Talk to me please
Do you hide your sexual needs from your significant other?
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Dirtyoldhornyman
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I’m 68 and feel more sexual than ever before. My wife is nearly sexless. Doesn’t care about my fantasizes or spicing anything up.
I’ve had more deeper and meaningful sexual conversation on Lit with total strangers than anyone in my life, including my wife.
It’s refreshing and wonderful. The ladies, and men, all share it-it seems like.
Sexual honesty.
So, Lit and porn are my secret life where I can somewhat live out my fantasies to my liking.
It’s better than nothing!
I’ve had more deeper and meaningful sexual conversation on Lit with total strangers than anyone in my life, including my wife.
It’s refreshing and wonderful. The ladies, and men, all share it-it seems like.
Sexual honesty.
So, Lit and porn are my secret life where I can somewhat live out my fantasies to my liking.
It’s better than nothing!
Vitriolhack
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A good part of sexual activities involve the mind imagining new and different ways to fuck.
You are correct, talking about it to other like minded people here, feels like group therapy, enjoy the talks.
JennyCapricorn
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Yes same here. My hubby introduced me to here and yes, for the original poster I found Lit incredibly liberating in letting me explore my wants and desires but we are always very open about what we’re exploring.
And yeah, makes the sex great.
Some of our Sexual Needs overlap and we are quite open about such Overlapping or Common/Mutual Fetishes.
But there are certain Fetishes which R exclusively mine , which She feels repelled by and refuses to converse about: I do share such fetishes with like minded peeps here on Lit and feel erotically fulfilled by sharing my deepest thoughts and hearing about other folks' deepest desires too!!!
I really don't mind my wife's refusal as we reside in a free world where individual liberties do matter!!!
Herewego92
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My wife doesn’t know that I fantasise about her fucking other people. She doesn’t know that I have a major cheating kink and foot fetish.
Execlatina2024
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No. I can't imagine us not talking and doing whatever we can to meet each other's needs.
dkak001
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Good for you! This answer doesn't come up often, and it's good to see it when it does...
angelwingsub
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I don't have to hide. I sit on the couch and play with myself and I'm invisible. He doesn't notice I'm here until I'm not in the room, then he gets upset. 
Island_Chris
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I hate that for you. I say what I want most times but I don't always get it. Actually don't get it quite a bit.I don't have to hide. I sit on the couch and play with myself and I'm invisible. He doesn't notice I'm here until I'm not in the room, then he gets upset.
Bigboobbabe
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I was having this conversation to a friend from here today. It was very similar.
These relationships don't ruin marriages, it actually saves them.
MidwestPrincess23
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Yes…I do hide everything because even if I shared it wouldn’t matter
Vitriolhack
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So you play with yourself in plain site?I don't have to hide. I sit on the couch and play with myself and I'm invisible. He doesn't notice I'm here until I'm not in the room, then he gets upset.
That’s hot!
Norfolkguy49
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Yes totally hide it from everyone sometimes I wanna shout it out
Vitriolhack
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Well, I truly hope things turn around for you. If it helps, I know how you feel as do many on this thread.
Keep your chin up.
Vitriolhack
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Yeah, I hear you; but listen to the logic, like the song goes, “some things are better left unsaid.”
Norfolkguy49
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Can share it with me if like
Tweedledude
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I hide them because of the ridicule and criticism that comes with saying anything sexual.... Ya there's people like that
Dirtyoldhornyman
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I know exactly how you feel. And when I share, all I get is a lecture and an angry person back…
Tweedledude
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Agreed
SWR101
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I have shared mine with my wife, and while she hasn’t judged me for any of them, she has made it clear some of them aren’t happening with her. But, I’m fine with that, though I’ll keep trying to win her over, because I’d rather be honest and open than hide from her.
SophiaTeddy99
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My partner and I are kinky but his sex drive is alot less. Its frustrating and chat here has led to new needs and kinks i don't share with him
My wife knows all about my kinks after all these years. She also knows about my desire to see her with other men and what I'd like to see them do with her. The reason we even tried swinging was I was inches away from fucking my workout partner and I told my wife about it. After the fact she told me the only reason she tried the swinging thing was because she thought I was going to leave her....never would happen. I didn't know all this at the time but she sure didn't have to force herself with the right partner. She loves sex and had fun
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