Do you hide your sexual needs from your significant other?

[thetiesthatbindme]

I do now, for the most part. We have a great marriage in nearly every way, but it became apparent a few years into our marriage that my sexual needs are greater and more complicated than his. I've learned to deal with it in various ways. As I get older, it has become easier.

You said your needs r more complicated than his. If you came to lit to get your needs met, you should be up front about being bi sexual.

 

[rthnck]

I do now, for the most part. We have a great marriage in nearly every way, but it became apparent a few years into our marriage that my sexual needs are greater and more complicated than his. I've learned to deal with it in various ways. As I get older, it has become easier.

As I get older, it has become much harder and I'm becoming less and less content with dealing with it in various ways. Not a good recipe for a lasting relationship at this point.

 

[Uncut1969]

I don’t care anymore she doesn’t want sex so I satisfiy myself! Miss closeness I won’t lie a nice warm pussy and passionate kissing and pussy licking I miss ! So being on here I can live out fantasy with like minded people thank you guys have a merry Christmas

 

[ZfrkS62]

As I get older, it has become much harder and I'm becoming less and less content with dealing with it in various ways. Not a good recipe for a lasting relationship at this point.

I bought a couple of toys to experiment with in my own that I haven't told my wife about. Might not until I figure out how to use them properly.

Now that she's picked up frequency in the past several months, I've been trying to add a little variety. It's a long game kind of thing. Took a little patience and frustration but she realized what was at stake.

 

[fredrock]

Ummmm...that is why i am here...

 

[Suzi27]

I don’t know if you looked up vanilla you would find
Mine no imagination or willing to try anything! Asked about fantasy’s she diddnt
Have any! Fuck I have enough for both of us and probably the whole area we live in!

She sounds exactly like my husband

 

[Uncut1969]

She sounds exactly like my husband

I think we need to trade partners and then everyone is happy! I know I would

 

[JusticeGrey]

She sounds exactly like my husband

Maybe he has fantasies he's too scared or embarrassed to share.

 

[Kellie0829]

we are an extremely open couple, that's why we are on here together. Sometimes our experiences and our fantasies shock each other, but they always lead to good sex.

Omggg I love the thought of one of you being shocked!!!

 

[Kellie0829]

I just keep my intimate thoughts for myself and very seldom share them, even to my husband. I really think there are things that is better to keep in the dark.

I am so like you Anita my husband has no idea what on my mind of the path of recently gone down… none, which will lead to our upcoming divorce

 

[Paguy8641]

I am so like you Anita my husband has no idea what on my mind of the path of recently gone down… none, which will lead to our upcoming divorce

I try to talk with my wife about things. I can only go so far. ( she gets uncomfortable). So the rest of the stuff comes out on here. Kellie sorry to her about you and your husband. I was the 1 that asked about seeing your pic today and you posted 1. Believe me I’m thankful and you are gorgeous.

 

[Kellie0829]

I try to talk with my wife about things. I can only go so far. ( she gets uncomfortable). So the rest of the stuff comes out on here. Kellie sorry to her about you and your husband. I was the 1 that asked about seeing your pic today and you posted 1. Believe me I’m thankful and you are gorgeous.

Awwww thank you but I had to delete it… omg I’m so fat

 

[Kellie0829]

She sounds exactly like my husband

Suzi27 are you married to my husband
Kellie

 

[Kellie0829]

Suzi27 are you married to my husband
Kellie

You can have him I need more sex and excitement

 

[Kellie0829]

Awwww thank you but I had to delete it… omg I’m so fat

Sorry for deleting the picture of my boobs! I looked so fat it was embarrassing! I’ll take a better picture someday if I get enough requests to see my boobs from the ladies …
Just teasing I’ll post my boobs I promise! Can we post anything on here? Like my private shaved part ?

 

[Kellie0829]

Sorry for deleting the picture of my boobs! I looked so fat it was embarrassing! I’ll take a better picture someday if I get enough requests to see my boobs from the ladies …
Just teasing I’ll post my boobs I promise! Can we post anything on here? Like my private shaved part ?

Omg I’m getting soooo wet posting this for everyone to read, and I have no idea if anyone else is reading this or if I’m in the wrong kind of chatting/room/stream/category/forumn wherever I’m saying this

 

[Kellie0829]

Omg I’m getting soooo wet posting this for everyone to read, and I have no idea if anyone else is reading this or if I’m in the wrong kind of chatting/room/stream/category/forumn wherever I’m saying this

Ommmgg this is soo hot

 

[Kellie0829]

Sorry for deleting the picture of my boobs! I looked so fat it was embarrassing! I’ll take a better picture someday if I get enough requests to see my boobs from the ladies …
Just teasing I’ll post my boobs I promise! Can we post anything on here? Like my private shaved part ?

Omggg I get soooo horny so easily trust me I’ll post things I swear lol

 

[Kellie0829]

Omggg I get soooo horny so easily trust me I’ll post things I swear lol

I never got an answer to that question because I have no idea whom I am writing to

 

[Vitriolhack]

Maybe he has fantasies he's too scared or embarrassed to share.

That happens a lot, especially when one is afraid of the long term effects.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Omg I’m getting soooo wet posting this for everyone to read, and I have no idea if anyone else is reading this or if I’m in the wrong kind of chatting/room/stream/category/forumn wherever I’m saying this

You are being read!

 

[HottieOlwen]

I will admit that I have had more meaningful conversations on the lit chat with virtual strangers that with my wife.

Having tried to talk to her about it, I know how she would react and judge me.

I am not unhappy about the choices I have made, but, I am curious to know if others here are in the same boat I am in?

As a very enthusiastic Hot Wife with an equally enthusiastic cuckold, all my lifestyle episodes are shared with him. He even watches me perform sometimes! As has been said elsewhere in answer to this post, our vanilla and kink lifestyles are kept compartmentalised. But in the main, I share everything with my cuckold. We love our lifestyle.

 

[Suzi27]

You can have him I need more sex and excitement

I dont want him........ but you sound fun...................

 

[william1965]

I never got an answer to that question because I have no idea whom I am writing to

Damn. You are energized Kellie!!!

 

[william1965]

Separately and possibly a threesome in a perfect world lol
I get to be the main attraction cause I’m an attention addict

You like attention.... hmmmmm