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I've never picked up a woman in a bar in my life. I'd have no idea how to go about it. Perhaps that is where some of my sexual venom springs from; as I've always despised females, a little bit, for looking so enticing yet being out of reach. My friend is somewha similar. He gets more ass than a bicycle seat, but it just seems to drop into his lap. (To mix the metaphor).
It was just a night for looking and leching.
rosco rathbone
I've never picked up a woman in a bar in my life. I'd have no idea how to go about it. Perhaps that is where some of my sexual venom springs from; as I've always despised females, a little bit, for looking so enticing yet being out of reach. My friend is somewha similar. He gets more ass than a bicycle seat, but it just seems to drop into his lap. (To mix the metaphor).
It was just a night for looking and leching.
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All my fantasies these days involve ruling as king of a small play world where I am the only person and everyone else is either small, nice bears, cuddly bunnies or tiny kittens 2 inches long with fur in bright artificial colors. Sexuality as we understand it is unknown there; for them it means cuddling and exchanging feelings and love through wordless mind pictures.
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All my fantasies these days involve ruling as king of a small play world where I am the only person and everyone else is either small, nice bears, cuddly bunnies or tiny kittens 2 inches long with fur in bright artificial colors. Sexuality as we understand it is unknown there; for them it means cuddling and exchanging feelings and love through wordless mind pictures.
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I can't have a slave who does not listen. I also think a slave who commits errors or provikes a master to punish her because she likes that is unhealthy. The basis of the M/S relationship is corrupt at that point and the slave often controls the power. It is best to call it quits if discussing these issues and feelings doesn't help.
mstrnsvnt
I can't have a slave who does not listen. I also think a slave who commits errors or provikes a master to punish her because she likes that is unhealthy. The basis of the M/S relationship is corrupt at that point and the slave often controls the power. It is best to call it quits if discussing these issues and feelings doesn't help.
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I do respect your having come clean. Sometimes, cleaning up our mistakes hurts not only us, but those around us.
To that end, it appears to me that your message is clear.
Too often people engage in BDSM, and in particular online BDSM, as though it is a game. Truthfully, there are moments and parts of the lifestyle that definitely mirror gaming. We plan, we strategize, we get special feelings when our plans are successful.
However, BDSM is never a game. We engage with real people with real feelings, regardless of whether we are online or in real time.
MissTaken
I do respect your having come clean. Sometimes, cleaning up our mistakes hurts not only us, but those around us.
To that end, it appears to me that your message is clear.
Too often people engage in BDSM, and in particular online BDSM, as though it is a game. Truthfully, there are moments and parts of the lifestyle that definitely mirror gaming. We plan, we strategize, we get special feelings when our plans are successful.
However, BDSM is never a game. We engage with real people with real feelings, regardless of whether we are online or in real time.
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Ok there are many good points both ways in this discussion. My problem is with the sharing like a party favor. I know my girls would give me that wounded look if I ever shared them in that way. I never want to cause that kind of emotional pain. However, I could see sharing as a learning experience. If they wanted to experience something new or more advanced in say bondage or edge play. I would understand as it could help us all to learn. So in a controlled setting with very strict limits I could see it. So yes I would understand that kind of sharing. I'm sure there are many types of sharing, this is just the only one I would feel comfortable. I would do it to see the pleasure in their eyes experiencing something new and exciting. As I recieve pleasure from seeing my subs happy.
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Ok there are many good points both ways in this discussion. My problem is with the sharing like a party favor. I know my girls would give me that wounded look if I ever shared them in that way. I never want to cause that kind of emotional pain. However, I could see sharing as a learning experience. If they wanted to experience something new or more advanced in say bondage or edge play. I would understand as it could help us all to learn. So in a controlled setting with very strict limits I could see it. So yes I would understand that kind of sharing. I'm sure there are many types of sharing, this is just the only one I would feel comfortable. I would do it to see the pleasure in their eyes experiencing something new and exciting. As I recieve pleasure from seeing my subs happy.
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SSC was just a nice little nugget some gay boys developed in an attempt to make it clear that we don't kidnap people off the streets, skin them alive, and fuck their fresh wounds while singing hey diddle diddle.
It got all blown out of proportion, with people throwing around "he's not SSC!" as the ultimate way to signify persona non grata around some pretty subjective stuff.
It's a guideline, it's a generality.
RACK is like trying to build a better mousetrap while we aren't necessarily even trying to catch mice. I wish we'd just say what we mean instead of more acronyms.
Netzach
SSC was just a nice little nugget some gay boys developed in an attempt to make it clear that we don't kidnap people off the streets, skin them alive, and fuck their fresh wounds while singing hey diddle diddle.
It got all blown out of proportion, with people throwing around "he's not SSC!" as the ultimate way to signify persona non grata around some pretty subjective stuff.
It's a guideline, it's a generality.
RACK is like trying to build a better mousetrap while we aren't necessarily even trying to catch mice. I wish we'd just say what we mean instead of more acronyms.
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lol and forget about PMS - if you want to see some bizarre and rash symptoms, try menopause! I have yet to go there but if my mother's experience is any indicator, it should be a wild ride... but at least I have a map, and probably won't be punching people out or buying a new sports car and eyeing highschool girls
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lol and forget about PMS - if you want to see some bizarre and rash symptoms, try menopause! I have yet to go there but if my mother's experience is any indicator, it should be a wild ride... but at least I have a map, and probably won't be punching people out or buying a new sports car and eyeing highschool girls
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I think "no" is a wonderful word....
It's empowering.
It's concise.
It's easy to spell.
It's rarely misunderstood.
But most everyone has a hard time saying it.
In a TrulyLovingRelationship, the word No is rarely used.
So....to say "I'd never do this or that..." when you're talking about what your lover might hypothetically ask you to do for him or her someday...might just be a complete waste of time.
Because....in a TLR, it's neither very likely your TL will ask you to do something you won't do for him/her....nor is it very likely you won't want to do what makes your TL happy.
So, when it comes to TL, I say never say never, cuz you never know.
I've never had the desire to piss on anyone I've loved....but if I did, I'd imagine we'd both be okay with it...otherwise I wouldn't want to do it.
Scat I can't imagine...but then again, until my daughter was born I hadn't even touched much poop, so who knows?
On the other hand....when it comes to people I don't love....No becomes an easy, wonderful word.
Conclusion: Everyone can and should say No whenever they want...but TL reduces the number of things one says No to.
Lancecastor
I think "no" is a wonderful word....
It's empowering.
It's concise.
It's easy to spell.
It's rarely misunderstood.
But most everyone has a hard time saying it.
In a TrulyLovingRelationship, the word No is rarely used.
So....to say "I'd never do this or that..." when you're talking about what your lover might hypothetically ask you to do for him or her someday...might just be a complete waste of time.
Because....in a TLR, it's neither very likely your TL will ask you to do something you won't do for him/her....nor is it very likely you won't want to do what makes your TL happy.
So, when it comes to TL, I say never say never, cuz you never know.
I've never had the desire to piss on anyone I've loved....but if I did, I'd imagine we'd both be okay with it...otherwise I wouldn't want to do it.
Scat I can't imagine...but then again, until my daughter was born I hadn't even touched much poop, so who knows?
On the other hand....when it comes to people I don't love....No becomes an easy, wonderful word.
Conclusion: Everyone can and should say No whenever they want...but TL reduces the number of things one says No to.
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The willingness to bring me an idea or new kink and help me to make it a reality. It is quite hard to know what secret desires your submissive may have in her devilish mind. And I enjoy having my horizons broadened to a lot more that the lifestyle has to offer. It's not topping from the bottom to share your thoughts and desires with your Dom. And I for one love my submissives opening up all they have inside to me.
snoozebutton
The willingness to bring me an idea or new kink and help me to make it a reality. It is quite hard to know what secret desires your submissive may have in her devilish mind. And I enjoy having my horizons broadened to a lot more that the lifestyle has to offer. It's not topping from the bottom to share your thoughts and desires with your Dom. And I for one love my submissives opening up all they have inside to me.
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First question, and you're going to take it like a pail of cold water to the face. Does she look at another man in the same way she looks at you? If she does, she's a robot that recognizes the male gender, but not the differences in males.
Second question, does she ever hesitate when you wish to try something different? If she does, she has a mind of her own, not a database to add information. Going further, i believe some of the things you wish from her will always come hard, and in that find comfort.
Third question, do you think it possible for any human to be perfect? If not, your intended won't be perfect either, and in that find comfort.
Last question, do you know something when you look at her, think of her, interact with her that means nearly everything to you? If so, laugh politely at the idiot that spewed that drivel.
If you're nervous, you should be. If you're unsure, you should be. If you're not, perhaps someone raised you to be gender neutral as well, then you really don't have a problem. That excitement you feel right before you're with her should speak volumes. How you manipulate that excitement falls on no one but you be it nervous, confident, hungry, or bored.
Anyone that says they're "neutral," to make it more palatable to the strong types, when dealing with another human doesn't speak the truth. Try thinking of one successful totally neutral interaction you've had with anyone. We're gregarious by nature, and need contact with others. And yeah, it even takes energy to be bored.
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First question, and you're going to take it like a pail of cold water to the face. Does she look at another man in the same way she looks at you? If she does, she's a robot that recognizes the male gender, but not the differences in males.
Second question, does she ever hesitate when you wish to try something different? If she does, she has a mind of her own, not a database to add information. Going further, i believe some of the things you wish from her will always come hard, and in that find comfort.
Third question, do you think it possible for any human to be perfect? If not, your intended won't be perfect either, and in that find comfort.
Last question, do you know something when you look at her, think of her, interact with her that means nearly everything to you? If so, laugh politely at the idiot that spewed that drivel.
If you're nervous, you should be. If you're unsure, you should be. If you're not, perhaps someone raised you to be gender neutral as well, then you really don't have a problem. That excitement you feel right before you're with her should speak volumes. How you manipulate that excitement falls on no one but you be it nervous, confident, hungry, or bored.
Anyone that says they're "neutral," to make it more palatable to the strong types, when dealing with another human doesn't speak the truth. Try thinking of one successful totally neutral interaction you've had with anyone. We're gregarious by nature, and need contact with others. And yeah, it even takes energy to be bored.
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Does the "why" really matter?
Before the philosophical discourse, the whats:
* Spanking, paddling, flogging, crop, cane...
* Hot wax, ice, fire play
* Knife play (and damn the sleazoid who stole all my knives {almost $3K US worth} from my car three years ago!)
* Tears - brightening her eyes, filling them to the brim; spilling over the eyelid; slowly creeping down her cheek, leaving a glistening trail of her pain/love/pleasure
* The multiplicity of sensations when I press her shoulders to kneel before me so I can fuck her mouth and throat ungivingly, using her, feeling her overflowing saliva dripping onto my thighs, seeing it drop onto her swollen nipples, until I cum down her throat, then push her head away and walk away to resume whatever I was doing
* Welts - the raised stripes recalling the swish and slash of the cane into the tender flesh of her bottom
* Bruises - colorful, changing tracks of my making, showing days later how I marked her and how she felt and feels my love
* The tiny bright droplets of slight penetration of her flesh, the scarlet trails of more severely broken skin, writing incomprehensible crimson poetry to the depth of our passion
* The taste of those droplets and trails as I dabble in them with my fingertips, then bring them to my mouth and hers, to share
* The unfocused eyes and softly-slackened mouth that draw my gaze as she reaches her climax and melts under my lust for her completion
* The warmth of her freshly-spanked bottom against me as I "spoon" her and we drift into well-loved and -lusted rest
* The light scent of her hair when I rest my head on hers as we watch a movie on the television, and the soft warmth of the curves of her breast, that complete my cupped hand and make it whole
I am an unabashed sadist. I joy in giving pain to a loved one who in turn rejoices in receiving it, along with the passion, both physical and emotional, that I lavish on her. It completes us both, and makes our whole much greater than the mere sum of our individualities.
I am also an unabashed sensualist. I delight in giving and receiving massages, as well as orgasms. I love to tease her almost to orgasm, then bring her down just a little, and back up and back down - until her legs and lips tremble, and her eyes beg for the release she knows I will grant only when I am ready for her to cum. I love to feel her lips graze the tip of my cock, and slowly part and slooooowly take me between them, and even more slowly take me all the way into her mouth; to feel her take me, at my instruction, almost to the brink, then back off, and up again, until I am ready... and then to take me deep into the warmth of her that I may explode my essence, my passion, my love, my lust into her that it may become a part of her. I love to sit quietly with her nestled under my arm, the two of us reading - one book or two, it makes no difference - and simply feeling each other's heartbeat and the rhythm of our respiration and the comfort and pleasure of being together.
Is there a dichotomy there? Of course. None of us are one-dimensional. Each of us has his/her own harder and softer aspects, with all the shadings in between. Those aspects make up the whole of the person, and to deny any of them is to lessen the person. (Of course, I am disregarding the homicidal, etc., as not being whole persons to begin with.) It is only when we can acknowledge and accept ourselves as a whole person that we can be at peace and comfortable within ourselves.
~~~~~
Now, the philosophical "Why?" to which I respond, "Why not - and who really cares why?" Is it not enough that we have these passions and desires, and have found those with whom we may satisfy them?
Sir Winston
Does the "why" really matter?
Before the philosophical discourse, the whats:
* Spanking, paddling, flogging, crop, cane...
* Hot wax, ice, fire play
* Knife play (and damn the sleazoid who stole all my knives {almost $3K US worth} from my car three years ago!)
* Tears - brightening her eyes, filling them to the brim; spilling over the eyelid; slowly creeping down her cheek, leaving a glistening trail of her pain/love/pleasure
* The multiplicity of sensations when I press her shoulders to kneel before me so I can fuck her mouth and throat ungivingly, using her, feeling her overflowing saliva dripping onto my thighs, seeing it drop onto her swollen nipples, until I cum down her throat, then push her head away and walk away to resume whatever I was doing
* Welts - the raised stripes recalling the swish and slash of the cane into the tender flesh of her bottom
* Bruises - colorful, changing tracks of my making, showing days later how I marked her and how she felt and feels my love
* The tiny bright droplets of slight penetration of her flesh, the scarlet trails of more severely broken skin, writing incomprehensible crimson poetry to the depth of our passion
* The taste of those droplets and trails as I dabble in them with my fingertips, then bring them to my mouth and hers, to share
* The unfocused eyes and softly-slackened mouth that draw my gaze as she reaches her climax and melts under my lust for her completion
* The warmth of her freshly-spanked bottom against me as I "spoon" her and we drift into well-loved and -lusted rest
* The light scent of her hair when I rest my head on hers as we watch a movie on the television, and the soft warmth of the curves of her breast, that complete my cupped hand and make it whole
I am an unabashed sadist. I joy in giving pain to a loved one who in turn rejoices in receiving it, along with the passion, both physical and emotional, that I lavish on her. It completes us both, and makes our whole much greater than the mere sum of our individualities.
I am also an unabashed sensualist. I delight in giving and receiving massages, as well as orgasms. I love to tease her almost to orgasm, then bring her down just a little, and back up and back down - until her legs and lips tremble, and her eyes beg for the release she knows I will grant only when I am ready for her to cum. I love to feel her lips graze the tip of my cock, and slowly part and slooooowly take me between them, and even more slowly take me all the way into her mouth; to feel her take me, at my instruction, almost to the brink, then back off, and up again, until I am ready... and then to take me deep into the warmth of her that I may explode my essence, my passion, my love, my lust into her that it may become a part of her. I love to sit quietly with her nestled under my arm, the two of us reading - one book or two, it makes no difference - and simply feeling each other's heartbeat and the rhythm of our respiration and the comfort and pleasure of being together.
Is there a dichotomy there? Of course. None of us are one-dimensional. Each of us has his/her own harder and softer aspects, with all the shadings in between. Those aspects make up the whole of the person, and to deny any of them is to lessen the person. (Of course, I am disregarding the homicidal, etc., as not being whole persons to begin with.) It is only when we can acknowledge and accept ourselves as a whole person that we can be at peace and comfortable within ourselves.
~~~~~
Now, the philosophical "Why?" to which I respond, "Why not - and who really cares why?" Is it not enough that we have these passions and desires, and have found those with whom we may satisfy them?
Sir Winston
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I'll toss out some observations and another theory.
Strictly as far as Literotica goes, there appear to be a large number of people into BDsM who also suffer from depressive and other mood disorders.
One of the manifestations of these mood disorders, particularly depression is weight gain and other food issues ---- and the reasons are not all psychological. It's not all about comforting one's self with food or being too depressed to get out of bed and burn a calorie. Some of this is chemical.
Say hello to Serotonin - the effects of which can be mimicked by carbohydrate consumption. Chocolate makes you feel like you're in love? Pasta makes you feel less inclined to slit your wrists.....at least until you take a look at your ass later on.
There is a high incidence of mood disorders and depressive personalities among artists and performers as well but because of the public nature of their vocations the less physically ideal specimens get weeded out by the public eye.
Nobody is practicing BDsM for the viewing pleasure of the general public. Skill is more important than what you look like performing that skill. If you also look good doing it you have an advantage, but as has been pointed out time and again: most folks aren't all that kinky. If you're seriously into your kink the field of players is much smaller than if all you want is somebody attractive to bump uglies with.
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I'll toss out some observations and another theory.
Strictly as far as Literotica goes, there appear to be a large number of people into BDsM who also suffer from depressive and other mood disorders.
One of the manifestations of these mood disorders, particularly depression is weight gain and other food issues ---- and the reasons are not all psychological. It's not all about comforting one's self with food or being too depressed to get out of bed and burn a calorie. Some of this is chemical.
Say hello to Serotonin - the effects of which can be mimicked by carbohydrate consumption. Chocolate makes you feel like you're in love? Pasta makes you feel less inclined to slit your wrists.....at least until you take a look at your ass later on.
There is a high incidence of mood disorders and depressive personalities among artists and performers as well but because of the public nature of their vocations the less physically ideal specimens get weeded out by the public eye.
Nobody is practicing BDsM for the viewing pleasure of the general public. Skill is more important than what you look like performing that skill. If you also look good doing it you have an advantage, but as has been pointed out time and again: most folks aren't all that kinky. If you're seriously into your kink the field of players is much smaller than if all you want is somebody attractive to bump uglies with.
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Sometimes
Many times limits are solely dependant upon a person's reasons they have drawn for themselves.
Some limits have been actually forced upon a person through bad experiences.
Sometimes...the right person can come along and instill enough trust and caring, that they can overcome the objections through patience.
It is possible that some limits are actually baggage from former relationships in disguise, and when the person comes to realize that the person they are with, is not the same as the person who put the limit there, it can be a freeing experience.
Another thing I find interesting in me...is when a former sub in the past had a hard limit and I adjusted and I learned to respect that limit, I find it takes some unlearning of my own when I am currently with a submissive who doesn't have that limit. Especially if that particular thing is a turn on for the current submissive. Take humillation for example, that might have been a hard limit for a past submissive, and my current submissive truly enjoys that. I find it takes a period of time for me to be able to adjust. I use humillation as a neutral example as its not really something I like or am into. Maybe this is just me and other Dom/mes don't have this dilema or hang up.
RJMasters
Sometimes
Many times limits are solely dependant upon a person's reasons they have drawn for themselves.
Some limits have been actually forced upon a person through bad experiences.
Sometimes...the right person can come along and instill enough trust and caring, that they can overcome the objections through patience.
It is possible that some limits are actually baggage from former relationships in disguise, and when the person comes to realize that the person they are with, is not the same as the person who put the limit there, it can be a freeing experience.
Another thing I find interesting in me...is when a former sub in the past had a hard limit and I adjusted and I learned to respect that limit, I find it takes some unlearning of my own when I am currently with a submissive who doesn't have that limit. Especially if that particular thing is a turn on for the current submissive. Take humillation for example, that might have been a hard limit for a past submissive, and my current submissive truly enjoys that. I find it takes a period of time for me to be able to adjust. I use humillation as a neutral example as its not really something I like or am into. Maybe this is just me and other Dom/mes don't have this dilema or hang up.
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Pretend abandonment, shelving perhaps, for short periods of time to take care of mundane matters reeks of psychological/emotional sadism. While heady, pun intended, the practice carries high risks, and they don't all have to be mental. As a means of punishment/training, i've used this. In the 'nilla world it can come across as passive aggressiveness. In this world, it can shatter, or strengthen. Again, the practice carries high risks.
In both worlds, nilla & here, and either condition, pretend & real:
* Read the warning label.
* Understand it.
* Choose wisely.
AngelicAssassin
Pretend abandonment, shelving perhaps, for short periods of time to take care of mundane matters reeks of psychological/emotional sadism. While heady, pun intended, the practice carries high risks, and they don't all have to be mental. As a means of punishment/training, i've used this. In the 'nilla world it can come across as passive aggressiveness. In this world, it can shatter, or strengthen. Again, the practice carries high risks.
In both worlds, nilla & here, and either condition, pretend & real:
* Read the warning label.
* Understand it.
* Choose wisely.
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Raw Anal Lust
Do you enjoy anal sex? Can you even admit that you do? Do you like being taken with force? It's your most private orfice and that is a large part of the forbidden desire of anal sex. And, the position for anal sex is normally very lewd. Also, while you are being taken that way, you can't really do much but take it.
Also, that hole is smaller, so it is more painful, at least in the beginning. And, it requires lube, if you are going to do it right and be safe. And, because of the lube, even if you don't want to be taken there, you aren't going to stop me. If you resist, that is even more fun for me. Any resistance will tighten that little hole and I will enjoy taking it that much more.
Most animals have sex that way, and they can appear very violent in that act. The biting of shoulders and forcing the female to submit is a normal part of the act for them. Anal sex is very close to animal sex. The position is even referred to as "doggie style".
With you in this position, I sometimes like to put my hands on either side of your head, and ride you hard. And, you are kept in that position by my hands being there, not able to move forward or to either side. You have to take it.
See, anal sex is my favorite thing. And, it just comes to me naturally. You can almost look at it as you are forced into a situation you don't want, but part of you deep inside makes you do it, because you need it. And if forced to ask for it in some way, you are made to express your need for it.
If you're bound and gagged, it's more fun for me, because you have no choice but to take what I give you and how I give it to you. Only whimpers and muffled moans escape from the gag.
I force you to strip while I watch you, and then get on your knees and lube your own ass. Then, I lock the shackles on you and whisper how I'm going to make your tight little ass larger for you.
Then, I nibble on your ear lobe as I breathe hot air into your ear. I stick my tongue in your ear to make it wet. Then I bite your lobe again, almost to the point of too much pain. I reach under you and find your nipples and twist them between my fingers, causing you to wince in pain.
I run one hand down between your bound legs to find your clit. I just rub it lightly, to make sure you are aching for it. I know you want me to fuck your pussy and fuck it hard. But the lube is in your ass hole, so you know it isn't your pussy that's getting any attention.
I spank your ass until both cheeks are nice and red and have red hand prints all over. I love fucking a nice red ass. You yelp with each swat of my hand, and jerk from the pain. As I continue to spank you with one hand, I snake my other hand down and stick it inside your wet pussy, but only for a very short time. Just enough to get your attention.
Then, I get on my knees behind you and let my hard cock bounce on your red ass cheeks. Just to let you know how hard it is. I watch that glistening hole twitch, in anticipation. It's such a pretty picture, wet with lube, between your spanked ass cheeks.
I take hold of my cock and place it at that tiny little hole, moving it in very small circles at the entrance. Then, I grab your hips and slowly inch it in. You groan and try to raise up, because it feels too big and you begin to panic.
I push you back down, with my hand, although you couldn't raise up very far because of your shackles. You start to say something, but you catch your breath as the head of my cock pops past your tight anal opening. You gasp as it starts to slowly inch it's way up your most private passage.
You feel so submissive, taken this way. You love being forced to take it, bound in such a lewd position. You don't dare tell you love this, but you love it very much. The position, the pain, the bondage, the humiliation...it all comes together as one lustful feeling that washes over you.
I thrust my hard cock as far as it will go into your ass, and you gasp again, not ready for its size. Your breath is short, you try to tighten your ass, testing my power. You melt into a kind of used submissive mode, as if you are being punished or tamed or trained.
You want this to happen and you want it bad, but I'm still deep inside you, just watching you with your filled ass in the air. Finally, you can't stand it any longer and you yell to me "FUCK ME, DAMN IT...FUCK MY ASS."
I laugh and lean over to whisper into your ear..."all in my own time, naughty little girl...all in my own time." You groan, because you want it NOW, and you know you have no control over it. You need your ass fucking to start, but you are mine to be used and used you will be.
I lean over you and put my palms on the floor on either side of your head, so you don't move forward or from side to side. You are kept in position, so I can ram hard into your ass and you will take the whole force of my thrusts. Slowly, I pull my cock out of your ass, only to the very tip of the opening, then thrust it back to the very hilt, again.
You whimper appreciation that the act has finally begun, but it isn't fast enough for your liking, and that whimper is also from need. Again, I slowly pull out to the edge of your ass, but this time, I pull completely out, only to push it right back in again and it chugs down as far as it will go.
Again, I do this, and you feel like you are being entered anew, over and over again, as I push that tight little hole open each time. I whisper into your ear..."you like this, don't you? You need this, don't you? Such a naughty girl, all naked and bound in such a lewd position and getting her tight little ass fucked."
I don't wait for an answer, but pull out again and again I re-enter that tight little hole and trust down against those red ass cheeks with a slap. You gasp at the feeling this causes, and I think I hear you breathe the word "yes", as I pull out and do it again.
I tell you how I like to watch my hard cock as it slides effortlessly into your naughty little ass, punishing your little hole with animal like thrusts.
You tell me you deserve this punishment, because you are my naughty little girl and mine to use for my pleasure. You ask me to make it hurt because you deserve it. My slut has been bad.
You whimper as I begin to get faster with my fucking, and I slap your ass a few times as I fuck it. I raise up and grab your hips and fuck that way, then sometimes I lean forward, and give my whole weight against you and make you take it hard.
You are on the hard wooden floor and the force of my fucking you makes you slide a little across the floor with each thrust. Because the floor was freshly waxed, your shoulders and knees squeak against it. I begin to fuck that little hole of yours even faster now, and I reach around and find your nipples and hold on to them as I fuck you.
With each thrust, I pinch them, and pull them when I pull out. But, I see that you enjoy this too much so I stop, so not to give you too much pleasure. You are nearly beside yourself now, knowing it is getting to the point that you can't handle it.
But, this is also the level you need it to be. Being taken this way excites you trememdously. My thrusting is faster, now, and I'm bouncing against your ass, as I start a rythum.
A whiney sound is coming from your throat, as you feel my power grow inside you, and you sense my orgasm could be near. I grab hold of your waist and dig my fingers into your flesh as I shove faster and faster into your burning ass. I start to call you my naughty slut and my little punished whore, as I ram your ass faster and faster.
I punish you with my cock, as it gets harder and larger, nearing my orgasm. You can feel it getting larger and you are thrilled at the feeling it brings out in you.
You love being taken by a powerful man, being his lustful toy, being his play thing, for his pleasure. Being taken by force in your most private place, you can't get enough of it. You know you are an anal slut and you love it.
I grab you hard and hold you still as one last time I shove my cock into your ass. I hold it deep inside you, as I spill my hot cum into your bowels. I groan a deep groan and to you it sounds like animal is taking you.
You think of me as a hairy beast that has you in his power and you couldn't get away, if you wanted to. You whimper your appreciation as my cum fills your ass, and you want to cum yourself, if I will let you.
Finally, I reach around and with my hand I pinch your clit, rubbing it roughly, telling you to cum for me. You scream as you can't contain the violent spasms that rush through your bound body.
Your own cum gushes from you and runs down your legs to the floor. I continue to fuck you, until the last of my cum is inside you, Your orgasm is so powerful, you can't catch your breath. You finally start to breath easier after a few minutes.
I sit back and look at your quivering ass hole, as it wants my cock inside it. It looks like it lost a friend. I see my cum oozing out of your ass, your bowels not large enough to hold it all, and I watch it drip down your ass crack and coat your pussy lips.
I tell you I'm quick at recovery, and I think I'll leave you this way, because in just a few more minutes I'll be back for more fun. I've always been very quick with recovery. I think this time I'll also have that 8 inch dong you like so much to fill your pussy. Yes, it will be me in your ass.
DVS
Raw Anal Lust
Do you enjoy anal sex? Can you even admit that you do? Do you like being taken with force? It's your most private orfice and that is a large part of the forbidden desire of anal sex. And, the position for anal sex is normally very lewd. Also, while you are being taken that way, you can't really do much but take it.
Also, that hole is smaller, so it is more painful, at least in the beginning. And, it requires lube, if you are going to do it right and be safe. And, because of the lube, even if you don't want to be taken there, you aren't going to stop me. If you resist, that is even more fun for me. Any resistance will tighten that little hole and I will enjoy taking it that much more.
Most animals have sex that way, and they can appear very violent in that act. The biting of shoulders and forcing the female to submit is a normal part of the act for them. Anal sex is very close to animal sex. The position is even referred to as "doggie style".
With you in this position, I sometimes like to put my hands on either side of your head, and ride you hard. And, you are kept in that position by my hands being there, not able to move forward or to either side. You have to take it.
See, anal sex is my favorite thing. And, it just comes to me naturally. You can almost look at it as you are forced into a situation you don't want, but part of you deep inside makes you do it, because you need it. And if forced to ask for it in some way, you are made to express your need for it.
If you're bound and gagged, it's more fun for me, because you have no choice but to take what I give you and how I give it to you. Only whimpers and muffled moans escape from the gag.
I force you to strip while I watch you, and then get on your knees and lube your own ass. Then, I lock the shackles on you and whisper how I'm going to make your tight little ass larger for you.
Then, I nibble on your ear lobe as I breathe hot air into your ear. I stick my tongue in your ear to make it wet. Then I bite your lobe again, almost to the point of too much pain. I reach under you and find your nipples and twist them between my fingers, causing you to wince in pain.
I run one hand down between your bound legs to find your clit. I just rub it lightly, to make sure you are aching for it. I know you want me to fuck your pussy and fuck it hard. But the lube is in your ass hole, so you know it isn't your pussy that's getting any attention.
I spank your ass until both cheeks are nice and red and have red hand prints all over. I love fucking a nice red ass. You yelp with each swat of my hand, and jerk from the pain. As I continue to spank you with one hand, I snake my other hand down and stick it inside your wet pussy, but only for a very short time. Just enough to get your attention.
Then, I get on my knees behind you and let my hard cock bounce on your red ass cheeks. Just to let you know how hard it is. I watch that glistening hole twitch, in anticipation. It's such a pretty picture, wet with lube, between your spanked ass cheeks.
I take hold of my cock and place it at that tiny little hole, moving it in very small circles at the entrance. Then, I grab your hips and slowly inch it in. You groan and try to raise up, because it feels too big and you begin to panic.
I push you back down, with my hand, although you couldn't raise up very far because of your shackles. You start to say something, but you catch your breath as the head of my cock pops past your tight anal opening. You gasp as it starts to slowly inch it's way up your most private passage.
You feel so submissive, taken this way. You love being forced to take it, bound in such a lewd position. You don't dare tell you love this, but you love it very much. The position, the pain, the bondage, the humiliation...it all comes together as one lustful feeling that washes over you.
I thrust my hard cock as far as it will go into your ass, and you gasp again, not ready for its size. Your breath is short, you try to tighten your ass, testing my power. You melt into a kind of used submissive mode, as if you are being punished or tamed or trained.
You want this to happen and you want it bad, but I'm still deep inside you, just watching you with your filled ass in the air. Finally, you can't stand it any longer and you yell to me "FUCK ME, DAMN IT...FUCK MY ASS."
I laugh and lean over to whisper into your ear..."all in my own time, naughty little girl...all in my own time." You groan, because you want it NOW, and you know you have no control over it. You need your ass fucking to start, but you are mine to be used and used you will be.
I lean over you and put my palms on the floor on either side of your head, so you don't move forward or from side to side. You are kept in position, so I can ram hard into your ass and you will take the whole force of my thrusts. Slowly, I pull my cock out of your ass, only to the very tip of the opening, then thrust it back to the very hilt, again.
You whimper appreciation that the act has finally begun, but it isn't fast enough for your liking, and that whimper is also from need. Again, I slowly pull out to the edge of your ass, but this time, I pull completely out, only to push it right back in again and it chugs down as far as it will go.
Again, I do this, and you feel like you are being entered anew, over and over again, as I push that tight little hole open each time. I whisper into your ear..."you like this, don't you? You need this, don't you? Such a naughty girl, all naked and bound in such a lewd position and getting her tight little ass fucked."
I don't wait for an answer, but pull out again and again I re-enter that tight little hole and trust down against those red ass cheeks with a slap. You gasp at the feeling this causes, and I think I hear you breathe the word "yes", as I pull out and do it again.
I tell you how I like to watch my hard cock as it slides effortlessly into your naughty little ass, punishing your little hole with animal like thrusts.
You tell me you deserve this punishment, because you are my naughty little girl and mine to use for my pleasure. You ask me to make it hurt because you deserve it. My slut has been bad.
You whimper as I begin to get faster with my fucking, and I slap your ass a few times as I fuck it. I raise up and grab your hips and fuck that way, then sometimes I lean forward, and give my whole weight against you and make you take it hard.
You are on the hard wooden floor and the force of my fucking you makes you slide a little across the floor with each thrust. Because the floor was freshly waxed, your shoulders and knees squeak against it. I begin to fuck that little hole of yours even faster now, and I reach around and find your nipples and hold on to them as I fuck you.
With each thrust, I pinch them, and pull them when I pull out. But, I see that you enjoy this too much so I stop, so not to give you too much pleasure. You are nearly beside yourself now, knowing it is getting to the point that you can't handle it.
But, this is also the level you need it to be. Being taken this way excites you trememdously. My thrusting is faster, now, and I'm bouncing against your ass, as I start a rythum.
A whiney sound is coming from your throat, as you feel my power grow inside you, and you sense my orgasm could be near. I grab hold of your waist and dig my fingers into your flesh as I shove faster and faster into your burning ass. I start to call you my naughty slut and my little punished whore, as I ram your ass faster and faster.
I punish you with my cock, as it gets harder and larger, nearing my orgasm. You can feel it getting larger and you are thrilled at the feeling it brings out in you.
You love being taken by a powerful man, being his lustful toy, being his play thing, for his pleasure. Being taken by force in your most private place, you can't get enough of it. You know you are an anal slut and you love it.
I grab you hard and hold you still as one last time I shove my cock into your ass. I hold it deep inside you, as I spill my hot cum into your bowels. I groan a deep groan and to you it sounds like animal is taking you.
You think of me as a hairy beast that has you in his power and you couldn't get away, if you wanted to. You whimper your appreciation as my cum fills your ass, and you want to cum yourself, if I will let you.
Finally, I reach around and with my hand I pinch your clit, rubbing it roughly, telling you to cum for me. You scream as you can't contain the violent spasms that rush through your bound body.
Your own cum gushes from you and runs down your legs to the floor. I continue to fuck you, until the last of my cum is inside you, Your orgasm is so powerful, you can't catch your breath. You finally start to breath easier after a few minutes.
I sit back and look at your quivering ass hole, as it wants my cock inside it. It looks like it lost a friend. I see my cum oozing out of your ass, your bowels not large enough to hold it all, and I watch it drip down your ass crack and coat your pussy lips.
I tell you I'm quick at recovery, and I think I'll leave you this way, because in just a few more minutes I'll be back for more fun. I've always been very quick with recovery. I think this time I'll also have that 8 inch dong you like so much to fill your pussy. Yes, it will be me in your ass.
DVS
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Come to Me, My little newbie subbies. Come, kneel at My feet, and let a powerful Dom like Myself train you in the ways of submission. Gather around, slaves, subs, pets...let Me teach you, guide you through your journey. Submit to my words, allow yourself to be led by Me. I will show you such marvelous things, like how to pick out a slave name, how to attract online predators, and good advice on how to leave your husband for a complete stranger who lives 1000+ miles away. Yes, My little ones, let Me show you the P/proper W/way T/to P/post messages on a board. Yes, and I will even show you how to sign your life away to an abusive 'Dom', in some foolish 'contract', that you just know you have to have because you read about it in a story. Come, let Me collar you all, and then make you regret it for years to come.
Johnny Mayberry
Come to Me, My little newbie subbies. Come, kneel at My feet, and let a powerful Dom like Myself train you in the ways of submission. Gather around, slaves, subs, pets...let Me teach you, guide you through your journey. Submit to my words, allow yourself to be led by Me. I will show you such marvelous things, like how to pick out a slave name, how to attract online predators, and good advice on how to leave your husband for a complete stranger who lives 1000+ miles away. Yes, My little ones, let Me show you the P/proper W/way T/to P/post messages on a board. Yes, and I will even show you how to sign your life away to an abusive 'Dom', in some foolish 'contract', that you just know you have to have because you read about it in a story. Come, let Me collar you all, and then make you regret it for years to come.
Johnny Mayberry
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Re: september 24
Hmmmm, you trying to tell me something Amo?
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Deferring to Ben:
Benjamin Franklin's 8 Reasons to collar an Older sub
1. Because they have more Knowledge of the world, and their Minds are better stored with Observations; their Conversation is more improving, and more lastingly agreeable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a thousand Services, small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of children, which irregularly produced may be attended with much inconvenience.
4. Because through more Experience they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your reputation; and with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclined to excuse an old Woman, who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his manners by her good Councils, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the Highest part, The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower parts continuing to last as plump as ever; so that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old one from a young one. And as in the Dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of Corporal Enjoyment with on old Woman is at least equal and frequently superior; every Knack being by Practice capable of improvement.
6. Because the sin is less. The Debauching of a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend making an old Woman happy.
8th & lastly. They are so grateful!!!
WriterDom
Deferring to Ben:
Benjamin Franklin's 8 Reasons to collar an Older sub
1. Because they have more Knowledge of the world, and their Minds are better stored with Observations; their Conversation is more improving, and more lastingly agreeable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a thousand Services, small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of children, which irregularly produced may be attended with much inconvenience.
4. Because through more Experience they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your reputation; and with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclined to excuse an old Woman, who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his manners by her good Councils, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the Highest part, The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower parts continuing to last as plump as ever; so that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old one from a young one. And as in the Dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of Corporal Enjoyment with on old Woman is at least equal and frequently superior; every Knack being by Practice capable of improvement.
6. Because the sin is less. The Debauching of a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend making an old Woman happy.
8th & lastly. They are so grateful!!!
WriterDom
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I suffered through extensive abuse as a child, although I will say I am grateful it didn't include sexual abuse.
It's interesting how we include our pasts and how we deal with the issues that the abuse from our past raises. We cannot escape our pasts -- they define us to a very large extent. But we can choose to some extent how to learn from them.
Your interest in BDSM may be directly related to past abuse. Or it may not. While you are definate about the link, I am not so definate.
However, the fact that you have made something positive out of the abuse and learned from it and unconvered new possibilities in yourself says a lot about you. It doesn't say that you are sick or damaged. It says you are an incredibly strong person who is willing to deal with the issues of abuse and yet still learn new things about herself.
Instead of being ashamed, you should be proud of who you are.
FungiUg
I suffered through extensive abuse as a child, although I will say I am grateful it didn't include sexual abuse.
It's interesting how we include our pasts and how we deal with the issues that the abuse from our past raises. We cannot escape our pasts -- they define us to a very large extent. But we can choose to some extent how to learn from them.
Your interest in BDSM may be directly related to past abuse. Or it may not. While you are definate about the link, I am not so definate.
However, the fact that you have made something positive out of the abuse and learned from it and unconvered new possibilities in yourself says a lot about you. It doesn't say that you are sick or damaged. It says you are an incredibly strong person who is willing to deal with the issues of abuse and yet still learn new things about herself.
Instead of being ashamed, you should be proud of who you are.
FungiUg
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We celebrate whips and chains. Yeah, it's hidden away in our play rooms. I've seen great presenters booed to get along with the whipping. I've had subs to count their orgasms and lose count around 5. I read everything that I could find, and only began to learn what I don't know. But being Dom is part of who I am. And I embrace it.
I play safe and consensual. Sane? perhaps not. Safe? Safe is an ongoing process.
WriterDom
We celebrate whips and chains. Yeah, it's hidden away in our play rooms. I've seen great presenters booed to get along with the whipping. I've had subs to count their orgasms and lose count around 5. I read everything that I could find, and only began to learn what I don't know. But being Dom is part of who I am. And I embrace it.
I play safe and consensual. Sane? perhaps not. Safe? Safe is an ongoing process.
WriterDom
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SEPTEMBER 30
Thanks for ressurecting that thread and my comment there AA, I really do feel like I've become the queen of dirty talk from distance-domination.
I'm trying to pinpoint the things that break down my barriers, you know, what might make someone a face-to-face client after being a phone client, what might make someone a personal slave after being a client, that's really the issue, for me it's about breaking through those boxes and when I feel comfortable changing the boundaries of how someone in my life might fit.
Frankly it's gut-based, largely. I just can tell the difference between someone who isn't doing what I'm telling them to do at a distance and someone who would not dream of NOT doing something. I don't know how, or what mechanics there are to that process. I wouldn't forgo a safecall over it, but it's just there, a certain smell test.
People give off an energy. Maybe I'm just part honeybee and they are too. Maybe I'm really good at reading between the lines. Have I ever been horribly awfully wrong? Once, no twice. Out of like 20-40 times where I get to work with someone to any degree of consistency.
Mr. B -- I really want to say I dig your forthright and let there be flames, no BS. posts. Here and now.
As for why I didn't chime in on that thread, well frankly I met my most significant lovers face to face so far. What seems to be making it work with M is largely my flexibility, my being able to love him across a big spectrum of modes, not only out of Top space. That's what works for us, so far. I think we're still too in honeymoon phase to really have your question answered well, even though it's been 3 years almost.
Netzach
Thanks for ressurecting that thread and my comment there AA, I really do feel like I've become the queen of dirty talk from distance-domination.
I'm trying to pinpoint the things that break down my barriers, you know, what might make someone a face-to-face client after being a phone client, what might make someone a personal slave after being a client, that's really the issue, for me it's about breaking through those boxes and when I feel comfortable changing the boundaries of how someone in my life might fit.
Frankly it's gut-based, largely. I just can tell the difference between someone who isn't doing what I'm telling them to do at a distance and someone who would not dream of NOT doing something. I don't know how, or what mechanics there are to that process. I wouldn't forgo a safecall over it, but it's just there, a certain smell test.
People give off an energy. Maybe I'm just part honeybee and they are too. Maybe I'm really good at reading between the lines. Have I ever been horribly awfully wrong? Once, no twice. Out of like 20-40 times where I get to work with someone to any degree of consistency.
Mr. B -- I really want to say I dig your forthright and let there be flames, no BS. posts. Here and now.
As for why I didn't chime in on that thread, well frankly I met my most significant lovers face to face so far. What seems to be making it work with M is largely my flexibility, my being able to love him across a big spectrum of modes, not only out of Top space. That's what works for us, so far. I think we're still too in honeymoon phase to really have your question answered well, even though it's been 3 years almost.
Netzach
