inches or more in length?

2. Would she be willing to share some phone numbers with me?

 

[ImiGirrst]

From a guys perspective, as a guy whos well endowed its a hit or miss type of thing. I'm 7.7" long and 5.5" girth and women have told me I've got the biggest penis they have had. Some were into it, especially from the visual aspect and some felt it was too big.

Remember that SATC episode with the guy that even Samantha couldn't handle? I've often wondered how true that episode is. Popular wisdom seems to say that bigger is always better, but I don't think most really consider there is a downside to it. Do you feel there is a downside at all?

I definitely do. To the point I actually usually have difficulty orgasming, haha. I'm sure if I used them more I'd get used to it though. But they caused problems in that short time we used them again because we both hated the feeling.

I carry an assortment of condoms, including female ones. They can look and sound strange, but several partners have said they have better Os with them than male ones. They do have to be special ordered though. It's a crap shoot whether they will be a better alternative for a partner with ED. Sometimes they work and sometimes he just needs skin to skin contact.

 

[Bbl87]

I carry an assortment of condoms, including female ones. They can look and sound strange, but several partners have said they have better Os with them than male ones. They do have to be special ordered though. It's a crap shoot whether they will be a better alternative for a partner with ED. Sometimes they work and sometimes he just needs skin to skin contact.

Female condoms are definitely underutilized.

For me, I'm just so accustomed to the skin to skin it would be hard for me to go back. But, I think it's also possible if a prospective partner was tighter than my wife (not talking shit, she's just not, it's an anatomical reality), that may add enough stimulation to make them more usable.

 

[Roxxm_e]

It's not all about the size.
It's all about the person and how he make love. Its all about how the man make you cum. You can make awoman cum again and again with your fingers and tongue.
If you ask me, I prefer normal sizes than large ones.

Bcoz Indian lady are very emotional

 

[pace_purr]

My wife certainly did when we were in the swinging lifestyle if a guy didn’t have seven and a half inches minimum he didn’t get a look in for preference she liked her guys nine inches plus.

 

[LMWM321]

My truth about having a big dick.

I have a VERY large dick and have absolutely NOTHING to gain by lying about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.

it's 8 1/8" long - properly measured. Which means, ruler laid on top (not side! ...which adds length), and is lightly pressed against pubic bone. And my girth is a consistent 6 1/4" - the whole length. Even on a porn set - where only guys with big dicks need apply - my cock would be considered very large; not quite as big as Lexington Steele's, but close. According to calcSD website, based on world-wide averages, in a room of 1000 randomly selected men only 1 guy would be larger. Put another way, a woman would have to be with 250 guys to have only a 25% chance of encountering a dick as big or bigger.

Forget what you see in porn! ..The truth is, my outlier size/girth has done way more to hinder pleasure - for myself and my partners - than it has to enhance it.. For my wonderful wife, giving me oral - which something she has always loved doing with other guys - is painful, her jaw clicks and is sore and loose the next day; anal sex is nearly impossible (without tons of pre-stretching w/ toys which just isn't practical and precludes spontaneity) and now that we are older, even vaginal sex has become painful. ..We literally use about 2-3 tablespoons of lube each time we have sex. And, thanks to my length, the tip of my dick hits her cervix WAYYY before my pubic bone gets anywhere near her vulva, or her butt cheeks if doing doggie - very frustrating for both of us. Why, oh why do men want an 8 (or 9, or 10, etc..) inch dick when the average vagina is 4-5" deep? Ask yourselves, men - wouldn't it be more pleasurable for both of you if your WHOLE dick would fit inside your partner?

My wife, when pressed, admits that when she fantasizes about other men (a normal thing to do - just as it is when I fantasize about other women) they always have much smaller cocks where giving oral is easy, and being penetrated is never painful. This is actually described in greater detail in my Sharing My Wife Michelle story. In it, my wife's new partner for the night has a much smaller dick and, because of it, is able to please her in ways I can't.

My wife and I still manage to have wonderful sex. ..But it's in spite of my huge cock, not because of it.

 

[hulmule]

My truth about having a big dick.

I have a VERY large dick; I have absolutely NOTHING to gain by lying about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.

it's 8 1/8" long - properly measured. Which means, ruler laid on top (not side! ...which adds length), and is lightly pressed against pubic bone. And my girth is a consistent 6 1/4" - the whole length. Even on a porn set - where only guys with big dicks need apply - my cock would be considered very large. Not quite Lexington Steele big, but quite close. According to calcSD website, in a room with 1000 men, only 1 would be larger. Put another way, a woman who has been with 250 guys would have only a 25% chance of having encountered a dick as big or bigger.

Forget what you see in porn. ..The truth, is my outlier size/girth has done way more to hinder pleasure - for myself and my partners - than it has to enhance it.. For my wonderful wife, giving me oral (which she has always loved doing with other guys) is painful, her jaw clicks and is sore and loose the next day; anal sex is nearly impossible (without tons of pre-stretching w/ toys which just isn't practical and precludes spontaneity) and now that we are older, even vaginal sex has become painful. ..We literally use about 2-3 tablespoons of lube each time we have sex. And, thanks to my length, the tip of my dick hits her cervix WAYYY before my pelvic bone gets anywhere near her vulva, or her butt cheeks if doing doggie - very frustrating for both of us. Why, oh why do men want an 8 (or 9, or 10, etc..) inch dick when the average vagina is 4-5" deep? Wouldn't it be best for the WHOLE dick to fit inside your partner?

My wife, when pressed, admits that when she fantasizes about other men (a normal thing to do) they always have much smaller cocks where giving oral is easy, and being penetrated is never painful. This is actually described in greater detail in my Sharing My Wife Michelle story. In it, my wife's new partner for the night has a much smaller dick and, because of it, is able to please her in ways I can't.

My wife and I still manage to have wonderful sex. ..But it's in spite of my huge cock, not because of it.

Sounds like what i've gone thru. But wife in menopause now so no sex at all. It was kinda a curse in a way

 

[GregThickDix]

Sounds like what i've gone thru. But wife in menopause now so no sex at all. It was kinda a curse in a

Guys, everyone wants a big cock, but really, do you know who you eliminate with a large cock? Size seems like its a great thing to have, until you actually have it. My situation, I am under 7" in length, but girthy, 6" so, on the thicker side but I wouldn't say large, just a bit above average. Think its great right, well, if you want anal sex with your partner, she really has to like it and some pain. My wife and I have sex once a week and only when we are on vacation, is she interested in getting a little freaky and frisky, but if I think I am going to have sex everyday or more than once in a day, think again. She gets sore and doesn't want it. And I can count on 2 fingers on how many times she has let me have anal. So be the master of your domain, and you will be fine.

 

[blkjames]

My wife and I discussed this and she says size does matter. She's only ever been with me and one other man for intercourse. I'm 4.5 - 4.75" in length and a circumference of 3.5 - 3.75".
The other man is about 6.75 - 7" in length with a circumference of 5.5 - 5.75"
What she said about the difference is the bigger girth gives her orgasms. I've never given her orgasms from intercourse. The length is less important but with me some positions just don't work.

In my humble opinion,if size really matters,then a woman would never cum by way of oral sex. I believe that if you are doing what a woman wants and you pay attention to what they want, size can be a non issue.

 

[LMWM321]

Guys, everyone wants a big cock, but really, do you know who you eliminate with a large cock? Size seems like its a great thing to have, until you actually have it. My situation, I am under 7" in length, but girthy, 6" so, on the thicker side but I wouldn't say large, just a bit above average. Think its great right, well, if you want anal sex with your partner, she really has to like it and some pain. My wife and I have sex once a week and only when we are on vacation, is she interested in getting a little freaky and frisky, but if I think I am going to have sex everyday or more than once in a day, think again. She gets sore and doesn't want it. And I can count on 2 fingers on how many times she has let me have anal. So be the master of your domain, and you will be fine.

Not to put too fine a point... But 6" girth is not merely "on the thicker side." The average girth is 4.6" so you are 1.3x the average girth. According to sdCalc website, based on global averages, In a room of 1000 men, only 2 would be thicker. See my post above.

I agree, having a really big dick ain't all it's cracked up to be.

 

[SlutAddicted]

2024 will bring a new crop of the same questions. It will never end because there is a contingent of smaller-than-average guys who get off on hearing about how their size is a problem.

And smaller than average guys who want to be told it doesn't matter. And guys all across the spectrum who feel the need to find a way to compare themselves favourably to other guys.

It is sort of an odd needy claim of "well it doesn't matter but just in case it does I am at least average." As if no woman could ever care but if she does she is looking for average.

 

[policywank]

I think that for every woman there is such a thing as too small, adequate, ideal and too big. Where those thresholds are and how much importance she ascribes to size is unique to each woman based upon her particular characteristics and preferences. Note that being "average" has little to do with it - a women may prefer an average sized man, but being average sized doesn't mean all women will find that adequate.

Pretending it doesn't matter at all is a bit silly. You can get a woman to tell you what you want to hear, but no woman who enjoys penetrative sex is going to be completely indifferent if you have a 1" micro penis.

Likewise imagining that bigger is always better is equally silly. I like them big but even I don't want to be fucked by a fence post.

 

[WonderPonder]

I think that for every woman there is such a thing as too small, adequate, ideal and too big. Where those thresholds are and how much importance she ascribes to size is unique to each woman based upon her particular characteristics and preferences. Note that being "average" has little to do with it - she women may prefer an average sized man, but being average sized doesn't mean all women will find that adequate.

Pretending it doesn't matter at all is a bit silly. You can get a woman to tell you what you want to hear, but no woman who enjoys penetrative sex is going to be completely indifferent if you have a 1" micro penis.

Likewise imagining that bigger is always better is equally silly. I like them big but even I don't want to be fucked by a fence post.

I agree that every woman is different. My wife who until new years eve was only ever with me. I'm 4.5" long with a circumference of 3.5". Her new man is 7" with a circumference of 5.5 to 5.75". I've never given my wife an orgasm during intercourse whereas with his bigger thicker cock he does.
Giving her oral she gets really wet so when I enter her I feel like I'm swimming in there. I'm basically a one and done guy but her new guy can go multiple times and can do positions I can't with my small size.

My wife says size does matter and that he is the perfect size for her and I'm to small. Considering years ago I had major anxiety about my size, especially flaccid but now with cuckold fantasies and being a cuckold I've fully embraced it.

 

[Krigirl1233]

No comment

 

[policywank]

I agree that every woman is different. My wife who until new years eve was only ever with me. I'm 4.5" long with a circumference of 3.5". Her new man is 7" with a circumference of 5.5 to 5.75". I've never given my wife an orgasm during intercourse whereas with his bigger thicker cock he does.
Giving her oral she gets really wet so when I enter her I feel like I'm swimming in there. I'm basically a one and done guy but her new guy can go multiple times and can do positions I can't with my small size.

My wife says size does matter and that he is the perfect size for her and I'm to small. Considering years ago I had major anxiety about my size, especially flaccid but now with cuckold fantasies and being a cuckold I've fully embraced it.

The pressure to tell men that size doesn't matter is such that women often feel the need to convince themselves that it is true. They don't really make an honest assessment of their own position until they experience a larger man like your wife has. That is not to say that they will all come to the same conclusion as your wife because not all will. But I would say that one can't really know unless one has tried it.

 

[bjlatx]

Every guy my wife has fucked since we entered the hotwife lifestyle has been bigger than me. In fact, I’m the smallest of the 21 men she has had sex with in her life. Her favorite liver now is a really thick 7 inches with a curve upward. He makes her cum more than the two others she see and they are both a little bigger.

 

[LMWM321]

My question to those men wishing they had a 7" or longer dick... (I do... and wish I didn't!)

If it is true that the average vagina is 3-5 inches deep, then what purpose does greater penis length serve? Do you not realize that with even a 6" penis you will be hitting most womens' cervix before your pubic bone ever presses against her vulva - you know, the place where her clitoris happens to be!

Don't you understand that is NOT ideal for either of you?

Thickness is a different matter. ..Vaginal muscles can stretch to accommodate above average girth. But not much can be done when the dick is too long.

 

[bjlatx]

I don’t wish to have one bigger than 7”, but it would be nice to have at least 6”. My wife must have a deeper than average pussy because I’ve seen her take a thick 8” inches like a champ!

 

[newhere2learn]

7" here. And a true *grower*. Cold, not aroused? It's under 2".

What I'd say is it depends on the woman as well. I've been in some women who I couldn't feel as they had a wide pussy, but equally I bottomed out in.

Meanwhile my current partner, so tight we need lube, even after extensive foreplay.


Everything is subjective.

 

[LMWM321]

My wife must have a deeper than average pussy because I’ve seen her take a thick 8” inches like a champ!

Of course she can "take it". I'm just pointing out that it's unlikely the whole length fits inside of her - meaning, some portion of his length was superfluous.