Housework and submission.

[graceanne]

I have to admit that even when I have the energy I don't clean unless I have someone to do it for.

K was gone at a mens retreat all weekend. He left Friday and didn't get home till Sunday evening. I wasn't tired, and the house went to shit. I spent all day Sunday cleaning so that when he got home he wouldn't be ticked.

 

[Her sissy slave]

housework

wouldnt ya know it? my post didnt.

i just make a system in my head. been doing it since i was too small for school. the price of being an only child....and a positive for being a domestics service slave.
a sissy

added;

if i just find a domme that wants actual service?????

 

[Killishandra]

Killi congrats on moving to Florida! You guys aren't far from me How wonderful for you all! My cooking isn't bad, in fact I'd LOVE to cook for Master, but he really enjoys it so I let him lol ha -- let him. hee hee.

Thank you Sue for bringing up rituals -- that is indeed an important part of the D/s M/s relationship too!

Thanks. That's right, I remember you mentioning lately that you went to the Ft. Lauderdale airport, if I'm not mistaken. Perhaps one day we can all get together and do lunch.

 

[Marquis]

Thanks. That's right, I remember you mentioning lately that you went to the Ft. Lauderdale airport, if I'm not mistaken. Perhaps one day we can all get together and do lunch.

I already asked her baby, Malcah's too cool to hang out with us.

 

[Killishandra]

I already asked her baby, Malcah's too cool to hang out with us.

It's my fault.

People are always too cool to hang out with me.

 

[graceanne]

It's my fault.

People are always too cool to hang out with me.

Well, I'd hang out with you guys . . . if I lived in Florida. But their's the problem of all those pesky states in between us. *scowls ferociously*

 

[esclave_PP]

I already asked her baby, Malcah's too cool to hang out with us.

HA! Would love to say hi sometime Silly silly

 

[Killishandra]

Well, I'd hang out with you guys . . . if I lived in Florida. But their's the problem of all those pesky states in between us. *scowls ferociously*

How dare you live so far away!!

 

[graceanne]

How dare you live so far away!!

It's not my fault! It's everyone else's for living so far from me!

On the other hand, it might be for the best. It'd be really hard on my ego to hang out with someone as gorgeous (and skinny) as you.

 

[Gil_T2]

It's not my fault! It's everyone else's for living so far from me!

On the other hand, it might be for the best. It'd be really hard on my ego to hang out with someone as gorgeous (and skinny) as you.

It is your fault & it's the fault of ALL of you living so far away.

I've been organising a LIT meet in Sydney Australia for 4 years now & we have a great time there & ppl come from a lobg way to attend too.

 

[graceanne]

It is your fault & it's the fault of ALL of you living so far away.

I've been organising a LIT meet in Sydney Australia for 4 years now & we have a great time there & ppl come from a lobg way to attend too.

Do you think that the airport will accept a check?

 

[Killishandra]

It's not my fault! It's everyone else's for living so far from me!

On the other hand, it might be for the best. It'd be really hard on my ego to hang out with someone as gorgeous (and skinny) as you.

Shush, gracie.

It IS a good thing you live so far away, seeing as how you're straight and monogamous. Everyone knows I have a thing for brunettes with pale skin. I simply cannot be held responsible for my actions around them! *grope*

 

[graceanne]

Shush, gracie.

It IS a good thing you live so far away, seeing as how you're straight and monogamous. Everyone knows I have a thing for brunettes with pale skin. I simply cannot be held responsible for my actions around them! *grope*

*giggles* Hey, I'm ticklish there!

 

[Killishandra]

*giggles* Hey, I'm ticklish there!

Everyone's ticklish.... there.

 

[sphynx's dragon]

It's my fault.

People are always too cool to hang out with me.

So what are we??!!!?!?!?!?
Chopped Liver?

 

[Killishandra]

So what are we??!!!?!?!?!?
Chopped Liver?

I always figured you and TS were just taking pity on me when ya hang out with me.

 

[sphynx's dragon]

I always figured you and TS were just taking pity on me when ya hang out with me.

If it was pity...it wouldn't have included an offer of a repeat!

SILLY!

 

[Killishandra]

If it was pity...it wouldn't have included an offer of a repeat!

SILLY!

. . .

 

[graceanne]

Everyone's ticklish.... there.

And how do you know that? You been groping everyone?


Perv!

 

[Killishandra]

And how do you know that? You been groping everyone?


Perv!

Guilty as charged, graceanne.

 

[graceanne]

Guilty as charged, graceanne.

*gasp* I'M SHOCKED!

Well, not really. Now, I definately know why Marquis' crazy about you. You're two of a kind, aren't you?

 

[Her sissy slave]

tickle

Everyone's ticklish.... there.

i guess i turned into an old grouch over the years and didnt know it living alone and all.

i have not been touched physically in so long i forgot what it is. ---touch-deprivation.

i have not been ticklish since i was 10 years old.

interesting..

sorry..just a comment.

 

[ownedsubgal]

OK, I'll level with you. I'm not a fan of housework. The dishes, laundry, dusting, cooking and all the millions of other jobs to do around the home just bore me to tears. Although I'll admit to occasionally indulging in a little 1950s style housewife fantasy, mostly Owen and me (when we're both working in full time employment) split the housework 50/50. He cooks and cleans and scrubs floors and washes windows with the best of them, and even complains that I'm not up to his high "standards!!!"

I was thinking about this today, and was thinking how on this board I had heard a lot of passing comments from the subs (particularly fem subs) on the matter of housework, and very little from the Doms.

So I guess I was wondering a few things?

Are me and Owen unusual?

Do most pyls tend to the domestic side of things, even if they have a full time job or kids to look after?

Is it, in these households considered by the pyl and/or PYL to be unPYLish to be found doing the ironing etc?

If the above answer is yes, would that still be the case if the PYL was unemployed?

I'd be really interested to hear your answers

housework makes up an enormous part of my day/life. my Master is capable of keeping a very clean, tidy household if he must, but since he has a nice little slave to do that, he pretty much does nothing lol. i do 95% of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, organizing, etc (or as he calls it, "woman's work"). it continues to puzzle me even after 5 yrs, that despite the fact that i clean and scrub and disinfect and tidy up pretty much the whole house from top to bottom every single day, every morning when i wake up there's always more dirty boxers on the floor, trash that needs to be emptied, shoes all over the place, half empty water bottles and dirty dishes with food stuck to 'em in the bedroom. maybe in the middle of the night while i'm sound asleep he purposely creates messes just for the heck of it, i don't know. but i don't mind, cleaning is really calming to me and makes me happy. besides, it keeps me occupied since i don't leave the house much.

 

[rosco rathbone]

(or as he calls it, "woman's work"). .

heh heh heh. I think that guy and I were seperated at birth.

 

[FurryFury]

When I do housework it usually means one of two things is going on.

1.) I'm really upset and likely putting things in order before I leave. If I go into a cleaning frenzy, stay the hell out of the way and don't try to talk to me or touch me until I wind down.

2.) We have company coming.

Yep. That's the way it goes...submission and housework? Probably not happening for me in this lifetime.

Fury