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Indeed. Otherwise I don’t feel realYou like attention.... hmmmmm![]()
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Indeed. Otherwise I don’t feel realYou like attention.... hmmmmm![]()
Love to read your chats gets me horny alsoI never got an answer to that question because I have no idea whom I am writing to![]()
It is great that you both found each other and enjoy each other’s kink. Good for the 2 of you.As a very enthusiastic Hot Wife with an equally enthusiastic cuckold, all my lifestyle episodes are shared with him. He even watches me perform sometimes! As has been said elsewhere in answer to this post, our vanilla and kink lifestyles are kept compartmentalised. But in the main, I share everything with my cuckold. We love our lifestyle.
Think of this as a support thread!I so need this site for my sanity! Love to chat and read with like minded people ! Wife has no desire unfortunately! I probably would be divorced if she read any of my posts or past in counters ! At this point I don’t care thanks for helping me you guys are the best
We all have our own kinks and you can usually find the same people responding to similar posts. Some get off on big tits some get off on little tits etc etc. Mine just happens to be my wife with someone else. She's known about how I get excited with her and someone else for a long long time. I kind of think that's why she agreed to try swinging, to make me happyI so need this site for my sanity! Love to chat and read with like minded people ! Wife has no desire unfortunately! I probably would be divorced if she read any of my posts or past in counters ! At this point I don’t care thanks for helping me you guys are the best
Hey there yes I am a life long wanker even during my marriage seriously my wife first time caught me in the shower she was completely caught off guard looking at me unfortunately right at the point of cumming she stood there waiting for me to finish but she was more hurt thinking that she wasn't good enough for me I had to explain to her that it wasn't nothing like that at all it's simply that I enjoy jerking offI will admit that I have had more meaningful conversations on the lit chat with virtual strangers that with my wife.
Having tried to talk to her about it, I know how she would react and judge me.
I am not unhappy about the choices I have made, but, I am curious to know if others here are in the same boat I am in?
how does that make you feel?I use to tell her all of my wants, needs, kinks, etc. We’ve even acted on them, but she’s not interested anymore, I don’t hide them, but find no need to share them with her anymore
I’ve had that argument, some really can’t get over it.Hey there yes I am a life long wanker even during my marriage seriously my wife first time caught me in the shower she was completely caught off guard looking at me unfortunately right at the point of cumming she stood there waiting for me to finish but she was more hurt thinking that she wasn't good enough for me I had to explain to her that it wasn't nothing like that at all it's simply that I enjoy jerking off
If a particular need is something I know she will be comfortable with and happy to oblige, naturally I'll tell her. However there are others that I know she will definitely not obliged, but recoil from, and yes, judge me, so I keep those to myself. Then there are the ones I have requested a few times and always been refused, so those I now keep to myself too.I will admit that I have had more meaningful conversations on the lit chat with virtual strangers that with my wife.
Having tried to talk to her about it, I know how she would react and judge me.
I am not unhappy about the choices I have made, but, I am curious to know if others here are in the same boat I am in?
I definitely keep a few things to myself as wellIf a particular need is something I know she will be comfortable with and happy to oblige, naturally I'll tell her. However there are others that I know she will definitely not obliged, but recoil from, and yes, judge me, so I keep those to myself. Then there are the ones I have requested a few times and always been refused, so those I now keep to myself too.
I'd be so excited if I caught my husband wanking off and he was like join me and/or watch!Hey there yes I am a life long wanker even during my marriage seriously my wife first time caught me in the shower she was completely caught off guard looking at me unfortunately right at the point of cumming she stood there waiting for me to finish but she was more hurt thinking that she wasn't good enough for me I had to explain to her that it wasn't nothing like that at all it's simply that I enjoy jerking off
Most definitely I feel like if I ever have another partner there will be a check list for sure ! No more hiding and undercover! No more stroking both on same pageI'd be so excited if I caught my husband wanking off and he was like join me and/or watch!or, if he caught me and asked if he could watch/participate. Yes and yes! Kinda sad she wasn't into it. Makes me wonder if there should be a how you want to sex checklist for potential partners.. do you like me? check yes or no... do you like jerking off? check yes or no..
My wife has walked in finding me wanking many times. Sometimes she rolls her eyes. Sometimes she watches. Sometimes she helps. Sometimes she joins in and does herself. We don't hid or judge anything.I'd be so excited if I caught my husband wanking off and he was like join me and/or watch!or, if he caught me and asked if he could watch/participate. Yes and yes! Kinda sad she wasn't into it. Makes me wonder if there should be a how you want to sex checklist for potential partners.. do you like me? check yes or no... do you like jerking off? check yes or no..
How does the refusal of certain act make you feel?If a particular need is something I know she will be comfortable with and happy to oblige, naturally I'll tell her. However there are others that I know she will definitely not obliged, but recoil from, and yes, judge me, so I keep those to myself. Then there are the ones I have requested a few times and always been refused, so those I now keep to myself too.
That answer is so well put together. it covers it allIf a particular need is something I know she will be comfortable with and happy to oblige, naturally I'll tell her. However there are others that I know she will definitely not obliged, but recoil from, and yes, judge me, so I keep those to myself. Then there are the ones I have requested a few times and always been refused, so those I now keep to myself too.
Most definitely it’s a slap to the face I feel like to be denied! You’re not good enough or attractive enough you don’t satisfy them !How does the refusal of certain act make you feel?
I find that frustration can fester and creates stress during what should be a pleasurable moment of life.
Answer only if you feel like it.
Well, to be honest, some people won’t refuse sex but just some specific acts.Most definitely it’s a slap to the face I feel like to be denied! You’re not good enough or attractive enough you don’t satisfy them !
It’s a compromising to satisfy each other! Not ignoring it! That’s the problem with the world now a days it’s all about self gratification and it’s all about me and my feelings fuck every one else! And it seams you fit into that category! Have a nice dayWell, to be honest, some people won’t refuse sex but just some specific acts.
So, can we blame them for that? What if they hate giving head? Are you going to strongly admonish them for it? Is there anything to gain from that?
It’s one of those circumstances when well chosen words are much needed.
It does make me feel frustrated in that I'm being denied something I want, but I feel neither hurt nor rejected, I understand where she is coming from.How does the refusal of certain act make you feel?
I find that frustration can fester and creates stress during what should be a pleasurable moment of life.
Answer only if you feel like it.
Well, at least you can talk about it and have come to a mutual understanding.It does make me feel frustrated in that I'm being denied something I want, but I feel neither hurt nor rejected, I understand where she is coming from.
Definitely in the same boat as you. I admit I am not the best communicator but part of the reason is because of the judgement and closed mind.I will admit that I have had more meaningful conversations on the lit chat with virtual strangers that with my wife.
Having tried to talk to her about it, I know how she would react and judge me.
I am not unhappy about the choices I have made, but, I am curious to know if others here are in the same boat I am in?