Do you ever feel real emotions for someone you've met on here?

[KalynDash]

Why can't I find the two of you together on those threads that ask about the two posters above.

And what if you could?

 

[Coyote100]

I'd join you in a heartbeat.

 

[porkyrocket69]

Yes, I have & currently do.

 

[PassionsFlame]

I'm all the years I've been online, yes I have.

 

[mellowyellows]

I have and it has been both hurtful and helpful.

 

[Dashabout]

I've made a few friends that if I was trailing near them I'd try and have a meet for coffee or a drink.

 

[DayDreaming2407]

Yes. Our conversations mean the world to me.

 

[Pelhamlooking]

absolutely!

 

[boo56]

Well, yes, in a kind of shallow way. Occasional jealousy, when someone I've begun to feel 'crushy' about, begins interacting with someone else in a manner that I wrongly hoped was reserved for me. A kind of rejection, when someone with whom I have been carrying on a lengthy personal message exchange suddenly disappears without explanation. And once, a kind of devastation after someone who had transmitted very explicit and highly arousing video clips to me, expressed extreme displeasure when she learned that I had kept and continued to enjoy those video clips. She hadn't indicated that they were intended to be ephemera and I surely considered them 'keepers.'

So, yes, although the strongest emotions are negative. The attraction and affection can be real, but the feelings of jealousy, rejection and betrayal are more abiding. Even virtual romance is a roller-coaster!

Break my heart?!

 

[IrishStarlight]

Twice! And got very very hurt both times it's tough, but definitely learned from it. Guarded is definitely the way to go.

 

[Crownvic]

You bet I have...feel it right now....

 

[blackstallion21]

actually had a fling turned into a Dom relationship from a Litster and I still talk to her today... and had another situation come out of my stories as well and I still talk to her as well.

 

[SirBurnInside]

Oh yes big time! I have totally fallen for someone on Lit and spend huge portions of my time talking to her every day!

I get people being cautious, but when you connect like have, it's just a wonderful feeling that I am enjoying every second of!

 

[Icekiller56]

Oh yes. I've been burned but also loved. I've learned some hard lessons and how to protect myself, but also how to open myself up more.

I’m sorry you’ve been hurt

 

[JessGabriel]

Oh yes big time! I have totally fallen for someone on Lit and spend huge portions of my time talking to her every day!

I get people being cautious, but when you connect like have, it's just a wonderful feeling that I am enjoying every second of!

And I'm the luckiest woman in the world.

 

[Twistedkink]

Definitely. A wide spectrum of emotions.

 

[NaughtyIdeaOrTwo]

Absolutely

 

[MarkSand]

How could you not? People on Lit trnd to be smart, funny and above all, authentic.

 

[Chillygirl]

It’s amazing when it happens and hell when it ends. I’m torn between being grateful for the time that was had and never letting it happen again.

 

[Polranny]

There are a few who are good friends

 

[Pelhamlooking]

It’s amazing when it happens and he’ll when it ends. I’m torn between being grateful for the time that was had and never letting it happen again.

So true!!

 

[Twistedkink]

I have had many deep emotional feelings about people I have met here. Mostly people are willing to be so open about who they are deep inside, and few of us can share that with those in our reality as they would only judge us rather than embrace our deepest darkest truths. I only want the best for those I’ve met here.

 

[ccs29745]

Is odd that I have and currently am having some emotions towards a few on here, yet have never met any in person. Conflicted on of I should say anything to the one that I am very curious about.

Any suggestions on how to approach this situation?

 

[Wand3rlust]

Yes. Real feelings of friendship. And sometimes more. But it can be painful. So you get wise and wary of being open. But the few friends from here I speak to off the boards? I love them all.

 

[slavemelanie]

Absolutely, it depends though on how much you invest in building that relationship. I voice with Master multiple times a week and when I don't we either text chat or email the other days. Anyone that has opened their heart and mind to someone online has been hurt and prayed upon, but is that can happen in any relationship in life? There are some amazing people on Lit, it just takes time and effort to find them.